Virgo-Gemini Compats

Virgo man here, married to Gemini woman. I know we're not compatible but I do love her n she's mother of my 2 kids. However is it a trait in Gemini women to whine and complain about everything? Every ache and pain, everytime I move, to kids? Are Gemini women this dramatic? I feel a breaking point coming on, where I cant deal with her anymore! It's very taxing! My efforts to make things better are worthless. Can you Gemini's help me understand my Gemini?

Why?

Hey!

Gemini here with tons of Virgo placements, so I hear you...

What are here other placements?

I don't complain, only very rarely... and I have gem friends who doesn't do that neither... but I can tell you that we can get very annoying when we are bored, like mentally bored... is she into any hobbies?? We create drama when we are bored... heck I do!

@Tete how do I respond to each persons question so my answers or response isn't out of order? New to this site.

Posted by Virgone
@Tete how do I respond to each persons question so my answers or response isn't out of order? New to this site.

Just quote.... that's a very Virgo thing to worry about —?

I'm a Gemini woman and I am dating a Virgo man.

Gemini women can be bossy sometimes, but I dont know about the whining thing. I never have did that. Maybe that is why me and my Virgo get along so well. I like the fact that he gives me my distance and free time alone and he is not suffocating. He is more outgoing than me and it is very dominant. Which I was surprised about that.

Don't know her placements? Don't want to ask her either! She thinks astrology stuff is dumb n cheesy. She's extremely talented n creative tho, she can paint like no other even sold a few for big money. But she got bored of it which bummed me out. Now she's getting into sewing. She focuses alot on our kids, money n me. Which is smothering. My kids, money n myself are not a issue but she creates issues with all 3. Very doom n gloom! N I'm just sitting there like "why?"

Posted by LittleStar
I vent just to get the emotions out. I think men think they have to fix things, but I'm really just wanting to express myself and move on.

If it's a constant habit, you may mention that it seems like she's been unhappy and ask her what she thinks is leading to the complaints.

I ask her all the time about her unhappiness. N she gets very offended n says she's totally happy which is frustrating n argument/fight begins! I'm not trying to fix, I'm tryin to work with her. There's no winning.

Posted by Vageenka
Hmm. Doom and gloom...

What are her other placements?

But yes, we Gems can be complainers

I don't know her placements? Barely know mine? I'm new to astrology

Posted by -Flo-
How old are you?

Why?

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Posted by Virgone

Posted by -Flo-
How old are you?

Why?

Because I used to know a Virgo man who was with a Gemini woman. He said the same thing you did.

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I'm sure I'm not him but I'm 35

Posted by lady_chatterley
This is an example of how you would find the placements and what it could tell you.

To get her placements you just have to know her birth date, including time of birth, and where she was born. You don't have to ask her if she knows her placements. 🙂

I dated a Gemini and he was nitpicky too, but the problem wasn't usually the stuff he complained about--it was about something else and he was just venting through nitpicking rather than addressing the real problem. He lacked assertion, so he was passive aggressive. (Think his Mars was squared Chiron.) He was insecure and vindictive, or maybe he just felt like he needed to "even" things out or make things fair, since he was Libra rising. He had a fire moon and loved to argue. Venus and Mars were in Cancer--he was shy and sensitive.

Yeah, she's very insecure and sensitive. I could make another attempt at finding her placements. However, I still dont understand all the planet stuff?

I can't stand whining/complaining and I can't really say that sounds like a Gemini trait. What's her Moon Sign?

Posted by Virgone

Posted by lady_chatterley
This is an example of how you would find the placements and what it could tell you.

To get her placements you just have to know her birth date, including time of birth, and where she was born. You don't have to ask her if she knows her placements. 🙂

I dated a Gemini and he was nitpicky too, but the problem wasn't usually the stuff he complained about--it was about something else and he was just venting through nitpicking rather than addressing the real problem. He lacked assertion, so he was passive aggressive. (Think his Mars was squared Chiron.) He was insecure and vindictive, or maybe he just felt like he needed to "even" things out or make things fair, since he was Libra rising. He had a fire moon and loved to argue. Venus and Mars were in Cancer--he was shy and sensitive.

Yeah, she's very insecure and sensitive. I could make another attempt at finding her placements. However, I still dont understand all the planet stuff?

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We can do it for you if you know what time she was born and where (and the date/year of course).

A Gemini woman usually either has her Venus in cancer Gemini or Taurus.. if her Venus is in Cancer or Taurus you two are very compatible in love.

I'm not a complainer! However, if there is something unresolved, I might throw it out there at the worst moment. 😢 My most dominant placements are Scorpio and Virgo, so I'm not a typical Gem. I can't stand complaining, I was just getting onto my kids about this topic.