We had a fight again.

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lamisaahun
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My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
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Posted by lamisaahun
My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
Why are you messaging someone who has a gf?

Would you like it if another girl texted your bf?

Hes probably questioning your motives at this point.
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Posted by lamisaahun
My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
yikes, if you've already promised your leo something then why would you go back on your promise? if anything you should've asked him permission (even though it seems silly, leos can be paranoid without showing it on the surface) if he's not comfortable with you talking to him then i don't know why you would be involved. the best thing to do in this scenario is either give the leo his space (however chances are he might start distancing himself), but you should probably apologise even though you dont see yourself in the wrong - he's hurt and thus if you really do appreciate this relationship and want to save it, the best thing to do would be to suck it up, AFTER you both have made up then maybe he can explain his feelings to you about why he felt so strongly about you not talking to that individual.
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Sounds like you got a paranoid Leo on your hands. It would be one thing if this other guy was hitting on you and disrespecting your relationship, but clearly that's not the case. If this guy is truly your friend and in a committed relationship of his own, then the Leo has nothing to fear. Even IF the other guy secretly has feelings for you, that doesn't really matter if he never acts on it.

Most men know that women tend to keep men around as friends who (they may or may not know) wanted romance at some point. Men also know that most guys will agree to a "friendship" as a means to keep the emotional connection open in the event another chance at romance emerges. These "friendships" usually tend to evaporate when the guy gets into a relationship, though not always. However some friendships are actually just that. So the Leo shouldn't be concerned about your platonic friends.

Regardless your Leo's reaction also reveals that he doesn't trust you as a person. It takes two to tango. So even if your friend crossed the line, it's still your choice to allow it. You can't have a healthy loving relationship with a guy who is so paranoid about your friendships, that he seeks to prevent you from socializing. This will only smother you and give you reason to eventually resent him. If he is truly a confident man, then the Leo would know that he has no equal in your eyes. He'd remain emotionally secure knowing that if you left him, he would find someone better.

You don't want to validate this behavior further by feeding into it. If you told him that the guy was a friend and he said, "Ok I trust you" then he has no grounds to be upset with you. He basically gave you permission to talk to the guy. Also let's be clear, the Leo does not have the authority to tell you who can and can't talk to because you're NOT his PROPERTY. So you're going to need to put your foot down on this one. Let the Leo know that you don't want to fight with him, but don't appreciate his lack of trust in you. Let him know that you're not going dump your platonic friendships for no reason. If he expect you to start dropping friends, then he needs to give you a really good reason why.

If he can't do that, then you'll need to find a man with more confidence.
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Posted by lamisaahun
My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
Why are you messaging someone who has a gf?

Would you like it if another girl texted your bf?

Hes probably questioning your motives at this point.
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It’s from the same box where other things kept like ‘he caught me off guards and kissed me and I kissed him back but I don’t know how this is happened...I am so confused now...’ lmao
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by lamisaahun
My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
Why are you messaging someone who has a gf?

Would you like it if another girl texted your bf?

Hes probably questioning your motives at this point.
It’s from the same box where other things kept like ‘he caught me off guards and kissed me and I kissed him back but I don’t know how this is happened...I am so confused now...’ lmao
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Ugh i know. What a headache honestly.
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by lamisaahun
My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
Why are you messaging someone who has a gf?

Would you like it if another girl texted your bf?

Hes probably questioning your motives at this point.
It’s from the same box where other things kept like ‘he caught me off guards and kissed me and I kissed him back but I don’t know how this is happened...I am so confused now...’ lmao

Ugh i know. What a headache honestly.

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It’s not a headache...just a party ‘let me bullshit your ass because I don’t care about this guy...I just text him because I need more friends...male friends...that is!’

Honey....it’s not what it seems...fuck that centence...!!!’

But it works...in a movies...there never afterfact...like...let us hear what it is!’

They always end at that phrase...

Lmao
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Posted by lamisaahun
My leo guy and I had a fight again. He didn’t like that I talked to a guy. He had told me not to talk to him before and I told him I swear he’s a friend. He said okay, I trust you, which is why I thought it was okay for me to have a friendly chat with the guy who has A GF AND IS VERY LOYAL TO HER. My leo got really mad after that. Since then he stopped texting me and when I do text him, he leaves me on read. He’s almost always online these two days. His snapchat score keeps increasing too. I told him that I didn’t do anything and you’re still mad, is it because you did something I don’t know and you’re reacting to this to make yourself feel better? He replied 👍🏻.
Why are you messaging someone who has a gf?

Would you like it if another girl texted your bf?

Hes probably questioning your motives at this point.
It’s from the same box where other things kept like ‘he caught me off guards and kissed me and I kissed him back but I don’t know how this is happened...I am so confused now...’ lmao

Ugh i know. What a headache honestly.


It’s not a headache...just a party ‘let me bullshit your ass because I don’t care about this guy...I just text him because I need more friends...male friends...that is!’

Honey....it’s not what it seems...fuck that centence...!!!’

But it works...in a movies...there never afterfact...like...let us hear what it is!’

They always end at that phrase...

Lmao
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BINGO! Why don’t they EVER show us the answer?

Is it like religious thing?

That’s not what it seeems?

Your dick is in her...are you saving her from what?

Response: it’s ok honey, you’ve always cared for people and this woman clearly needed fucking. I understand...I will sit nearby while she cums! Go ahead...it’s ok.

I love you! You saving the world!...

Women are stupid! Including myself anytime. Dick power is...huge!

Those who fight it - fuck them!

Women needs men!

Deny...deny...deny...and die knowing you want SEX but you are too stupid to be proud of not having it!

LMAO! 😂😂😂