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Posted by bkbella86
I’m sorry you’re disappointed DMV. From what I’ve seen you end up in these one sided situations often and I think if you’re going to do things diff and take advice from DXP try taking some different advice and do things diff to see what results you will get.
Since you’re used to chasing, let someone chase you for a change. So forth and so on.
Either way feel better, you deserve to be wined dined and everything your heart desires.
Do you truly feel that way?
Cause your posts arent coming across like that.
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86
I’m sorry you’re disappointed DMV. From what I’ve seen you end up in these one sided situations often and I think if you’re going to do things diff and take advice from DXP try taking some different advice and do things diff to see what results you will get.
Since you’re used to chasing, let someone chase you for a change. So forth and so on.
Either way feel better, you deserve to be wined dined and everything your heart desires.
Do you truly feel that way?
Cause your posts arent coming across like that.
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Yes!
How am I coming across?
Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
It's not about playing hard to get. And, you know that.
When who you are is not working for you, you should consider changing. It's been 30+ years of the same approach... pun intended.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?click to expand
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He’s a free agent. He can date who he wants. But he isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
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Or, could it be that he just doesn't gaf. I mean, a video is waaay more than flaunting.
They were never in a commited relationship. For all we know, the young man, isn't mature or conscious of himself yet.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
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Hmmm I would usually agree with this but I’m curious to know what ole boy said to her that constitues as sweet nothings. Only because he didn’t plan a second date, maybe she misread something. It just seems odd to go from sweet nothings and then when the bill comes let her pick it up and tell the waiter they will split it. Unless he’s just a stone cold player.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.click to expand
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86
I’m sorry you’re disappointed DMV. From what I’ve seen you end up in these one sided situations often and I think if you’re going to do things diff and take advice from DXP try taking some different advice and do things diff to see what results you will get.
Since you’re used to chasing, let someone chase you for a change. So forth and so on.
Either way feel better, you deserve to be wined dined and everything your heart desires.
Do you truly feel that way?
Cause your posts arent coming across like that.
Yes!
How am I coming across?click to expand
Honestly. Impatient and a tad condescending
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
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It looks a little desperate to go full throttle of the other person isn’t. You have to read people.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He’s a free agent. He can date who he wants. But he isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
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I agree with you and I did cancel the date on friday with him.
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86
I’m sorry you’re disappointed DMV. From what I’ve seen you end up in these one sided situations often and I think if you’re going to do things diff and take advice from DXP try taking some different advice and do things diff to see what results you will get.
Since you’re used to chasing, let someone chase you for a change. So forth and so on.
Either way feel better, you deserve to be wined dined and everything your heart desires.
Do you truly feel that way?
Cause your posts arent coming across like that.
Yes!
How am I coming across?
Honestly. Impatient and a tad condescendingclick to expand
I apologize, I’ll work on that. I know this about myself. I don’t mean to be mean. I’m just to the point. I gotta work on my delivery. I’m sincere and don’t want to see you get hurt. I know you even if just on the Internet, I’ve known you for sometime. I care.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
It looks a little desperate to go full throttle of the other person isn’t. You have to read people.click to expand
Ok I get it.
Everything I do according to you is desperate.
I will be DMV the desperate diva.
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
It looks a little desperate to go full throttle of the other person isn’t. You have to read people.
Ok I get it.
Everything I do according to you is desperate.
I will be DMV the desperate diva.click to expand
Nah if anyone did this it would be desperate. Just take your time a bit, hold
Back a lil bit. It may make things go slower but at least you get to assess the person and gauge their interest before laying all your cards out.
Posted by halalbaePosted by DMV
I do feel like he is taking a hard stance aganist having any romantic feelings toward me at at all.
I led the conversation with assurance as well.
I said that i was feeling him and wanted to know if he saw me a romantic interest or a friend.
He was adamant that he only saw me as a friend. I mean hard stance. Like woah woah woah. Where'd you get that idea from.
I laughed.
LOL I had something similar happen to me recently. Dude TRIED to make me open up to him about deeply personal stuff like my fathers death and my illness but when I honestly expressed my worries and told him my gut instinct told me not to trust him, suddenly he was about to get married and his girlfriend contacted me. Awkward. His reaction to my question was: ''ArE wE cOoL nOw?'' Glad I never allowed myself to be emotionally invested in him
Never look backclick to expand
He sounds like he is into emotional dumping. Like emotional complexity is an high for him.
Posted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by DMVPosted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by DMVPosted by i-xyPosted by DMV
I just asked him and he said he only sees me as a friend.
Great. Now I can move forward.
I'm glad he had the balls to be straightforward.
Bottom line was he spilled his heart out then the next day posted pictures with another woman. Dipshit.
Sorry but you deserve better.
Yah he apologized if he ever gave me that impression..😐😑😶
He gave many impressions that were not "friendlike."
But I will take him at his word.
Now he knows that he cant go back n forth now. Now hes been called out and has to also be honest with himself.
He's a coward!
Didn't he tell you he's worried you will fall for someone else? WTH was that about?
I'm raging!!!
And he posted a video?!
Sorry, babe. I wish things had been different.
Gurl he was dead ass worried that I would fall out of love with him with another guy.
Couldnt even look me in the eye while he was getting the words out.
Like dont get me started with what has come out of mouth.
Idk what to say! I'm kinda stumped...click to expand
I'm not stumped.
It's good to know where you stand with people so you know how to proceed with them.
This NO has opened me up to a YES with someone else.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Or, could it be that he just doesn't gaf. I mean, a video is waaay more than flaunting.
They were never in a commited relationship. For all we know, the young man, isn't mature or conscious of himself yet.click to expand
Whatever his reasons it still shows a lack of respect for her. Imo. Plus I’m a very discrete person when it comes to my love life and I’d view his behavior as a red flag. That’s just me 🤷♀️
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Hmmm I would usually agree with this but I’m curious to know what ole boy said to her that constitues as sweet nothings. Only because he didn’t plan a second date, maybe she misread something. It just seems odd to go from sweet nothings and then when the bill comes let her pick it up and tell the waiter they will split it. Unless he’s just a stone cold player.click to expand
I’m of the opinion that whomever invites the other person out, should pay. Him not paying the bill is not that big of a deal for me tbh. Not planning the 2nd date spells lack of interest more than him going Dutch, imo.
This could all come down to timing too. He may have had a connection with op, but this other date night have gone really well and he’s feeling more of a spark or chemistry with this other girl.
Posted by DMVPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He’s a free agent. He can date who he wants. But he isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
I agree with you and I did cancel the date on friday with him.
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I would’ve gone and put him on the hot seat. Watch him squirm lol. I’m petty like that tho 💅
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Or, could it be that he just doesn't gaf. I mean, a video is waaay more than flaunting.
They were never in a commited relationship. For all we know, the young man, isn't mature or conscious of himself yet.
Whatever his reasons it still shows a lack of respect for her. Imo. Plus I’m a very discrete person when it comes to my love life and I’d view his behavior as a red flag. That’s just me 🤷♀️click to expand
What if this is his girlfriend?
The real disrepect, in the truest sense of the word, is when he lead her on and then played her like a fool acting like it was a misunderstanding. Respect me enough to not play back our romantic interactions, your, phone calls, and texts as all casual.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Or, could it be that he just doesn't gaf. I mean, a video is waaay more than flaunting.
They were never in a commited relationship. For all we know, the young man, isn't mature or conscious of himself yet.
Whatever his reasons it still shows a lack of respect for her. Imo. Plus I’m a very discrete person when it comes to my love life and I’d view his behavior as a red flag. That’s just me 🤷♀️
What if this is his girlfriend?
The real distrpect, in the truest sense of the word, is when he lead her on and then played her like a fool acting like it was a misunderstanding. Respect me enough to not play back our romantic interactions, your, phone calls, and texts as all casual.click to expand
Who is his gf?
Wait, I’m confused 😅
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Or, could it be that he just doesn't gaf. I mean, a video is waaay more than flaunting.
They were never in a commited relationship. For all we know, the young man, isn't mature or conscious of himself yet.
Whatever his reasons it still shows a lack of respect for her. Imo. Plus I’m a very discrete person when it comes to my love life and I’d view his behavior as a red flag. That’s just me 🤷♀️
What if this is his girlfriend?
The real distrpect, in the truest sense of the word, is when he lead her on and then played her like a fool acting like it was a misunderstanding. Respect me enough to not play back our romantic interactions, your, phone calls, and texts as all casual.
Who is his gf?
Wait, I’m confused 😅click to expand
What if the girl in the video is his girlfriend? Think: a video of what looks like a well planned out date, video taped and posted by him online for the world to see.
If not, then he is working really hard to get her...
A lesson to all...
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone to be exclusive after the first date doesn’t make sense to me. Before you enter into a physical relationship, yes. But after a first date? That’s a little weird. The person is a stranger at that point (despite what my psychic has said 😆) Idk if I even want them want them.
His misstep is posting about his other date knowing you’ll see it. That spells disrespect. But hey, at least you know where you really stand now.
How is it disrespect if they didn’t agree to anything exclusive? How is he wrong?
Disrespectful in that he is flaunting his other date on social media where he knows she will see it. When only hours earlier he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear and talking of a future. It seems disingenuous to me. And he obviously cares very little of how it would make her feel.
He isn’t posting ops dates on social media. That’s the disconnect. And disrespect. Sends a pretty clear message. If I’m the op I’m not wasting anymore of my time here.
Or, could it be that he just doesn't gaf. I mean, a video is waaay more than flaunting.
They were never in a commited relationship. For all we know, the young man, isn't mature or conscious of himself yet.
Whatever his reasons it still shows a lack of respect for her. Imo. Plus I’m a very discrete person when it comes to my love life and I’d view his behavior as a red flag. That’s just me 🤷♀️
What if this is his girlfriend?
The real distrpect, in the truest sense of the word, is when he lead her on and then played her like a fool acting like it was a misunderstanding. Respect me enough to not play back our romantic interactions, your, phone calls, and texts as all casual.
Who is his gf?
Wait, I’m confused 😅
What if the girl in the video is his girlfriend? Think: a video of what looks like a well planned out date, video taped and posted by him online for the world to see.
If not, then he is working really hard to get her...
A lesson to all...click to expand
Lol, well now the speculations are getting wild. I’ve dated my fair share of ‘single’ guys who ended up having gfs/wives. Fun times 😡🤬
But yeah, I guess the lesson is to demand what you want for yourself and walk away when you see it’s not there.
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
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Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚click to expand
Exactly right.
I'm not everyones cup of tea.
Lol. Now.hes on a posting spree about zodiac signs.
This guy is a troll.
This guy is a troll.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86
I’m sorry you’re disappointed DMV. From what I’ve seen you end up in these one sided situations often and I think if you’re going to do things diff and take advice from DXP try taking some different advice and do things diff to see what results you will get.
Since you’re used to chasing, let someone chase you for a change. So forth and so on.
Either way feel better, you deserve to be wined dined and everything your heart desires.
Do you truly feel that way?
Cause your posts arent coming across like that.
Yes!
How am I coming across?
Honestly. Impatient and a tad condescending
I apologize, I’ll work on that. I know this about myself. I don’t mean to be mean. I’m just to the point. I gotta work on my delivery. I’m sincere and don’t want to see you get hurt. I know you even if just on the Internet, I’ve known you for sometime. I care.click to expand
Awwww, Aries hug!
Me too DMV! Me too!
Posted by AriquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
Same. I slid in the Aquas DMs and initiated and were happy 4 years (3 officially in a relationship) later. If I would have waited for him he would have never made a move...he thought I was out of his leagueclick to expand
But, what do you call "a move?" Wining and dining him? Or, just saying "hello, you're cute."
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚click to expand
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?
Posted by AriquaPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AriquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
Same. I slid in the Aquas DMs and initiated and were happy 4 years (3 officially in a relationship) later. If I would have waited for him he would have never made a move...he thought I was out of his league
But, what do you call "a move?" Wining and dining him? Or, just saying "hello, you're cute."
No, i didn’t wine and dine him. I just made my interest known.click to expand
What happened after that?
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Lol. Now.hes on a posting spree about zodiac signs.
This guy is a troll.
On ig?click to expand
Yup
I guess my talk has inspired him
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Lol. Now.hes on a posting spree about zodiac signs.
This guy is a troll.
On ig?
Yup
I guess my talk has inspired him
click to expand
You don’t wanna block him?
Or unfollow?
Posted by AriquaPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AriquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
Same. I slid in the Aquas DMs and initiated and were happy 4 years (3 officially in a relationship) later. If I would have waited for him he would have never made a move...he thought I was out of his league
But, what do you call "a move?" Wining and dining him? Or, just saying "hello, you're cute."
No, i didn’t wine and dine him. I just made my interest known.click to expand
That's the most I would ever do but, I'm a lump in a log with men. I like to be picked up like a baby, lol.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Lol. Now.hes on a posting spree about zodiac signs.
This guy is a troll.
On ig?
Yup
I guess my talk has inspired him
You don’t wanna block him?click to expand
I muted him.
I'm at point where I don't block people, they will be a potential fan in the future.
Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Lol. Now.hes on a posting spree about zodiac signs.
This guy is a troll.
On ig?
Yup
I guess my talk has inspired him
You don’t wanna block him?
I muted him.
I'm at point where I don't block people, they will be a potential fan in the future.click to expand
Werd. I only have one dude blocked and that cuz he’s legit crazy. I’m not one to block numbers either.
Posted by AriquaPosted by bkbella86Posted by AriquaPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by AriquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
Same. I slid in the Aquas DMs and initiated and were happy 4 years (3 officially in a relationship) later. If I would have waited for him he would have never made a move...he thought I was out of his league
But, what do you call "a move?" Wining and dining him? Or, just saying "hello, you're cute."
No, i didn’t wine and dine him. I just made my interest known.
What happened after that?
It’s a long story lol. But he did ask me out right away and I got cold feet when I found out his age. He is 5 years younger than me so I was 28 and he was 23 (eeek) I was like no way that’s gonna work so I made something up and I told him I couldn’t make it. We remained “texting friends” and I really liked him...months went by without him asking me out until he told me he didn’t want anymore friends and if I didn’t want to go out with him then he wanted to move on, so I gave him a chance and here we are. Now I’m 32 and he’s 27 and the older we get the less the age gap even has any significance at all.click to expand
You made my point. You presented a challenge. Had you been chasing who knows what would have happened.
Posted by DMVPosted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by DamousPosted by DMVPosted by Damous
Always ask for exclusivity. CHECK if you’re on the same page. Y’dig? You can have a connection, but he could also have a connection with her. Always assume if you haven’t actually talked about being exclusive (to continue seeing if you wanna go for a relationship) that the other person will continue talking to other people.
He grown.
He can do what he wants.
You obviously feel some type of way about it. You never know, he may have agreed to exclusivity and you could’ve had what you wanted.
Yes to this.
Geminis will test your boundaries and see how far we can push you.
But he is an asshole.
Only thing I can think of is, IF he himself told you he is going out with another girl, either he isn't happy with your relationship/relationship status or he wants to ghost you or he wants something from you but he is too much of a coward to ask you for it- does he have any reason to think he isn't good enough for you or to assume this can't go long term?
Yes he has insecurities about being with me.
I'm black and he thinks I will leave him for a black guy one day. Told me that to my face.
He is half black and Spanish. Looks more Spanish than black.
I told him to chill with that talk.
Oh yes. Gems do pushclick to expand
This right here is the answer👆 My Gem ex always had an insecurity with me, thinking I was out of his league and I think he just couldn’t get past that. I’m thinking your dude is the same, he wants to but can’t :/
Posted by Arielle83Posted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Lol. Now.hes on a posting spree about zodiac signs.
This guy is a troll.
On ig?
Yup
I guess my talk has inspired him
What’s the insta?
I wanna seeclick to expand
You know I'm a scorpio moon right? Lol
Thanks to all again tho for reading and helping me through this.
Super appreciate how supportive DXP can be sometimes.
Super appreciate how supportive DXP can be sometimes.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?click to expand
How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.
No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?
How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.
No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.
click to expand
Not because of the the dude. She has a history of this.
I’m a millennial but I don’t believe in 50/50.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?
How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.
No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.
Not because of the the dude. She has a history of this.
I’m a millennial but I don’t believe in 50/50.click to expand
Who has a history of this?
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?
How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.
No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.
Not because of the the dude. She has a history of this.
I’m a millennial but I don’t believe in 50/50.click to expand
So in your case your the exception to the rule 😂
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?
How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.
No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.
Not because of the the dude. She has a history of this.
I’m a millennial but I don’t believe in 50/50.
So in your case your the exception to the rule 😂
click to expand
Who you are isn't hurting you. No need to change. She has a Scorpio 5th house.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by i-xy
Take things at face value. It hurts more in the long run when your mental process is to think what the person may be thinking or feeling.
Good if he felt like dmv was too good him. She should end up with somebody who measures up to her standards 👐 she needs somebody as bold as her instead of thinking she should bend. This is all part of the process and you either cry home or be a good sport🏌
or you don't suffer through bytch ass niggahs.
look i prefer not to even go to dinner, take me out to 3 $ tea, but you paying for it, that shows me, you ain't a weirdo
now i don't have a problem paying for both of our meals or even my own meal, but that' comes later
show me you love my company
even chicks do that for one another
always pick up tabs for one another
it's just BSclick to expand
Yeah that’s true. With friends we usually switch off.
With bae he’ll grab the food bill and I’ll grab the drinks or vice versa.
Personally I don’t mind paying my way in the early stages as I get to know someone. But it’s always nice to have them insist on paying when you offer.
Posted by nanobot
Was your ultimate goal and expectation of him, to wait until the class is over to essentially be together?
Yes.
I just didnt want to rush into things but I felt so drawn to him that I has to let him know.
It was only a short lil 6 weeks class
This all could be the effect of the mars retrograde.
We actually met over a year ago in an acting class. That's when I felt the spark and I let him know and I didnt push. But I had to release that emotion.
Nothing happened. No contact for 6 months till May 2018 when HE contacted me out the blue and told me he was coming to my standup show. I was thrilled. He ended not coming and I was disappointed and he apologized profusely. But whateves life went on.
Then he pops up in my acting class as a late entry. I was thrilled and surprised. I think he took the class to see me. He came the 1st day and made a straight line toward me and gave me the biggest hug. I was openly thrilled.
Then HE contacted me outside of class and told me he would accept a drink invitation if I made one. So I jumped at that opportunity and we went out.
The rest has already been shared here 😁
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DMVPosted by bkbella86Posted by DMV
Im just not the girl who plays hard to get. That's never been who I have been.
Sorry if that doesnt work for some of you all. Lol. Super sorry.
If I like a guy, I'm telling him straight up.
I like action 🤩
I’m not saying playing hard to get but be somewhat of a challenge. Try it at least! See if it bears diff results.
im not a challenge or somewhat of a challenge.
I'm a happy path of least resistance.
"Playing" hard to get or being a minutia of a challenge is not who DMV is.
I'm a lover.
If I like someone, it's on like donkey Kong. Full throttle.
To become even the slightest bit of a challenge is so boring. I tried alot of the advice on dxp and it isnt me.
Im not the status quo.
I've tried sitting on my hands and letting the guy lead..didn't like it. I was bored shitless.
Some people dont know fun if it hit them on the head.
5th house personality
Don’t change yourself. Just because he wasn’t right for you doesn’t mean your ‘wrong’.
I asked out my Gemini on the first date. I paid. 3 years later here we are still going strong.
The right man will love how full on you are. Just takes that perfect cocktail blend of chemistry, timing, and same end goals. Some people are more lucky in finding that than others. Yours is out there 💚
You were the exception not the rule. If being full throttle hasn’t worked for DMV you don’t think she should try something diff?
How old are you? I think there’s a generation gap. Millennials view dating bill as more 50/50.
No I don’t think she should change herself because of this dude. She should be true to herself in order to attract the right one.
Not because of the the dude. She has a history of this.
I’m a millennial but I don’t believe in 50/50.
So in your case your the exception to the rule 😂
Who you are isn't hurting you. No need to change. She has a Scorpio 5th house.
click to expand
Idk what that means. I’m an Astro newb
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What are the most obvious differences I'm missing.
Both are so much fun! Love them.
I have been seeing a gem casually for the past 10 months. Never intended to have him anymore than just fwb; never introduced him to anyone in my life. There just seemed to be something off about him and my intuition/gut feeling just wouldn't let him be an
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I'm kinda new to astrology so I'm trying to learn about Gems. People I know usually say Imma contradiction. They say I can be really adamant about something and then suddenly feel the exact opposite. I been called talkative, quiet, moody, detached from ot
Been following these boards for a while.
Yall wild in here. 😂🤣
I want to get some opinions on this pairing. I like this sag girl and I knew she was a sag immediately. Thick!
My stuff
Sun Gemini
Moon Virgo
Mercury Gemini
Mars virgo
Venus Taurus
Her s
About a month ago me and my gem ( gem sun, aries moon, libra rising ) decided to go on a 1 month break after a big argument.
At first it was weird no talking to him or knowing what he was doing, because he doesn't get on social media. One day I randomly
So I met this amazing Gemini man 2 months ago, I’m Aquarius so we mesh really well. We moved pretty fast after we first hung out we started seeing each other at least 3 times a week. He listens, we talk for hours, he wants better for me. I’m an exotic dan
She is not telling me exactly why. All she say is " I really love you but I don't see any future for us. So we should end our relationship" . She's acting cold with me now but we still texting and calling each other but much less frequent than before.
As a Gemini, how do you all feel about Sags and how well do you usually get along with them? What are your relationships like with them? I’m curious.
And I will gladly take him out for his birthday and show him what a grown woman is working with.
Bit apprehensive to post on here but maybe I'll get some good feedback lol
I met a Gemini guy about 7 months ago, I was working in a bar and approached him to ask him if he wanted to buy drinks (this was my job to do btw)
I got to talking to him and ins
You have some background. Of which I agree 1000%