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This topic was created in the Gemini forum by britneybabe26 on Friday, January 1, 2016 and has 10 replies.

Understanding Love and Relationships for Singles

Feeling alone and rejected is common, but astrology suggests that focusing on self-love and personal growth can attract meaningful relationships. Remember that compatibility is about more than just desire. Patience and confidence in yourself often lead to healthier connections. Your worth is not defined by others' interest or lack thereof.

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@britneybabe26
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

I think I'm going to be alone forever. Never had a b/f , no man wants to start something with me I mean the men In desire only want sex, I'm still a virgin...I feel left out. I love God very much and maybe Its not for me to have someone but In desire it so much. Just got crushed that the cancer guy who was so eager about me is not really interested after In refused him sex cuz it was too early for me. Ugh I'm crushed.
Vent for 2016

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

There will be someone for you darlin. Don't settle you are in the best position possible because you know what you want. A lot of people's confusion is why they aren't happy. Take pride in knowing that you can tell what you don't need when it is front of you. Believe me it will save you heart break if you stick to your guns because you are going to scare away anyone who doesn't want the same things as you! Good luck this year you might even discover your happy with just bein with your self and the beautiful things you can offer your own life!

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@britneybabe26
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Posted by ladylibra21
There will be someone for you darlin. Don't settle you are in the best position possible because you know what you want. A lot of people's confusion is why they aren't happy. Take pride in knowing that you can tell what you don't need when it is front of you. Believe me it will save you heart break if you stick to your guns because you are going to scare away anyone who doesn't want the same things as you! Good luck this year you might even discover your happy with just bein with your self and the beautiful things you can offer your own life!

Thank you

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@SassyKiwi
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Good for you. That's how you weed out the fuckboys. More power to you. I promise you someone will cross your path. Don't go looking, nothing ever comes when you do that. It'll happen when it's time.

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@ScorpioChina
10 Years

Dont get sucked in with the sex thing....go study sexual transmutation and transference and see why you have to guard yourself. You need to study about certain matters so you can not become attached to the rejection spirit attached to your purity. Youre special and so is your body and those evil and wicked forces are coming at you to break you down. Read Galatians 6:10-15 and see the meaning in that alone. Be strong lady Gemini and rise above that low vibration rejection crap. Go go so spiritual activity to strengthen yourself and you'll see your paradigm change something for the better.

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@gemini64
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by britneybabe26
I think I'm going to be alone forever. Never had a b/f , no man wants to start something with me I mean the men In desire only want sex, I'm still a virgin...I feel left out. I love God very much and maybe Its not for me to have someone but In desire it so much. Just got crushed that the cancer guy who was so eager about me is not really interested after In refused him sex cuz it was too early for me. Ugh I'm crushed.
Vent for 2016

alone,

i didn't find my husband until I was 32. Sometimes great things really do come if you wait.

You are still young. When I was 24, I was not ready for a life long commitment or being ready to start living a life with someone else and adding more challenges to my life. I was in no place mentally or emotionally to be ready for all of that. Many people in their 20's aren't. That's the beauty of getting married in your 30's. You know who you are. You've been able to do the things you want to live your own life. And you were only responsible for you, no one else. With age, usually comes wisdom. Trust me, wisdom is huge when you finally meet someone who you fall for and can see yourself marrying.

Don't push yourself. Hold onto your core convictions. DON"T LET ANYONE convince you that they aren't important. THEY are who and what you are first and foremost. I held onto mine and still do. And I found my soul mate who held similar convictions.

I have no doubt there is a guy out there who is your soul mate. But sometimes when you look too hard and expect too much too soon, it's not going to happen. Love comes along when you least expect it. And you know what brings it about? Live your life and love who and what you are. Live your convictions, be confident. Men will take notice and in time, there will be a guy who will seek you out and notice how truly special you are.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Heard recently that there is no more dating, kids hook up and depends on how was it - they might be doing it again
and if they fall for each other - then it becomes exclusive. I hope I am wrong. I mean it is wrong.