Leo guy broke up w/ ex. Got w/ me. They broke up again now he’s w/ me again. Does he like me now??

He broke up with his ex. Got with me. Then got back with her. They broke up and now he’s back with me. He introduced me to his friends so does he have feelings for me now?

So this Leo guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex (she’s a Leo too) recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again.

The first time I was here (last month) as I said he called me his friend and told me he didn’t want him getting in the way of me meeting other guys. Now that I’m back out here his friends wanted to go out so I went with him which I took as a good sign that he wanted me to meet his friends. So now I’m convinced he only said those things (saying we were just friends and not to get in the way of meeting other men) because he felt forced to by the ex and didn’t really mean it.

Here’s a little more back story:

We met through my cousin and they’re really good friends. My cousin is also really good friends with the ex. Both parties have confided in so my cousin so she has the inside scoop.

They were broken up for 5 months. Went full NC for 2 or 3 months. I met him months prior, no hanging out yet. He unfollowed me on IG when when they started talking again but not together. He was supposed to go be with her and her family for the holidays and then that’s when they went full NC for 2 months. He added me back and then eventually made plans to see him vday weekend.

During the 2 months they went NC I was told he was crying over her, making posts about her, 2 days before I flew out there he even made a post with her initials saying he missed her, bought tickets for a June concert because he knew she’d be there and was hoping to run into her, and even contacted her mom. So apparently he kept trying but she kept ignoring him. Then on vday, when I was here, he contacted her to say happy vday. I left a few days later and that same day that I left he asked her to go to dinner. This is when he texted me saying he was working things out with her, they had gone to dinner, and that we were just friends, stop making and to take down all posts about my visit. He was also upfront with her about me.

So while they briefly got back together he had talked about how she was going to be his wife and the mother of his children. So he found out that she had seen someone while they were broken up. He got really upset and angry about it and told her now he’s unsure if he wanted to be with her. She in turn got all dramatic and she kicked him to the curb a few weeks later. He begged for her to stay but she still broke up with him. The very next day after their breakup he added me back on social media, and 3 weeks later now I’m here. So I’m out here with his friends again. I do know after meeting me the first time his friend said, “don’t screw it up with the *ex’s name*, she’s the best you’re ever going to get”. So I thought he was bringing me around again so that his friends could get to know me better. So all good signs?

So yea, all of this was told to me by cousin and she and she showed me some of the screenshots.



So my question is, has he developed feelings for me/like me? I think a man won’t spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.

I didn't bother reading the whole thing because it is obvious that you are a rebound for this Leo. He's not over his ex and one of you needs to realize that. This is entirely outside of your control, so it is time for you to move on to someone else.

Making multiple threads on the exact same topic won't get you different answers.

Posted by Chuckcem

I didn't bother reading the whole thing because it is obvious that you are a rebound for this Leo. He's not over his ex and one of you needs to realize that. This is entirely outside of your control, so it is time for you to move on to someone else.

Seconded - sorry to say, it but this isn’t going where you think it is

But we all live love and learn especially in our 20’s so best wishes going forward with however you play this out.