Gemini and Dirty Talk

So, I slept with my Gem man. He's at 28 degrees Gem with either a Sag or Cap moon, still not sure. His roomate is Pisces and he says they get along like bread and butter-- so I'm uber-confused.

The sex was so-so. Wasn't the best I've ever had (Aqua), but I chalk that up to us being new to each other. He mentioned that I needed to talk more, and I figured that meant 'dirty talk'. I told him he felt great, but I guess he needs more.

So tell me, do Gems want ultra-dirty, phone-sex talk, play-by-play, or what? I am confused. I am shy really, and my Libra moon doesn't take well to vulgarity.

Gems, tell me what I need to know. (He's away for 2 weeks so I can't ask him what he means, so until then, I will take your advice and practice, practice, practice, if I have to, lol)

They want "ALL OF THE ABOVE"!

Perhaps start with Txt Msgs; there are some things that I have txt'd that I don't think I would ever be able to say aloud. (NO DETAILS NEEDED! RIGHT?) Just be aware of the responses and be prepared to start being vocal in bed; maybe that will help enhance his performance.

Its probably just verbal stimulation that he wants something kinky sounding > if your relationship works try some poetry I guess might work, I don't have these typical Gemini traits my vibration being rather more mixed than typical so I don't need verbal or literary stimulation but I'm ordinarily rather vulgar and explicit reminiscent of Scorpio and Sagittarius with which I'm mixed with but dirty talk specifically ain't important.

Or maybe he some some dirty visual stimilation you should ask him.

"want's some."

LOL. I thought it was a Mars in Libra thing.

>>"I don't have these typical Gemini traits"

HA! Sure you don't! Your "want some" txt can go with the many txt messages I've gotten in the past.

yeah send him a really nasty text message. he will love that.

geminis like the lead up to sex. you gotta be compatible once you get there though. for example.
i have this friend who is a gemini also. we have always hooked up from time to time. the thing about it is that when we talk about it and what we are gonna do and stuff its soooo hot. but then once we do it, its only so so. both being geminis the lead up is great cause we both like that but the actual sex is just ok because we are so similar.

say a bunch of slutty stuff to him. be sure to rock his world once you actually get into it though.

"So tell me, do Gems want ultra-dirty, phone-sex talk, play-by-play, or what?"


yes... yes... and yes.... the female gem I knew got off on that kinda stuff. I have know problem playing the role, though sometimes I wouldn't be in the mood for all that. Thats when I became the bad guy. I realized all you have to do is tell them what u like done, as its being done and the rest will come naturally.

Try turning on your gem mentally before doing it and keep them engaged while doing it. They aren't talking dirty then don't, if they are saying sweet things, just follow their lead. For me It's all about mental stimulation.

Yeh, Geminis can be quite erotic in their talk. They get excited from doing it. So it really has nothing much to do with 'YOU'. It's their call, and they assume it's your too.
You just need to be 'receptive' and accepting of this and try to enjoy it if you can, or otherwise pretend to do so, as they really can't tell the difference.
As someone else mentioned, the real 'sex' act is so so. Foreplay for them may be long or short depending on how 'horny' they are; but it's crucial and they can rarely jump into the sack without going through it and gradually so.

keep in mind, the talk doesn't have to be dirty and nasty... anything to trigger a sensation a thought... keeps our minds more focused on that. to me, that's something that draws us to you. our minds run wild.. all over, and if your trying to get the gem, keeping them as focused on you does nothing but help your cause. i know that's been one thing that has kept me in line with someone i've been with and one reason why i'm so head over heals with my man now. He forever entertains my mind.. in every way. so then, i stay focused, on him.

the fine print.... there is a balance.. lol too much, and it appears your too needy or we can feel like your suffocating... too little and we don't feel your interest and your desire. I know i like to feel desired and will try everything in my power to please you and make you want it like i do. and it can mean anything...

holy old post batman! i'm bringing it back though.

i effing love talking dirty and it comes so naturally...the gemini rising must be strong here 😉 I've been dating a gemini for a couple months now and he sucks at it though!