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Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.

Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.

If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.

I like action 🤩




I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.


im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.

I'm a happy path of least resistance.

"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.

I'm a lover.

If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.

To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.

Im not the status quo.

I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.

Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.

5th house personality






Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.

I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.

The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚


You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?


How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.

No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.





Not because of the the dude. She has a history of this.

I’m a millennial but I don’t believe in 50/50.


So in your case your the exception to the rule 😂




Who you are isn't hurting you. No need to change. She has a Scorpio 5th house.

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You were wrong.


how do i get a taurus moon to like me


um


Well


Look like a snack and taste like one too.


I'm ageing

Why are men so superficial

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Not just the men

I can’t imagine my self with fat man, I just can’t and feel scared of them #sorry
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Posted by pinkbird03

I think you’re expecting him to like you so much when he doesn’t know much about you.

Sure he said what he said and that seems like he does, but actions speak louder than words. I don’t think he’s interested.


In the beginning there was genuine interest but somthing happened.

Yesterday when I saw him, at first I was excited and then I became disgusted.

His behavior and antics are not becoming of man I want to be with.

My eyes opened up to who he really is.

I am being selfish with respect. If I am not respected I dont want anything to do with the person.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by pinkbird03

I think you’re expecting him to like you so much when he doesn’t know much about you.

Sure he said what he said and that seems like he does, but actions speak louder than words. I don’t think he’s interested.


In the beginning there was genuine interest but somthing happened.

Yesterday when I saw him, at first I was excited and then I became disgusted.

His behavior and antics are not becoming of man I want to be with.

My eyes opened up to who he really is.

I am being selfish with respect. If I am not respected I dont want anything to do with the person.



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I’m glad you see it 🙂

I just want to add that I’ve been on 5 first dates this summer and I talked to all 5 with so much interest every day until after the date. That’s when I realized they weren’t my person. So maybe just wait until a few dates before getting too excited. It won’t hurt as much. Sorry you had to go through this.
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Posted by pisceanloves

Here girl. Right now I'm dealing with a capricorn, we had a talk about relationship, he says we need to hang out a few more times. He moved closer to me, 1 hour between us right now. However he's still flaky, won't make plans to see me. I am the one doing all plannings and sorting things out. So 2 days ago I told him I'm going to his town on Saturday for a lantern festival and asked if we could "hang out", cause apparently "dates" doesn't work for him. Imagine him splitting a bill on our first dinner and mine was around 10 bucks. Anyways he said quote "let me check my schedule, then I'll let you know" I said okay good. Guess what? still waiting for him to confirm are we meeting tomorrow or not, plus I gave him couple of options to choose whatever is working better for him, plus he can come up with his own option and I'm willing to do my best to meet his needs. Guess what? nothing, I'm freaking hanging there not knowing anything, obviously I'm the last one on his list. We will see, I'm extremely pissed. why would someone treat you like a last minute girl, wtf . Anyways, sorry for venting, but call on his bs, you are worth more . way way more


Just a little piece of advice to you: STOP! You're doing too damn much! Your next move is to do absolutely nothing. Don't call, text, nothing! If he does the next move just reciprocate but don't initiate. And if he doesn't do anything then you know he was not serious about you to begin with.
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Posted by Black-Mamba

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Posted by Arachnophobia

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Arachnophobia

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Arachnophobia

You were wrong.


how do i get a taurus moon to like me


um


Well


Look like a snack and taste like one too.


I'm ageing

Why are men so superficial




Not just the men

I can’t imagine my self with fat man, I just can’t and feel scared of them #sorry


Not I either or an ugly guy

I've only dated 8s and above
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I can’t call anyone ugly): this is just savage

But I can’t be with man who shorter than me, or man who fat

Like I just can’t even hug him 😥😅
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Well. Well. Well.

Guess who's back asking me out?!

Honestly, im feeling a bit blah about the connection.

Maybe I'm feeling blah because he hasn't acknowledged the hurtful things he said and did after he turned me down. I was even treated like a friend.

It took me months to climb out of that hole. I cried about the connection for weeks.

Chicago really helped heal my heart and instill my faith in myself, strangers, and people I call friends. I felt accepted. I didnt feel judged or that someone could be jealous of my ambition and success.

Anyways, I think he broke up with old girl and is going back to his plan b aka me.

I think meeting up will be good for him to clear HIS own conscience.
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Posted by DMV

Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Right. Bored and looking for entertainment.

One wrong word and any hint of emotional manipulation and I will get up and walk right out.

Last time, I actually said goodbye.

No words next time. No being cordial and nice.
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Play his game and make it clear he's in the friend zone.
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They all playing atm don’t worry.


Right. Bored and looking for entertainment.

One wrong word and any hint of emotional manipulation and I will get up and walk right out.

Last time, I actually said goodbye.

No words next time. No being cordial and nice.


Play his game and make it clear he's in the friend zone.
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If hes looking for sex from me. He has another thing coming.

The only games I play are on the stage.

Playing games in a romantic sense is utterly boring, distracting, and lowers my vibration.
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Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Right. Bored and looking for entertainment.

One wrong word and any hint of emotional manipulation and I will get up and walk right out.

Last time, I actually said goodbye.

No words next time. No being cordial and nice.


Sag are in a bit of strife with men generally this month so just be kind to yourself. Pace it.
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Cause we ain't with the bulljive no more.

It's boring
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I was super okay with him picking someone else over me.

I was not okay with his disrespect

I didnt feel like my love was burned. He never had it.

I felt sad because here was someone who knew my past pain, called me friend, someone who I involved on my creative process, and he served me up a platter of the same bulljive.

No matter how nice you are to people, how much you care for them, how many favors you've done, how much of a friend you think they are to you, the self matters at the end of the day and they will always choose themselves over others.
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girl, you don't owe him a damn thing. he knew how you felt and still chose someone else.

why are you allowing him a chance to clear HIS own conscience?

leave him right where he's at with his thoughts and no options. that alone with kill a gemini.

just my two cents. but do whatever makes you happy ma.




Lol, Cause I know it IS eating him up alive.

It costs me nothing to listen.
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....he hasn't acknowledged the hurtful things he said and did after he turned me down...

Not really a Gem trait.


I've noted that with several geminis.

I was going to ask about that in a post but then I realized I too as a sag have done that in the past but with growth came change

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People come in our lives for all sorts of reasons. Some to restore our faith in relationship. Some to lend an ear when you need to bare your soul. One to give you the best orgasm of your life. Some, just to hold up a mirror.
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^^^ That last bit about the mirror wasn't meant in a negative way btw. Sounds like he was simply an opportunity to reaffirm who your are and what you desire (or don't in this case) in another.

I've seen you try to take advice on DXP that simply wasn't meant for you. Sometimes when we receive advice that doesn't fit who we are it can cause us to question ourselves. This Gem and the feedback related to this experience hasn't really done that so I say 🍹 to that experience.
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Posted by PhoenixRising

^^^ That last bit about the mirror wasn't meant in a negative way btw. Sounds like he was simply an opportunity to reaffirm who your are and what you desire (or don't in this case) in another.

I've seen you try to take advice on DXP that simply wasn't meant for you. Sometimes when we receive advice that doesn't fit who we are it can cause us to question ourselves. This Gem and the feedback related to this experience hasn't really done that so I say 🍹 to that experience.


No, this was totally a mirror.

This connection has really made me see my true worth. Gave me alot of confidence
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Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Look at how right you were

I think he is spying on me.

I let him use my phone months ago and I swear he did something.

I do know that even tho I blocked him, hes found a way.

With that said.

I was on my way to the date. I went earlier because I needed to stop by the fabric store.

He texted me an hour before the date and cancelled asking to reschedule.

A bytch couldnt wait to park her car and respond. Begging for a red light.

I told him, no thanks. I dont wanna reschedule.

Reblocked.

How are we only 2 days into the New Year and you wanna play games. It's only January 2 wtf 🤣😂

I know what's he doing. He forgets that I've dated more negros than he has.

Hes anxious af. Scared af. Hes trying to gain control of the situation. Parcel out attention to get me running behind him.

I've played all these games with the 20 negros before him
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Posted by DMV

Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Look at how right you were

I think he is spying on me.

I let him use my phone months ago and I swear he did something.

I do know that even tho I blocked him, hes found a way.

With that said.

I was on my way to the date. I went earlier because I needed to stop by the fabric store.

He texted me an hour before the date and cancelled asking to reschedule.

A bytch couldnt wait to park her car and respond. Begging for a red light.

I told him, no thanks. I dont wanna reschedule.

Reblocked.

How are we only 2 days into the New Year and you wanna play games. It's only January 2 wtf 🤣😂

I know what's he doing. He forgets that I've dated more negros than he has.

Hes anxious af. Scared af. Hes trying to gain control of the situation. Parcel out attention to get me running behind him.

I've played all these games with the 20 negros before him

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What😧

Why are they always spying on us??



Ewwwwww crazy ,,, I think because they are actually obsessed
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Posted by DMV

Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Look at how right you were

I think he is spying on me.

I let him use my phone months ago and I swear he did something.

I do know that even tho I blocked him, hes found a way.

With that said.

I was on my way to the date. I went earlier because I needed to stop by the fabric store.

He texted me an hour before the date and cancelled asking to reschedule.

A bytch couldnt wait to park her car and respond. Begging for a red light.

I told him, no thanks. I dont wanna reschedule.

Reblocked.

How are we only 2 days into the New Year and you wanna play games. It's only January 2 wtf 🤣😂

I know what's he doing. He forgets that I've dated more negros than he has.

Hes anxious af. Scared af. Hes trying to gain control of the situation. Parcel out attention to get me running behind him.

I've played all these games with the 20 negros before him




What😧

Why are they always spying on us??



Ewwwwww crazy ,,, I think because they are actually obsessed
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When you said that before, I didnt want to believe it.

I have no problem with obsession. I like obsessive people. I'm obsessive.

But if that obsession turns you into an asshole and toxic person, I will pass.
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Posted by DMV

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by DMV

Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Look at how right you were

I think he is spying on me.

I let him use my phone months ago and I swear he did something.

I do know that even tho I blocked him, hes found a way.

With that said.

I was on my way to the date. I went earlier because I needed to stop by the fabric store.

He texted me an hour before the date and cancelled asking to reschedule.

A bytch couldnt wait to park her car and respond. Begging for a red light.

I told him, no thanks. I dont wanna reschedule.

Reblocked.

How are we only 2 days into the New Year and you wanna play games. It's only January 2 wtf 🤣😂

I know what's he doing. He forgets that I've dated more negros than he has.

Hes anxious af. Scared af. Hes trying to gain control of the situation. Parcel out attention to get me running behind him.

I've played all these games with the 20 negros before him




What😧

Why are they always spying on us??



Ewwwwww crazy ,,, I think because they are actually obsessed


When you said that before, I didnt want to believe it.

I have no problem with obsession. I like obsessive people. I'm obsessive.

But if that obsession turns you into an asshole and toxic person, I will pass.
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I feel sorry for them tho



I can’t imagine someone is reading my mother angry messages 😭😂
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Posted by Haruuka

Posted by DMV

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by DMV

Posted by BathHouseCulture

They all playing atm don’t worry.


Look at how right you were

I think he is spying on me.

I let him use my phone months ago and I swear he did something.

I do know that even tho I blocked him, hes found a way.

With that said.

I was on my way to the date. I went earlier because I needed to stop by the fabric store.

He texted me an hour before the date and cancelled asking to reschedule.

A bytch couldnt wait to park her car and respond. Begging for a red light.

I told him, no thanks. I dont wanna reschedule.

Reblocked.

How are we only 2 days into the New Year and you wanna play games. It's only January 2 wtf 🤣😂

I know what's he doing. He forgets that I've dated more negros than he has.

Hes anxious af. Scared af. Hes trying to gain control of the situation. Parcel out attention to get me running behind him.

I've played all these games with the 20 negros before him




What😧

Why are they always spying on us??



Ewwwwww crazy ,,, I think because they are actually obsessed


When you said that before, I didnt want to believe it.

I have no problem with obsession. I like obsessive people. I'm obsessive.

But if that obsession turns you into an asshole and toxic person, I will pass.


I feel sorry for them tho



I can’t imagine someone is reading my mother angry messages 😭😂
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He can try me if he wants 2.

I hope he reads every single text I send out.

I hope he reads how good I fawk this other guy and all the sexting we do