Do other kittens really really want the attention?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by agalgalon on Sunday, April 23, 2017 and has 5 replies.

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@agalgalon
14 Years

Used to hang with someone all the time, enjoyed it slightly, he always came to me. He got annoying over time and I thought maybe he got the wrong idea (I'm not interested in him in -that- way. Honest)... Now he stopped but I still see him daily (I think he hangs where I do on purpose - but we don't approach each other)

And now I want him to come to me again. Is that mad? Shall I wait or just make a move myself now?

(I'm Leo. Dunno about him. Mainly wondering if other Leos are like me in this... missing the attention)

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@agalgalon
14 Years

I'll be nice to him. But don't want to give the wrong idea 🙂 Deep down, there's still no interest. I just miss the attention in all honesty

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

You sound selfish. Consider his feelings. He liked you. If you aren't going to respect him, if you're just going to use him, please leave the poor guy alone.

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@agalgalon
14 Years

I am leaving him alone lol I'm not approaching him... I am nice to him when he comes to me. How is that giving him the wrong idea? I just admitted I miss the attention because I started doubting myself thinking it might be something more - but not planning on lying to him. I saw him as a friend... and never tried to make him think of me in any other ways. You can't exactly control how someone sees you. All you can do is stir him in the right direction. But I won't be rude to him when we do talk. I respect him and wish we could just be friends to be honest