Leo male

Hello i'm a Taurus and i was seeing a Leo for a couple of weeks. i really fell hard him because he is unlike any male I've been with before. recently he backed off from me and went quite, i ended up asking him and he told me he thought i didn't give a s**t about him and that he thought i would of put in more effort by now. i myself wasn't aware he wanted more effort out of me which i would happily give if i had been aware he wanted it as every male i've been with liked to take it very slow at the beginning and thats what im use to. he was quite wishy washy after that convo saying he needed time to think etc etc and agreed it was a form of miscommunication but has since told me he thinks its best we do not speak. should i chase him or just leave it be?

We're going to need more details. Did you go out on dates? Was he texting/calling you before? Were you responding? How long ago was this, etc etc?

Yes more details are needed but as a heads up..... Leo males are flirty and a better, and by better I mean faster, opportunity could have came up for him and he took it. I'm honestly shocked he even said as much as you all shouldn't speak because Leos can sometimes stop mid traffic with no explanation and leave you clueless.

Yes we went out on dates,he even introduced me to his daughter. he was texting and calling (but he works long hours so we wouldn't text all the time) and i always responded. when he told me he thought i didn't care he said that he wanted me to come vist him when he was finished work etc etc and got aggitated because i never initiated it. I just presumed he would be tired and wouldn't want to spend time with me so i never bothered suggesting it. I messaged him and suggested we remain friends because i thought he was a great guy He has since said sorry and we spoke for a little bit and he has said he is very busy at work and if he can't get back to my text to not take it to heart. But we havn't messaged each other today and im unsure on where i stand or even if i should message him again.

Ah, sounds like he expected you to operate at his speed. He probably felt that the affection was a bit one sided. He doesn't understand that Taurus women move at your own pace. What he perceives as your lack of interest in him is just you doing your own thing.

He probably thought that by dropping hints, you'd catch on to what he wanted from you. I find that the easiest thing to do in a Taurus-Leo relationship is to communicate each others needs early. Tauruses and Leos can be very stubborn and will want the other person to conform first. Basic communication is all that's needed

Just let him know that you'd like to see him and have him TELL you what he wants. Then be sure to voice what you want. As a Taurus you may unknowingly steamroll over your Leo man's feelings, so let him know to be more vocal with you.