Do Leo men come back?

Short and sweet. He left me (An Aries woman). Completely lashed out after the break up. Once I stopped contacting him, he messaged me a few times arguing with me. After sending me hurtful messages, he claimed he still has feelings for me and loves me. Should I wait it out, and see if he comes back?

I just want to point out the obvious that you can have strong feelings for someone, even love them, and not want to be in a relationship with them.

Posted by tvljvh
Short and sweet. He left me (An Aries woman). Completely lashed out after the break up. Once I stopped contacting him, he messaged me a few times arguing with me. After sending me hurtful messages, he claimed he still has feelings for me and loves me. Should I wait it out, and see if he comes back?

If he's still talking to you, he's still interested. Just give him some space to calm down. Call him out if he becomes disrespectful though. Don't let the argument become disrespectful for either of you.

As a Leo female, I can tell you this. I am quick tempered and can pick up fights very easily. I don't disrespect someone and don't let anyone get away with disrespecting me - if they attempt to, I'd go to any extent to make them feel bad. I demand that I be given what I give someone.

Yes, if I cool down and then come back to you, it means that I was only mad but that doesn't mean that I hate you or it's over. During this phase, when I get back, if someone is gonna act like they don't care, that's it. Ignoring is disrespect here, and the person, no matter how much I used to love them, would easily be thrown out of my mind!

The world is so big and I have so much to give and so much love in me. Why would I waste it over someone who doesn't see my love's value?

We haven't talked in about a week. Should I initiate contact first?

Posted by tvljvh
We haven't talked in about a week. Should I initiate contact first?

Hahaha I haven't spoken to my Leo in a week either haha

Posted by tvljvh
We haven't talked in about a week. Should I initiate contact first?

Try sending something gentle and subtle, like, "Hey, hope you are doing good. I'm kinda good but had a tiring day... Thought of you, so I thought I'll ping you. TC. "

Switch off your phone and go off to sleep. His response will tell you the answer. 🙂

Don't sound pushy!

Posted by Mark-23

Posted by tvljvh
We haven't talked in about a week. Should I initiate contact first?

Hahaha I haven't spoken to my Leo in a week either haha

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Same here!

Has anyone initiated contact with their Leo ex first after a break from talking? And was it successful?

Haha, men who have claimed to have loved me and say that they still do love me come back - days later, weeks later, months or even years later. But I've never gone back to any of them.

When they do come back, I just give them the gentle, "I'm sorry. I'm helpless and can only accept you as a friend (meaning a distant, not-close friend" smile.

I'm confident that I've never wronged any of those I've ever loved without them acting rude/irresponsible/cheap/mean to me! In that case, why must a Leo give up their loveable pride?

My friends tell me that those guys are the losers, but I don't even nod to such words - by nodding and by agreeing, I might hurt those guys who are miles away. See? I can be kind, really kind, but never foolish to let someone exploit me. (The world hardly ever understands the kind side, but call us 'egotistic' and I couldn't care less.)