Hey guys! I am a leo with leo in moon! (Yes I know so much leo) lol and the guy is a Gemini man also with leo moon. Anyway I've been having some problems lately. He seems to be distancing himself away but when I ask him about us he says he still wants us to see each other (we are not dating) he never ever texts me first and when I do text him he's always either too busy to talk or he just doesn't seem like he wants to talk. I don't like chasing people. I really like him and I'll only stay if he wants it too. He has told me he likes me too and wants to commit when we get to know each other more (I kinda agree and don't want to rush into it) and I know that he has been busy these days doing assignments. Usually he asks to see me but he kinda stopped, and now when I ask to see him he says he is busy. Yesterday I texted him and he said he was tired so we texted for a bit and yea. I feel that sometimes he's playing mind tricks with me. He also always goes out clubbing and partying and everytime I text him he says his battery is out of charge. This has happened like 10 times. Obviously I dont expect him to text me when he's out clubbing but I atleast need a little of his time 😉 well I was thinking and I don't know if I want to waste my time anymore. Maybe he was flirting with me when we first met because he is a flirt. Ahaa I know we have a special connection but, I literally wait for 3 hours before he replys when we are in a conversation. I've asked him when he's not busy and can talk and he says yea I'm not busy we can talk... Yet he seems busy. Like whattttt. At first I felt a little upset. Any advice?
How to react to a Gemini man?

you are too available to someone that you're not dating. He isn't too busy to party and kick it with his friends.
his actions oblivious is screaming he is not interested. You are leading yourself on stop contacting him first. Date other people and friend zone him.
his actions oblivious is screaming he is not interested. You are leading yourself on stop contacting him first. Date other people and friend zone him.
Ahaha ok guys! Thanks for your advice, he clearly stated that he didn't want me to see other guys as he isn't seeing any other girls so.... Do I tell him to break the strings or what should I do?

You might not like this, but from what you've said it sounds like he could possibly be seeing someone else. It could explain his, quite frankly poor excuses for not talking, replying or making any time for you.
I've had 2 Gemini relationships and I couldn't keep them away. Especially in the beginning of the relationships. Busy or not they always found the time to call, talk and be with me.
Sorry if it's not what you want to hear, I could be wrong but it's a possibility that you might want to consider.
I've had 2 Gemini relationships and I couldn't keep them away. Especially in the beginning of the relationships. Busy or not they always found the time to call, talk and be with me.
Sorry if it's not what you want to hear, I could be wrong but it's a possibility that you might want to consider.
Ahah ok that could be a possibility. I guess I'm just too optimistic.

Posted by Sunnyxoxo
Ahah ok that could be a possibility. I guess I'm just too optimistic.
I'm generally optimistic too, nothing wrong with that, it's a good thing.
Like I said it's just a possibility.
Based on my experience of Geminis of both sexes it Just seems weird that he would behave like that if he really liked you. He almost seems to have cut you off.
I think it's because I kind of stopped hanging out with him as much... Compared to before. I've been having exams and I'm studying hard 🙂

How long has he been behaving like this?
For a week
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