Posted by Miamia13Yeah if I cheated I would've left the relationship and if he was to break up with me I would probably be ok with it just because there was someone else but I didn't cheat . I just lost his trust over something else .. Ugh .. He's treating me like I cheated ..
I knew a woman that was with a Pisces woman. He loved her immensely but she cheated on him. She got him back but then he cheated on her. (Probably for ego purposes)
Posted by cvurkoI know Leo's like to have their ego fed but how can I do that when he doesn't want to hear it and he doesn't want to talk or how can I do that without making him run even more ??
It seems to me that apart from the damage you did on his trust, which by itself is not irreperable, you did damage to his ego and that, for a Leo, is a big deal. I'd focus more on the latter by showing him he is the only one for you, "the best", and you talking with yout ex had no romantic feelings involved. The trust issue is secondary, imho, but still important, partially cause he probably doesnt acknowledge his ego being hurt and would be even more hurt if you are not subtle with how you act right now.
Some people's Ego's are just too big. You can use it tho.
Edit: i obviously have limited info so i might very well be making a big mistake giving you that advice
Posted by cvurkoPerfectly reasonable that it won't work ??Posted by pham90Id give him some time and space atm. You have to calm down as well. Even if you try to make things work between you i would advise you to lose all expectations you have. Try to fix it while knowing that you might not succeed and be ok with that scenario. ^^ its a perfectly reasonable scenario after all.Posted by cvurkoI know Leo's like to have their ego fed but how can I do that when he doesn't want to hear it and he doesn't want to talk or how can I do that without making him run even more ??
It seems to me that apart from the damage you did on his trust, which by itself is not irreperable, you did damage to his ego and that, for a Leo, is a big deal. I'd focus more on the latter by showing him he is the only one for you, "the best", and you talking with yout ex had no romantic feelings involved. The trust issue is secondary, imho, but still important, partially cause he probably doesnt acknowledge his ego being hurt and would be even more hurt if you are not subtle with how you act right now.
Some people's Ego's are just too big. You can use it tho.
Edit: i obviously have limited info so i might very well be making a big mistake giving you that adviceclick to expand
Posted by cvurkoYeah I know .. It's a 50/50 .. But how should I go about It ? Should I not contact him and wait for him to contact me ? Act like all is fine and maybe he'll miss me and come back ? Or should I wait awhile and reach out to him ? There's has to be a certain way a Leo works Right ? Don't they like a challenge or should I disregard that ?Posted by pham90Its a real possibility and if you want to have any chance of getting him back and feeling adequate in the process you have to admit it to yourself.Posted by cvurkoPerfectly reasonable that it won't work ??Posted by pham90Id give him some time and space atm. You have to calm down as well. Even if you try to make things work between you i would advise you to lose all expectations you have. Try to fix it while knowing that you might not succeed and be ok with that scenario. ^^ its a perfectly reasonable scenario after all.Posted by cvurkoI know Leo's like to have their ego fed but how can I do that when he doesn't want to hear it and he doesn't want to talk or how can I do that without making him run even more ??
It seems to me that apart from the damage you did on his trust, which by itself is not irreperable, you did damage to his ego and that, for a Leo, is a big deal. I'd focus more on the latter by showing him he is the only one for you, "the best", and you talking with yout ex had no romantic feelings involved. The trust issue is secondary, imho, but still important, partially cause he probably doesnt acknowledge his ego being hurt and would be even more hurt if you are not subtle with how you act right now.
Some people's Ego's are just too big. You can use it tho.
Edit: i obviously have limited info so i might very well be making a big mistake giving you that advice
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