Met a leo man online

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virgo29
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So i met this leo guy online 2 months ago and we have been non stop messaging and talking but we haven't seen each other yet because he lives 1 1/2 away and he doesn't want me driving there due to the length of the drive.

He always answers my all unless at work, call me and we laugh a lot together. calls me his babe, babi boo, etc.. he sends me videos, asks me who im with or going out with. He even make little comments like are you going out with your boyfriend and laughs afterwards

He wake me up in the morning every day never fails with a call and texts throughout the day.

I really like him ( from what I know of him anyways)

Its been two months and yet he still has his profile still up on the dating site.. is this okay since we are not official

what if hes got other girls going on there too and chatting with them them...

I mean i know Im not his girlfriend and he has made it clear that he wants to be with me and just waiting to get a car but is the online thing a red flag.

he always has me on speak phone so Ive had minor conversations with his sister, dad and brother and friends but does that mean anything really..

are they loyal, do they lie, should i trust him...

any insight here would be great..
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AquaNextDoor
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"What if hes got other girls going on there too and chatting with them them..."

You better believe that since you haven't met face2face and aren't official. I don't think he is playing you but he keeps his options open as u both aren't official.

My advice: keep him as an option but don't throw all your eggs in his basket. 1 1/2h distance is not thaaaat far, he could've met u by bus/train whatever, borrowing a friends car.. u know that if someone truly wants to see you they will.

I wouldn't write him off but I'd tell him to make a move if he wants to take things further otherwise you keep your dating options open - which is your right.

🌷 Good luck
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virgo29
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@LadyNeptune

We have done video a number of time and Skype, but your right the drive isn’t that long so I need to address it

@AquaNextDoor

We have talk about the train schedule but I also have been busy the last few weekends so I will put the option out there. I agree with you if e wanted to he would.

He came out straight and told me that he is def pursuing me its just that the car thing is a set back right now

@oxSunQueenxo

His birthday is July 24 1984 and I am aug 29 1979

Yea I will def take it slow



Thanks everyone
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LadyNeptune
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@LadyNeptune

We have done video a number of time and Skype, but your right the drive isn’t that long so I need to address it

@AquaNextDoor

We have talk about the train schedule but I also have been busy the last few weekends so I will put the option out there. I agree with you if e wanted to he would.

He came out straight and told me that he is def pursuing me its just that the car thing is a set back right now

@oxSunQueenxo

His birthday is July 24 1984 and I am aug 29 1979

Yea I will def take it slow



Thanks everyone
Well thats good. At least you know he's not catfishing you.

So in order for anything to come of this you guys need to meet. Maybe propose a half way point? If he doesn't make an effort to see you I'd say cut him off in the next few weeks.

After you meet IF the chemistry is good and IF you can see some longevity there then MAYBE bring up the dating profile ish.
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virgo29
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ok so your advice is very sound and logical thank you all so much.

Its just odd because we talk on the phone for hours at night, he calls me in the mornings to talk before work, texts throughout the day when he can. Send me videos of him self singing, etc..

Yesterday we were texting back and forth about tattoos and he said hes get my finger print on his arm if we ended up together and when I text back about body is serious, he called me right away telling me he'd do anything for the girl he loved.

When I'm going out he ask with who, make small jokes like, "you have a hot date or something?..

He was pretty upset/annoyed one time a few weeks ago when a guy friend of mine came over to use my gym. He actually told me if you end up being my girl, no guys are coming over to you place they can go find their own gym.

We talk and text everyday about sill shit and sexual stuff but trying to keep it classy of course.

So my question is this, is this all blowing smoke here... if he would just come see me I feel like I'd know for sure, uggghhh
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Fadnav
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Well I dont know about leo man but I as a woman when I am interested in someone I stay in touch alot and start getting serious pretty soon.

But lets face it our zodiac sign does not mean we all are the same from a particular sign group.

So dont think negative and wait till you meet him in person and as for seeing other people My Q is why every one is in hurry.

Give one person your complete attention

We expect from others to just think of us and then when it comes to us we start doubting

So keep i causal and see where it will go after you see him in person and like you yourself said that because of your own busy schedule you yourself cant even go to his place

so understand that he might be facing the same problem