MagicMarch
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Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.

Posted by EvatheDivaLOL. Pisces are always always always late.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off too (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand

Posted by Leo_ZenaYou may need to give us more details about your situation. If your boyfriend has anger issues to the point where you're constantly walking on eggshells, that's not a healthy situation. Relationships need good communication. How can you expect to communicate effectively if you're constantlytiptoing around his anger?
Someone help me I feel I have to walk on egg shells around my boyfriend(pisces). If I say the wrong thing he will get extremely angry and that don't be good. I don't understand him period. But I want it to work


Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand

Posted by MagicMarchNOPE! Not this Piscean šPosted by EvatheDivaLOL. Pisces are always always always late.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off too (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Posted by DreamyboyšPosted by EvatheDivaPunctuality and rudeness to service people really bothers me. Alot.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off too (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand

Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!click to expand

Posted by crocodileAdmitting you have a problem is a big step so good for you, most people don't have the courage to do that. I recommend you seek professional help if you think that your difficulties communicating are impacting your life and your relationships.Posted by CatullusI suppose I am somehow guilty of that kind of behavior.
Eggshells are caused by overly critical partners with unstable emotions, it's actually a power play tactic on his part. He's trying to criticize you to the point where you lose all your self-esteem, your sense of self-worth so he can control you. This eggshell situation will never go away because it's a tool for him to maintain control, eventually you'll be second guessing yourself to the point where you just accept that he's right with no questions. Then later down the road he'll start trying to isolate you by bashing your friends and family.
I've worked with abuse survivors, eggshells are never a good thing early on in a relationship and in my opinion you should walk away now.
Perhaps I am guilty of not making my thinking clear enough. This is why I suppose I avoid other people. It is too much work. I do not know why it is so difficult to communicate. It makes no sense.click to expand

Posted by crocodileThus the "cyber hugs!". But in true life I DO care! Been conversing with a Taurus man. FINALLY gonna meet face-to-face tomorrow. He's 8 (eight) years younger than I am; not really a cougar, but I've dated within this age range before.Posted by EvatheDivaI am sorry to hear that you put your trust on a traitor and a coward. I am not sure that I had a question that required that explanation. I am glad that you did anyway. I think it made you feel better somehow. Good for you, and me.Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!
I see her wedding picture (FAT) and that they went on their honeymoon, blah blah blah. I go to a different club and I see them there! Cecilia goes dancing on the floor with a guest (guy I didn't recognize) and she flips me the bird right there for all the club to see! She was flashing her wedding bands and such and I tell all my friends, "Nasty woman! That's the type of woman James wants....he's got her now!". That's when I approached James with my comment. How could I stay where I'm not wanted? He wanted her all this time and now they are married. Happily? I don't know/care.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: God has closed that door for me many, many, many moons ago!
Unfortunately I do not put my trust on people. I do not think any person worth that. Perhaps when I know the person well enough to put my trust on, then I can trust. But then it is circular. Anyway. People understand / do not understand alot of things. You call it being inquisitive, what planet people perceive it that way? Not the one we live on for sure. Therefore I do not bother explaining myself on that level, and certainly do not take their responses seriously anymore. There is no bond there. Therefore I don't care. I function within my own wavelength.click to expand

Posted by crocodileUnderstandable UNTIL you hear it from the other side of the fence. I am Catholic, I married by church (went to marriage classes, counseling, and married a year thereafter). He cheated on me. I addressed this at the hospital he was at, called the hospital chaplains to listen to his reasoning (TRYING to change his mind). I realized BOOM!!āØ** "I cannot stay where I'm not wanted". I went home, threw his belongings on the front porch, and filed for divorce (he STILL lives w/the woman he left me for; in an apartment, NO 401k, NO health insurance, etc). Am I BITTER? Nope. Again, I give love a chance.Posted by EvatheDivaIf you are that much sure of yourself and trust yourself to have everything under your control...then more power to you. But judging from what you just told me above, I am not convinced that you are in control.Posted by crocodileThus the "cyber hugs!". But in true life I DO care! Been conversing with a Taurus man. FINALLY gonna meet face-to-face tomorrow. He's 8 (eight) years younger than I am; not really a cougar, but I've dated within this age range before.Posted by EvatheDivaI am sorry to hear that you put your trust on a traitor and a coward. I am not sure that I had a question that required that explanation. I am glad that you did anyway. I think it made you feel better somehow. Good for you, and me.Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!
I see her wedding picture (FAT) and that they went on their honeymoon, blah blah blah. I go to a different club and I see them there! Cecilia goes dancing on the floor with a guest (guy I didn't recognize) and she flips me the bird right there for all the club to see! She was flashing her wedding bands and such and I tell all my friends, "Nasty woman! That's the type of woman James wants....he's got her now!". That's when I approached James with my comment. How could I stay where I'm not wanted? He wanted her all this time and now they are married. Happily? I don't know/care.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: God has closed that door for me many, many, many moons ago!
Unfortunately I do not put my trust on people. I do not think any person worth that. Perhaps when I know the person well enough to put my trust on, then I can trust. But then it is circular. Anyway. People understand / do not understand alot of things. You call it being inquisitive, what planet people perceive it that way? Not the one we live on for sure. Therefore I do not bother explaining myself on that level, and certainly do not take their responses seriously anymore. There is no bond there. Therefore I don't care. I function within my own wavelength.
I HAVE to give LOVE a chance, dude! I am Piscean and even though God has closed a door for me, he will blow one wide open for me! I've felt it, dreamt it, seen it, and been "told" so š Gotta go as I'm gone for the day soon and I'm ready to get outta here! Here's a song for ya before I leave...
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Look, I do not deny the willingness of a person to be close to someone. Hell, I wouldn't deny myself that chance either. But look where it got you when let that experiment go on.
The people are society that they live in, is seriously f*ked up. There is no social levers to depend on. It's all to arbitrary to go on. I demand more traditional roles for people than what are they right now. At least traditional people value marriage and work to keep it going. Whereas today, people divorce in a heartbeat. Same goes with relationships. And same goes with business interactions. There is no fidelity or loyalty. Whoever can screw the other party over...gets to win. Sorry, not my place to deal with.click to expand

Posted by crocodileYou repeated yourself.Posted by EvatheDivaAnd yet you are not in any better position.Posted by crocodileUnderstandable UNTIL you hear it from the other side of the fence. I am Catholic, I married by church (went to marriage classes, counseling, and married a year thereafter). He cheated on me. I addressed this at the hospital he was at, called the hospital chaplains to listen to his reasoning (TRYING to change his mind). I realized BOOM!!āØ** "I cannot stay where I'm not wanted". I went home, threw his belongings on the front porch, and filed for divorce (he STILL lives w/the woman he left me for; in an apartment, NO 401k, NO health insurance, etc). Am I BITTER? Nope. Again, I give love a chance.Posted by EvatheDivaIf you are that much sure of yourself and trust yourself to have everything under your control...then more power to you. But judging from what you just told me above, I am not convinced that you are in control.Posted by crocodileThus the "cyber hugs!". But in true life I DO care! Been conversing with a Taurus man. FINALLY gonna meet face-to-face tomorrow. He's 8 (eight) years younger than I am; not really a cougar, but I've dated within this age range before.Posted by EvatheDivaI am sorry to hear that you put your trust on a traitor and a coward. I am not sure that I had a question that required that explanation. I am glad that you did anyway. I think it made you feel better somehow. Good for you, and me.Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!
I see her wedding picture (FAT) and that they went on their honeymoon, blah blah blah. I go to a different club and I see them there! Cecilia goes dancing on the floor with a guest (guy I didn't recognize) and she flips me the bird right there for all the club to see! She was flashing her wedding bands and such and I tell all my friends, "Nasty woman! That's the type of woman James wants....he's got her now!". That's when I approached James with my comment. How could I stay where I'm not wanted? He wanted her all this time and now they are married. Happily? I don't know/care.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: God has closed that door for me many, many, many moons ago!
Unfortunately I do not put my trust on people. I do not think any person worth that. Perhaps when I know the person well enough to put my trust on, then I can trust. But then it is circular. Anyway. People understand / do not understand alot of things. You call it being inquisitive, what planet people perceive it that way? Not the one we live on for sure. Therefore I do not bother explaining myself on that level, and certainly do not take their responses seriously anymore. There is no bond there. Therefore I don't care. I function within my own wavelength.
I HAVE to give LOVE a chance, dude! I am Piscean and even though God has closed a door for me, he will blow one wide open for me! I've felt it, dreamt it, seen it, and been "told" so š Gotta go as I'm gone for the day soon and I'm ready to get outta here! Here's a song for ya before I leave...
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Look, I do not deny the willingness of a person to be close to someone. Hell, I wouldn't deny myself that chance either. But look where it got you when let that experiment go on.
The people are society that they live in, is seriously f*ked up. There is no social levers to depend on. It's all to arbitrary to go on. I demand more traditional roles for people than what are they right now. At least traditional people value marriage and work to keep it going. Whereas today, people divorce in a heartbeat. Same goes with relationships. And same goes with business interactions. There is no fidelity or loyalty. Whoever can screw the other party over...gets to win. Sorry, not my place to deal with.
Do I FEAR getting married again? You bet your arse I do! I gotta work on that since God will take care of that for me as in the Holy Bible it states we should not FEAR the future as God is ALWAYS in control š
Yeah, diss me about my religion, referring to the Holy Bible, etc., but thank GOD I am NOT like you and others that have a black heart (hardened heart; it's in the Holy Bible, too).
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yes I agree that I have a blackheart. And yet, you are not in any better position. So what is the gain?click to expand

Posted by crocodileEva looks right and then left; uh, I'm not your enemy either.Posted by EvatheDivaI am not your enemy Eva. I wish you well.Posted by crocodileYou repeated yourself.Posted by EvatheDivaAnd yet you are not in any better position.Posted by crocodileUnderstandable UNTIL you hear it from the other side of the fence. I am Catholic, I married by church (went to marriage classes, counseling, and married a year thereafter). He cheated on me. I addressed this at the hospital he was at, called the hospital chaplains to listen to his reasoning (TRYING to change his mind). I realized BOOM!!āØ** "I cannot stay where I'm not wanted". I went home, threw his belongings on the front porch, and filed for divorce (he STILL lives w/the woman he left me for; in an apartment, NO 401k, NO health insurance, etc). Am I BITTER? Nope. Again, I give love a chance.Posted by EvatheDivaIf you are that much sure of yourself and trust yourself to have everything under your control...then more power to you. But judging from what you just told me above, I am not convinced that you are in control.Posted by crocodileThus the "cyber hugs!". But in true life I DO care! Been conversing with a Taurus man. FINALLY gonna meet face-to-face tomorrow. He's 8 (eight) years younger than I am; not really a cougar, but I've dated within this age range before.Posted by EvatheDivaI am sorry to hear that you put your trust on a traitor and a coward. I am not sure that I had a question that required that explanation. I am glad that you did anyway. I think it made you feel better somehow. Good for you, and me.Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!
I see her wedding picture (FAT) and that they went on their honeymoon, blah blah blah. I go to a different club and I see them there! Cecilia goes dancing on the floor with a guest (guy I didn't recognize) and she flips me the bird right there for all the club to see! She was flashing her wedding bands and such and I tell all my friends, "Nasty woman! That's the type of woman James wants....he's got her now!". That's when I approached James with my comment. How could I stay where I'm not wanted? He wanted her all this time and now they are married. Happily? I don't know/care.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: God has closed that door for me many, many, many moons ago!
Unfortunately I do not put my trust on people. I do not think any person worth that. Perhaps when I know the person well enough to put my trust on, then I can trust. But then it is circular. Anyway. People understand / do not understand alot of things. You call it being inquisitive, what planet people perceive it that way? Not the one we live on for sure. Therefore I do not bother explaining myself on that level, and certainly do not take their responses seriously anymore. There is no bond there. Therefore I don't care. I function within my own wavelength.
I HAVE to give LOVE a chance, dude! I am Piscean and even though God has closed a door for me, he will blow one wide open for me! I've felt it, dreamt it, seen it, and been "told" so š Gotta go as I'm gone for the day soon and I'm ready to get outta here! Here's a song for ya before I leave...
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Look, I do not deny the willingness of a person to be close to someone. Hell, I wouldn't deny myself that chance either. But look where it got you when let that experiment go on.
The people are society that they live in, is seriously f*ked up. There is no social levers to depend on. It's all to arbitrary to go on. I demand more traditional roles for people than what are they right now. At least traditional people value marriage and work to keep it going. Whereas today, people divorce in a heartbeat. Same goes with relationships. And same goes with business interactions. There is no fidelity or loyalty. Whoever can screw the other party over...gets to win. Sorry, not my place to deal with.
Do I FEAR getting married again? You bet your arse I do! I gotta work on that since God will take care of that for me as in the Holy Bible it states we should not FEAR the future as God is ALWAYS in control š
Yeah, diss me about my religion, referring to the Holy Bible, etc., but thank GOD I am NOT like you and others that have a black heart (hardened heart; it's in the Holy Bible, too).
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yes I agree that I have a blackheart. And yet, you are not in any better position. So what is the gain?
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand

Posted by crocodile"Said the pot to the kettle"Posted by EvatheDivaYou are missing the point.Posted by crocodileEva looks right and then left; uh, I'm not your enemy either.Posted by EvatheDivaI am not your enemy Eva. I wish you well.Posted by crocodileYou repeated yourself.Posted by EvatheDivaAnd yet you are not in any better position.Posted by crocodileUnderstandable UNTIL you hear it from the other side of the fence. I am Catholic, I married by church (went to marriage classes, counseling, and married a year thereafter). He cheated on me. I addressed this at the hospital he was at, called the hospital chaplains to listen to his reasoning (TRYING to change his mind). I realized BOOM!!āØ** "I cannot stay where I'm not wanted". I went home, threw his belongings on the front porch, and filed for divorce (he STILL lives w/the woman he left me for; in an apartment, NO 401k, NO health insurance, etc). Am I BITTER? Nope. Again, I give love a chance.Posted by EvatheDivaIf you are that much sure of yourself and trust yourself to have everything under your control...then more power to you. But judging from what you just told me above, I am not convinced that you are in control.Posted by crocodileThus the "cyber hugs!". But in true life I DO care! Been conversing with a Taurus man. FINALLY gonna meet face-to-face tomorrow. He's 8 (eight) years younger than I am; not really a cougar, but I've dated within this age range before.Posted by EvatheDivaI am sorry to hear that you put your trust on a traitor and a coward. I am not sure that I had a question that required that explanation. I am glad that you did anyway. I think it made you feel better somehow. Good for you, and me.Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!
I see her wedding picture (FAT) and that they went on their honeymoon, blah blah blah. I go to a different club and I see them there! Cecilia goes dancing on the floor with a guest (guy I didn't recognize) and she flips me the bird right there for all the club to see! She was flashing her wedding bands and such and I tell all my friends, "Nasty woman! That's the type of woman James wants....he's got her now!". That's when I approached James with my comment. How could I stay where I'm not wanted? He wanted her all this time and now they are married. Happily? I don't know/care.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: God has closed that door for me many, many, many moons ago!
Unfortunately I do not put my trust on people. I do not think any person worth that. Perhaps when I know the person well enough to put my trust on, then I can trust. But then it is circular. Anyway. People understand / do not understand alot of things. You call it being inquisitive, what planet people perceive it that way? Not the one we live on for sure. Therefore I do not bother explaining myself on that level, and certainly do not take their responses seriously anymore. There is no bond there. Therefore I don't care. I function within my own wavelength.
I HAVE to give LOVE a chance, dude! I am Piscean and even though God has closed a door for me, he will blow one wide open for me! I've felt it, dreamt it, seen it, and been "told" so š Gotta go as I'm gone for the day soon and I'm ready to get outta here! Here's a song for ya before I leave...
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Look, I do not deny the willingness of a person to be close to someone. Hell, I wouldn't deny myself that chance either. But look where it got you when let that experiment go on.
The people are society that they live in, is seriously f*ked up. There is no social levers to depend on. It's all to arbitrary to go on. I demand more traditional roles for people than what are they right now. At least traditional people value marriage and work to keep it going. Whereas today, people divorce in a heartbeat. Same goes with relationships. And same goes with business interactions. There is no fidelity or loyalty. Whoever can screw the other party over...gets to win. Sorry, not my place to deal with.
Do I FEAR getting married again? You bet your arse I do! I gotta work on that since God will take care of that for me as in the Holy Bible it states we should not FEAR the future as God is ALWAYS in control š
Yeah, diss me about my religion, referring to the Holy Bible, etc., but thank GOD I am NOT like you and others that have a black heart (hardened heart; it's in the Holy Bible, too).
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yes I agree that I have a blackheart. And yet, you are not in any better position. So what is the gain?
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand


Posted by CatullusAgreed.
Eggshells are caused by overly critical partners with unstable emotions, it's actually a power play tactic on his part. He's trying to criticize you to the point where you lose all your self-esteem, your sense of self-worth so he can control you. This eggshell situation will never go away because it's a tool for him to maintain control, eventually you'll be second guessing yourself to the point where you just accept that he's right with no questions. Then later down the road he'll start trying to isolate you by bashing your friends and family.
I've worked with abuse survivors, eggshells are never a good thing early on in a relationship and in my opinion you should walk away now.

Posted by crocodileA "Christian" doesn't "ride the high horse".Posted by EvatheDivaSo are you when you call me a "blackheart".Posted by crocodile"Said the pot to the kettle"Posted by EvatheDivaYou are missing the point.Posted by crocodileEva looks right and then left; uh, I'm not your enemy either.Posted by EvatheDivaI am not your enemy Eva. I wish you well.Posted by crocodileYou repeated yourself.Posted by EvatheDivaAnd yet you are not in any better position.Posted by crocodileUnderstandable UNTIL you hear it from the other side of the fence. I am Catholic, I married by church (went to marriage classes, counseling, and married a year thereafter). He cheated on me. I addressed this at the hospital he was at, called the hospital chaplains to listen to his reasoning (TRYING to change his mind). I realized BOOM!!āØ** "I cannot stay where I'm not wanted". I went home, threw his belongings on the front porch, and filed for divorce (he STILL lives w/the woman he left me for; in an apartment, NO 401k, NO health insurance, etc). Am I BITTER? Nope. Again, I give love a chance.Posted by EvatheDivaIf you are that much sure of yourself and trust yourself to have everything under your control...then more power to you. But judging from what you just told me above, I am not convinced that you are in control.Posted by crocodileThus the "cyber hugs!". But in true life I DO care! Been conversing with a Taurus man. FINALLY gonna meet face-to-face tomorrow. He's 8 (eight) years younger than I am; not really a cougar, but I've dated within this age range before.Posted by EvatheDivaI am sorry to hear that you put your trust on a traitor and a coward. I am not sure that I had a question that required that explanation. I am glad that you did anyway. I think it made you feel better somehow. Good for you, and me.Posted by crocodileBeing inquisitive is NOT the same as "pushing forward". Nope, we didn't talk things out. Why? Because I asked the office for my apt key (I lied to them), used it to come into the apartment (his secretary answered the phone when he didn't show up after going to the club w/his friends with MY blessings. I got dressed and went to work; secretary told me, "Eva, James (Cancer) called in sick today, he told me he slept with Cecilia"). I was FUMING! I entered his apartment (he was asleep on the couch), I gathered my personal items, and told him, "Did you sleep with Cecilia?" He said, "No". I told him, "you lied! Monica (secretary) told me you slept with Cecilia (Taurus)" (you should have seen the look on his face). I SLAPPED his face and spat on it (YOU asked me a question, Crocodile, and I'm answering it). Well, I go to the club (my birthday March) and the DJ announces their engagement! You should have seen all 20/40 people look on CUE directly at me! I enjoyed myself that night and didn't pay any attention.Posted by EvatheDivaThen you are lucky. I always seem to find something to fight on. I just cant otherwise. I just have to push forward all the time, and it pisses everybody off.Posted by crocodileI have been asked by an ex-bf ("Eva, why don't we fight?"). I answered, "Because we get along so well, we talk things out, and I don't like to fight"Posted by EvatheDivaSometimes I can be the one who is doing those things. And I hate it when someone nitpicks my behavior. I can accept within a reason. But then you would ask what is the reason of not being sloppy? And you would be correct. I suppose to each their own.Posted by crocodileMay I add if you're late when he's ready to leave at the set time to go out THAT would piss anyone off, esp a Piscean! š”
Why do you want it to work?
I have a feeling that you do understand him, but disagree with him. Which is a fundamental problem. Are you sloppy? Are you messy? That can be quite annoying. Do you misplace things ... alot? That can also be annoying. Such annoying things can build up. And cause eruptions over very little things.
If you're RUDE to waitresses/waiting staff, that will piss us Pisceans off, too! If you keep asking, "What do you mean by that?" pisses us off to (it's as if you weren't paying attention and we're wasting our breath having to repeat ourselves and/or explain ourselves to you".
Are you the jealous type? We HATE that, too!
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: He cheated on me, married the FAT girl, and had a baby w/her. I bumped into him and said, "You lost the BEST fu*cking thing that ever came into your life". He looked up (he's 6'4") and said, "I know"
PS: Since he left you, I suppose you didn't talk all things out.
PS2: See, I am doing it even here. I should walk away and not say anything to you, but I simply don't give up and drill it down into your soul until I stuck into something that will create a reaction out of you. Yes I have issues.LOL!
I see her wedding picture (FAT) and that they went on their honeymoon, blah blah blah. I go to a different club and I see them there! Cecilia goes dancing on the floor with a guest (guy I didn't recognize) and she flips me the bird right there for all the club to see! She was flashing her wedding bands and such and I tell all my friends, "Nasty woman! That's the type of woman James wants....he's got her now!". That's when I approached James with my comment. How could I stay where I'm not wanted? He wanted her all this time and now they are married. Happily? I don't know/care.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: God has closed that door for me many, many, many moons ago!
Unfortunately I do not put my trust on people. I do not think any person worth that. Perhaps when I know the person well enough to put my trust on, then I can trust. But then it is circular. Anyway. People understand / do not understand alot of things. You call it being inquisitive, what planet people perceive it that way? Not the one we live on for sure. Therefore I do not bother explaining myself on that level, and certainly do not take their responses seriously anymore. There is no bond there. Therefore I don't care. I function within my own wavelength.
I HAVE to give LOVE a chance, dude! I am Piscean and even though God has closed a door for me, he will blow one wide open for me! I've felt it, dreamt it, seen it, and been "told" so š Gotta go as I'm gone for the day soon and I'm ready to get outta here! Here's a song for ya before I leave...
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Look, I do not deny the willingness of a person to be close to someone. Hell, I wouldn't deny myself that chance either. But look where it got you when let that experiment go on.
The people are society that they live in, is seriously f*ked up. There is no social levers to depend on. It's all to arbitrary to go on. I demand more traditional roles for people than what are they right now. At least traditional people value marriage and work to keep it going. Whereas today, people divorce in a heartbeat. Same goes with relationships. And same goes with business interactions. There is no fidelity or loyalty. Whoever can screw the other party over...gets to win. Sorry, not my place to deal with.
Do I FEAR getting married again? You bet your arse I do! I gotta work on that since God will take care of that for me as in the Holy Bible it states we should not FEAR the future as God is ALWAYS in control š
Yeah, diss me about my religion, referring to the Holy Bible, etc., but thank GOD I am NOT like you and others that have a black heart (hardened heart; it's in the Holy Bible, too).
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yes I agree that I have a blackheart. And yet, you are not in any better position. So what is the gain?
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Then what is the difference? You presented being a "blackheart" as something inferior. Let's assume for a moment that it is true. What do you gain by not being a blackheart? Nothing, since you called it "said pot to the keetle". Then what is the purpose of riding that high horse?click to expand


Posted by crocodile"I am fine by it" GEE, THANKS FOR YOUR PERMISSION TO DO SO.Posted by EvatheDivaMore evasion.
Who cares about what Christians do. We are talking about you.
Thus the "black heart/hardened heart"
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I get it. You have nothing else to say.
Btw, I am not hardened heart. Just very careful. But I realize that it is important for you to be a good "Christian" so continue perpetuating your own beliefs even though they are contrary to the world around you. I know it makes you feels better. I am fine by it.click to expand

Posted by crocodile"Nil, null, and void" You do the same!Posted by EvatheDivaIt wasn't an act of giving a permission. Just informing you that I am okay with it, so no need to try to hide behind it.Posted by crocodile"I am fine by it" GEE, THANKS FOR YOUR PERMISSION TO DO SO.Posted by EvatheDivaMore evasion.
Who cares about what Christians do. We are talking about you.
Thus the "black heart/hardened heart"
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I get it. You have nothing else to say.
Btw, I am not hardened heart. Just very careful. But I realize that it is important for you to be a good "Christian" so continue perpetuating your own beliefs even though they are contrary to the world around you. I know it makes you feels better. I am fine by it.
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I feel like you are going to twist anything that I am saying from now on. Therefore conversation value is near zero.
Have a nice day Eva.click to expand

Posted by crocodilePosted by EvatheDivaYeah you are probably just another faulty human being. Can't really blame you for it.Posted by crocodile"Nil, null, and void" You do the same!Posted by EvatheDivaIt wasn't an act of giving a permission. Just informing you that I am okay with it, so no need to try to hide behind it.Posted by crocodile"I am fine by it" GEE, THANKS FOR YOUR PERMISSION TO DO SO.Posted by EvatheDivaMore evasion.
Who cares about what Christians do. We are talking about you.
Thus the "black heart/hardened heart"
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I get it. You have nothing else to say.
Btw, I am not hardened heart. Just very careful. But I realize that it is important for you to be a good "Christian" so continue perpetuating your own beliefs even though they are contrary to the world around you. I know it makes you feels better. I am fine by it.
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I feel like you are going to twist anything that I am saying from now on. Therefore conversation value is near zero.
Have a nice day Eva.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand

Posted by crocodileDo "animals" then.Posted by EvatheDivaHumans suck, I know.Posted by crocodilePosted by EvatheDivaYeah you are probably just another faulty human being. Can't really blame you for it.Posted by crocodile"Nil, null, and void" You do the same!Posted by EvatheDivaIt wasn't an act of giving a permission. Just informing you that I am okay with it, so no need to try to hide behind it.Posted by crocodile"I am fine by it" GEE, THANKS FOR YOUR PERMISSION TO DO SO.Posted by EvatheDivaMore evasion.
Who cares about what Christians do. We are talking about you.
Thus the "black heart/hardened heart"
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I get it. You have nothing else to say.
Btw, I am not hardened heart. Just very careful. But I realize that it is important for you to be a good "Christian" so continue perpetuating your own beliefs even though they are contrary to the world around you. I know it makes you feels better. I am fine by it.
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I feel like you are going to twist anything that I am saying from now on. Therefore conversation value is near zero.
Have a nice day Eva.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva![]()
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
click to expand

Posted by crocodileš (don't tell Taurean; John) I gave you one.Posted by EvatheDivaYou are a good Christian Eva.Posted by crocodileDo "animals" then.Posted by EvatheDivaHumans suck, I know.Posted by crocodilePosted by EvatheDivaYeah you are probably just another faulty human being. Can't really blame you for it.Posted by crocodile"Nil, null, and void" You do the same!Posted by EvatheDivaIt wasn't an act of giving a permission. Just informing you that I am okay with it, so no need to try to hide behind it.Posted by crocodile"I am fine by it" GEE, THANKS FOR YOUR PERMISSION TO DO SO.Posted by EvatheDivaMore evasion.
Who cares about what Christians do. We are talking about you.
Thus the "black heart/hardened heart"
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I get it. You have nothing else to say.
Btw, I am not hardened heart. Just very careful. But I realize that it is important for you to be a good "Christian" so continue perpetuating your own beliefs even though they are contrary to the world around you. I know it makes you feels better. I am fine by it.
š¤ Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I feel like you are going to twist anything that I am saying from now on. Therefore conversation value is near zero.
Have a nice day Eva.
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva![]()
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
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He doesn't like u like that.
I can be bat sh1t crazy around mine and then normal the next. It turns him on.