Mother and Daughter "Drama"

[Semi-Long Story]

Ok, so 2 weeks ago I asked my mother do something VERYY important for me and gave her a deadline.

(FYI: Before I fully asked her the question, she suggested that she should do it instead of someone else b/c she doesn't want anyone with that type of information.)

Being that she's my mother and sorta like my best friend, I didn't bother to "nag" her about getting the task done (Plus, I wouldn't want someone to nag me so I wouldn't do it to someone else). Two days before the deadline, I called my mom and asked her how things are going and if she needed extra information or help. She said everything was good.

Now on the actual day, I decided that I'll contact her because I needed the important thing by a certain time. She declined my calls and after a couple of hours she reached out to me and told me:

"The reason I don't have your stuff is b/c I asked someone to do it for me."

Once she said that, I asked her "Why would you ask someone to do it, when you specifically told me don't let anyone do it for me unless it's YOU or MYSELF."

And she never answered my question, she simply said, "I have to call you back."

Long story short, this isn't the first time my mom has done something like this to me. Sometimes I feel as if she gets personal info out of me, just to know it. Now, I was going to do the thing for myself, but being that she offered I said ok, better for me.

As of right now, I feel betrayed. In the past, she's done some other harsh things (which I choose not to mention on here) to me.. I really try hard to keep a relationship with my mom, but as time goes on.. I'm thinking about cutting ties.

My question to you all is, if her Sun (Gemini) and other planets falls in my 8th house.. What might that mean?

Oh ,by the way we both have Aries Moons.

You should've learned your lesson the first time.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME.

Gemini says enough.

You also suffer from a negative learning curve.