Leo Mars, how do you pursue a crush?

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Yes the chase is more fun to them
So what happens after they capture their prey?
Hard to tell since the ones I know are both Leo Mars and Venus... Hell lots of praising was needed


When they felt like you warmed up to them, did they cool off and then come on stronger when you seemed distant?
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Not in my case... It didnt matter. Remember "praise", if im being distant, they took it as ignoring and got distant in return. Maybe they come back later but i did not really care after that and I cant really tell you. That's all I have sorry.

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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
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Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
Ohhh it's probably his personal life then. He hasn't fully given up on the girl in his life but he can't help but flirt. Maybe pushing boundaries because the other girl isn't stimulating enough... then running away when it seems you are paying him attention and it gets real..
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Ohh that's a good analysis 🙂 thank you! So you think he just likes getting the stimulation from me(we joke around/banter) but not actually interested in me? We have kissed a few times away from work...
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
Ohhh it's probably his personal life then. He hasn't fully given up on the girl in his life but he can't help but flirt. Maybe pushing boundaries because the other girl isn't stimulating enough... then running away when it seems you are paying him attention and it gets real..
Ohh that's a good analysis 🙂 thank you! So you think he just likes getting the stimulation from me(we joke around/banter) but not actually interested in me? We have kissed a few times away from work...
I'd say yes, he just likes the playful banter. Only when the other girl drops from his focus totally, will he be fully open to another. Then he would probably not run away if you were giving him attention. As much as Leos like to flirt, when we are taken we usually have that person in the forefront of our mind always and we don't want to hurt them by taking flirting too far with another. The fact he kissed you tells me he isn't feeling her 100% but still she has something over him. It could be simply him feeling sorry for her. Maybe he's comfortable with her.

Does he seem mature?
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Omg u are so on point! Him and I went on a date and he said he felt guilty cause he's kinda attached to her... He said if him and I got together first he knows we could have had something. So maybe the issue is he liked me for awhile(we work together) but I was seeing someone and when that ended I realized I Ike him too but he had started seeing that girl and getting attached ?
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
Ohhh it's probably his personal life then. He hasn't fully given up on the girl in his life but he can't help but flirt. Maybe pushing boundaries because the other girl isn't stimulating enough... then running away when it seems you are paying him attention and it gets real..
Ohh that's a good analysis 🙂 thank you! So you think he just likes getting the stimulation from me(we joke around/banter) but not actually interested in me? We have kissed a few times away from work...
I'd say yes, he just likes the playful banter. Only when the other girl drops from his focus totally, will he be fully open to another. Then he would probably not run away if you were giving him attention. As much as Leos like to flirt, when we are taken we usually have that person in the forefront of our mind always and we don't want to hurt them by taking flirting too far with another. The fact he kissed you tells me he isn't feeling her 100% but still she has something over him. It could be simply him feeling sorry for her. Maybe he's comfortable with her.

Does he seem mature?
Omg u are so on point! Him and I went on a date and he said he felt guilty cause he's kinda attached to her... He said if him and I got together first he knows we could have had something. So maybe the issue is he liked me for awhile(we work together) but I was seeing someone and when that ended I realized I Ike him too but he had started seeing that girl and getting attached ?
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He doesn't seem too mature and says he likes not having pressure ... I like him but I'm not holding my breath for anything lol
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
Ohhh it's probably his personal life then. He hasn't fully given up on the girl in his life but he can't help but flirt. Maybe pushing boundaries because the other girl isn't stimulating enough... then running away when it seems you are paying him attention and it gets real..
Ohh that's a good analysis 🙂 thank you! So you think he just likes getting the stimulation from me(we joke around/banter) but not actually interested in me? We have kissed a few times away from work...
I wouldn't put it past a Leo who was unhappy in a relationship (but still needing to stay in it) to kiss other people and fool around. I'm not sure why its done but I know it can happen and they can feel no guilt toward their partner. I think he might be interested in you, I wouldn't rule it out. But, if he still has something with the other girl I wouldn't take him seriously. But I'm sure you know that already. Only when he cuts her out to pursue you, I'd take it seriously. And I wouldn't say because he was flirting with you and had something with the other girl it means he's a bad guy. I think it just means he isn't happy with her. When a Leo is happy in love it makes us sick to have two ppl going at once (not saying he has you going but hopefully you see what I mean), even the flirting with others wouldn't interest us if we were in true like or true love.
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I see.. Yes he does seem to have guilt when I kissed him but then last time he asked to kiss me and felt none? He's a Gemini with Cancer Venus, Pisces moon, Leo Mars btw. He won't let me ignore him at work, I mean he literally will stop in front of me so I walk into him, he pranks me on the phone telling me he's my "secret admirer" lol I just roll with it I dunno what he's trying to accomplish.
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Lol, she's asking about a guy though. Idk if I'd be much help.

Plus my Mars is in Leo, but it's at like, 29 degrees.
your mars in leo is kind of cold
Yes. Much cold. Zero chill.
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
Ohhh it's probably his personal life then. He hasn't fully given up on the girl in his life but he can't help but flirt. Maybe pushing boundaries because the other girl isn't stimulating enough... then running away when it seems you are paying him attention and it gets real..
Ohh that's a good analysis 🙂 thank you! So you think he just likes getting the stimulation from me(we joke around/banter) but not actually interested in me? We have kissed a few times away from work...
I wouldn't put it past a Leo who was unhappy in a relationship (but still needing to stay in it) to kiss other people and fool around. I'm not sure why its done but I know it can happen and they can feel no guilt toward their partner. I think he might be interested in you, I wouldn't rule it out. But, if he still has something with the other girl I wouldn't take him seriously. But I'm sure you know that already. Only when he cuts her out to pursue you, I'd take it seriously. And I wouldn't say because he was flirting with you and had something with the other girl it means he's a bad guy. I think it just means he isn't happy with her. When a Leo is happy in love it makes us sick to have two ppl going at once (not saying he has you going but hopefully you see what I mean), even the flirting with others wouldn't interest us if we were in true like or true love.
I see.. Yes he does seem to have guilt when I kissed him but then last time he asked to kiss me and felt none? He's a Gemini with Cancer Venus, Pisces moon, Leo Mars btw. He won't let me ignore him at work, I mean he literally will stop in front of me so I walk into him, he pranks me on the phone telling me he's my "secret admirer" lol I just roll with it I dunno what he's trying to accomplish.
Oh really ? his behaviour is puzzling me I have nothing left ? ... If only we could tie him up, give him some truth serum and interrogate him... then wipe his memory ?. Does he do that stuff with anybody else at your work?

I've only known one Gemini guy and he was messing around on his partner with an old flame who was a despicable person who tried to get him arrested once. He always was weird in love lol. They sound confusing. I might run a chart on him to see what he had going on!
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He's a jokester, loves attention in general but no, doesn't do those things with anyone else. Oh if I give you his bday details can you look at his chart? I'm highly curious Now what u might see 😄
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I don't think a Leo would ever chase somebody just to go cold. Chasing for the hell of it doesn't sound very Leo-ish. Flirting yes, chasing no. Maybe I'm wrong. The ignoring making them chase more bit, hmmm only if there's a little bit of hope. If they chase and the person gives nothing in return, not even a smile, then its a bit hard on the pride lol.
This is so true... There is a Leo Mars guy who "chases" in a way and the more I ignore the more he tries but when I give him attention come toward him he pulls back... Why is this? And then it starts again ?
Hmm interesting ? ummm maybe he's not 100% sure if he wants your attention yet. Let me think about this and I'll get back to it.
Haha ok... Well also he has a lot going on with his personal life and there is a girl he has been kinda seeing once in awhile...plus we work together so maybe that's why I'm getting the hot and cold from him?
Ohhh it's probably his personal life then. He hasn't fully given up on the girl in his life but he can't help but flirt. Maybe pushing boundaries because the other girl isn't stimulating enough... then running away when it seems you are paying him attention and it gets real..
Ohh that's a good analysis 🙂 thank you! So you think he just likes getting the stimulation from me(we joke around/banter) but not actually interested in me? We have kissed a few times away from work...
I wouldn't put it past a Leo who was unhappy in a relationship (but still needing to stay in it) to kiss other people and fool around. I'm not sure why its done but I know it can happen and they can feel no guilt toward their partner. I think he might be interested in you, I wouldn't rule it out. But, if he still has something with the other girl I wouldn't take him seriously. But I'm sure you know that already. Only when he cuts her out to pursue you, I'd take it seriously. And I wouldn't say because he was flirting with you and had something with the other girl it means he's a bad guy. I think it just means he isn't happy with her. When a Leo is happy in love it makes us sick to have two ppl going at once (not saying he has you going but hopefully you see what I mean), even the flirting with others wouldn't interest us if we were in true like or true love.
I see.. Yes he does seem to have guilt when I kissed him but then last time he asked to kiss me and felt none? He's a Gemini with Cancer Venus, Pisces moon, Leo Mars btw. He won't let me ignore him at work, I mean he literally will stop in front of me so I walk into him, he pranks me on the phone telling me he's my "secret admirer" lol I just roll with it I dunno what he's trying to accomplish.
Oh really ? his behaviour is puzzling me I have nothing left ? ... If only we could tie him up, give him some truth serum and interrogate him... then wipe his memory ?. Does he do that stuff with anybody else at your work?

I've only known one Gemini guy and he was messing around on his partner with an old flame who was a despicable person who tried to get him arrested once. He always was weird in love lol. They sound confusing. I might run a chart on him to see what he had going on!
He's a jokester, loves attention in general but no, doesn't do those things with anyone else. Oh if I give you his bday details can you look at his chart? I'm highly curious Now what u might see 😄
That's interesting he doesn't do that with anyone else. Well.. you've got his attention. He might be worried if you'd be turned off by it. Sure, give me the deeets. 😄
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My boyfriend has Mercury, Venus and Mars in Leo and the best way to handle those placements when it comes to relationships is to give attention in doses. I shower him with compliments and gifts and then pull back. He comes back like a puppy asking for love and i just pet him enough and then go back to do my own thing. It's all about balance. You can't be too far on each side of the spectrum. Give him enough attention (not too much) so he doesn't take you for granted and when you pull back, do it so he carves the attention but doesn't feel like all is lost.

I don't know if this would work for everyone whose mars is in Leo but it has worked for me throughout the 8 years i've been with my beau.
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My boyfriend has Mercury, Venus and Mars in Leo and the best way to handle those placements when it comes to relationships is to give attention in doses. I shower him with compliments and gifts and then pull back. He comes back like a puppy asking for love and i just pet him enough and then go back to do my own thing. It's all about balance. You can't be too far on each side of the spectrum. Give him enough attention (not too much) so he doesn't take you for granted and when you pull back, do it so he carves the attention but doesn't feel like all is lost.

I don't know if this would work for everyone whose mars is in Leo but it has worked for me throughout the 8 years i've been with my beau.
Thank you for your reply 🙂 he does seem to crave my attention a lot and looks hurt if I ignore him... But if I chase him he runs away lol so do I just ignore and then give him some attention? Is it just the chase he's after or does this ever lead anywhere? Lol