@AriesGirl74
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Posted by AriesGirl74
No problem π
My wisdom comes from the fact that I have been there many times; a situation with a guy or a friend and even colleagues where I have bulldozed my Aries personality into peoples faces - with my charm of course π and it has worked, but this has not worked with leos specifically and that really perplexed me. I've had to really think about my methods of communication with my Leo, plus swallow my pride and bend for him. It feels alien but the results are worth it π
Soo... A daily plan: live your life, keep busy, let her text you first do not text her. And reply with an upbeat answer, like life is great (even if you're dying inside!) Nothing emotional. Just for 7 days... Pretty please? π
Ok deal..instructions will be followed.
but I have a question that is jumping up and down in my head.And we have to kill it.
Q: not texting her and waiting for her to text.
Wouldn't that be the opposite of working my ass off for fixing this friendship?
Lol π
The texting is different from the fixing part.
You are fixing the friendship by taking time out to get your head in a better place...remember?!
Having read a lot of Leo threads from people asking them for advice they mostly say, back off, not too needy, let them come to you. And this works. The texting is the interim stuff to the main goal.
Usually leos don't leave it toooo long before texting. Try it. If I'm wrong you can kick my ass and text her every minute of the day!!!
Posted by AriesGirl74
Lol π
The texting is different from the fixing part.
You are fixing the friendship by taking time out to get your head in a better place...remember?!
Having read a lot of Leo threads from people asking them for advice they mostly say, back off, not too needy, let them come to you. And this works. The texting is the interim stuff to the main goal.
Usually leos don't leave it toooo long before texting. Try it. If I'm wrong you can kick my ass and text her every minute of the day!!!
LOOOOL
sure dont want that to happen!
I like your confidence in what u say..I will give it a try.
I forgot to tell u that I msged her today also something mixed with emotions a little and her responses were cold, maybe less cold but still cold..
nothing to be analysed. just another door slams in my face.
Now..ur plan..Starting from this minute.
On ur mark..get set..Go!
Aaarrrgghhh don't tell me that you messaged her first goddamnit!!
π
Posted by AriesGirl74
Aaarrrgghhh don't tell me that you messaged her first goddamnit!!
π
yes yes I did π’
(impatient me..)
I couldn't resist, I went somewhere I remembered her I had tell her about an our previous visit to the place.
that was earlier today..
no more of that now.
we have a plan.
3 days passed..no contact
OMG this is HARD!
LOL!!!! Hang in there Azaria!!! I know you can do it - keep the faith, stay STRONG!!!
π π π π
Posted by AriesGirl74
LOL!!!! Hang in there Azaria!!! I know you can do it - keep the faith, stay STRONG!!!
π π π π
ok..aries and patience...PAIN!
Iam losing it here..
ok lets talk..
what do u think is going on in the head of my leo friend now? lol
Posted by AriesGirl74
LOL!!!! Hang in there Azaria!!! I know you can do it - keep the faith, stay STRONG!!!
π π π πok..aries and patience...PAIN!
Iam losing it here..
ok lets talk..
what do u think is going on in the head of my leo friend now? lolclick to expand
Lol it's not been 7 days yet; only 3-4?
I will private message you; check your messages section when you next log in. π
Posted by AriesGirl74
LOL!!!! Hang in there Azaria!!! I know you can do it - keep the faith, stay STRONG!!!
π π π πok..aries and patience...PAIN!
Iam losing it here..
ok lets talk..
what do u think is going on in the head of my leo friend now? lolLol it's not been 7 days yet; only 3-4?
I will private message you; check your messages section when you next log in. π
pfffft, and I was following this lol π
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Sorry champ! It's a work-in-progress π
Posted by AriesGirl74
LOL!!!! Hang in there Azaria!!! I know you can do it - keep the faith, stay STRONG!!!
π π π πok..aries and patience...PAIN!
Iam losing it here..
ok lets talk..
what do u think is going on in the head of my leo friend now? lolLol it's not been 7 days yet; only 3-4?
I will private message you; check your messages section when you next log in. π
pfffft, and I was following this lol π
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Sorry I stopped updating..
Well 7 days almost passed and my leo didnt make a move..I did..asked to meet..and we are waiting for a date to be set...
long process I dont know why!
I hope leos are forgiving as I have heard..
Cuz iam trying hard and my leo is still ice cold!
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No problem π
My wisdom comes from the fact that I have been there many times; a situation with a guy or a friend and even colleagues where I have bulldozed my Aries personality into peoples faces - with my charm of course π and it has worked, but this has not worked with leos specifically and that really perplexed me. I've had to really think about my methods of communication with my Leo, plus swallow my pride and bend for him. It feels alien but the results are worth it π
Soo... A daily plan: live your life, keep busy, let her text you first do not text her. And reply with an upbeat answer, like life is great (even if you're dying inside!) Nothing emotional. Just for 7 days... Pretty please? π