Aries Dating A Leo. HELP. I Think My Leo is Mad At ME.

Im a Aries woman thats in a long distance relationship with a Leo man. Be mindful please I am 23 he is 18 years old. We started dating like 2 weeks ago. Our relationship was going so freaking good. My Leo and I apparently we fell in love. Its like our attraction to one another made us in love. I can see myself with him for good he said the same thing. We was talking about marriage, sharing our dreams and goals. He even asked me if he can spend time with me on Halloween and on Thanksgiving and Christmas basically he wants to spend all his holidays with me instead of his family because he doesnt get along with his family. I said yes. We even spoke about a promise ring he aid he wil get me one and telling me how he cant wait to hold me etc. But, 2 nights ago... my leo partner told me that his friend was telling him about a polymagrous relationship. My leo lover had told me that he was curious about being in one. As me being a Aries that I am I am very protective over my relationship. I refuse to share him with another woman. I had explained that to him. SO we did have a HUGE DISAGREEMENT about the idea of the polymagorous relationship. I told him I love him and that he's scaring having me thinking he's going to leave me. He told me he's not. I then told him im going to bed because he did hurt my feelings. Especially when he said that he is opened to new things. I dont know if he broke up with me or what because I've called him twice and texted him a lot of times. I get no response. Now today going on day 3 since I last spoke to him. I really dont want our elationship to be over because I told him No to the idea of the polymagrous relationship. I dont understand a leo when they get rejected. What can I do to get my leo to talk to me? What is going through a leo when they get rejected?

P.S. SORRY FOR THE MISSSPELLING.

Leos don't like to get rejected. It hurts our ego that something didn't go right as we planned. Ignore him. Polygamy is something that is frowned upon in the USA. In a country like somewhere in the middle-east it is a sort of status thing if you had more then one wife. Where is he from? If you don't mind sharing that detail.

m new this forum so excuse me lol. I made another post btw.

He is from chicago. So america. and I was explaining him that polyamy isnt safe nor is it right. Since then I've been ignored like I dont exist to him. It does hurt me alot. But like you said ignore him. But why ignore him? will he realized he was dumb for that and come back to me?

lol we can talk on this post.

Posted by KandR
m new this forum so excuse me lol. I made another post btw.

He is from chicago. So america. and I was explaining him that polyamy isnt safe nor is it right. Since then I've been ignored like I dont exist to him. It does hurt me alot. But like you said ignore him. But why ignore him? will he realized he was dumb for that and come back to me?

lol we can talk on this post.

If he's mad, then ignore him. Cut him off and don't bother. If he won't respect your opinion, then he's done for. All for the best. As for him realizing he is dumb. Not for a long time. His opinions are part of his ego.

Hm I signed up just to ask you why an 18 year old?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hm I signed up just to ask you why an 18 year old?

18 years old he legal. he turning 19 soon. No big deal. you do have some guys who are at that age are mature some not.

Posted by leowww
He's 18 and immature.

Sounds like infatuation... 2 weeks... Marriage? Really?

Love already... Alright...

If he's ignoring you because you won't partake in his poly discovery adventure... my advice is to let him go.

He needs to grow up, he's petty and controlling.

the whole "marriage talk" just saying how he can see himself in the future with me basically. but yeah i agree about the petty and controlling. very childish to wanna be mad at me for just saying no to a poly relationship.

Posted by KandR
m new this forum so excuse me lol. I made another post btw.

He is from chicago. So america. and I was explaining him that polyamy isnt safe nor is it right. Since then I've been ignored like I dont exist to him. It does hurt me alot. But like you said ignore him. But why ignore him? will he realized he was dumb for that and come back to me?

lol we can talk on this post.

Okay so first thing is if that is not what you want. Just be friends. Most people aren't into that because of your standards others don't care and have had bad influences

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Posted by KandR
m new this forum so excuse me lol. I made another post btw.

He is from chicago. So america. and I was explaining him that polyamy isnt safe nor is it right. Since then I've been ignored like I dont exist to him. It does hurt me alot. But like you said ignore him. But why ignore him? will he realized he was dumb for that and come back to me?

lol we can talk on this post.

If he's mad, then ignore him. Cut him off and don't bother. If he won't respect your opinion, then he's done for. All for the best. As for him realizing he is dumb. Not for a long time. His opinions are part of his ego.

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Yeah it may hurt me but look like I have to do that because Im not chasing after him all because his freaking ego hurts cause I said no.

He maybe 18 but that is a major red flag dear. Unless you give in.

Posted by Sagsagsags
He likes the idea of you chasing him. Point blank period. Don't feed his ego. It's very toxic to want to have control in a relationship. Control freaks like to do all sorts of mind games and manipulation so they can have the upper hand.

If you want to be a puppet, well go on and chase

If you don't, then stop.

Why?

Having different opinion on polymary should not result in huge fight that leads to a break up. Geezzz men these days ?

Exactly! like why me so mad to where you want to ignore me all because I shut down your opinion to the poly relationship idea. I dont understand that part and thats what pissing me off. He thinks it can work but in reality a poly relationship is very damaging and traumatizing just knowing your partner having sex with multiple women. But he wouldnt like it if another man was having sex with me.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
He maybe 18 but that is a major red flag dear. Unless you give in.

Oh trust me Im not giving into his bullshit. I already reached out trying to talk but he dont want to speak to me right now so its going to be his loss.

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Posted by leowww
He's 18 and immature.

Sounds like infatuation... 2 weeks... Marriage? Really?

Love already... Alright...

If he's ignoring you because you won't partake in his poly discovery adventure... my advice is to let him go.

He needs to grow up, he's petty and controlling.

the whole "marriage talk" just saying how he can see himself in the future with me basically. but yeah i agree about the petty and controlling. very childish to wanna be mad at me for just saying no to a poly relationship.

At 23 yourself you should know how to recognize some red flags by now.

Sure he's legal but he's most likely not in the same mindset as you. Proof is that he wants to explore more than a monogamous relationship.

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That's what people keep telling me at 23 I should Know red flags thing is I grew up differently then people I never really had a boyfriend when I was teenager.

Good get rid, and you can do better. It is so common these days to be in open relationships because usually now most have just gotten divorce or aren't commitment types. You have alot of work ahead and sadly this one isn't the one. Stay strong and keep your chin up. Good luck.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
18 is prime for experimental experience, and you seem alot more mature at 23 than most.

And that means stick to your morals, and values someone is looking for that too somewhere. Lol

lol long distance.

lol 18 and 23

lol the OP is a tard.

Lol at people bashing this dude because he wants something different

Live and learn. Find someone better and move on.

It is different even for her, and she is not going to do it.

Sorry op, I don't think you should take this man too seriously. It's best to just move on. If things were meant to be it will happen down the road.

He is 18. Let him get through college and the early 20's when he will want to party. You went through that already but he hasn't experienced it yet.

My son is almost 16. I'm still yelling at him to do his homework and brush his teeth. I cannot imagine him getting married in 2 years. That woman would be a mommy, not a partner.

Age is just a number but maturity is a whole other factor.