Posted by Leo188881False! My best friends Leo/Leo are happy and I haven’t seen Leos having bad luck in love! Check your other placements and maybe look in a mirror! Just what you see? Do you LOVE IT?
I think we expect fairytales and a love like the movies but reality is stupid. We love big and expect a big love back but no one can love us like we can love them.
Posted by Leo188881❤️❤️❤️Posted by GemitatiPosted by Leo188881False! My best friends Leo/Leo are happy and I haven’t seen Leos having bad luck in love! Check your other placements and maybe look in a mirror! Just what you see? Do you LOVE IT?
I think we expect fairytales and a love like the movies but reality is stupid. We love big and expect a big love back but no one can love us like we can love them.
I have virgo venus and some shitty libra saturn thing. But i love hard and will move the whole world and put my life on the line for someone i love. I would litterally rip my heart out and give it to someone if they prove worthy. But i think it's very hard to find someone worth giving my all to.
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Posted by Leo188881did yu all go on youtube and read waht the commentors are saying?Posted by oxSunQueenxoLol me too but what he says except about us being boring is true.Posted by Leo188881I can't stand this dude. He makes me want to puke.Posted by LeoLoveGoddess
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Moon in Capricorn
Rising sign on Aquarius
I am like a lot of you all that love hard and don't mind showing it to my mate...whats odd is that I seem to attract emotionally unavailable men. Trying to understand why that happens so I can stop it.
He's boring but watch this....
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Posted by Leo188881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Leo188881did yu all go on youtube and read waht the commentors are saying?Posted by oxSunQueenxoLol me too but what he says except about us being boring is true.Posted by Leo188881I can't stand this dude. He makes me want to puke.Posted by LeoLoveGoddess
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Moon in Capricorn
Rising sign on Aquarius
I am like a lot of you all that love hard and don't mind showing it to my mate...whats odd is that I seem to attract emotionally unavailable men. Trying to understand why that happens so I can stop it.
He's boring but watch this....
"Diana Perry
U kno Simon I have a dear friend with Leo sun and Venus n Virgo and although they are fun and Inspirational to myself and others via they're sun sign they can be a "debbie downer" at times only because they say can see thru everybody and situation. They're motto is "you can't fool me" and I really think their powers of discernment are on point and helpful but not everyone is part of a conspiracy or has an ulterior motive""
then read the rest of the comemnts lol
meaning you all are thinking each little flaw every guy you come across have, and they all are bad guys,
but really it's more you can't trust anyone. but is it really? you just have lack of confidence in yourself it sounds.
I agree with that. But not about thinking people are bad guys. I stay friends with most of them and see good in them. I've never been with an asshole. I don't trust people with my feelings so i put up walls. I figure the right person will come and break them though. And definitely have a lack of confidence. I'm very insecure, sensitive and easily hurt but appear very strong and resilient and no one notices that i have feelings. But they're in there.
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Posted by LeoLoveGoddessMaybe it’s because you see yourself as a Love Goddess? And are you really?
No matter what jacked up relationships I've had, I still want love and a committed relationship. Why does it seem so hard for that to happen? Has any other Leos had this problem? Then when you look at women like JLo and Hallie Berry who are Leos, it just makes me wonder what's up. Any Leos that overcame this and how?
Posted by LeoLoveGoddessI ain’t buying it! Drop that Goddess shit and get your head out of the clouds.
@Gemitati My name on here isn't a reflection of the way in which I see myself based on my ego. It's more about what I would like to become more than anything. Every Leo isn't too full of themselves to be considerate, loving, and kind. Life has a way of humbling everyone if a person decides to pay attention to the lessons and evolve.
Posted by MoonshineLeowoot! it;s a heavy week this week and a full plate this week.
It’s interesting that Leo’s are thinking like this right now about love.
There’s a lunar eclipse in leo in like a week. That has to do with how Leo’s love themselves. How we need to love ourselves before we can love other people. We are going to go through our relationships and connections and what we need and want.
Then two weeks after that there’s a solar eclipse? I think it’s solar but that one will be about how we love OTHER people since it’s in aqua.
Our love life is up for the test.
Posted by SeleukosThis is very true, im so annoying when i start to like someone. Im just sprung lol
Leos depend to much on others to love them.
That makes you easy to exploit for many while it makes you a little bit annoying at times.
Your ego is also too easy to hurt or bruise.
Besides that you can be pretty cool.
Posted by Gemitatilove that!Posted by LeoLoveGoddessI ain’t buying it! Drop that Goddess shit and get your head out of the clouds.
@Gemitati My name on here isn't a reflection of the way in which I see myself based on my ego. It's more about what I would like to become more than anything. Every Leo isn't too full of themselves to be considerate, loving, and kind. Life has a way of humbling everyone if a person decides to pay attention to the lessons and evolve.
You are a woman in need of a man!
Not a Goddess who are looking for God!
You will see how it’ll change your love life.
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Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.click to expand
Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Posted by LeowwwwwAries moon, virgo venus.Posted by earlorg16What's her moon and venus?Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.
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Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?click to expand
Posted by Leowwwwwright, trust me i've shown enough action and have been put through so much already that the fact that im even still around is a lot. but yeah, she is the defintion of hot and cold. ironically, shes so proud of being a leo and talks so much about how much love they give, how great they are etc, but is the most un leo person i know.Posted by earlorg16Virgo venus.. Isn't verbal in love.Posted by LeowwwwwAries moon, virgo venus.Posted by earlorg16What's her moon and venus?Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.
It's all about actions... Which isn't bad......
She's still... leo sun.. It's not all lost 😁
Paired with Aries moon... though... Hot and cold.
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Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?click to expand
Posted by earlorg16Ah yea i remember you. Nice picture (:Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoWell that's the thing, not much has happened since. She made all this hype about us being together but it's been pretty much the same. It started off awesomely, and I thought she was finally happy, but has proceeded to continue the same trend and be even whinier than ever before... *sighPosted by earlorg16Ah yea i remember you. Nice picture (:Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Why do you sound bitter? Did something happen?click to expand
Posted by LeoLoveGoddessBTW the times lately that I have bought it up to her, her exact words are "you always bring these things up, every time i see you (no i don't), just let things happen naturally. im done talking about it." keep in mind shes said this to me two years ago and just this past month lol.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Posted by Leowwwwwwe 've talked about it. just gonna copy and paste this here:Posted by earlorg16🙁 ugh.Posted by Leowwwwwright, trust me i've shown enough action and have been put through so much already that the fact that im even still around is a lot. but yeah, she is the defintion of hot and cold. ironically, shes so proud of being a leo and talks so much about how much love they give, how great they are etc, but is the most un leo person i know.Posted by earlorg16Virgo venus.. Isn't verbal in love.Posted by LeowwwwwAries moon, virgo venus.Posted by earlorg16What's her moon and venus?Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.
It's all about actions... Which isn't bad......
She's still... leo sun.. It's not all lost 😁
Paired with Aries moon... though... Hot and cold.
Oh... I meant..Virgo venus... Are all about showing you they love you through actions.... Not so much words.
Have you told her how you feel?
Perhaps she's not aware ?
You know... Sometimes people need to be told..the obvious?
Perhaps you're both due a heart-to-heart type of discussion...?
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Posted by Leowwwwwshe's made some pretty horrid decisions with whom shes dated in the past. her aqua ex was emotionally abusive, and cheated on her countless times. so she told me years ago she was sorta withholding from being emotionally invested in anyone until she sorts herself out. when she met me, she told me how she was happier again, and getting to that emotional place she wanted to get to finally. so i guess i thought that aspect would change. :\Posted by earlorg16'' I'm done talking about it ''Posted by Leowwwwwwe 've talked about it. just gonna copy and paste this here:Posted by earlorg16🙁 ugh.Posted by Leowwwwwright, trust me i've shown enough action and have been put through so much already that the fact that im even still around is a lot. but yeah, she is the defintion of hot and cold. ironically, shes so proud of being a leo and talks so much about how much love they give, how great they are etc, but is the most un leo person i know.Posted by earlorg16Virgo venus.. Isn't verbal in love.Posted by LeowwwwwAries moon, virgo venus.Posted by earlorg16What's her moon and venus?Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.
It's all about actions... Which isn't bad......
She's still... leo sun.. It's not all lost 😁
Paired with Aries moon... though... Hot and cold.
Oh... I meant..Virgo venus... Are all about showing you they love you through actions.... Not so much words.
Have you told her how you feel?
Perhaps she's not aware ?
You know... Sometimes people need to be told..the obvious?
Perhaps you're both due a heart-to-heart type of discussion...?
BTW the times lately that I have bought it up to her, her exact words are "you always bring these things up, every time i see you (no i don't), just let things happen naturally. im done talking about it." keep in mind shes said this to me two years ago and just this past month lol. i only talk to her about it maybe every other month if things havent gotten better. if i ask for some personal space to sort things out, she gets whiny and complains about how no one gives a crap about her or that she's just a pain in the a $ $ for anyone that has any sort of relationship with.
wow..that's very dismissive of her.
You have to do what's best for you,
if you've tried talking to her and she shuts you down, what else can you do?
You mentionned she was like this in the past?
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Posted by LeoLoveGoddessMy Leo mother has never had this problem. She has that uncanny ability to turn a fuck buddy situation into a relationship.
No matter what jacked up relationships I've had, I still want love and a committed relationship. Why does it seem so hard for that to happen? Has any other Leos had this problem? Then when you look at women like JLo and Hallie Berry who are Leos, it just makes me wonder what's up. Any Leos that overcame this and how?
Posted by oxSunQueenxoI’m sure all the scorp placements help.Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's because she's a queen, lady.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessMy Leo mother has never had this problem. She has that uncanny ability to turn a fuck buddy situation into a relationship.
No matter what jacked up relationships I've had, I still want love and a committed relationship. Why does it seem so hard for that to happen? Has any other Leos had this problem? Then when you look at women like JLo and Hallie Berry who are Leos, it just makes me wonder what's up. Any Leos that overcame this and how?click to expand
Posted by oxSunQueenxoI can only remember Scorpio ascendant, same as my sister. Just texted her for her birth info. Gonna look it up 😅Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat are her placements?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI’m sure all the scorp placements help.Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's because she's a queen, lady.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessMy Leo mother has never had this problem. She has that uncanny ability to turn a fuck buddy situation into a relationship.
No matter what jacked up relationships I've had, I still want love and a committed relationship. Why does it seem so hard for that to happen? Has any other Leos had this problem? Then when you look at women like JLo and Hallie Berry who are Leos, it just makes me wonder what's up. Any Leos that overcame this and how?click to expand
Posted by LeowwwwwI don't hold any of this against her obviously. I too was in an emotional abusive relationship and have been cheated on. If anything, that's sorta what drew us together in the beginning and has kept us together, the ability to relate to one another.Posted by earlorg16Getting over an abusive relationship, takes time..unfortunately I think she might not have taken enough time working on herself and dealing with the past trauma.Posted by Leowwwwwshe's made some pretty horrid decisions with whom shes dated in the past. her aqua ex was emotionally abusive, and cheated on her countless times. so she told me years ago she was sorta withholding from being emotionally invested in anyone until she sorts herself out. when she met me, she told me how she was happier again, and getting to that emotional place she wanted to get to finally. so i guess i thought that aspect would change. :\Posted by earlorg16'' I'm done talking about it ''Posted by Leowwwwwwe 've talked about it. just gonna copy and paste this here:Posted by earlorg16🙁 ugh.Posted by Leowwwwwright, trust me i've shown enough action and have been put through so much already that the fact that im even still around is a lot. but yeah, she is the defintion of hot and cold. ironically, shes so proud of being a leo and talks so much about how much love they give, how great they are etc, but is the most un leo person i know.Posted by earlorg16Virgo venus.. Isn't verbal in love.Posted by LeowwwwwAries moon, virgo venus.Posted by earlorg16What's her moon and venus?Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.
It's all about actions... Which isn't bad......
She's still... leo sun.. It's not all lost 😁
Paired with Aries moon... though... Hot and cold.
Oh... I meant..Virgo venus... Are all about showing you they love you through actions.... Not so much words.
Have you told her how you feel?
Perhaps she's not aware ?
You know... Sometimes people need to be told..the obvious?
Perhaps you're both due a heart-to-heart type of discussion...?
BTW the times lately that I have bought it up to her, her exact words are "you always bring these things up, every time i see you (no i don't), just let things happen naturally. im done talking about it." keep in mind shes said this to me two years ago and just this past month lol. i only talk to her about it maybe every other month if things havent gotten better. if i ask for some personal space to sort things out, she gets whiny and complains about how no one gives a crap about her or that she's just a pain in the a $ $ for anyone that has any sort of relationship with.
wow..that's very dismissive of her.
You have to do what's best for you,
if you've tried talking to her and she shuts you down, what else can you do?
You mentionned she was like this in the past?
What made you believe she would change?
It's not her fault what happened in her past but it's not yours either.
You mentioned how she's proud of being leo / being loving ... it could be a blanket to her insecurity.
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Posted by earlorg16I can’t speak for all Leo’s but i don’t like it when someone is constantly nagging me especially my bf. Why can’t things just be? That’s probably how she feels.Posted by MoonshineLeoWell that's the thing, not much has happened since. She made all this hype about us being together but it's been pretty much the same. It started off awesomely, and I thought she was finally happy, but has proceeded to continue the same trend and be even whinier than ever before... *sighPosted by earlorg16Ah yea i remember you. Nice picture (:Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Why do you sound bitter? Did something happen?
I'm starting to think this isn't worth pursuing anymore.
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Posted by MoonshineLeoConstantly nagging would be to bring it up every day, which I don't do. I only bring it up when I reach a certain point of uncertainty, and that's when I try to have a heart to heart convo. But it gets shut down. Why can't things be you ask? Because nothing has really changed for the better, and if it's going to be like this, I'm not a fan of it and would rather be apart.Posted by earlorg16I can’t speak for all Leo’s but i don’t like it when someone is constantly nagging me especially my bf. Why can’t things just be? That’s probably how she feels.Posted by MoonshineLeoWell that's the thing, not much has happened since. She made all this hype about us being together but it's been pretty much the same. It started off awesomely, and I thought she was finally happy, but has proceeded to continue the same trend and be even whinier than ever before... *sighPosted by earlorg16Ah yea i remember you. Nice picture (:Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Why do you sound bitter? Did something happen?
I'm starting to think this isn't worth pursuing anymore.
Just from the sound of the statements you’re making it doesn’t even seem like you like her. I haven’t heard you say anything positive about her like ever. Why are you with her again?
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Posted by LeowwwwwExactly, thank you for understanding. I'm still in it because I WANT to help her get better. It's just a lot to work through and seems like she's further away from meeting me halfway than I am, which I'm not okay with. This is one of the hardest relationship I've ever been a part of, and it has only been a few months.Posted by earlorg16Truth.Posted by LeowwwwwI don't hold any of this against her obviously. I too was in an emotional abusive relationship and have been cheated on. If anything, that's sorta what drew us together in the beginning and has kept us together, the ability to relate to one another.Posted by earlorg16Getting over an abusive relationship, takes time..unfortunately I think she might not have taken enough time working on herself and dealing with the past trauma.Posted by Leowwwwwshe's made some pretty horrid decisions with whom shes dated in the past. her aqua ex was emotionally abusive, and cheated on her countless times. so she told me years ago she was sorta withholding from being emotionally invested in anyone until she sorts herself out. when she met me, she told me how she was happier again, and getting to that emotional place she wanted to get to finally. so i guess i thought that aspect would change. :\Posted by earlorg16'' I'm done talking about it ''Posted by Leowwwwwwe 've talked about it. just gonna copy and paste this here:Posted by earlorg16🙁 ugh.Posted by Leowwwwwright, trust me i've shown enough action and have been put through so much already that the fact that im even still around is a lot. but yeah, she is the defintion of hot and cold. ironically, shes so proud of being a leo and talks so much about how much love they give, how great they are etc, but is the most un leo person i know.Posted by earlorg16Virgo venus.. Isn't verbal in love.Posted by LeowwwwwAries moon, virgo venus.Posted by earlorg16What's her moon and venus?Posted by LeowwwwwI have on many occasions through the years, especially lately and after we officially started dating. She's treated me the same even pre relationship, and not much has changed besides being slightly more physical here and there.Posted by earlorg16Have you opened up to her?
Still waiting for my leo to open up to me in the way that all you leo's claim you can reach. So far the leo's i've dated have been very cold and off putting. We'll see I suppose.
It's all about actions... Which isn't bad......
She's still... leo sun.. It's not all lost 😁
Paired with Aries moon... though... Hot and cold.
Oh... I meant..Virgo venus... Are all about showing you they love you through actions.... Not so much words.
Have you told her how you feel?
Perhaps she's not aware ?
You know... Sometimes people need to be told..the obvious?
Perhaps you're both due a heart-to-heart type of discussion...?
BTW the times lately that I have bought it up to her, her exact words are "you always bring these things up, every time i see you (no i don't), just let things happen naturally. im done talking about it." keep in mind shes said this to me two years ago and just this past month lol. i only talk to her about it maybe every other month if things havent gotten better. if i ask for some personal space to sort things out, she gets whiny and complains about how no one gives a crap about her or that she's just a pain in the a $ $ for anyone that has any sort of relationship with.
wow..that's very dismissive of her.
You have to do what's best for you,
if you've tried talking to her and she shuts you down, what else can you do?
You mentionned she was like this in the past?
What made you believe she would change?
It's not her fault what happened in her past but it's not yours either.
You mentioned how she's proud of being leo / being loving ... it could be a blanket to her insecurity.
People move at different paces at the end of the day, I guess I've just gotten to my limit on waiting around or I guess, not seeing much change or adjustments on her end. There's an obvious maturity gap between us. I get that crap happens to people, but there comes a point where you can't keep victimizing yourself about every little thing.
It's a process that she needs to realize and admit to herself.
It's okay to need time and understanding from a partner but she needs to meet you halfway ....at the very least ..show you she's trying to..wants to.
Hopefully she does before your relationship ends.
Relationships are hard work, especially in these conditions.
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Posted by earlorg16Of course your feelings matter.Posted by MoonshineLeoConstantly nagging would be to bring it up every day, which I don't do. I only bring it up when I reach a certain point of uncertainty, and that's when I try to have a heart to heart convo. But it gets shut down. Why can't things be you ask? Because nothing has really changed for the better, and if it's going to be like this, I'm not a fan of it and would rather be apart.Posted by earlorg16I can’t speak for all Leo’s but i don’t like it when someone is constantly nagging me especially my bf. Why can’t things just be? That’s probably how she feels.Posted by MoonshineLeoWell that's the thing, not much has happened since. She made all this hype about us being together but it's been pretty much the same. It started off awesomely, and I thought she was finally happy, but has proceeded to continue the same trend and be even whinier than ever before... *sighPosted by earlorg16Ah yea i remember you. Nice picture (:Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Why do you sound bitter? Did something happen?
I'm starting to think this isn't worth pursuing anymore.
Just from the sound of the statements you’re making it doesn’t even seem like you like her. I haven’t heard you say anything positive about her like ever. Why are you with her again?
I definitely like her, but it is definitely starting to fade due to her overall attitude being the same. I have stated positive things, such as how if she's in a good mood, she's great to be around. It's just that the majority of the time, she's in this bad head space and just nags a majority of the time. As a BF (and even a GF), don't you WANT to be a positive influence on the person you're with? Don't you WANT to help that person through hard times and make sure that they achieve their goals? Don't you want to be their rock? I don't understand why you're being critical of me when all I've been to her is supportive. Don't my feelings matter?
As a lover, if you're with someone and it seems like they're still mopey and depressed a majority of the time, you start lose hope in it, no? You start to feel like you can't do much for them and it's depressing as hell. I just want to see her happier generally. That's all I'm asking for.click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoI take her out so many times... Shes temporarily happy then goes back into that funk immediately when it's over with. When she gets home, she calls and texts immediately telling me how sad she is to be in her room with no company and becomes self destructive. :\Posted by earlorg16Of course your feelings matter.Posted by MoonshineLeoConstantly nagging would be to bring it up every day, which I don't do. I only bring it up when I reach a certain point of uncertainty, and that's when I try to have a heart to heart convo. But it gets shut down. Why can't things be you ask? Because nothing has really changed for the better, and if it's going to be like this, I'm not a fan of it and would rather be apart.Posted by earlorg16I can’t speak for all Leo’s but i don’t like it when someone is constantly nagging me especially my bf. Why can’t things just be? That’s probably how she feels.Posted by MoonshineLeoWell that's the thing, not much has happened since. She made all this hype about us being together but it's been pretty much the same. It started off awesomely, and I thought she was finally happy, but has proceeded to continue the same trend and be even whinier than ever before... *sighPosted by earlorg16Ah yea i remember you. Nice picture (:Posted by MoonshineLeowhat fire? if there was a fire from her, it was tiny. i've spoken to ya about my situation in the past lol.Posted by earlorg16Shes probably really comfortable around you at some point the fire does die down a little bit.Posted by LeoLoveGoddessShe's known how I felt for 2-3 years at this point, and we didn't start dating officially until the end of 2017 but we've fooled around prior to being official. She's just very hot and cold (mostly cold) for the most part and always victimizing herself all the time. I thought she had made progress but if anything, being with her has shown me more of her true colors. When she's happy, it's amazing but it doesn't happen nearly enough.
@Earlong16 how long have you guys been dating? Maybe she isn't sure how you feel. Maybe sitting down and openly communicating will help. Have you tried that?
Why do you sound bitter? Did something happen?
I'm starting to think this isn't worth pursuing anymore.
Just from the sound of the statements you’re making it doesn’t even seem like you like her. I haven’t heard you say anything positive about her like ever. Why are you with her again?
I definitely like her, but it is definitely starting to fade due to her overall attitude being the same. I have stated positive things, such as how if she's in a good mood, she's great to be around. It's just that the majority of the time, she's in this bad head space and just nags a majority of the time. As a BF (and even a GF), don't you WANT to be a positive influence on the person you're with? Don't you WANT to help that person through hard times and make sure that they achieve their goals? Don't you want to be their rock? I don't understand why you're being critical of me when all I've been to her is supportive. Don't my feelings matter?
As a lover, if you're with someone and it seems like they're still mopey and depressed a majority of the time, you start lose hope in it, no? You start to feel like you can't do much for them and it's depressing as hell. I just want to see her happier generally. That's all I'm asking for.
I don’t know many Leo’s that stay in a funk though. We may be in a funk but it doesn’t last long so I’m not sure if she has other things going on in her life. It’s been a hard time for Leo’s the past year and this year doesn’t seem any better honestly.
Do you guys go out? Try going out in a date night once a week and see if it helps your overall relationship. Don’t be stuck in a rut with her go and do stuff together. Just see if it works if not then I’m sorry but you both deserve to be happy.
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