CW13408286
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What to do with this Leo guy
"Everything goes well, we meet twice a week and act as gf and bf. We even spent Valentine's day together. The only thing is that everytime we had the " relationship conversation", he just couldn't make the commitment. He said it was so hurt before so he's scared about the relationship thing. Also he works super hard from school so he told me it's the time he make the commitment to school but not relationship."
Unfortunately regardless of how you to are acting, he doesn't consider the two of you in the relationship. While school is important, it sounds like he is making up excuses based on what you've said. He simply doesn't want a commitment with you.
"I accepted his opinion and we still good now. But few days ago, I found that he is on tinder again, I feel sad about it but cannot say anything as we are not exclusive. Is it not weird that we've been seeing each other for 1 year and everything goes well but he is now trying to know new girls— "
Right so now you know what his real intentions are. He's looking to date around and not be locked down. Another red flag is that you've had feelings for this guy for a year, but he's still not interesting in making you his girlfriend. At this point he's had more than enough time to change his mind if he actually interested in you.
"What shall I do? I really like this guy and can see me falling in love with him. Anything I can do with this leo guy? Would leo guy still flirting with other girls when they have exclusive partner??"
Leos are very territorial and we won't risk losing someone we actually care about. It's very possible that he's not in the position to be serious with anyone due to school, in which case there's nothing really you can do to make him commit. My advice is to walk away from this guy and find someone who values you. A good Leo will stick with the person they're with, remaining extremely loyal to their lover. However since you two aren't actually together or exclusive, don't expect him to remain faithful to you alone.
Unfortunately regardless of how you to are acting, he doesn't consider the two of you in the relationship. While school is important, it sounds like he is making up excuses based on what you've said. He simply doesn't want a commitment with you.
"I accepted his opinion and we still good now. But few days ago, I found that he is on tinder again, I feel sad about it but cannot say anything as we are not exclusive. Is it not weird that we've been seeing each other for 1 year and everything goes well but he is now trying to know new girls— "
Right so now you know what his real intentions are. He's looking to date around and not be locked down. Another red flag is that you've had feelings for this guy for a year, but he's still not interesting in making you his girlfriend. At this point he's had more than enough time to change his mind if he actually interested in you.
"What shall I do? I really like this guy and can see me falling in love with him. Anything I can do with this leo guy? Would leo guy still flirting with other girls when they have exclusive partner??"
Leos are very territorial and we won't risk losing someone we actually care about. It's very possible that he's not in the position to be serious with anyone due to school, in which case there's nothing really you can do to make him commit. My advice is to walk away from this guy and find someone who values you. A good Leo will stick with the person they're with, remaining extremely loyal to their lover. However since you two aren't actually together or exclusive, don't expect him to remain faithful to you alone.
But if he want to date around then why would he spent most of his time with me? I mean except from school, I am pretty sure he is with me most of the time. Shall i not try to talk about the exclusive thing with him? well, during the time I am typing this, he called me again and say he wanna meet me. Seems like he needs me, no?
anyway, thanks for your suggestion! I think I really need to consider to clearify everything recently.
anyway, thanks for your suggestion! I think I really need to consider to clearify everything recently.
Posted by CW13408286I thought you already discussed exclusivity with him. Yes, definitely bring that up if that's what you want. Just be aware that may not be what he wants.
But if he want to date around then why would he spent most of his time with me? I mean except from school, I am pretty sure he is with me most of the time. Shall i not try to talk about the exclusive thing with him? well, during the time I am typing this, he called me again and say he wanna meet me. Seems like he needs me, no?
anyway, thanks for your suggestion! I think I really need to consider to clearify everything recently.
I did discuss about this with him but it's like long time ago around five or six month we were dating. So maybe it's the time to bring up this conversion again....
Are you on tinder too?
nah~ i haven't use it for long time. but think my account is still there.
No, it's not time to bring up that conversation again.
It was already discussed.
What I gather from Leos (my mom is one, and I know other Leos), they're pretty much 'fixed' in their opinions, and they waste no time in going after what they want. Not a minute's notice.
Do you want to be known as the individual who is in a relationship....because she harrassed him for one. You're not asking for his hand in marriage, just exlclusivity in a relationship after an entire year. Is that something that requires a meeting?
It was already discussed.
What I gather from Leos (my mom is one, and I know other Leos), they're pretty much 'fixed' in their opinions, and they waste no time in going after what they want. Not a minute's notice.
Do you want to be known as the individual who is in a relationship....because she harrassed him for one. You're not asking for his hand in marriage, just exlclusivity in a relationship after an entire year. Is that something that requires a meeting?
Posted by CW13408286Just bc you like spending time with a person doesn't mean you're ready for a relationship. Neither does it mean he's using you. Why he's on Tinder? Meeting people, I dunno.. you don't become a monk just bc you aren't in a place in life where you feel ready for a long-term commitment. In fact that's a good reason to interact with new people
But if he want to date around then why would he spent most of his time with me? I mean except from school, I am pretty sure he is with me most of the time. Shall i not try to talk about the exclusive thing with him?
Posted by CW13408286How did you know he was on it?
nah~ i haven't use it for long time. but think my account is still there.
Posted by pinkbird03She's 'innocently' stalking him....😉Posted by CW13408286How did you know he was on it?
nah~ i haven't use it for long time. but think my account is still there.
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nope~~~my friend on tinder told me about it.
Posted by ChuckcemThis x100!
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Leos are very territorial and we won't risk losing someone we actually care about. It's very possible that he's not in the position to be serious with anyone due to school, in which case there's nothing really you can do to make him commit. My advice is to walk away from this guy and find someone who values you. A good Leo will stick with the person they're with, remaining extremely loyal to their lover. However since you two aren't actually together or exclusive, don't expect him to remain faithful to you alone.
Posted by enfant_terribleHow long does it normally take from dating to be in a relationship?Posted by CW13408286Just bc you like spending time with a person doesn't mean you're ready for a relationship. Neither does it mean he's using you. Why he's on Tinder? Meeting people, I dunno.. you don't become a monk just bc you aren't in a place in life where you feel ready for a long-term commitment. In fact that's a good reason to interact with new people
But if he want to date around then why would he spent most of his time with me? I mean except from school, I am pretty sure he is with me most of the time. Shall i not try to talk about the exclusive thing with him?click to expand
It is such a different experience to me as I am Asian and western dating culture is so different.
We would be called as "couple" in Asia in my case.
Posted by CW13408286Feel free, but don't feel bad if he doesn't go for it. Sounds like he's give his answer already .
I did discuss about this with him but it's like long time ago around five or six month we were dating. So maybe it's the time to bring up this conversion again....
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