i want my ex back shes a GEMINI and im a scrop help please

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theonethatfound
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7 Years

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im kinda at a point i keep hearing its never gonna happen and i heard from someone i could prob be steered or shown something different the rather give up. It jsut sucks regardless the beliefs in astrology and zodiac signs. I just sucks cuz now you changed and you understand what went wrong and able to know you can make her realize and truely make her happy. its a shame to throw that the love and the happiness i can and want to give her. I made mistakes, i fell and i understand to be the stronger person i sought to be. I guess im understanding sometimes even when your ready and know you can win, the chances are not always gonna be there so cherish what you have. This the most important lesson i have learned i just wish it didnt cost me the woman i love to death. this break was a blessing but a painful one. Thank you for all your replies i dont want to move on but if shes happy fuck it i love her enough to let her go and be happy even if its not with me
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7 Years

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i never once called her fat and i never made her cry she cried cuz she didnt want to break up but felt we had to i aint some kind of cruel person to do that to someone yes i made the mistake of asking her to come to the gym with me cuz i said it would be both good for us we been pretty lazy sleeping around the house she deleted me cuz i fought for her tried to talk to her i was a good man to her just wasnt the best bf cuz of communications
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theonethatfound
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7 Years

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i never once called her fat and i never made her cry she cried cuz she didnt want to break up but felt we had to i aint some kind of cruel person to do that to someone yes i made the mistake of asking her to come to the gym with me cuz i said it would be both good for us we been pretty lazy sleeping around the house she deleted me cuz i fought for her tried to talk to her i was a good man to her just wasnt the best bf cuz of communications
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Gemitati
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Posted by theonethatfound

so pretty much im screwed


Well...if you tell us why she said you called her fat...maybe it’ll help to advise you...

My Scorpio said...showers or dirty...I don’t care! Also I was fat when we’ve met and it didn’t bother him...

Though he is fit af and most gorgeous man I’ve ever met!!!

Saying that...we Gems are good partners...and we take crap easy...unless it’s personal and you hurt us...love evaporising and become never been...when we hurt!

Look back...you didn’t know...you said shit once...she is gone!

From my perspective as an older Gemini woman...I had never forget shit that hurt me...ever!

And I don’t get hurt easily...

Let people think we are airheads...but what we don’t forgive is...disrespect!

I think yes...you lost her. She will never forget ‘fat’ comment...

And I am sure there is more shit you’ve said.

Young Scorpios have to mature.

You guys are never good before 45!

You can keep on trying but she’ll never forget your stupid judgemental comments...you love her!!! Why did you have to say shit—

Reply and I might help you.
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theonethatfound
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7 Years

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i know how it comes across i was a idiot ill agree to that when she said i was gettting big i didnt get mad but i never called her fat i just said we are both letting each other go and it was true but i again i get my mistake im seripus i do love this girl and im alot different and i said im different i never thought she was a airhead i just never thought she was hurting she never told me striaght up and when she did i told her i love you and i am sorry i think you're beautiful i swear on my life im a changed man im a better man im ready to be at my best and give her something people wish and fight for, For her i leggit put my soul im sorry i said butter or what i mean it when i say i changed man i will be the best bf, a boyfriend she can always love and count on and also i want her to be my best friend she can always talk to me communication ill put all my energy in making her safe and happy. what more i can offer ill learn in the future as i grow to be a better person
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im kinda at a point i keep hearing its never gonna happen and i heard from someone i could prob be steered or shown something different the rather give up. It jsut sucks regardless the beliefs in astrology and zodiac signs. I just sucks cuz now you changed and you understand what went wrong and able to know you can make her realize and truely make her happy. its a shame to throw that the love and the happiness i can and want to give her. I made mistakes, i fell and i understand to be the stronger person i sought to be. I guess im understanding sometimes even when your ready and know you can win, the chances are not always gonna be there so cherish what you have. This the most important lesson i have learned i just wish it didnt cost me the woman i love to death. this break was a blessing but a painful one. Thank you for all your replies i dont want to move on but if shes happy fuck it i love her enough to let her go and be happy even if its not with me


1st lesson: love is ACTION a VERB...

What have you actually done that is love?

Do something, spend something, make something.

Suggestion: Send a dozen roses for each month that you've been apart and write a note to that effect.

2nd lesson: don't shut out the person you love. What'd you think was gonna happen? Their's consequences to actions, even in love. To not know that is to take someone for granted.

You have to nuture love. It must be feed continuously or it can die... add insult, neglect, and being shut-out...

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** You need to understand where she is coming from and going in her life,.at times we are blind to whatever else we have going on but you need to realize when something is past your own control. If you have something to say to her, say it and take your peace.

If it's meant to be, then it will be,

But the fates do not always operate in your favour, and if it doesn't you need to find peace in that as well because of you don't than you can't truly find peace.**

Have faith in yourself and how you feel trustt that's it valid. This is your best option. Regardless of results.

Peace.
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theonethatfound
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7 Years

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She knows i love her and i havent done anything cuz she seems so bitter anything i do just feels like im pushing her more and more 2nd lesson i really understand that i just didnt want her to worry about me and my family but youre right and i know that im just lost i want to give her the christmas present i bought for her..... im just lost on how to solve this



1st lesson: love is ACTION a VERB...

What have you actually done that is love?

Do something, spend something, make something.

Suggestion: Send a dozen roses for each month that you've been apart and write a note to that effect.

2nd lesson: don't shut out the person you love. What'd you think was gonna happen? Their's consequences to actions, even in love. To not know that is to take someone for granted.

You have to nuture love. It must be feed continuously or it can die... add insult, neglect, and being shut-out...

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theonethatfound
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7 Years

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i have changed alot i been gettig coached by experts i have taken classes read books to see what i did wrong cuz i was blind as fuck before. i know i have changed you dont know me i love this girl to the damn core people make mistakes we fall and get up and try again love is hard work and dedication im all of those things i have potiental i said i am always open to self growth for me and for her. you guys dont understand i aint a bad man im a man who made a mistake and will do anything to fix this cuz i dont want anyone i want her i love her i would give my soul and body for her. Its been damn hard i been doing my best i want to fix this
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I do believe that people can change in 3 months.

Shit, after a boy broke my heart, that rejection lit a fire under my butt and I CHANGED into a new grown woman.

The change was almost instantaneous. As soon as I walked away from him and his drama, I was reborn.

#scorpiomoon

Now, the same could be true for her. She coulda changed dramatically as well and discovered her true worth in leaving the relationship.
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theonethatfound
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7 Years

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i never called her fat i never broke up with her and its not now i i been fighting for her you guys make it seem like i treated her unkindly i was a good man too her and she knew i loved and mistakes we made the mistakes i made are easily changeeable i get it i said some insecure things i never damn called her fat i asked her to workout with me and people i love this woman i didnt realzie this now or anything she always knew i loved her