My First Boyfriend. . Back Again. . Again.

This topic was created in the Leo forum by AquariusKiTTy on Thursday, April 19, 2018 and has 11 replies.

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@AquariusKiTTy
8 Years

My first (and only) ex is back. Zachery. he has abit of emotional problems at the moment and i don't know what to exactly do to make him feel better, i gave him some advice but won't lighten up, hes just keeps saying "im not comfortable with anyone" or "idk what to write about" when i told him to write in a notebook about his feelings and to talk to someone hes comfortable with. what do i do?

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Posted by AquariusKiTTy
My first (and only) ex is back. Zachery. he has abit of emotional problems at the moment and i don't know what to exactly do to make him feel better, i gave him some advice but won't lighten up, hes just keeps saying "im not comfortable with anyone" or "idk what to write about" when i told him to write in a notebook about his feelings and to talk to someone hes comfortable with. what do i do?

Just make sure he's not trying to manipulate you in any way. You can offer suggestions here and there but don't let his sorrow consume your energy.

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@Chuckcem
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Posted by AquariusKiTTy
My first (and only) ex is back. Zachery. he has abit of emotional problems at the moment and i don't know what to exactly do to make him feel better, i gave him some advice but won't lighten up, hes just keeps saying "im not comfortable with anyone" or "idk what to write about" when i told him to write in a notebook about his feelings and to talk to someone hes comfortable with. what do i do?

What should you do about what? Is there backstory that's missing here?

Really think, do you want your ex back if he has emotional problems? The unfortunate truth is that you can't fix him. He comes back again and again because you allow it. There is nothing wrong with loving a person from afar so that they can fix themselves.

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@AquariusKiTTy
8 Years

you people are lucky back in the day, sadly tech has taken control now haha but yea im just going through my worst teenage years, should lighten up . . i hope 🙂

Posted by Lioness18881
High school drama sounds intense. So glad we didn't have social media and hardly anyone had mobile phones in my day. You're 16, life shouldn't be this complicated.

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by AquariusKiTTy
yes he is single, he asked if i was single when he texted me back, almost right off the bat lol hes a year younger than me but a grade ahead

Normally I would say set us up, but I’m getting the impression y’all are underage so nevermiiiind. Good luck girl.