How to friendzone Gemini guy? (Page 2)

Posted by Rommy
Why would you want to friend zone a Gemini?

Just let Gemini observe who you are for long enough and they'll discover all your weaknesses and flaws and let you down lightly. Seriously.

Do none of the work here. Just show your glorious personality and they'll turn tail in no time.

Ive been showing him my ugly side .. N he still thought im funny and totally get him..

But well last night i think i really embarrassed him.. He goes silent when hes feeling embarrassed and waits for me to start the conversation, but i wont happen, im tired

It wont happen*

So.... This is going to be my final post about the gemini guy.... We got to talk again but he seemed so freaking insecure and teased me SO MUCH it was annoying as hell and I told him but he never understood my "clear words" somehow! ... Anyway I ended up telling him not to ever call me again... Cause eventhough he wanted to apologize and fix things but thing he said like "I know I can win you back" "just hear me out" "I'm not that bad" .... And him calling me when i tell him im busy ... Got me mad ....

Call me crazy but actually I'd be crazy if I kept trying to be friends...

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LOL, you seem to be talking to yourself here. Have you become obsessed with him now, so that you cannot stop any contact with him for at least one year?

Why do you need his friendship so desperately? Or is actually his misplaced infatuation that you cannot live without?

Posted by Undine
LOL, you seem to be talking to yourself here. Have you become obsessed with him now, so that you cannot stop any contact with him for at least one year?

Why do you need his friendship so desperately? Or is actually his misplaced infatuation that you cannot live without?

Its just an update ...so i wont have someone messaging me 2 yrs later asking how it ended... Maybe ur new to dxp, but that happens sometimes..

And no im not wanting it desperately or like his what you call "infatuation" at all .... He would never leave me alone. But I finally had to end it. Because he'd always complain about how I never gave him a chance..etc it is annoying as fuck. Noone would like that

Thanks for the update.

Let me break this down for you...

He was never your 'friend', he was always interested in more. Even though you weren't interested in him as anything more than a friend, you interacted with him in a way that seemed otherwise.

You went on dates with him. You told him you weren't looking looking for a relationship and to 'give it time'...translation, if he's patient enough you'll be ready to be with him.

Instead of establishing clear boundaries you sent a very confusing message. Saying one thing...and then doing the opposite. It's no wonder he's still reaching out when you tell him your through.

Cut him out of your life to make this stop. No more responding to his text or calls. You can't control his actions but your in full command of your own.

Time to practice self-restraint.

Does a Gemini w Taurus moon affect their emotions? Sorry to sidetrack your question just wondering! Have you tried being very emotionally heavy with him? Like just randomly bring up emotions and demand he help you with them and be upset when he doesn't? Constantly want to be around him and invite him to do the same things... no variety whatsoever lol do the opposite of what attracts a Gemini I bet he'll flee

Oh well I brought myself to do that n cut him off for a year n a half ... now he still has the same feelings. I hate myself for missing him as a friend.. He knows theres nothing more yet he still gives hints on how he still has feelings

Posted by LadyNeptune
Thanks for the update.

Let me break this down for you...

He was never your 'friend', he was always interested in more. Even though you weren't interested in him as anything more than a friend, you interacted with him in a way that seemed otherwise.

You went on dates with him. You told him you weren't looking looking for a relationship and to 'give it time'...translation, if he's patient enough you'll be ready to be with him.

Instead of establishing clear boundaries you sent a very confusing message. Saying one thing...and then doing the opposite. It's no wonder he's still reaching out when you tell him your through.

Cut him out of your life to make this stop. No more responding to his text or calls. You can't control his actions but your in full command of your own.

Time to practice self-restraint.

what you are saying is not genuines at all...

demand him to help? thats nonsense to me sorry

Posted by yyynm
Does a Gemini w Taurus moon affect their emotions? Sorry to sidetrack your question just wondering! Have you tried being very emotionally heavy with him? Like just randomly bring up emotions and demand he help you with them and be upset when he doesn't? Constantly want to be around him and invite him to do the same things... no variety whatsoever lol do the opposite of what attracts a Gemini I bet he'll flee

gems like it in the friendzone