TO DEEGEE: Scorpio board sent me!

I am a Gemini female with Scorpio moon. ....and I'm having some Scorpio male with cancer moon troubles! Urrrgghh!!!

I have Gem sun/ Scorpio moon...

What is the issue—

Scorpio male playing with my emotions??_I am sure I played right back but unwittingly.
He acted like he was interested, albeit never officially asked me out so I laid low and just went with it. I finally decided to take the initiative when he was more forward with me in his actions (came up to my vehicle and opened car door and when I got out, he gave me a hug and squeezed for a bit long then proceeded to walk me into the building and we chatted up for 20 mins.) Keep in mind, previous times (over past year) he would just interact w/me in a very intimate way, putting his hands on me (arms, shoulders, thighs) and leaving them there for longer than just a friendly touch. He has made various comments that I was hot. And sometimes we would just lock eyes and hold it for seconds until I looked away. It was small stuff like that left me wondering. But I never made any move b/c again, he has never officially asked me out. But after the car incident, I emailed him and told him that I thought he was extremely attractive and hoped to have more conversation with him in the future. I kept it light and simple. He DID NOT RESPOND! That was a week ago and I feel like an idiot! I am totally okay with someone not being interested in me and letting me know. It happens. But what I am not okay with is just being flat out ignored. It doesn't make sense to not respond. I know he read the message b/c at the bottom of my message it shows —seen at ??_??
Anyway, to make matters worse, I responded to the fact he didn't respond to me. AND AGAIN he didn't respond. Now I am not sure how to react when I see him again??_.all I can think of is to act like nothing and just hold my head up high and act cool.

There is a movie based on a book called —He Is Just Not That In to You.?? I am sure everyone has heard of it. It just makes so much sense! It is just pure human nature I thought. If a guy or girl likes you, they ask you out??_eventually at least, or drop hints until you ask them. And if they don't like you that way and you ask them out; they respond back w/the usual turn down scenario. It is all common sense to me. It happens and I am not one to be pushy with anyone who is straight forward. But NOT responding throws me for a loop and it doesn't make sense. I mean if I mistook his actions, it is totally my bad, and I move on. Now I am wondering if there is just one small exception to the rule that I have been missing all this time that I should hold out for??_.like many of the discussions regarding Scorpio men advise. Or maybe this is a new scenario that will tell me in the future to keep on going. Anyway, whatever happens, happens I guess.