My Leo came back again after a year and a half.

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Now he stopped talking to me again and Im so upset and worried he wont talk to me again. He answered a couple times because he was mad but I was mad too and said lots of things. i just get so angry and impatient. I told him I'd find somebody else. Now hes just ignoring all my phone calls. It started with I thought he was seeing someone else. Im so upset. I said horrible things. He started off saying things as well and then I just keep going. Im afraid to stop texting him or calling and he will think I just dont care.
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Haven't read your other post but as a Leo we're very stubborn and when you say stuff like "well I'll find someone else" it just makes us say fine forget it, go find someone else. We will not beg you or do stuff like ask why would you say something like that. He knows you said it out of anger but is just mad at you because saying you'll find someone else was just a little too far. Just explain you said it out of anger and you don't want to look for someone else and he'll come around. We can stay mad for a bit of time but we usually come back around in due time. If we're not mad THEN worry, if we're mad we still care we just need time to come around.
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Thank to everyone.

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Haven't read your other post but as a Leo we're very stubborn and when you say stuff like "well I'll find someone else" it just makes us say fine forget it, go find someone else. We will not beg you or do stuff like ask why would you say something like that. He knows you said it out of anger but is just mad at you because saying you'll find someone else was just a little too far. Just explain you said it out of anger and you don't want to look for someone else and he'll come around. We can stay mad for a bit of time but we usually come back around in due time. If we're not mad THEN worry, if we're mad we still care we just need time to come around.



I just think its awful how he purposely ignores me he answered me about 3 times and then would disappear. Telling him I'd find someone else was response to him ignoring me and finding it ok to keep doing and treat me like I really don't matter.

It started with me calling at one time and him thinking I was someone else. He had answered the phone saying "Hey Babe"and then I said something and he goes "Who are you?" and I told him who is it was and he hung up. I'm not his child or below him so I dont know what gives him the idea to give me the silent treatment. Him not clarifying if what I thought was true or not is enough to show me he is a cheater. His response was abusive like telling me I gained soooo much weight and Im a loser. So I started coming back at him with crap about himself which he couldn't take. He'd get embarrassed and hang up the phone.

The worse part about it is i tried taking it all back by apologizing and then being nice and he didnt respond. From day one he has been like this. I dont what I did to him that he felt getting involved with me for no other purpose then to make me crazy and upset.

This is 3rd time we connected back together. I left about 5 messages a week and a half ago and he hasnt deleted them yet. I dont understand why he would get in contact with me only to cut me off but people do it and hes no exception.

I talked to a Leo before and he was the same exact way except we didnt have the connection like me and this Leo had. Im running over and over in my mind that its just another replay. He has always complained I moved to fast when we met. But he was the one who turned into a controlling father after day one. I swear if h
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Thank to everyone.

Posted by leodilemma19900730
Haven't read your other post but as a Leo we're very stubborn and when you say stuff like "well I'll find someone else" it just makes us say fine forget it, go find someone else. We will not beg you or do stuff like ask why would you say something like that. He knows you said it out of anger but is just mad at you because saying you'll find someone else was just a little too far. Just explain you said it out of anger and you don't want to look for someone else and he'll come around. We can stay mad for a bit of time but we usually come back around in due time. If we're not mad THEN worry, if we're mad we still care we just need time to come around.
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I just think its awful how he purposely ignores me he answered me about 3 times and then would disappear. Telling him I'd find someone else was response to him ignoring me and finding it ok to keep doing and treat me like I really don't matter.

It started with me calling at one time and him thinking I was someone else. He had answered the phone saying "Hey Babe"and then I said something and he goes "Who are you?" and I told him who is it was and he hung up. I'm not his child or below him so I dont know what gives him the idea to give me the silent treatment. Him not clarifying if what I thought was true or not is enough to show me he is a cheater. His response was abusive like telling me I gained soooo much weight and Im a loser. So I started coming back at him with crap about himself which he couldn't take. He'd get embarrassed and hang up the phone.

The worse part about it is i tried taking it all back by apologizing and then being nice and he didnt respond. From day one he has been like this. I dont what I did to him that he felt getting involved with me for no other purpose then to make me crazy and upset.

This is 3rd time we connected back together. I left about 5 messages a week and a half ago and he hasnt deleted them yet. I dont understand why he would get in contact with me only to cut me off but people do it and hes no exception.

I talked to a Leo before and he was the same exact way except we didnt have the connection like me and this Leo had. Im running over and over in my mind that its just another replay. He has always complained I moved t
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Sorry my comment got cut off.

Don't you think it's odd how he picked up the phone and asked who it was? It's 2015 every cell phone displays a contact name. So unless he deleted you contact, you called him from a different number, or called his house then he shouldn't have asked who you were. So lets assume that you called him on his cell and he didn't delete your contact then he probably just asked who you were to be a huge jerk and make you think he was mistaking you for another girl. If that's the case I wouldn't even give him the time of day until he did some serious pursuing, make him work for it because that was extremely childish and rude and even he did pursue a lot I would still would consider if I wanted to be with someone who toys with your emotions for absolutely no reason. Now, lets assume that he truly didn't recognize you number then he more than likely did think you were another girl and if so RUN IMMEDIATELY!

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Thanks LeoDilemma yes I thought that he deleted my number or just doesnt save it. He is a waste. And he only cares about his feelings. He has played emotional games with me. I just talked him on the phone and he doesnt seem to really care Im upset. Somehow this got turned around on me being overbearing. He is overbearing and controlling but I never get a chance to say it. If he can easily change his mind about how he feels its wrong.

I thought if we talked again he would change and Id have him wrapped around my finger but I guess I didnt give him much time to think I wasnt going to respond to him and also Ive been here before once they get settled in they start acting like their old selves again.

And he hangs up the phone so I dont get to say anything. I thought when men are after 40 they'd be different but he is more childish then the younger guys I've dated. At least now I have a clean slate to start from and the freedom to do and feel anything without being paranoid he will leave me. Maybe I can pursue my career goals after all.
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Thanks SalamanderCandy .. Sorry I didn't respond right away. I had to take a break I was pretty ashamed with how I let everything go here. I still try to contact him and at the end of the night I tell myself Im not going to tomorrow. He responds with short mean responses. He told me he didnt have to give me a reason why he stopped. He was on the phone the entire time I was at his house and then told me I was pushing to much to be intimate and that it was a turn off so we werent going to do anything. But Im gonna try not to fill my head with reasons and bs cause its down now to him just going about his day and sleeping at night like I dont exist.
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Well regardless if that was wrong to say I have done enough to prove to him he was the only one so he has told me he is with someone else and Im a crazy F* so he can go I dont really care Im not a baby and his doormat. I pretended to be for too long and he didnt care so I do not care. He is just as weak as everybody else Ive been with. I dont want to be with him Im afraid Ill end up homeless or dead somewhere and he wouldn't do anything even if we were on good terms. Im not his child so he cannot play silent games with me or try to put me in my place by ignoring me and torturing me. He has said horrible things to me and he cant take it when I throw it right back at him. He has multiple personalities one minute hes telling not to make plans for the end of the weekend the next minute he cannot even remember my number and is giving me the cold shoulder. Let some other b* deal with him. i might be weak at first but eventually I find my door and go through it again and start building from where i left off. There is always my career goals and my cats I can devote my heart and time to til the next one comes around.
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You are the first case I hear a Leo back after a long time... Usually when a Leo break up , it will be forever if the time is so long. If he back to you , but don't talk to you again, that means he may feel lonely only, there is nothing better for the moment and you may be that better one right now. BUT , Leo has a big heart, Leo forgive easy and is ready always to start again and again even with the same person ! Leo need love , compliments, sweet and romantic time . Without all this, Leo is feeling very sad. Leo is come back to someone who hurt him , just to finish with that person. He may need more info about you or an answer to something from past, to can move on . So, be careful. Talk open with him or if you don't want him anymore, tell him this and he will understand. From a Leo woman 🙂
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God this set up is ridiculous.. Why are you playing this drama out?? He is being as azz hole, immature Leo's play games, just like this one.
Are you two actually in a relationship? It all sounds such hard work...relationships shouldn't be such hard work with you wondering WHY all the time.
plus If you keep saying stuff to him and then say after that you don't mean it he's gonna think you are loopy and can't be consistent. So say what you mean and mean what you say. So if you're going to leave him then follow through and instead of trying to go back to him with your tail between your legs, follow through your words with actions. You're better than this!!
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It's not you who screwed this up! He doesn't sound like a nice guy. You shouldn't have said that you'd find someone else but I'm sure he said many horrible things to you too. Don't take the whole blame on you. And the situation with the phone when he couldn't recognise you was very strange.

Why do you want him back? I'm sorry but I don't think he really likes you. It seems like he doesn't respect you and doesn't care for you. He's a waste of time.

If you said horrible things to me I would get upset of course but if I liked you and wanted you I wouldn't treat you like rubbish, I would get moody for a day but then I would want to make up and be with you. If I did't like you and didn't care for you I would be horrible to you especially if you let me do it and kept contacting me.
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No problem.

Great you didn't go to his place, but not so great you two argued.

If you love him and want him then you have to stay tough but positive, you have to stay strong and control your emotions. He has to see more in you than just sex. I'm afraid I can't give you any more advice than that. It's going to be very difficult and sorry to say this but you may not succeed. You should really focus on you and do some deep thinking about what you want and how you really feel about him and your relationship with him. My personal opinion is that you deserve better.

He wanted you to come over to have sex, you didn't want and then he got annoyed with you and you argued. He should be chasing you now, you shouldn't be calling him.

Read this:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/advice-about-leo-sun-cancer-moon-5480965/
Copied and pasted from this thread:
Rule Number One- Do you.
Rule Number Two- Do you.
Rule Number Three- Refer rule One and Two...

You'll always come out a Winner that way =)

At the end of the day don't do head miles over something you cannot control, just stick to your guns, be sincere and respect yourself first and foremost, and the guy who can handle that will come along.