Why so indecisive

Profile picture of Wineaux15
Wineaux15
@Wineaux15
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 65 · Posts: 1066 · Topics: 13
Hey DXP! It's been a while! I got my one bff on here that I text daily and stopped coming!



Anywho, I'm back for serious advice. So I'm dating a Gem. I never thought I'd be attracted to one, but I am so in love. We have only been dating a few months, but we connected instantly.

Anyway, here is the issue. When we first started dating we were inseparable. Now he's been extremely indiscive. I want to say it's because one day he mentioned he wanted a relationship, but I said let's be friends for a while. But I'm not sure that is what it is for sure.

For those seasoned DXP vets know the past yeae has been hard for me by losing my sister and going through a divorce, so I didn't want to rush anything emotionally. But once I decided he was the one for me, and expressed my feelings, after he asked how I felt, he got quiet and backed off. Should I leave him alone for good? Should I just be quiet and observe what he will do? I want him fully to be mine, but don't know how to make him mine! I'm so sad and confused. I only want him.
Profile picture of Gemalit
Gemalit
@Gemalit
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 358 · Topics: 40
Yeah I’m curious about that... I think peoples say Leo’s are the most prideful but I actually think it’s geminis, we’re usually full steam ahead when we like someone and then if we get set back it’s almost like someone’s hit us across our head and we’re stumbling about not sure what to do. So you may have set him back and as a result he’s cooled down towards you, however it could easily be solved by SHOWING you care, weird little things like mentioning small things he’s interested in, or just good morning messages and sweet dreams texts. Maybe even phone calls?

As for him dating other girls....Gemini’s LOVE games.... they say Gemini’s aren’t jealous but that’s far from true, we just don’t show we are 😩. But maybe beat him at his own game (but subtle, like mearely talking to a lot of guys in front of him but not actual dating them as he’d probs take you dating other guys as a complete rejection). But a little jealousy isn’t bad. Either way good luck