Gemini man bday may 23 (Page 2)

The gem guy is older than me too by like 8 years .. I'm 25

Posted by lovelylioness90
Thanks for your comments ... Damn it was like he had just opened up to me too... We took pics... I was going to give him a massage... I had on lingerie (underneath my clothes) and he sent me home over a text ... And the text said nice to meet you today smh damn

Posted by boxcarmirnta
If he's that insecure about something innocent and stupid....ew. Tell him how you feel...that it wasn't a big deal etc..you just started dating ffs. What a coward.

There wouldn't have been a choice... I get tunnel vision when I have a crush ... I was crushing hard on the gem...

Posted by xoxoRain
In my eyes he overreacted. He seems insecure & just messing with your head so that he will have more control over you in the relationship. "Having the upper hand" if he didn't believe you that nothing happened with the other guy than FUCK HIM. Not worth your time IMO. He pretty much already is saying he doesn't trust you. How will you build a solid foundation with 0 trust? You probably won't have a successful relationship if it's only been 3 weeks and he's acting like this now. In my eyes you didn't do anything wrong, your gem seems insecure and that's the guy you crushing on? You're a Leo, you can get another date in the snap of your fingers girl

That is true.... Lol thank you

Can y'all tell me how u put up an image for like your avi? I tried to upload one yesterday ... It did not work out

Posted by xoxoRain
In my eyes he overreacted. He seems insecure & just messing with your head so that he will have more control over you in the relationship. "Having the upper hand" if he didn't believe you that nothing happened with the other guy than FUCK HIM. Not worth your time IMO. He pretty much already is saying he doesn't trust you. How will you build a solid foundation with 0 trust? You probably won't have a successful relationship if it's only been 3 weeks and he's acting like this now. In my eyes you didn't do anything wrong, your gem seems insecure and that's the guy you crushing on? You're a Leo, you can get another date in the snap of your fingers girl

Yassssss sis! The only other person who saw it! He is fucking with her. His reaction wasn't warranted at all.

That's exactly what I said. You two JUST STARTED dating..feeling each other out...not committed yet. He doesn't own you.
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Posted by lovelylioness90
I'm just wondering like what should I do... Leave him alone... I really liked him... It wasn't even a date I went on with the other guy I just met him at the lake ... The gemini guy tho..

Do nothing. If he changes his mind about you, you will hear from him.

Gemini handled it like a boss tho.

How did he handle it like a boss? I was thinking more bitch than boss lol

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He could have played games with her feelings. Strung her along just to drop her.

He could have gone my route. The passive aggressive payback route

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Posted by lovelylioness90
I'm just wondering like what should I do... Leave him alone... I really liked him... It wasn't even a date I went on with the other guy I just met him at the lake ... The gemini guy tho..

Do nothing. If he changes his mind about you, you will hear from him.

Gemini handled it like a boss tho.

How did he handle it like a boss? I was thinking more bitch than boss lol

He could have played games with her feelings. Strung her along just to drop her.

He could have gone my route. The passive aggressive payback route

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He was being passive aggressive and a bitch imo.

Same goes for if i really like a guy and i happen to see a text from a girl telling him thanks for a good time.

Id excuse myself cause i dont compete. How can i truly get to know you it youre giving apart of you to someone else. I like undivided attention.

Then again im a scorpio moon.

Sounds like the gem doesnt compete either. Whats his moon sign?

I don't know his moon sign I think I had looked up his chart tho... Let me get back to you on that .. But... This Sunday was our first date our 3rd being in each others presence and our 3rd week of dating or talking lol I just met a guy at the lake that is all

Usually he texts me good morning but no text today... I'm not going to text or call... Just move on... I liked the gem guy ... Its hard to find a guy I'm really interested in ... A little disappointed but I don't feel as bad as yesterday... I had terrible anxiety

Posted by lovelylioness90
I don't know his moon sign I think I had looked up his chart tho... Let me get back to you on that .. But... This Sunday was our first date our 3rd being in each others presence and our 3rd week of dating or talking lol I just met a guy at the lake that is all

I dont have any issue with your actions. Youre free to date who you want, when you want.

In the same breathe, hes also free to walk away at any time. His reasons are his own.

Youre free to date, hes free to walk away.

Posted by littlegigabyte
My guy has this birthday. I understand dating around if you aren't looking to get serious. But I don't understand (and he would not understand either) why, if you had such strong feelings towards him, you felt the need to meet the other guy? If you wanted to get serious, then you wouldn't have been dating around. I dated around a bit in my early twenties, but never if I was really into someone.

I just didn't want to go to the lake alone and I didn't want to go home and take a nap.. It was a beautiful day

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Posted by littlegigabyte
My guy has this birthday. I understand dating around if you aren't looking to get serious. But I don't understand (and he would not understand either) why, if you had such strong feelings towards him, you felt the need to meet the other guy? If you wanted to get serious, then you wouldn't have been dating around. I dated around a bit in my early twenties, but never if I was really into someone.

I just didn't want to go to the lake alone and I didn't want to go home and take a nap.. It was a beautiful day

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True I respect it... But sheeeshhhhh

Posted by Instantkarma

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Same goes for if i really like a guy and i happen to see a text from a girl telling him thanks for a good time.

Id excuse myself cause i dont compete. How can i truly get to know you it youre giving apart of you to someone else. I like undivided attention.

Then again im a scorpio moon.

Sounds like the gem doesnt compete either. Whats his moon sign?

I agree with you :-)
@op
Do you want to get in touch with the Gemini or is this a rant?

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I want him lol I want him bad.... Like I am trying really hard not to text or call but I Want to say I miss him lol and I really want ... To ummm do what we were supposed to before he put me out... But then there's a side of me thats like girllll you are beautiful highly educated independent and kind and this man took you out like the trash... Why do you want him so bad!

I am torn lol and horny! ” and I really liked him.... He had potential... But him putting me out shows me he can easily leave me... And I'm not that type of person at all... I stick around even after a lot of crap

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Posted by Hemispheres
Leave him the fuck alone. That's what you do. He obviously doesn't like folks who can't make up their minds.

This.
I've dealt with girls just like you. Don't do that gems. Don't do that to any guy for that matter.

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I think that was a guy lol but agree, never just ignore a Gemini. That would be your 1st mistake. Giving us too much time to assume things doesn't end up working out very well. Our minds move too fast.

@ the OP you need to explain yourself if you really like him. He should come around hopefully. While we might sulk for a little bit, rarely do we hold a grudge unless it's really bad. We're not unreasonable if you give a good explanation and are good about keeping your word. It's up to you.