Two-Faced Gemini's!!!

I had a run in with a co-worker (male gemini) who is the biggest two-faced, lying dirt-bag ever! Having to hold my emotions in at work I came here to vent. Unbelievable! And he looked like he was actually experiencing guilt after the horrid shit he said. But now that I know how he is... watch out! It may take (will take) lots of planning on this one but he will get what he deserves. What a dirt-bag!!! Oh, and sooooo nice to my face. *I am holding back violence at this point* Yes, gemini's are full of tricks so careful event planning will have to take place. He's gonna burn!

Gawd, I had to get this out.

What did he do?

"I had a run in with a co-worker (male gemini) who is the biggest two-faced, lying dirt-bag ever!"

LibratarianVirgo .. you sure have a way of pissing me off. It just seems to happen that way, time and time again, by how ignorant you are to what's really the truth.

"And he looked like he was actually experiencing guilt after the horrid shit he said."

This is said as though he should NOT experience guilt. wtf?
Are you so unforgiving of a person that you would look your nose upon someone else who once they realize they've fucked up, that they showed remorse?

Oh, yes .. I guess you are .. for when a person actually regrets their mistakes in life and shows remorse .. your reaction, being the unforgiving person you are .. below is how YOU really are ..

"But now that I know how he is... watch out! It may take (will take) lots of planning on this one but he will get what he deserves."


What a dirt-bag YOU are in my opinion .. for you actually acknowledge that he felt bad for what he did and showed remorse .. yet, you are planning revenge upon him anyway ...

LibratarianVirgo ... YOU are a complete asshole !!!!

Who the hell do you think you are?

Okay okay let's all calm down and analyze this.

First of all we're missing important information about this event. I'm sure LibertarianVirgo can give us more details so we can have a better idea of what happened.

Second, regardless of pending details, let's understand that LibertarianVirgo has a Taurus moon and Scorpio rising. In less words someone managed to easily upset a big bull with a big stinger as a tail. I would expect such reaction.

Perhaps we'll get the rest of the story before LibertarianVirgo gores and stings the twin.

i swear

if i hear two faced and gemini in the same sentence again....

the shit really does start to get OLD

lol, Moro, other Gems .. I wouldn't worry about it.

Look at it this way ... so, this woman said, yet, again that Gemini's are two-faced, right? Well, why exactly did she say it?

"Oh, and sooooo nice to my face."

So, in other words ... this Gem was obvious saying something behind her back, while being nice to her face, right?

Well .. what do you think she has done here?

She's saying things behind his back, isn't she? And, since this is her work place she's referring to ... I'd warrant that once she left here, (talking behind his back) .. that she was nice to his face, because she wouldn't want to have herself look out of control at work.

So, in essence ... she was being two-faced.

Don't you just love hypocracy? It's great ...........

hmmm...

I'm content with my sign

the stereotypical mumbo jumbo about geminis gets really sickening mainly because its never anything good

I mean, you will find two-faced people everywhere you go...

lol, I think it's hilarious .. this being two-faced, to tell you the truth.

I mean .. if I thought you were a srawny bitch, would you really want me to say it to your face?


NO

So wtf?


To your face .... you want them to verbalize the good things they think of you, NOT the bad, lol

I am a gemini and I have no problems saying something to someone face whether it hurts their feelings or not. At least I wont be a shit talker or (TWO FACED) as they say.......

WE ARE NOT TWO FACED OF YOU GAVE HIM/HER TIME THEY WOULD HAVE SAID IT TO YOUR FACE......

With or without a guilty look.......

Sometimes the truth hurts GET OVER IT...

AND I know people who are not geminis and they are two faced. My best friend is a virgo and she talks shit about alot of people but is nice to their face... And she is the biggest lier I know. But its always the twins that get that name.. Nice.

Alright, I finally made it back here to dxp. There are many things I have to add and/or reply to.

Let me start with the title "two-faced gemini's." I actually had no idea that you guys (gemini's) have been accused of this repeatedly, here or anywhere else on this planet. The gemini world of dxp is not a place I have visited regularly, or even once prior to this post. I posted my problem here to vent as explained and also to gain insight on the gemini mind. Of course, other insights of my post are welcomed. One of my best friends is a gemini and I love her to death. She also has a moon in taurus and a scorpio rising like myself. That could explain why we get along so well. I also have a double gemini sister. She has a gemini sun & gemini rising. We have had our problems in the past growing up, but as adults get along just fine.

My apologies to anyone who got offended by the title.

Now to move on to more specific details. This coworker of mine is definitely a walking human of contradictions. I like how it was stated "dual of nature." He is exactly that. But in the world of virgo and some other humans, playing with someone's reputation at work is a HUGE no-no. I am very competent at what I do. He appears to have either low self esteem, is intimidated by me or is afraid of losing his job. Whatever the case, he is barking up the wrong bitch. What did he do you ask? It is hard to explain my technical job as an engineer to someone who does not know it. But he basically accused me of "having intentions of changing digital information" and "not being respectful." LoL! Yes, I laugh at this now. The digital information he thinks I might change (which I will not nor have I ever intended to), is loaded onto a memory card. If he is really concerned about it all he has to do is reload the information. And 2nd, he thinks I was being disrespectful simply because I asked a couple of questions. There are usually two reasons I ask questions at work. Curiosity and to learn. That is it. He has also made technical errors and then tried to pass the buck to me. Wrong move.

"He appears to have either low self esteem, is intimidated by me or is afraid of losing his job. Whatever the case, he is barking up the wrong bitch."




How dare him question you.

That's the problem. He did not question me. He questioned to others about me. Most gemini's I know avoid confrontation. He should have simply asked me. That was all he had to do to get straight answers and resolve things peacefully. But no, he made accusations about me behind my back. The first thing I did was confront him to his face. He was stunned that I had the courage to do such a thing. And probably embarrassed of his actions as well.

I mean .. if I thought you were a srawny bitch, would you really want me to say it to your face?

YES YES YES - Would you rather say it to other people? Why think one thing then say another? Why not just be yourself? Do you lie when someone asks you for an honest opinion?

P-Angel,

Do you really think I care if I piss you off? Of course you already know the answer to this. After all of the intensive studies you have done on -virgo-, you already know that I do not care what you think or how you feel. Are you still working on a PhD in Virgo? Keep working on it. LOL

And about guilt & remorse. When I feel guilty or remorseful about something, I will take those feelings direct to the source. He did not apologize, so he must not be feeling that guilty or remorseful. Maybe the look on his face was "oops, I'm busted" instead. Yep, after analyzing this further, I see he is not happy about getting busted on his invalid actions.

"LibratarianVirgo .. you sure have a way of pissing me off. It just seems to happen that way, time and time again, by how ignorant you are to what's really the truth."

-> "Grumpy."

So true. I recall reading a posting PAngel had written about not having sex with her husband for many years but yet he is still there. Maybe if she got laid she wouldn't have so much pent up aggression built up.

"I will take those feelings direct to the source"


Such as we see here ..


"Having to hold my emotions in at work I came here to vent."

"I see he is not happy about getting busted on his invalid actions."

How dare him inquire with other people whether they believe you are competent or not in your job .. afterall, you ARE a Virgo.

Geeeeez .. stupid Gemini's !!!!!

"Such as we see here .. "

Yes indeed. My feelings about his actions were directly confronted as previously stated. Is english your second language? I posted my situation here on dxp to vent my initial anger and to seek knowledge on the gemini mind. Once again, previously stated.

He did not "inquire" about my competency, he made accusations against me. If you correctly read and comprehended the facts stated P-Angel, you would not make such errors.

The thread title has already been explained. The reason I posted my story here has already been explained. The first thing I did at work in response to his bs was to confront him face-to-face... please read again.

Is moro short for moron?

Oh, and I was perfectly "leveled" when I made that response to p-angel. Nor was there anything "pornographic" and/or "un-lady" like about it. There is nothing wrong with using sex for stress relief. Of course, it's good for all kinds of things. Love, connection, intimacy, stress or just for simple relief! If that makes me "not being a lady", then so be it. LOL

who can say what is bad or good. I have not killed any 1 yet.🙂

LibertarianVirgo,

First, I hate that you had an altercation with a coworker. I fully understand that you couldn't go off on him (adults must act like adults if they are professionals) and needed to vent, and there's nothing wrong with using DXP to relieve the stress.

Second, I don't see you as an anti-Gemini bigot. I got the point of Your Thread in your opening sentence: "I had a run in with a co-worker (male gemini) who is the biggest two-faced, lying dirt-bag ever!" A particular Gemini male you work with is a two-faced lying bastard who tried to shift the blame for his screw-up on to you. I don't read that as a blanket statement that ALL GEMs are two-faced -- only the title of your thread could be interpreted that way. And that is incorrect. Not all GEMs are two-faced.

However, my limited experience with GEMs outside of DXP has been mainly negative. GemFox and some of the DXP GEMs are nice, and I get along fine with them. But the GEMs I've worked with could not be trusted - I've written before that a particular GEM female flirts with me and other men WAY TOO MUCH for a Married Woman.

Third, P-Angel wouldn't know The Truth if it bit her on the ass. Her record of flip-flops and outright deceptions on DXP are well known - even if conveniently ignored by her and her fans. (I'm still waiting on those Federal Marshals she claims to have contacted to show up at my door!) You are right to disregard her flatulent posts.

Fourth, based on our planets, you and I are practically astrological twins of different mothers! I understand your reaction to this lying sack of sh1t. I don't treat my coworkers that way, and I'm sure you don't either. You're an engineer, I'm a network analyst. We both work in worlds of facts, and we have a respect for pure data, but unfortunately there are plenty of others who don't have that same regard for objectivity. Most of the time, if I'm dealing with other IT folks, I have no problems; but, when I have to interact with the non-IT managers, bureaucrats, and politicians in my organization, I find the finessing, and outright lying repulsive.

Fifth, though misspelled, the word hypocrisy has been raised. Isn't it interesting that with all the Virgo-bashing on DXP, many threads and posts going on & on that ALL VIRGOS are this-and-that, ALL VIRGOS act like such-and-such, when a Virgo criticizes a Sign, the Virgo is suddenly a hypocrite?!

Amazing! And sad.

Finally, I don't recall you ever creating a thread like this one before, and I would hope that my fellow DXP'ers would take that into account. You're upset, and needed to let off some steam, and plenty of others have done the same. You stirred the pot, and some of the sludge on the bottom rose up, but it'll settle back down again. But you also got us talking about lots of stuff - the whole point of a web forum...

Cool!

Hope you can right the wrong at work.

~DyarStra?e

Libertanvirgo, I don't care if you listen to this or not, anyway revenge only brings about more anger, True forgivness is the path that disolves anger and hate. Yea easier said than done but like anyhting it takes practice.

or punch a brick wall....

*sticks a fork in this thread*

Where's the love lol. I'm a Virgo lady and I love Gem guys/ladies. Although they always found a way to backstab me, I always find a way to forgive them. Maybe its my aqua moon and gem mars.

Posted by Msboop01
Where's the love lol. I'm a Virgo lady and I love Gem guys/ladies. Although they always found a way to backstab me, I always find a way to forgive them. Maybe its my aqua moon and gem mars.

LMAO @ your attempt to "like" us yet negate that with your last statement.

@gemstar05, lol I'm just saying I accept geminis the way they are, flaws and all 😉

Lmaooo this is so funny! Typical Gemini, never can admit when they're wrong or flawed. Virgos known for being two-faced, I think not. If I had a nickel for every time someone says a Gemini is two faced, I'll be rich. Cut the shit!!

Not two faced. Two minds. You just jellyyyy of em girl!

Well the Virgos I've known were a bit different, I had a colleague at university which was nice but too self-centered and having a conversation with her was impossible because she didn't cared at all about other people issues (strange for a virgo) and my ex girlfriend was one of the best Virgos I've ever met, smart, funny and a terrific friend but but a day without criticizing and judging something wasn't a day for her and at the same time she had this two faces I just hated she used to be a completely different person in different situations like when we were alone or when she was with her family or my family and always wanted to look like the "perfect girl" to others. She is a great girl and I admire her a lot yeah but I hate this in people because I'm the exact same person with the same qualities and flaws around everybody.

Funny guy, I believe all can be two faced. but from what I see and in life we are the type to be two faced to your face. we show both when others show one side. it will only leave others stunned and only comeback is "they will get what they deserve". lol like before, I tell people. don't hate me because your inadequate and intimidated.

Posted by nunogil
Well the Virgos I've known were a bit different, I had a colleague at university which was nice but too self-centered and having a conversation with her was impossible because she didn't cared at all about other people issues (strange for a virgo) and my ex girlfriend was one of the best Virgos I've ever met, smart, funny and a terrific friend but but a day without criticizing and judging something wasn't a day for her and at the same time she had this two faces I just hated she used to be a completely different person in different situations like when we were alone or when she was with her family or my family and always wanted to look like the "perfect girl" to others. She is a great girl and I admire her a lot yeah but I hate this in people because I'm the exact same person with the same qualities and flaws around everybody.

I guess I can say I was a different person around my parents then when im around my friends. But who isn't. I'm a critical person, something that I try to work on everyday. Sometimes I sit back and anazlye my day, typical virgo lol. I noticed that things is gonna be the same with or without my critical opinion. So why bother and worry. But again, I am only human, I am flawed. It happen to be that one of my flaws is being critical. Sometimes I can curve it, sometimes I can't. But now that I'm dealing with a Gemini man, I find myself controlling it more because I see that it upsets him. But he can b just as critical as me sometimes.

Posted by OdeeStayflo
Funny guy, I believe all can be two faced. but from what I see and in life we are the type to be two faced to your face. we show both when others show one side. it will only leave others stunned and only comeback is "they will get what they deserve". lol like before, I tell people. don't hate me because your inadequate and intimidated.

Ya damn right, geminis the type to steal ya money and help you look for it lmao smh. Mostly the females, I find them to b on the evil side. The men is different

i have to say this forum made me crack up. good entertainment for the night that is FHO SHO YO.
This can truly help behavior profiling. Get alll the gemini's in the system and interrogate them where da money at.