So this Gemini I've ben FB friends with for a few years has been trying to date me. I was never single and told him this. He kept saying no ring, yet jokingly. I recently ended things with my ex and waited a couple of weeks and hit him up. He was skeptical at first but then was back to his normal self. He asked me what kind of ring I wanted right off the bat. I told him but he said he was serious. We went on our first date and we had a lot of chemistry and and lot in common. He sad he's going to make me fall in love with him in a week. The day after our first date I got FIRED. I called him not really knowing what to do and he said he would come up with something and to hold tight. I sent him my resume as requested and he said it needed to be fixed and to come over Sunday. He invited me to church we ate out, he was watching the game and talking to his brother on the phone saying I was going to be his sister-in-law. We went to his place messed around a bit, laughed watched tv, he took a nap then we started working on my resume. He saw on my google hangouts an old chat between my ex and I from a few months back but didn't say anything about it. He later said don't have me help you get another job then go on to another man. I said do I seem like the type to do that, he said yes. Then laughed it off. He really wanted to have sex but I told him I wasn't ready, he wanted to do other things but I wanted to slow down. His vibe changed after that and he stayed in his phone. The next morning I hopped up because he had work, even though he initially said I could stay longer. He said he would call later but texted, I applied to jobs and whenever I asked questions he responded promptly as usual. After work he texted and I said I was okay but no real luck how as your day? He didn't respond, I waited 30 mins and sent a follow up saying I hope I didn't put you off, he said no just got busy in his phone and responded, I asked if I could call him, he called. I asked if he was busy he said no headed to watch the game, seemed a little off. I told him I finally told my folks and they said to come home and he said we need to find you something quick then offered to let me uber with his car since mine was a 4 door. I said thanks we got off the phone. I texted him good night and he took like an hour to respond. Did I mess something up, I know Geminis are fickle but is it possible to want to marry someone so early, I'm a Scorpio and don't usually work like this. Also, should I wait to have sex with hi?
Gemini Man asked me to marry him before our first date
Also we apparently were at rival high schools and he said he had a crush on me back then.
I usually think this when guys say this to me, but he wants to meet my family, has referred to me as wife to his brother over the phone. He told me he wants to be engaged by next Summer and is already making plans for my birthday and Christmas. His moon is Virgo mins is Aquarius and his Venus is in Cancer mine is in Scorpio. Should I wait to have sex with him?
Also, my ex has been forcing the relationship we had, it should have ended years ago when he cheated but I forgave him. I'm also surprisingly very compatible with the new guy and ever Gemini I've ever known brought up marriage immediately, I just wasn't connecting with them the same way I connect with him. We are similar in every way except for the fact that he is ocd and I'm messy.



Posted by Koni
Sounds like a psychopath
That’s what we Gems and Scorps are when together!
Plus don’t forget he knew her from HS! So she could be his one and only love. Who knows?

Some people know what they want.
I knew a couple who got married within 6 months and they’ve been together 12 years now and still very much in love.
I am not saying his love is real or not but i am saying anything is possible. This could be one of those fairy tale situations or just another infatuation.
If he’s being a bit different it could be a bruised ego that you didn’t want to sleep with him but overall it looks hes still treating you with care and respect. I wouldn’t make an issue of it unless he brought it up... just keep goinf with how you are and use your intuition.
Regarding sleeping with him... only you can answer that. Are you ready? Do you want to?
Also it does seem that hes not 100% sure of your intentions. But maybe he likes that being a Gemini? Rationality tells me no one likes to feel unsure of someone but hey everyone is different.
I knew a couple who got married within 6 months and they’ve been together 12 years now and still very much in love.
I am not saying his love is real or not but i am saying anything is possible. This could be one of those fairy tale situations or just another infatuation.
If he’s being a bit different it could be a bruised ego that you didn’t want to sleep with him but overall it looks hes still treating you with care and respect. I wouldn’t make an issue of it unless he brought it up... just keep goinf with how you are and use your intuition.
Regarding sleeping with him... only you can answer that. Are you ready? Do you want to?
Also it does seem that hes not 100% sure of your intentions. But maybe he likes that being a Gemini? Rationality tells me no one likes to feel unsure of someone but hey everyone is different.
You guys seem a little bitter. I just got a job offer based on his resume help out in the city near him and am getting my own place over there, I already told him I wanted to take things slowly and he's completely stable, I think we're just soul mates. His decan is 75% compatible with mine and our life path numbers are 11 and 9 which says verbatim we are soulmates. We both also come from stable two parent homes so I'll take just take my time with him and see where it goes. I wish I had gotten advice from male gems as female scorps and male scorps don't think the same but alas. Good night you guys! Thanks for the feedback.

maybe is my gemini ascendant? but I have said those kind of things.
I don't mean them at 100% but if they happens.... then told ya 😁
I think gems can be honest if they look at you as waifu material, it doesn't mean he's crazy or anything, aren't "serious" relationships suppose to end in marriage or something? then technically.... you're going to marry.
not getting the P can be annoying I guess, maybe he starting to wonder if you find him attractive.
I don't mean them at 100% but if they happens.... then told ya 😁
I think gems can be honest if they look at you as waifu material, it doesn't mean he's crazy or anything, aren't "serious" relationships suppose to end in marriage or something? then technically.... you're going to marry.
not getting the P can be annoying I guess, maybe he starting to wonder if you find him attractive.

Posted by jcjacks3
You guys seem a little bitter. I just got a job offer based on his resume help out in the city near him and am getting my own place over there, I already told him I wanted to take things slowly and he's completely stable, I think we're just soul mates. His decan is 75% compatible with mine and our life path numbers are 11 and 9 which says verbatim we are soulmates. We both also come from stable two parent homes so I'll take just take my time with him and see where it goes. I wish I had gotten advice from male gems as female scorps and male scorps don't think the same but alas. Good night you guys! Thanks for the feedback.
Are you fucking nuts? We ‘guys’ are bitter? Over what?
Giving you most attention and sorting trough your stupid ass ‘problem’?
We are bitter and you? Happy?
So gtfo and solve your ‘problem’ if you don’t appreciate people who are trying to help in tons of different ways! Stupid ass...
do you want to marry him though, you barely know the ins-and-out of his personality. what if you figure out you don't like him that way later on? is it worth the trouble...if you're in too deep
it sounds like too much pressure tbh
it sounds like too much pressure tbh

hahaha well this post went sideways... either way must be a gem/scorp time of year or something.
Annnnyway... The way it sounds to me is you're most likely over thinking everything. I was married 13 years and like hell I'll ever do that again, rushing makes you blind to all the things you missed including all the red flags cause of those rose colored glasses. Don't rush, just because you knew him from HS doesn't mean he's the same person now. (speaking from experience as the Gem I'm dating I've known since Junior High).
I'm not totally up to date on Gem's as this is the first time I've dated one but any man rushing that kind of thing put's me off a little. Not entirely sure of your chart but to commit so quickly makes me scratch my head. Give it some time before you start thinking about marriage crap, no need to be clingy(multiple texting) or in an instant relationship. Let things evolve it's only been a couple of weeks, or he's just gong to turn out to be your rebound dude.
Annnnyway... The way it sounds to me is you're most likely over thinking everything. I was married 13 years and like hell I'll ever do that again, rushing makes you blind to all the things you missed including all the red flags cause of those rose colored glasses. Don't rush, just because you knew him from HS doesn't mean he's the same person now. (speaking from experience as the Gem I'm dating I've known since Junior High).
I'm not totally up to date on Gem's as this is the first time I've dated one but any man rushing that kind of thing put's me off a little. Not entirely sure of your chart but to commit so quickly makes me scratch my head. Give it some time before you start thinking about marriage crap, no need to be clingy(multiple texting) or in an instant relationship. Let things evolve it's only been a couple of weeks, or he's just gong to turn out to be your rebound dude.
Update: We are still dating but are taking things slow. We hit it off really well. I opened up about the domestic violence I'd experienced in the past and things I would have otherwise been afraid to tell a potential mate. I have drummed up drama when not necessary, I overthink a lot which he said is our only issue. I always think there's an issue when there isn't. I am crazy about him, we play the same games and listen to the same music. Every time I'm around him I'm in an amazing mood. We have had one argument about my birthday. It got a little heated but we both said what we had to say and let it go, which is refreshing. I feel like he could be the one. We did have sex and have many times and its always amazing. We're both childish as well. Whatever happens I'm glad to have met him. Thanks for the feedback.
Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by jcjacks3
I usually think this when guys say this to me, but he wants to meet my family, has referred to me as wife to his brother over the phone. He told me he wants to be engaged by next Summer and is already making plans for my birthday and Christmas. His moon is Virgo mins is Aquarius and his Venus is in Cancer mine is in Scorpio. Should I wait to have sex with him?
Yeah ..wait until he asks for you to send your vagina in the post with some of your nail clippings.click to expand
I know all his weird kinks, which I'm pretty sure would run most away, but they're pretty similar to mine.. I am a scorpio :p
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