Tips on a Cap Lady?

Hi guys,

I have a cap lady on my Instagram that I have taken an interest in. She's pretty, she's sweet, she's all of the above. And I would like to try my chances.

To tell you a bit about her. She is a quiet and reserved person, much the same with myself. However, she is still very social and goes out regularly with her friends. She's pretty much always been kind to me despite the times I have been in a slump and acted like an A-hole to everyone in general.

I started to talk to her again recently via Snapchat and we have been talking every few days or so, initiated by me. I have decided to be quite bold this time because I know that's a trait caps like since my best friend is one. She always replies and we have had quite nice small talk so far but I would like to get to brass tacks. When it comes to flirting and romancing a cap lass, is there any particular things I should be doing and any absolute no-no's?

-Ownard

When it comes to flirting with Capricorn lady take it slow and start with something subtle like a compliment or ambiguity. It might get her thinking 😉 Definitely don't go full on in the beginning she might get freaked out and you don't want that. Capricorns don't like having their privacy probed unless they want to get to know you better. Maybe instead of flirting try asking her deeper questions at first, and generally ask a lot of questions, but nothing crazy. Maybe try asking her out to do something fun together just the two of you. And try to touch her lighty, look deep into her eyes, smile at her, do it slow and observe her reaction. If her reaction is good I'd slowly try to go further. You have to have patience and be able to give her space when she needs it if you're serious about her. 🙂 IF she really likes you and you make the first move, she might take it from there. Big no-no is pushing too hard if she's not ready, trying to convince her do something she doesn't wanna do, prying, lying and not knowing when to take a beat if she's not interested. Hope it helps! 🙂

Posted by Baru
When it comes to flirting with Capricorn lady take it slow and start with something subtle like a compliment or ambiguity. It might get her thinking Definitely don't go full on in the beginning she might get freaked out and you don't want that. Capricorns don't like having their privacy probed unless they want to get to know you better. Maybe instead of flirting try asking her deeper questions at first, and generally ask a lot of questions, but nothing crazy. Maybe try asking her out to do something fun together just the two of you. And try to touch her lighty, look deep into her eyes, smile at her, do it slow and observe her reaction. If her reaction is good I'd slowly try to go further. You have to have patience and be able to give her space when she needs it if you're serious about her. IF she really likes you and you make the first move, she might take it from there. Big no-no is pushing too hard if she's not ready, trying to convince her do something she doesn't wanna do, prying, lying and not knowing when to take a beat if she's not interested. Hope it helps!

For the most part, that is what I've been doing so far; asking her questions and giving a couple of compliments.

Although I do have a couple of questions. What is you mean by deeper questions? And what would you deem to be a good or bad response? What would indicate her disinterest? I ask these because I haven't had much success in dating so I am still quite inexperienced.

Maybe she likes you too! If shes shy it'll definitely take awhile for her to warm up to you. Some like to be told straight forward instead of receiving compliments. Because you could receive a compliment and think that the person is just being nice. When she doesn't imitate the first move its maybe because she doesn't want to bother you. If I were you, I'd send a message along the lines of being there for her and she can reach out anytime.

Posted by braydenknox
Maybe she likes you too! If shes shy it'll definitely take awhile for her to warm up to you. Some like to be told straight forward instead of receiving compliments. Because you could receive a compliment and think that the person is just being nice. When she doesn't imitate the first move its maybe because she doesn't want to bother you. If I were you, I'd send a message along the lines of being there for her and she can reach out anytime.

Thanks very much for your input, I really appreciate it. However a lot has changed so if you could, could you check out my most recent thread on this?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/should-i-quit-now-with-this-cap-woman--10966974/