How do leo's break up?

I'm just wondering this since I have a tendency to just walk without notice and disappear. Is that a leo trait?

Posted by jsharck
I'm just wondering this since I have a tendency to just walk without notice and disappear. Is that a leo trait?

hell...yes.

ok. I know, its evil to do that but that is how I deal with breakups. I got hurt and don't want to get hurt anymore.

Posted by jsharck
ok. I know, its evil to do that but that is how I deal with breakups. I got hurt and don't want to get hurt anymore.

yeah, but unless the person beat you or your baby...something extreme ya know, we should all try to move to a point where we can have mature break ups. i'm sure we've all had instances where we've done stupid things at the end of a relationship but shouldn't we treat others how we want to be treated?

how would you like it if a girl you cared about abruptly stopped calling/answering/communicating with you? as a leo, i know it'd kill ya right?

point is, you can't control how other people choose to conduct themselves but you can control you. and if you think it's ok to just walk away, remember that when/if it happens to you.

My Leo broke up with me (after 8.5 years) by telling me "I love you but I'm no longer in love with you, I think we should end out relationship". I lived with ehr for another three weeks though within ten days of her telling me it was over she had started to see another guy. These Lions don't mess about! I can laugh about it now but I didn't at the time!!

OUCH!

My leo broke up with me out of the blue! He still wanted to be friends, but I am quite not sure what that means. Is that a way of sparing my feelings so I won't be so hurt and to gradually cut me out of his life? or does that mean he genuinely wants to be my friends. (because the last time we hung out as friends, it was not very friend-like) who knows? haha

Posted by Pr0vs
How do leo's break up?

It depends on the situation.

>>> This is my breakup statement for the real breakup, irrevocable.

'It is not the same intensity as before. I am not in love with you anymore. To stay in this relationship will just do more emotional damage for both of us. I will still be here for you as your friend.'

>>> This is my breakup statement for the not-so-real breakup, revocable, meaning 'Chase me!' dammit.

'I understand....I will let you go and I hope that this new guy you just met will give you the happiness...bla..bla...bla. Goodbye. You won't see me anymore and I will not bother you. Oh btw, Before I go, I would like to leave this song for you so that you will remember me.....bla..bla..bla'

LOL I do this too!! BTW the "chase me" works... 😉

Being friends afterwards? I find that very difficult....time would have to go by before I could just be friends.......it just never feels the same after being intimate/romantic.

As far as breaking up? i could never just walk away and never been seen or heard of again.......it would not be fair to the person who has given you so much of their time and themselves. I find it increasingly difficult to deal with breakups (Im getting better at it though by always making sure there's something/somebody else around the corner)...I will hang on until the very bitter end but the problem is, it always gets very bitter LOL.

I hate being dumped so at all costs, if it simply isnt working it'll be me who does the breaking up.......Leos? who'd be one? LOL

In my case we try and hold on for a while. We hate giving up on the people we love.

But if we feel misunderstood and taken for granted (you hr our pride) we leave to go lick our wounds ...But we do bounce back.

If, it was a messy breakup.Hell no, we can't be friends.

(you hr our pride) ,meant to say you hurt our pride.

And it is all or nothing with us. either you do or you don't.

if it was a real, long-term, committed relationship then i always state my case. if it's a fling or fwb i can easily just take off. not that they aren't my friend still, or that i don't care, but i take the labels seriously i suppose. an NSA is just that and a fwb is still just a friend with or without those benefits.

my taurus fwb got all butt hurt because i did this to him. i still talked to him but, yeah, i discovered my cancer and i was off to greener pastures. after a couple of months of my not really seeing, nor sleeping, with him i finally gave him an in-depth explanation for my actions. i didn't mean any harm and he surely had no problem running with other girls so i didn't think it was a big deal. when i realized he was sad about it is when i broke it down for him.

I usually pick a fight over something stupid and do a runner or just ignore their calls until they get the picture. I have stayed friends with most of my ex's... I don't think i like to push people out of my life completely. I never realised my actions until reading this thread. Thanks for the reality check.

I was married to a Leo and he goes back and forth between extreme bouts of screaming ranting and trying to screw me over and whispering sweet nothings, talking about how we were made for each other and will someday be together again... So I guess I'd prefer the just walk away method many say they do, however what I've experienced with Leo breakups is flip flopping

I tried to hang in there and realized that I deserve MUCH more than 'hanging in there'.

I felt as though he wasn't appreciative of me, didn't respect me-- he loved me, but didn't CARE. I used a week long trip to seriously consider what I told him on the day of our 7th, 'It's been great, but I don't see another 7 years with you.' After about a week of being back, I made a final decision. As he came out of the building he worked in-- I was WAITING for him outside. I told him that I was no longer in love with him, I felt that we lacked progression toward mutual goals & I was done. He reacted with a casual 'I saw this coming' attitude. It was like he was trying to call a bluff that didn't exist. I then told him that I wanted my clothes at that moment & he could keep EVERYTHING else I put into his apartment. It seemed to sink in as I SWEPT through and got my things.

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Posted by Elorina
however what I've experienced with Leo breakups is flip flopping

I wonder what decan does the flip flopping because once we're done, under no circumstance do I go back.

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I've heard that and wondered what the deal was. Mine had a tendency to say things he didn't mean so maybe that's where it comes into play? IDK much about all of that, but does this help, here's his chart:
Sun Leo 10.22
Moon Taurus 25.06
Mercury Virgo 2.49
Venus Virgo 9.30
Mars Cancer 23.13
Jupiter Sagittarius 1.07
Saturn Libra 28.36
Uranus Sagittarius 5.07 R
Neptune Sagittarius 26.48 R
Pluto Libra 26.55
Lilith Aquarius 15.28
Asc node Gemini

(LOL He actually sent it to me to prove we were meant to be together at one point so I'm assuming it's right)

haha I am weak for my Leo, we ended up back together which I suppose is why he was flip flopping, he just wasn't done.