Queenaries2
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Do Leo men test you to see how long you can go without talking to them
Even Leo women have problem digesting compliments fully. I used to reject compliments like telling my friends or guys that they're just being nice to say I look beautiful etc.
I do test the water to see how long a guy can go without texting me, it makes me know if there's a chance I can invest more into the friendship/relationship. I do not want to be come off as too needy since I do have that tendency once I'm interested in someone, be it friends or more.
Hahaha... 2 Leo guys I know recently from Game/Tinder has been doing the same exact thing to me too, I thought if I don't text them for 3 days they would just disappear, but they would just come back a few days and go 'Good morninggggggg, did you miss me?' to test if I would still give them the attention. But if you play these for too long, sooner or later they will find someone else that gives them MORE attention and then they will completely disappear since Leo's can be big flirts in the initial stage. We are always finding that special someone that would give us the most energy, attention and 'love'. 😛
I do test the water to see how long a guy can go without texting me, it makes me know if there's a chance I can invest more into the friendship/relationship. I do not want to be come off as too needy since I do have that tendency once I'm interested in someone, be it friends or more.
Hahaha... 2 Leo guys I know recently from Game/Tinder has been doing the same exact thing to me too, I thought if I don't text them for 3 days they would just disappear, but they would just come back a few days and go 'Good morninggggggg, did you miss me?' to test if I would still give them the attention. But if you play these for too long, sooner or later they will find someone else that gives them MORE attention and then they will completely disappear since Leo's can be big flirts in the initial stage. We are always finding that special someone that would give us the most energy, attention and 'love'. 😛
Posted by MeowpieSo what is your advice? How long should I wait till I hit him up
Even Leo women have problem digesting compliments fully. I used to reject compliments like telling my friends or guys that they're just being nice to say I look beautiful etc.
I do test the water to see how long a guy can go without texting me, it makes me know if there's a chance I can invest more into the friendship/relationship. I do not want to be come off as too needy since I do have that tendency once I'm interested in someone, be it friends or more.
Hahaha... 2 Leo guys I know recently from Game/Tinder has been doing the same exact thing to me too, I thought if I don't text them for 3 days they would just disappear, but they would just come back a few days and go 'Good morninggggggg, did you miss me?' to test if I would still give them the attention. But if you play these for too long, sooner or later they will find someone else that gives them MORE attention and then they will completely disappear since Leo's can be big flirts in the initial stage. We are always finding that special someone that would give us the most energy, attention and 'love'. 😛
I actually like him. His looks, his personality. Very hubby material
Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
Leo or not screw tests and exams. Dump his fucking ass
Posted by Queenaries2Leo FAQ, questions #6 and 7 (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1).
All the Leos I know have done this. But idk it’s only with me
One leo ex told me he didn’t need to talk to his gf all day or even hang with her all day. But after 3 weeks he changed his mind and would talk about marriage (just general talk)
I have seen this with other leo men.
I also notice when you compliment them they ask if you mean it
If a Leo appears to be backing off after appearing interested, it's may be because you either didn't appear as interested or backed off first. Leos want to be wanted by those we like and become hesitant when we think we're being manipulated. Over time (more than likely due to past pain), we learn through to watch people's actions rather than listen to their words.
Since our nature is to reciprocate, we'll basically give you 100% of what you gave us and then some. So if you're warm with a Leo, expect a lot of warmth in return. If you're cold or appear disinterested, then expect the Leo to become scarce. If a Leo can't gauge your interest, we'll pause to see what you do next.
Also know Leos are busy and like our freedom. If we appear to back off, it could be because we have other aspects of our lives to juggle.
Posted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
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I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Test is lot worse than games.
Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
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Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.
Posted by Queenaries2....so then what's the problem exactly?Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
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Posted by Queenaries2They expect you to pass the test.Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewAnd what is the test exactlyPosted by Queenaries2They expect you to pass the test.Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.click to expand
Posted by Lioness18881You're talking about Leo moonPosted by AerialViewSo should we be like Aquarius and expect the other person to initiate all the contact, to be patient with us, to just accept us as we are, to accept our need for space and not give anything in return so they feel unwanted and confused instead?Posted by Queenaries2They expect you to pass the test.Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.
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Posted by Queenaries2How the fuck I know that.Posted by AerialViewAnd what is the test exactlyPosted by Queenaries2They expect you to pass the test.Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.click to expand
I don't know the guy.
Posted by Lioness18881Now you're talking about Aquarius.Posted by AerialViewMy exAqua wasn't like that because of his leo moon. He called me every night. He never ignored me or avoided me. I can call him right now and know 100% he will answer or text saying he's with a customer and will call me back.Posted by Lioness18881You're talking about Leo moonPosted by AerialViewSo should we be like Aquarius and expect the other person to initiate all the contact, to be patient with us, to just accept us as we are, to accept our need for space and not give anything in return so they feel unwanted and confused instead?Posted by Queenaries2They expect you to pass the test.Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.
But look at the Aqua forum... the advice given and the topics people create all have confusing themes. The other person is trying to get advice on what to do because they don't know if the guy likes them. Or they're playing games with the Aqua and manipulating them to keep them. At least we're honest with our intentions. All we want is to be loved back.click to expand
I don't trust those posters. Overly dramatic.
Posted by Lioness18881I'm not a mirror.Posted by AerialViewLol. don't mess with Leos!!!Posted by Lioness18881Now you're talking about Aquarius.Posted by AerialViewMy exAqua wasn't like that because of his leo moon. He called me every night. He never ignored me or avoided me. I can call him right now and know 100% he will answer or text saying he's with a customer and will call me back.Posted by Lioness18881You're talking about Leo moonPosted by AerialViewSo should we be like Aquarius and expect the other person to initiate all the contact, to be patient with us, to just accept us as we are, to accept our need for space and not give anything in return so they feel unwanted and confused instead?Posted by Queenaries2They expect you to pass the test.Posted by AerialViewWhy
Test is lot worse than games.
But look at the Aqua forum... the advice given and the topics people create all have confusing themes. The other person is trying to get advice on what to do because they don't know if the guy likes them. Or they're playing games with the Aqua and manipulating them to keep them. At least we're honest with our intentions. All we want is to be loved back.
I don't trust those posters. Overly dramatic.
I like you guys. But if your kind, want to accuse us of games or tests or whatever, i will fight back and you will feel my wrath. Leo's don't take kindly to criticism 😂
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So you better get used to it 😜
Posted by Lioness18881I think he is starting to back off so I will tooPosted by Queenaries2Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer insteadclick to expand
👌 single forever
Life is so good that way
Posted by Lioness18881Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very shortPosted by Queenaries2What happened?Posted by Lioness18881I think he is starting to back off so I will tooPosted by Queenaries2Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead
👌 single forever
Life is so good that wayclick to expand
And it was taking him a long to to reply
Idk just his energy
So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗
Posted by Lioness18881Idk he didn’t talk to me all day before that, but I think he got a little upset. He said the same thing to me like two hours later when I uploaded one throwback pic lolPosted by Queenaries2Lol. Maybe the selfie comment bruised his ego. You should text him asking for a selfie of him.Posted by Lioness18881Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very shortPosted by Queenaries2What happened?Posted by Lioness18881I think he is starting to back off so I will tooPosted by Queenaries2Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead
👌 single forever
Life is so good that way
And it was taking him a long to to reply
Idk just his energy
So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗click to expand
Posted by Queenaries2Sometimes the best thing do with Leo is to just ask to be on a call. Once on call, just say you miss him and see what he responds with. Usually it'll melt away all the problems we have for you if you just show us you care and we would just start to spill the beans on what irks us or like start talking normally.Posted by Lioness18881Idk he didn’t talk to me all day before that, but I think he got a little upset. He said the same thing to me like two hours later when I uploaded one throwback pic lolPosted by Queenaries2Lol. Maybe the selfie comment bruised his ego. You should text him asking for a selfie of him.Posted by Lioness18881Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very shortPosted by Queenaries2What happened?Posted by Lioness18881I think he is starting to back off so I will tooPosted by Queenaries2Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead
👌 single forever
Life is so good that way
And it was taking him a long to to reply
Idk just his energy
So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗click to expand
Don't play games or spoil the relationship by waiting on each other.
Posted by MeowpieI asked him if I offended him some how lolPosted by Queenaries2Sometimes the best thing do with Leo is to just ask to be on a call. Once on call, just say you miss him and see what he responds with. Usually it'll melt away all the problems we have for you if you just show us you care and we would just start to spill the beans on what irks us or like start talking normally.Posted by Lioness18881Idk he didn’t talk to me all day before that, but I think he got a little upset. He said the same thing to me like two hours later when I uploaded one throwback pic lolPosted by Queenaries2Lol. Maybe the selfie comment bruised his ego. You should text him asking for a selfie of him.Posted by Lioness18881Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very shortPosted by Queenaries2What happened?Posted by Lioness18881I think he is starting to back off so I will tooPosted by Queenaries2Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead
👌 single forever
Life is so good that way
And it was taking him a long to to reply
Idk just his energy
So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗
Don't play games or spoil the relationship by waiting on each other.
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Posted by MeowpieLeos are direct. I second this, just ask him by calling or meeting in person. Leo's don't usually test you by not talking to you. I don't talk to my partners because I am busy with focusing on my projects or another area that requires my attention but that doesn't lessen my feelings for someone. Also, when a Leo is bored/uncertain of someone we don't talk much and if we're upset sometimes they'll give themselves some space because we can impulsively say something we don't necessarily mean. We do have a flair for the dramatic at times.Posted by Queenaries2Sometimes the best thing do with Leo is to just ask to be on a call. Once on call, just say you miss him and see what he responds with. Usually it'll melt away all the problems we have for you if you just show us you care and we would just start to spill the beans on what irks us or like start talking normally.Posted by Lioness18881Idk he didn’t talk to me all day before that, but I think he got a little upset. He said the same thing to me like two hours later when I uploaded one throwback pic lolPosted by Queenaries2Lol. Maybe the selfie comment bruised his ego. You should text him asking for a selfie of him.Posted by Lioness18881Nothing. We would usually always talk all throughout the day. Yesterday barely anything. Around night time I told him he likes to take selfies (snap) and he said sorry. Idk he was very very shortPosted by Queenaries2What happened?Posted by Lioness18881I think he is starting to back off so I will tooPosted by Queenaries2Posted by Lioness18881Yes he does and I don’t. Usually he hits me up first, but I always reply and I’m just as excitedPosted by Queenaries2And is he initiating back? If it's going both ways, you don't need to keep tabs. If it's one sided, there might be an issuePosted by Lioness18881Nope defintely not one wayPosted by Queenaries2If you want to talk to him, talk to him. If he's always the one to initiate, he probably needs to know it's not wasted on someone who isn't interested back.Posted by Lioness18881Should I reach out first? How long should I wait? I do give him a lot of attention tbh and I usually never do that with anyone. But today our convo was dead! :/
Yes. We like to know we are wanted. We hate chasing if it's not reciprocated. If we notice you don't reciprocate, we pull back and wait to see. Whatever you give a leo, you get back with interest. So the more you give, the more you get back. If you show disinterest, we have the ability to ice you out and make you feel like nothing. We prefer to be even and not doing all the work. We get bored and cbf wasting energy on people who play games.
I hit him up asking him what’s wrong. But I tell him how sexy he is all the time lol
Then you can contact him back too. He likes you so it won't scare him off. He'll let you get closer instead
👌 single forever
Life is so good that way
And it was taking him a long to to reply
Idk just his energy
So since he is going from giving me a lot of attention to none I’m moving on. Idc ifs it’s just a day. 🤗
Don't play games or spoil the relationship by waiting on each other.
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If he's not communicating to your level of expectation, tell him (in a very, very nice way), how frequent you'd like to talk to him. When I'd get crazy busy, I would always make sure I'd call them in the morning or at night before bed. But I never go more than a day, maybe two, without talking to someone I'm romantically interested in.
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