ignoring and making jealous are games though aren't they? One, I don't want to play games, and two, that would be spending time on her. The only thing I would even think about doing now, is if I see her at the club and she comes over and tries to dance around me or something, trap her between myself and the wall, kiss her, and then tell her to fuck off. I said fuck because I want to see what dxp does when you say it.
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BANINI YOU REMEMBER ME? you did nothing I said, I said never call her again you did the opposite. I DO NOT AGREE WITH THE CHASE WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES POST by someone on her. Forget her SERIOUSLY, what happened to the girl at the mall or the leo girl? Did you give up on them because they were too into you and you like a challenge because of this libra? You say you call her to be an ass, well that isnt being an ass, thats being a deaf person. I was just in your shoes too a lil while ago. If you were playing games by ignoring her and makin her jealous you wouldnt have called her in the first place. That shows your thinking about her and she could easially have you with the snap of a finger. You need to have some dignity and not put so much attention into these people, make them WORK to please you, Keep them guessing (this only works on usually new people you meet) You cant keep flipfloping back and forth other wise they will think your insane. I know your a leo with a big ego but seriosuly dude go to a club and never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never ever call her again. (Do you need that in spanish?) just checking. Meet someone new and keep them guessin..
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_300/350_relationship_expert.html<BR>
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_300/342_relationship_expert.html<BR>
read these 2 articles banini especially the first one they are similiar to your situation, ok im done
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_300/342_relationship_expert.html<BR>
read these 2 articles banini especially the first one they are similiar to your situation, ok im done
Hehe, thanks skippy. I don't believe she really could have me at the snap of a finger, but I would agree thats what she thinks, and I don't care. The girl at the mall is still there, but only works evenings, and I've worked mornings so I haven't seen her. I may see her on sunday, so I'll give her a flyer for a comedy show and see if she goes. Last time I talked to the leo girl she had health issues, and then I left her a message about a comedy show I was doing, and I haven't heard from her since then. That was like a week ago. That is the state of things.

Doc Love is a complete idiot. I know. I actually debated the man years ago.
I think you annoyed the crap out of this girl Banini. Sorry to say.
I think you annoyed the crap out of this girl Banini. Sorry to say.
Well, I still think she deserved it, and hey, the relationship would probably suck if it was just her giving me a hard time and me annoying her, so why would I want to be in it anyway?
little sparrow, that was just an example on an article i found. These people online all give the same general advice anyways so it doesnt matter who you go too. Hell I could write a book myself. Anywho, Banini, I remember you saying that you dont like those new people because they seem to be so into you... Have you thought about the libra. Why she don't like you? YOUR SO INTO HER HINT HINT, your easy. What i have learned to do is that if I like someone I can really hide it well, Maybe its because I'm a scorpio. You just need to learn to be casual and be emotionally detached in everyday situations. And remember its very likely that if theres drama in the relationship at first there will always be drama no matter what.
I don't remember saying that I wasn't into "the new people" because they were so into me, and if I did say it, I would like to take this opportunity to make it clear that is not true. I do believe (and I mean no offense) that leos tend to not like being given advice by scorpios, and also by taurus' for whatever reason.
dude thats fine but im not the only one saying forget her. So I dont know where your goin with that scorpio gives bad advice thing. I think everyone on this damn forum said forget her and not call her. But you did it anyways and what happened was what we predicted, a shocking wow you really called me and cant take a hint. You called her to piss her off or to punish her for not going out with you or something. I think thats just crazy. Just remember all this sign stuff means nothing. There is more to a person than their sun sign like their moon sign rising all that stuff. You shouldn't judge people by their sun signs or else you are just being shallow. Good Luck, peace.
Okay, well I guess I'm just a huge jerk then. And I don't think scorpios give bad advice, I just don't think it's necessarily the best advice for leos, and thats also a very general statement to make. To me, calling her was something I wanted to do, so I did it, I knew what would happen, it happened, and now it's done. Did I do something bad? I may have, but as far as I know no one was hurt.

Im guessin you actually called....
Yep, you guessed right Lady. Like, I knew exactly what would happen, I just had to prove it to myself maybe. I dunno. Anyway, now the other night her friends saw me at the club, and I was talking to the DJ who they know. I gave him a flyer for an open mic I do, and then they walked over so I just sort of handed them one, and then they started talking to me, and seemed pretty interested in coming to the show. So whatever. Life is so weird. But I've also given flyers to a waitress who is a really strange Aquarius, and the girl at the mall and I don't know what she is, but who cares.
Banini. You've got the right attitude. You're a leo. You wanted something, you went after it. It didn't work out. You wanted it though? You did the right thing then. Chalk it up to experience.
You're the leo right? The best star sign in the zodiac? The stylish social expert who's mr popular. Leos are, i'm pretty sure (this zodiac stuff is a new interest). How do leos get that skill? Experience as well talent. This girl has just made you that bit stronger and more skillful at social skills. A year or two later, you might bump into her and she'll be keen. Oh well, you're on to someone hotter and that passing interest has past. Fortuntely or unfortunately, i doubt you'll care. You'll be on to something new.
Leos are optimists. Leos are the best - let's not forget it, eh.
p.s the lonelyleo is from dating a capricorn. it was hard, nearly impossible for a passsionate and impetuous leo to date a capricorn. They are the strangest nature. It worked out though. That's the good part of going after what you wanted, you're much less likely to miss out on something.
Good man.
You're the leo right? The best star sign in the zodiac? The stylish social expert who's mr popular. Leos are, i'm pretty sure (this zodiac stuff is a new interest). How do leos get that skill? Experience as well talent. This girl has just made you that bit stronger and more skillful at social skills. A year or two later, you might bump into her and she'll be keen. Oh well, you're on to someone hotter and that passing interest has past. Fortuntely or unfortunately, i doubt you'll care. You'll be on to something new.
Leos are optimists. Leos are the best - let's not forget it, eh.
p.s the lonelyleo is from dating a capricorn. it was hard, nearly impossible for a passsionate and impetuous leo to date a capricorn. They are the strangest nature. It worked out though. That's the good part of going after what you wanted, you're much less likely to miss out on something.
Good man.

Alrighty Banini, I figured ya would. Now I'd say go for the aqua gil (yes, i'm bias)...I bet she'll be fun.
Just like a leo...conceited(lonelyleo) with ADD(banini).🙂
Just like a leo...conceited(lonelyleo) with ADD(banini).🙂
This girl (the libra) once told me if I paid her $ 100 we could call it even. I'm assuming that meant she would go on a date with me if I paid her $ 100. What if I actually did it? Or maybe it would be too little too late. Hehe, I know it's like the dumbest idea in the world. I'm not considering it out of desperation, I just think it's a funny idea. It might actually work! Really it popped into my head after reading the secret leo strengths thing where it says "If you have even a modicum of conscience, Leo will turn the tables on you by being so generous, vulnerable and without guile that in spite of yourself, you'll be touched, then moved, then finally defeated by the maddening power of this sign to win your heart." Okay if I made gazillions of dollars, I would do it in a flash, if just to be the biggest A hole ever, but then I wouldn't need to do it, because she's a heartless shallow bitch who would just date me for the money anyway. Okay, the deal would be, I treat her, one night, just spend crazy money on her, and be super generous and whatever no matter what she does and how horrible she is, until she just can't bear it anymore and is won over by my leo powers. Then, if she wants anymore after that one night, she has to treat me to the same.

*shakes head in sadness for banini*
Where is your leo pride banini?!?!?!!?!!!!!
Where is your leo pride banini?!?!?!!?!!!!!
kris, not all libras are the same. the way I see it, the more I spend, the less she's worth, unless she decides she wants to see me again, in which case she must take me out and match me penny for penny. in terms of pride I look at it this way. there's all these girls out there, and yes I'm sure it would be really easy to find one that likes me that I also like that I wouldn't have to pay for a first date. but, I'm not desperate to just have a girlfriend. I'm perfectly happy not having one. for me it's about understanding that this girl has some issues, and perhaps the only way for me to get past her issues is to pay her. I wouldn't be paying her because I feel like I have shortcomings, it would be because she has issues, therefore I don't see it affecting my pride.

I dont get how you've justified this in your head, BUT...dont do it, its not worth your hard earned money...im pretty sure theres a girl out there who'd be with you for free. LOL
Hehehe, well I'm glad it's not just me. I would only do it if I was like giga rich. Maybe one day when I'm famous I'll track her down and blow a fat wad of cash on her, and then I'll be gone. I'll have to be careful not to spend so much that she can't afford to pay me back though. I suppose I could let her finance it.

LOL @ this whole thing....
Kris..."when u were little"...how old are you...?
Banini...whatever.......
Kris..."when u were little"...how old are you...?
Banini...whatever.......

🙂

Your too young to have done something as foolish as that...
This brings to mind the Cable Car by The Fray...
This brings to mind the Cable Car by The Fray...
Why can't I pride myself on my ability to swallow my pride better than anyone else? I tried to contact the leo girl a while ago, but I haven't heard from her in almost a month now. She was having some health issues, oddly enough related to her heart (hmm?). I hope she didn't die or something.
BTW I'm 24, in case anyone was wondering. Haha, you guys can't stand me huh?

LOL...I told you you were adorable, especiallt to be 24 and acting like this....
Maybe try visiting the leo girl
Maybe try visiting the leo girl
I don't know! I really think she may have died though. I'm thinking maybe I should all her to find out, but then if I'm correct, I've attempted to contact her the last two times, and haven't gotten a response. Now how come my pride seems to be working fine here? I can't call her again because I've already done it twice. I think it's really just a different kind of pride though. I think the trick is just to be proud of everything you do, because then you can do anything. Right?
I can't visit her if I don't know where she lives. I mean I know kind of where, but not really. Besides, we only ever hung out once. The rest of the attempted hang outs were botched by other plans, conflicting timeframes, and health problems.

🙂

*hugs for kris*
I've been here. You just never come home. 🙂
I've been here. You just never come home. 🙂

i'm sorry i've been reading this post for quite some time now and everytime i come back there's something new and i just find myself laughing....
i don't understand why you can't just let these girls go. obviously they don't want to be with you, each and every one seems to be dissapearing for months, one girl is having health issues, the other wants you to pay her, you just sound so eager to be in a relationship i don't think your really letting your brain do the thinking...
i don't know i may be wrong...but it's just my personal opinion.
i don't understand why you can't just let these girls go. obviously they don't want to be with you, each and every one seems to be dissapearing for months, one girl is having health issues, the other wants you to pay her, you just sound so eager to be in a relationship i don't think your really letting your brain do the thinking...
i don't know i may be wrong...but it's just my personal opinion.
whoaitznara, haha, I'm not really eager to be in a relationship. I mean, it would be cool, but like I said a few posts earlier, I'm fine not being in one. It's just that lately I've met a lot of women that sort of make me want to be in one, with them, and, having never been in one before, I'm trying to learn everything I possibly can. I've become really interested in how it all works, and figuring myself out etc. So it's not desperation, it's just curiosity, and social experimentation.

OMG
PLEASE don't give her money to go out with you! She isn't a prostitute.
*** because she's a heartless shallow bitch who would just date me for the money anyway.
You don't know that she is a heartless, shallow bitch. Just because she doesn't want to date you doesn't mean she is a bitch. It means she doesn't want to date you.
*** me that I also like that I wouldn't have to pay for a first date.
You should pay. Without question. Don't give $ 100 to take her out. Just pay for the date.
*** I'm perfectly happy not having one. for me it's about understanding that this girl has some issues, and perhaps the only way for me to get past her issues is to pay her.
You completely annoyed the piss out of her. Her issue is she finds you annoying. Her issue is your behavior.
I think your sense of entitlement is putting a damper on your romantic life.
PLEASE don't give her money to go out with you! She isn't a prostitute.
*** because she's a heartless shallow bitch who would just date me for the money anyway.
You don't know that she is a heartless, shallow bitch. Just because she doesn't want to date you doesn't mean she is a bitch. It means she doesn't want to date you.
*** me that I also like that I wouldn't have to pay for a first date.
You should pay. Without question. Don't give $ 100 to take her out. Just pay for the date.
*** I'm perfectly happy not having one. for me it's about understanding that this girl has some issues, and perhaps the only way for me to get past her issues is to pay her.
You completely annoyed the piss out of her. Her issue is she finds you annoying. Her issue is your behavior.
I think your sense of entitlement is putting a damper on your romantic life.

The classy thing to do is to pay for the girl before the cheque even comes to the table. In fact, doing that is very sexy and aggressive.
I think most of us would have moved past this or at least tried too. Poor Banini. There is someone better for you out there.
I think most of us would have moved past this or at least tried too. Poor Banini. There is someone better for you out there.
Hmmmmfff... 😢
I suppose thats true... Okay most of the time I'm perfectly happy being single, but occasionally, like right now, I suddenly feel really depressed because I feel like everyone else can have the girl I want except for me, and it's all because of some idea or way of thinking that I just don't understand, and I'm 24, so it's like, when am I ever going to figure this out so that when I meet girls that I want they don't slip away? And I'm sure it makes me look insane because most of the time I really don't care at all, and then I have these occasional emotional swings.
I suppose thats true... Okay most of the time I'm perfectly happy being single, but occasionally, like right now, I suddenly feel really depressed because I feel like everyone else can have the girl I want except for me, and it's all because of some idea or way of thinking that I just don't understand, and I'm 24, so it's like, when am I ever going to figure this out so that when I meet girls that I want they don't slip away? And I'm sure it makes me look insane because most of the time I really don't care at all, and then I have these occasional emotional swings.
See, and they only last a few moments. I feel really happy now, and probably will for the rest of the week. WTF.

Banini
Part of it is the mythology of popular culture. Not everyone gets the person they want.
I am not sure if you have seen the Kraft Dinner commercial where there are two guys in a hot tub surrounded by beautiful women that probably wouldn't give them the time of day in real life. Unfortunately, as a society, we are bombarded by an under comment that any guy can get any girl because there is a shortage of men. Look at all the fat slobs in sitcoms with the thin beautiful wife.
The truth is that isn't how it works.
Sorry for the rant. It just bothers me.
Part of it is the mythology of popular culture. Not everyone gets the person they want.
I am not sure if you have seen the Kraft Dinner commercial where there are two guys in a hot tub surrounded by beautiful women that probably wouldn't give them the time of day in real life. Unfortunately, as a society, we are bombarded by an under comment that any guy can get any girl because there is a shortage of men. Look at all the fat slobs in sitcoms with the thin beautiful wife.
The truth is that isn't how it works.
Sorry for the rant. It just bothers me.

I wish you lived closer. I could observe you and tell you what you are doing wrong.
I could make a video...
It really isn't about looks. I don't know if "it doesn't work that way" when it comes to other things as well, but really, I see all kinds of beautiful women walking around and I'm like, so what? For me it's all about energy and how I feel around the girl as a result of that energy. Thats what makes me want the ones I want. I'm not really sure how to describe it better. It's also sort of an energy reflection. It makes me feel similar to the way I feel when I look in the mirror, or when I'm lying in bed and I'm all nice and warm. Is that weird?
It really isn't about looks. I don't know if "it doesn't work that way" when it comes to other things as well, but really, I see all kinds of beautiful women walking around and I'm like, so what? For me it's all about energy and how I feel around the girl as a result of that energy. Thats what makes me want the ones I want. I'm not really sure how to describe it better. It's also sort of an energy reflection. It makes me feel similar to the way I feel when I look in the mirror, or when I'm lying in bed and I'm all nice and warm. Is that weird?

Not weird at all, thats really nice actually. BUT why is it always the "wrong" women giving you these feelings....
Well they're not necessarily the wrong ones. Call it like of pride if you want, but I seriously think I do some things that are not attractive without really thinking about it, because I just don't know any better. Then again, if a girl was the right one, or one of the right ones, or whatever, she would probably like me despite any unattractive things I did. Or not. I don't know. Shouldn't my leo magnetism insure that I have a large selection of interests to choose from? Maybe it's broken.

Do you lack experience in dating and or getting dates?
***Do you lack experience in dating and or getting dates?
Uh, yeah.
Uh, yeah.

Well this explains it ALL. Start slow and gradually move on to the "too hot to handle" girls...
What is starting slow? Would it be good to just have a bunch of friends that are girls?

hehee 🙂
Good Idea Bling.
But my idea was make A friend who is a girl and try and date her. FOCUS on one girl at a time, if its possible for you.
Good Idea Bling.
But my idea was make A friend who is a girl and try and date her. FOCUS on one girl at a time, if its possible for you.

she would probably like me despite any unattractive things I did.
Untrue. Depending on what you are doing you can turn off a girl who is actually attracted to you. Do NOT try to annoy her. You will just turn off any attraction she has. So many young guys think this is the way to go. Alas, it is not.
Untrue. Depending on what you are doing you can turn off a girl who is actually attracted to you. Do NOT try to annoy her. You will just turn off any attraction she has. So many young guys think this is the way to go. Alas, it is not.
I think I tend to annoy people as a defense when they try to make fun of or talk trash about me. I thought it was fun...

Uuuuhhh NO! Your a comedian your combeacks should be enough...no need to go over board.
BTW are you any good at comedy, because that should be helping you out in the date department. Just asking....
BTW are you any good at comedy, because that should be helping you out in the date department. Just asking....
Yeah I'm hella good, what are you talking about? I have a really different style , so I don't really do comebacks. If someone heckles me, I pretend to take what they say seriously, and debate about why they're wrong. Then if they try to tell me a joke, I break it down, and analyze it, the whole time acting like I don't get it because it doesn't make sense. Thats what I did with the libra too.

Nice, i like your style . So what makes you so annoying...besides what we see on DXP?
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