the dumping garden (Page 11)

CAPGIRL!!!!!!

How'd it go—

Awesome! So glad it went well!!! 🙂

I was supposed to spend Thanksgiving with aqua and his family, but, he got called into work. Promotion, so we can't complain.

It was nice. My parents, my kids and me! Pretty stress free!

Well, I decided to get out today to see what all the black friday hype was about. Not impressed.

Anyway, the highlight of my day ended up being meeeting a Taurus young lady at the bus stop. The train station was right there but I was too lazt to walk, so I walked up to her and asked if she knew what time the bus was coming. She looked and said in the next forty minutes, so i was like you know the train station is right there...and she said she knew but she was nine months pregnant and too tired to walk. She was sitting on the ground so I didnt even know she was pregnant. Anyway, for some reason I decided to wait with her and I began asking questions and we talked and talked and talked. She was so mature for her age...only twenty two and already married to an Aries btw. Been on her own since sixteen. We got on the bus and talked some more, then I finally asked her bday and she said May eighth and thats when it clicked, the reason why we clicked. We got on the train and talked and as she was getting off she asked me to write my number down. It was so last minute, I was rushing and mistakenly put an eight instead of six as one of the numbers. I feel horrible. HopefullyI run into her again soon.

Anyway, I could DEFINITELY do Taurus friends. Im tolerance level and attention span is low and she was a sweety, and extremely nice to talk to.

Awww... I'm sure she appreciated your kindness! You know what bus she rides too so I'm SURE you will be able to run into her again 🙂

Posted by lildol
Awww... I'm sure she appreciated your kindness! You know what bus she rides too so I'm SURE you will be able to run into her again 🙂

Yes, I do know! She actually lives near my job, so Im really hoping Ill run into her again.

We were talking and she asked if I met a lot of friends out here, and I told her somewhat, then admittted that Im what most would call a horrible friend because I dont always keep in touch. Surprisingly she said shes the same way and dont see the point in calling if theres nothing to talk about. I shouldve known then she was a compatible sign.

Anyway admitting to being a horrible friend then accidently writing down the wrong number would be just my luck smh.

Water signs have NOTHING on us when it comes to being genuine 😉

^^^

the biggest mountain we can climb as people, and as capricorns, is our own happiness... however the heck we wanna define that. the absolute and most important point in this idea being that it is your *own* definition.

you're just as much a capricorn scaling your mtn as the rest of us silly goats 🙂

Id like to dump a question on you Cappies.

When something is bothering you, and you cant exactly pinpoint what it is, is there a technique you use to get to the root of the problem or do you just let it pass?

Posted by lnana04
Id like to dump a question on you Cappies.

When something is bothering you, and you cant exactly pinpoint what it is, is there a technique you use to get to the root of the problem or do you just let it pass?

i try to narrow it down to time, place, what happened, what i was thinking about when it started. something usually triggers it with me. then i have to get down and dirty being honest with myself to figure out precisely why i'm bothered by it.

when i spell it out like that, seems simple enough. but it's anything but and spins me into a shitty antisocial mood. anti-anything actually. including myself, so it's kind of a painful process, but necessary i guess. it's hard for me to just let it pass.

also, the reason i suppose i end up in a crap mood is from the vulnerability. the idea that something got to me and it took serious effort to figure it out about myself. no cap wants to feel weak or vulnerable, even if just to themselves.

Thanks M and Creepy.
Its true that letting it pass makes resurface again. Sangfroid I'd like to see your post because my issue is an emotional one. This bundle of emotions continue to creep up on me from no where, and I feel its presence but they are unreachable. Its a very weird feeling and it almost makes me desire extreme physical pain so I can release these emotions. Of course Im not going there so dont worry lol, besides that would not get to the root, and not doing that makes it reappear. Ive tried picking myself apart and throwing everything possible around in my head to get a reaction. Nothing. Writing helps though.

Anyway, Ill stop now. I have that darn Pisces lilith, and recently discovered my mother has a Pisces Mars, and she's draaiinning. Actually, thinking about it, talking to her yesterday is probably what triggered it.

Man, I wish we could pull off something special around here when Cap season roll around in a few weeks, just because.

Aqua's making me deer chili tonight!!

The hardest part of my day today was riding home on the train and seeing everyone in their jerseys headed where I wanted to be...the falcons vs saint game.

Do i push when they're at the top of the stairs or the middle? decisions decisions......

Posted by M

Posted by Chance11
*prints 'Free Creepy' t-shirts*

Lets all make matching avis!

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LOL! 😛

my thread!!!! lol

let's just all forgive each other our hypocrisies, sensitivities, robotics, self-blocking, aggressions, aries moons, etc...

tomorrow is December... I dunno about the rest of the december caps, but my bday celebrating officially starts tomorrow. 😛

i celebrated all dec last year and i highly recommend. you can make up for a quarter of a lifetime in one month if you're slick. lol im sick n tired of being cheated 2 days before christmas!

that gif never ceases to make me smile

Posted by M

Ticked at my boss. She's a good person but trying to pull one over a Cap who does his job is only going to backfire.

Don't they realize how organized we are and we can always back ourselves up! I don't know about you, but I'm a CYA kinda person. Of course, this comment may not even fit your situation, lol! 🙂

i.am.going.xmas.crazy...may.need.intervention...

Aqua took me to a family dinner at his parent's. Guess I didn't scare him off! Yay!!! 🙂

Posted by CapMusic
I'm trying to be positive. Trying usually doesn't work in my case.

Stay with it!

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Posted by truecap
Aqua took me to a family dinner at his parent's. Guess I didn't scare him off! Yay!!! 🙂

That sounds like a guy who is figuring out where his bread is buttered 😉

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Awwww, I hope so!!! Thanks.

Like the avi CP!!! Very festive, yet masculine!

Posted by capgirl75
Found out today that Mr. Scorp's grandpa, who has said that I'm a great girl, is also a Cap! January 3rd. That explains a lot! lol.

Cool!!! Yall should get along great!

We have heard it many times over on here, "it's the Internet, get over it"; "you don't know these people, why do you give a fuck?"; "they're not your friends"; "this is NOT REAL LIFE!" and so on and so forth.

Some come for advice, many for entertainment and others out of curiosity. Some stay, some move on. We have people from all walks of life, all age groups, people with many different life experiences, backgrounds and cultures. Many of us will not ever meet, many are faceless, many show a persona only we are privy to, others just troll.

In our "minds" many of us can and do seperate our two lives - we even make this clear by indicating "in RL" in our posts, we ALL do it.

But, when tragedy strikes our "community" and we feel it in the depths of our hearts and our soul, it touches us in only a way we would have thought previously as occurring "in RL" - as if it were in fact a family member or a close friend - the loss is real and, indeed, becomes part of our RL.

Embrace all who are simply "in your life" as life is short.

no heat in my house.... $ )#^% *% * $ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

im clueless when it comes to these things. my roomie is a guy... i'll defer to him. i'm just the helpless damsel when it comes to this stuff. shivering helpless damsel.

and i'll bet i could figure it out if i looked at it. i usually can. too cold to try to fiddle with machines right now though! i left the house for a little portable thing lololol

i'm a busy girl... def not busy in the kitchen

lol. listen up buddy... i may live in vegas, but i sling medical goods. nothin else *eyebrow raise*

😛

Will anyone actually read what I post here on this thread among the thousands of posts already submitted?

buddy... *looks around board* i think i just saw something... might have been a post. did you see that?

i was trying to tease notyouraveaquas

-_-

now i'm wondering if thats your real name spelled in reverse on your starbucks cup 😛

not worried fellow users will pick up on your name?

i've always wanted to make a thread for those who were willing to reveal first names. i really dont think i'd mind dxp knowing my real name.

*ponders thread idea*

Just found out that one of the girls I work with, who just started, is a Capricorn. Ive been trying to figure her sign for a lil while now. Shes extremely talkative, sweet(bought breakfast for about five of us one morning) and hugged me one day, mature(I thought she was MUCH older, workaholic(works two jobs and is thinking about joining the navy). Shes also a darn flirt and likes male attention. 20yrs old and she has a two yr old son that she spoils and is adamant about getting in school/daycare(already missed a day and a half trying to take care of that). I thought she was a Cancer, but shes a Jan 19th Cappie. Thought that was cool cause I never wouldve guessed. She started work acting like she knew everybody. Two weeks in, and she basically does. This girl talks alot!

Gemini placements possibly? 🙂

My first friend ever was a Cappy! I just realized that. We were four years old!

Im not sure how Im feeling about things right now. Feeling like I need to prepare in some way for something...like learn to remove all fear to where not a pinch of weakness can be spotted.

Its weird too, now thinking, how Ive been training myself before I even began feeling this way. Just feel like I have to strengthen my core for something.

Anyway, I was walking to the bus stop yesterday morning and I "think" I saw a falling star. Whatever it was, I made a wish.

Im probably the only naive weirdo that will actually speak to a person, I can barely see, walking at 4 and 5a m.

Cute pic!u

Betty White is my role model. I want to be just like her when I'm her age!!

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Why am I not seeing Creepster post much lately

I miss you Creepy 😭

Uber dramatic display of emotions over

ta-da... huggsss!!!!!!! no need for sad emotions lol i miss you and the dxp gang too. 🙂 i guess i'm out freakin out because i have one more week of my twenties LOL!

Posted by M
🙂

Love it!!

Posted by EusiveSoulll

Posted by CreepyPants

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Why am I not seeing Creepster post much lately

I miss you Creepy 😭

Uber dramatic display of emotions over

ta-da... huggsss!!!!!!! no need for sad emotions lol i miss you and the dxp gang too. 🙂 i guess i'm out freakin out because i have one more week of my twenties LOL!

There she is 😄

Ahhh 30's are the new 20's. Nuffin' to stress 'bout gorgeous. You'll see, I promise! Besides, you caps age in reverse... wish I had that benefit

K. now that I had my Creepy-fill, I'm out 😛

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what? no post-cuddle cuddling? ...

i feel so used lol

I was told tonight by my Pisces friend that I had the biggest heart she'd ever known. Awwww. This "ice queen" melted right then and there.

Totally made my day!!!!

Posted by notJTG1984
I'm about to wreck homes, relationships, friendships, a persons mental state.

I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. DIEEEEEEE

Lesson for anyone that wants to disrespect a Capricorn.

Don't do it kids, these feelings run deep then they turn ice-cold.

Ahahaha!

I have got so bitter that i can not recognize myself anymore. I am been labled as selfish and insesitive towards others today...i cannot even deny it. The problem is i cannot do anything about it. The hatered has taken over me. I feel so bitter and angry all the time.
Forget what it does to others but i am harming myfesl more than anybosy else. I cant have a peaceful night sleep. I feel week in my legs. My eyes i know clearly give that cold angry vibe to most people. I answer back bitterly showing no sign of patience.

Christmas Party at work today - well, we go out to lunch.

I have a presentation to give - a report from the North Pole. Santa has been indicted on creating damage to free trade and international commerce by giving away stuff for free that could have otherwise been purchased.

thats hot

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Posted by CreepyPants

what? no post-cuddle cuddling? ...

i feel so used lol

Oh me goodness

Yes of course there is post-cuddle cuddling

I just didn't wanna impose and make you stinger-bug s/o jealous

you know the stereotype ;p

Cooommmmmeee here you sexy beast you 😄....

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lmao! YAY!!!

yes, you are smart to be mindful of that. he'll get silly over attention not directed at him.

but i dont compromise over the 2nd sesh 😛

Posted by koi
Post cuddle-cuddling is an awwwsome concept, awww.

it's like the unnecessarily thick layer of icing on the cake 🙂 lol

im tired. really tired.

second wind... WHERE ARE YOU!?!?!?!

...

i might have used it already

-_- dmmt

AND scorpypoo is dragging me to the gym later.

wasn't the world going to end or something? that still goin down? i could use a break.