thoughtful-libra94
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Would Leo guys ever be mean to a girl out of nowhere?
Hm, I feel like we need more details. Did you two ever voice your feelings to one another and/or date? Is the other person he's seeing also at your work?
The work environment can be tricky regardless of the sign. I don't think he was being mean to you because you didn't react to his rejection. I think he's is trying to go cold so he can keep things professional between you two. Leos are naturally warm people though, so it makes sense that this didn't last long. Leos take our work very seriously, so if we sense that emotions are going to mess that up, we'll go cold as we readjust.
I've had to deal with two Libras in the work place (one I actually dated). I was always cordial, but when I realized it wasn't going to work, the fear of messing up my professional environment came into play and I went cold. I think ignoring people is rude, so I didn't go that far, but I created WAY more distance.
The work environment can be tricky regardless of the sign. I don't think he was being mean to you because you didn't react to his rejection. I think he's is trying to go cold so he can keep things professional between you two. Leos are naturally warm people though, so it makes sense that this didn't last long. Leos take our work very seriously, so if we sense that emotions are going to mess that up, we'll go cold as we readjust.
I've had to deal with two Libras in the work place (one I actually dated). I was always cordial, but when I realized it wasn't going to work, the fear of messing up my professional environment came into play and I went cold. I think ignoring people is rude, so I didn't go that far, but I created WAY more distance.
Could be that he had a bad day or was worked up with something else!
I don't thing a Leo guy would be mean to you just like that. Either they don't like you/don't see you as a romantic interest right from the start/from the time you expressed your love and they pull back every time you make advances or they're always nice and polite (occasional anger is an exception at least for me). Or it could be that he's unaware of even ignoring you as he's fully occupied with something else in his mind.
I've 3 to 4 Leo men in my circle. At least 3 to 4. And not one would act mean just like that and if they do ignore me, work or even fun (anything that occupies them for then) can be the reason. But they never make me feel bad.
I'm a Leo woman and they're all really polite, soft and even reserved (lol) with me. So this is from my experience.
I don't thing a Leo guy would be mean to you just like that. Either they don't like you/don't see you as a romantic interest right from the start/from the time you expressed your love and they pull back every time you make advances or they're always nice and polite (occasional anger is an exception at least for me). Or it could be that he's unaware of even ignoring you as he's fully occupied with something else in his mind.
I've 3 to 4 Leo men in my circle. At least 3 to 4. And not one would act mean just like that and if they do ignore me, work or even fun (anything that occupies them for then) can be the reason. But they never make me feel bad.
I'm a Leo woman and they're all really polite, soft and even reserved (lol) with me. So this is from my experience.
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But yes, I do avoid my Libra friend (she's my batch mate) any time when I feel that my friendliness is not reciprocated. It could last for a very short while, when she'd be busy or upset with something in her life, and I just let her be and take her time. But it's short lived. She comes back understanding why I go quiet and we're friends again. 🙂
I think he felt that his ego or pride was bruised in some way and that's why he's being more distant. Leos don't act like that unless there's a reason for it. I actually had the same happen to me with a Leo guy at work. Everyone thought he liked me and he did sort of flirt with me but I wasn't sure and didn't do anything back. Towards the end of the work term, he was acting distant towards me and not as warm as the beginning, and I was confused at the time but looking back now I see more clearly why that was the case.
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I was just wondering this because I did like a Leo at my work but it didn't end up working out because he is seeing someone else. But I noticed that when I was not upset about him rejecting me, he wasn't so nice to me. Sometimes it will get to me from time to time but on this work day, it didn't get to me. Normally, he would be nice to me but on this work day, he just was ignoring me and forgetting my very existence. I felt at times that he liked me but this went too far. It almost felt petty. It just made no sense to me why he would be mean to me if he's the one that rejected me.
Then after a while, he would talk to me and we would go back to normal. This was the first work day where he was mean to me since he never was that mean to me. He wouldn't ignore me or forget I existed. Or not talk to me. But on this day, he did so that surprised me and it really scared me so I'm not sure if this is normal behaviour or not for a Leo guy.
Yeah they can be tyrannical, it's all about their ego....?
Posted by ChuckcemWe never did voice our feelings to one another. This just subtly developed over 2016. Sometimes I felt there was something and sometimes there wasn't. We did hang out twice outside of work and at times we probably crossed the line from being just good friends. He did laugh a lot at my jokes and I gave him way too much attention. He depended on me for help and often we would just spend way too much time together at work. It's like I just focused too much of my attention on him. I shared a lot of my secrets with him and he shared his secrets so we became emotionally close. But I honestly didn't think he liked me because I was aware of all his female friends and thought he always flirted with them. It was around the last four months of 2016 that I was more aware of the connection going beyond friends. I told him way too much, especially about the cancer guy (who I used to like and works at the same job as me and the Leo guy) that went out with another girl. I always just helped him out with his tasks and he taught me parts of his job, which wasn't allowed. Basically, we spent a lot of time with one another at work and all I could focus on when I was at work was him. I just cared too much and neglected everything else around me.
Hm, I feel like we need more details. Did you two ever voice your feelings to one another and/or date? Is the other person he's seeing also at your work?
The work environment can be tricky regardless of the sign. I don't think he was being mean to you because you didn't react to his rejection. I think he's is trying to go cold so he can keep things professional between you two. Leos are naturally warm people though, so it makes sense that this didn't last long. Leos take our work very seriously, so if we sense that emotions are going to mess that up, we'll go cold as we readjust.
I've had to deal with two Libras in the work place (one I actually dated). I was always cordial, but when I realized it wasn't going to work, the fear of messing up my professional environment came into play and I went cold. I think ignoring people is rude, so I didn't go that far, but I created WAY more distance.
This girl that he's seeing, he told me about her out of nowhere as we were cleaning at work one day and we were talking about tinder. He randomly mentioned her and said how much he likes her. He told me he spent time with her at New Year's and that threw me off guard because I thought he was into me. This girl doesn't work at our place so I'm grateful for that. I also told him that I met someone and that we were texting. I could feel mixed emotions coming from his end. I noticed on another work day, one of his friends came and he told her about this girl. This friend was happy for him and there was no tense energy. But when he told me, I felt upset but I accepted it. When I told him about the guy I met, there were mixed emotions. It just felt tense between us. We eventually moved onto another topic because back then, we talked with one another way too much that we got in trouble for it by our manager. But we just talked about something else and it was normal.
Even when we worked together on New Year's Eve, everything seemed fine. Nothing was wrong. He wasn't being mean to me. When we worked on Sunday, that was the first time he ignored me and started keeping his distance. I noticed he wasn't laughing at my jokes anymore and that whenever I was talking about how upset I was, he would just try to rub it in my face how happy I was. For example, I said I was sick but he said he was sick too and that he recovered. Before, he would not have added that last part so I keep thinking he's trying to show me how happy he is with this girl.
He always seems to text her at work now since he always has his phone out. On Sunday, it just felt weird between us because at first, he was nice to me like usual. But our conversations don't feel warm or friendly anymore. They just feel so cold and distant. I felt a bit taken aback because he didn't do this before. I thought at least he would have been ok with being friends.
But I remember after I came back from my break, he was just ignoring me and being nice to everyone around me. But not me. He talked to some friend and I noticed just how happy he was compared to me. He came back from his break and we were helping customers. Yet it felt like some kind of competition to see who was better than who. At that point, he just stared at me after we were done and I just left to continue cleaning. The energy between us felt so bad that I was ready to just delete him off my social media and get rid of the gifts he had given me. To me, I felt like we broke up that day even though we never dated. I just felt so sad and upset but I felt darkly angry. He was never that petty with me. He would know better than to ignore me and be nice to everyone but me. But that day, he did that and forgot my existence. So at that point, I was ready to just come home from work, delete him off my social media and dump the gifts in the garbage. I usually also stay behind as he locks up the store but I didn't want to stay this time because I wanted to hurt him as badly as he hurt me by ignoring me. I thought if he wanted to be petty, then I'll be petty. When I get angry and hurt, I don't think about what i'm doing. I just do whatever it will take to help me cope with the pain. I wanted to walk out on him.
But as I was cleaning, he came up to me and began doing another task. Worst part is when he decides to start talking to me again. I go along for some reason because maybe I missed the conversation. But again, it doesn't feel friendly. It felt so forced and I thought why would he be talking to me if a minute ago, he forgot I existed and didn't care that I was there? I hate the fact that I went along and gave into him and talked to him. Though honestly that was the first time the energy between us got tense and dark.
It did get better afterward. I do have to do some vacuuming and sometimes, if he is busy and has a lot to deal with, I do a part of his work for him. He came up with some idea a couple of shifts ago that this would be called "bae status" and that got me thinking, why would he say something like that? We aren't dating and he's not into me. I just convinced myself because we never talked outside of work or hung out, that he wasn't into me. Plus I know just how dangerous it would be if we were to date. It would just ruin things and we wouldn't be able to be professional to one another.
So it would make sense if Leos would distance themselves just to make things more professional and to not get into any trouble at work. But it just hurts that the Leo guy I work with would treat me this way. I don't know if it's because I hurt his pride or that he wanted me or that I was oblivious to the signs. But for me, it just wasn't strong enough. I admit, at times, I felt something between me and him. But for me, it just wasn't strong enough where I would want to pursue a relationship with him. I wasn't ever sexually attracted to him and I would have to be if I wanted to date someone. The attraction just seemed to come in bits and pieces.
This is the second day I have cried over him because his behaviour on Sunday really confused me. I really miss last year where everything was ok. But maybe I was just blind to his darker side and just thought he was this wonderful person. I thought he knew how to handle being friends with me. I realize now he can't handle being friends with me. So he has to stoop to being acquaintances yet it doesn't feel right to me. It will take time to just let the feelings subside and for me to get used to the fact that this is him now. He isn't the person I once knew and wherever that person went, he's gone now. I feel as if I'm grieving the loss of the wonderful friendship that we shared.
I also just checked my Instagram and he's still following me. Weird part is, he never likes my stuff. But I do remember sometimes he will comment about them to me at work. I thought he would have deleted me off his Instagram if this other girl is around and he had the audacity to be rude to me at work. But it just is confusing.
I realized I went too far with this and even I knew myself it is better to just stay acquaintances with the people you work with. Or at best, just stay friends. But me and this Leo guy, maybe we went way past all those things and messed something up. I went too far and went against my rules and boundaries about having friends at work. I know that dating a coworker would be bad hence why I never asked him to hang out after we hung out those two times together. Maybe it would have been worse if we were dating now.
So this is the situation. Just beyond messed up.
It's good that you kept in mind to keep a professional environment at work after dealing with the two Libras at your work.
Leo n Libra are so beautiful together, just look at me n the soulmate, or even looking at just me, I'm A sun Leo Libra rising n I take people's breath away..
Posted by themilkyway36That would make a lot of sense in the way you explained it. Honestly I don't see why else they would act that way unless feelings were involved or their ego was bruised.
I think he felt that his ego or pride was bruised in some way and that's why he's being more distant. Leos don't act like that unless there's a reason for it. I actually had the same happen to me with a Leo guy at work. Everyone thought he liked me and he did sort of flirt with me but I wasn't sure and didn't do anything back. Towards the end of the work term, he was acting distant towards me and not as warm as the beginning, and I was confused at the time but looking back now I see more clearly why that was the case.
((hugs))) sorry you had to go through it too 😢
Posted by bricklemarkYea that's true 😢Posted by thoughtful-libra94
I was just wondering this because I did like a Leo at my work but it didn't end up working out because he is seeing someone else. But I noticed that when I was not upset about him rejecting me, he wasn't so nice to me. Sometimes it will get to me from time to time but on this work day, it didn't get to me. Normally, he would be nice to me but on this work day, he just was ignoring me and forgetting my very existence. I felt at times that he liked me but this went too far. It almost felt petty. It just made no sense to me why he would be mean to me if he's the one that rejected me.
Then after a while, he would talk to me and we would go back to normal. This was the first work day where he was mean to me since he never was that mean to me. He wouldn't ignore me or forget I existed. Or not talk to me. But on this day, he did so that surprised me and it really scared me so I'm not sure if this is normal behaviour or not for a Leo guy.
Yeah they can be tyrannical, it's all about their ego....?
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Posted by InLoveWithLifeThat's good that she's able to understand 🙂
But yes, I do avoid my Libra friend (she's my batch mate) any time when I feel that my friendliness is not reciprocated. It could last for a very short while, when she'd be busy or upset with something in her life, and I just let her be and take her time. But it's short lived. She comes back understanding why I go quiet and we're friends again. 🙂
@thoughtful-libra94
Something is definitely odd about his behavior. If a Leo likes you, they won't give up so easily unless you are hurting their pride in some way. I can only chalk it up to a few things.
1: He liked/likes you, but wasn't sure where things were headed. It's possible that when you two were growing closer he thought he was making his pursuit very clear to you. Maybe he thought his feelings weren't being reciprocated. Leos are patient when we know there is an endgame. He may be one of those guys who isn't good at being blunt about his feelings and expected things to develop a certain way. Maybe he expected you to push things along (in reality that's his job). This could be because you two were "friends". If the words "friends" or "just friends" are uttered repeatedly, he may have taken that as a slight. Also if he ever invited you out and you were unsure, he could've taken that as a slight at well. REGARDLESS it was up to him to grow a pair and ask you out.
2: He's emotionally immature and used the other girl to get a "rise" out of you. Libras are natural flirts (even when they aren't trying to "flirt"). A typical Leo can pick this up because we too play the flirtation game, but maybe he got jealous somewhere along the way. He may have even decided to "test" you by mentioning the other girl to gauge your reaction. Libras are GREAT at hiding their true emotions, so I'd imagine this confused him. If this is the case, LEAVE HIM ALONE. He's a little boy who needs to grow up.
3. He wants you, but you are too good for him/too much of a challenge. Sometimes people will pull the plug and go for the easier option. The complications from work may have come into play. Maybe the other girl was more aggressive (we Leos like our strong willed women, especially if we are the receiving end). It's possible the other girl was just an easier option. Maybe she's an ex who has come back into the picture. You never know. Regardless it has NOTHING to do with you and you can't focus on it.
4. He wanted something more physical (Leos are very physical). When that didn't look like a viable option, he placed his energies elsewhere. Leos can be very loyal, so he may not want to jeopardize what he has with the other girl by flirting with you. He may also be a player and has started ignoring you now that he knows sex is not an option. In which case, he's a fool and you DODGED a bullet.
In my opinion as a guy and a Leo, if you want a girl, you tell her. I've definitely grown close to a Libra at work in the past, but knew it wasn't going to develop because of my own personal issues, so we remained friends. I didn't want to lead her on, though I knew she liked me. Then when we stopped working together, I let it fizzle and she wound up marrying one of our former co-workers and I'm happy for her. She's a sweet girl and I couldn't provide her with the love she needed at the time.
I grew close to another Libra at work and after growing closer, made my intentions incredibly clear. She was clearly interested by that point as well. She wound up ending things and I told her bluntly that I couldn't be "just friends" with her, but we could remain professional and to let me know if she ever changed her mind about dating. She contacted me a few times and we crossed paths several times and I was always cordial with her.
Something is definitely odd about his behavior. If a Leo likes you, they won't give up so easily unless you are hurting their pride in some way. I can only chalk it up to a few things.
1: He liked/likes you, but wasn't sure where things were headed. It's possible that when you two were growing closer he thought he was making his pursuit very clear to you. Maybe he thought his feelings weren't being reciprocated. Leos are patient when we know there is an endgame. He may be one of those guys who isn't good at being blunt about his feelings and expected things to develop a certain way. Maybe he expected you to push things along (in reality that's his job). This could be because you two were "friends". If the words "friends" or "just friends" are uttered repeatedly, he may have taken that as a slight. Also if he ever invited you out and you were unsure, he could've taken that as a slight at well. REGARDLESS it was up to him to grow a pair and ask you out.
2: He's emotionally immature and used the other girl to get a "rise" out of you. Libras are natural flirts (even when they aren't trying to "flirt"). A typical Leo can pick this up because we too play the flirtation game, but maybe he got jealous somewhere along the way. He may have even decided to "test" you by mentioning the other girl to gauge your reaction. Libras are GREAT at hiding their true emotions, so I'd imagine this confused him. If this is the case, LEAVE HIM ALONE. He's a little boy who needs to grow up.
3. He wants you, but you are too good for him/too much of a challenge. Sometimes people will pull the plug and go for the easier option. The complications from work may have come into play. Maybe the other girl was more aggressive (we Leos like our strong willed women, especially if we are the receiving end). It's possible the other girl was just an easier option. Maybe she's an ex who has come back into the picture. You never know. Regardless it has NOTHING to do with you and you can't focus on it.
4. He wanted something more physical (Leos are very physical). When that didn't look like a viable option, he placed his energies elsewhere. Leos can be very loyal, so he may not want to jeopardize what he has with the other girl by flirting with you. He may also be a player and has started ignoring you now that he knows sex is not an option. In which case, he's a fool and you DODGED a bullet.
In my opinion as a guy and a Leo, if you want a girl, you tell her. I've definitely grown close to a Libra at work in the past, but knew it wasn't going to develop because of my own personal issues, so we remained friends. I didn't want to lead her on, though I knew she liked me. Then when we stopped working together, I let it fizzle and she wound up marrying one of our former co-workers and I'm happy for her. She's a sweet girl and I couldn't provide her with the love she needed at the time.
I grew close to another Libra at work and after growing closer, made my intentions incredibly clear. She was clearly interested by that point as well. She wound up ending things and I told her bluntly that I couldn't be "just friends" with her, but we could remain professional and to let me know if she ever changed her mind about dating. She contacted me a few times and we crossed paths several times and I was always cordial with her.
Posted by thoughtful-libra94Haha, yes, she understands and she also knows that I'm weak with friends. A small smiley from a friend is enough to make me hug them! (so kindly avoid emoticons with me or I may wanna become friends with you, too!)Posted by InLoveWithLifeThat's good that she's able to understand 🙂
But yes, I do avoid my Libra friend (she's my batch mate) any time when I feel that my friendliness is not reciprocated. It could last for a very short while, when she'd be busy or upset with something in her life, and I just let her be and take her time. But it's short lived. She comes back understanding why I go quiet and we're friends again. 🙂
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Just don't feel like a grown up when I'm all happy, you know! 😛
Posted by ChuckcemThis would actually make a lot of sense because I never understood at times if he did like me or not. I do think that I was a challenge to him and that it was easier for him to go after someone else. He did mention the girl out of nowhere but I don't think he was expecting me to mention another guy. He wasn't good with talking to me whenever it came to problems. I remember one time he was supposed to text me and instead he didn't. The next day he was apologizing like crazy and I had to come up to him and say things were going to be ok. So I think you did have a point as well when you said that he expected me to make all the moves. It was his job to let me know that he wanted me. I don't think he's very good with talking about his emotions or with solving problems. You also have a point when you say that I did dodge a bullet because I now realize he just isn't mature when it comes to relationships.
@thoughtful-libra94
Something is definitely odd about his behavior. If a Leo likes you, they won't give up so easily unless you are hurting their pride in some way. I can only chalk it up to a few things.
1: He liked/likes you, but wasn't sure where things were headed. It's possible that when you two were growing closer he thought he was making his pursuit very clear to you. Maybe he thought his feelings weren't being reciprocated. Leos are patient when we know there is an endgame. He may be one of those guys who isn't good at being blunt about his feelings and expected things to develop a certain way. Maybe he expected you to push things along (in reality that's his job). This could be because you two were "friends". If the words "friends" or "just friends" are uttered repeatedly, he may have taken that as a slight. Also if he ever invited you out and you were unsure, he could've taken that as a slight at well. REGARDLESS it was up to him to grow a pair and ask you out.
2: He's emotionally immature and used the other girl to get a "rise" out of you. Libras are natural flirts (even when they aren't trying to "flirt"). A typical Leo can pick this up because we too play the flirtation game, but maybe he got jealous somewhere along the way. He may have even decided to "test" you by mentioning the other girl to gauge your reaction. Libras are GREAT at hiding their true emotions, so I'd imagine this confused him. If this is the case, LEAVE HIM ALONE. He's a little boy who needs to grow up.
3. He wants you, but you are too good for him/too much of a challenge. Sometimes people will pull the plug and go for the easier option. The complications from work may have come into play. Maybe the other girl was more aggressive (we Leos like our strong willed women, especially if we are the receiving end). It's possible the other girl was just an easier option. Maybe she's an ex who has come back into the picture. You never know. Regardless it has NOTHING to do with you and you can't focus on it.
4. He wanted something more physical (Leos are very physical). When that didn't look like a viable option, he placed his energies elsewhere. Leos can be very loyal, so he may not want to jeopardize what he has with the other girl by flirting with you. He may also be a player and has started ignoring you now that he knows sex is not an option. In which case, he's a fool and you DODGED a bullet.
In my opinion as a guy and a Leo, if you want a girl, you tell her. I've definitely grown close to a Libra at work in the past, but knew it wasn't going to develop because of my own personal issues, so we remained friends. I didn't want to lead her on, though I knew she liked me. Then when we stopped working together, I let it fizzle and she wound up marrying one of our former co-workers and I'm happy for her. She's a sweet girl and I couldn't provide her with the love she needed at the time.
I grew close to another Libra at work and after growing closer, made my intentions incredibly clear. She was clearly interested by that point as well. She wound up ending things and I told her bluntly that I couldn't be "just friends" with her, but we could remain professional and to let me know if she ever changed her mind about dating. She contacted me a few times and we crossed paths several times and I was always cordial with her.
He did tell me about one previous relationship he had and how his ex wanted to get back together. From the sounds of it, it didn't sound like he was in love with her. He seems excited with this girl, saying how much he and her think alike. I mean I try hard not to let it get to me but it did get to me a lot. I just thought because of work, we can't ever cross the line. Plus there is another guy that I like more at work and he wasn't so happy with me and the Leo guy's friendship. So it would have made it more complex had me and the Leo guy began dating.
Plus I think about it and realize I put too much of my attention on him. I feel at times he is a like a child and just needs to be pampered. I think I just gave too much of an ego boost to him and I just neglected everything around me. I realize I feel better knowing that I could focus my attention on other things. It still hurts, the fact that he would choose another girl and not have the balls to just go after me if he liked me and wanted me.
In my mind, I would have went out with him and I would have dated him. But at the same time, the attraction wasn't strong enough to push me there or to push me towards asking him out. Which he needed to have done. For now, I think I'm lucky enough that we aren't going to see each other as much because I'm used to working with him a lot. He's also a supervisor now and I helped to support him when he started. So I was there a lot for him and for him to just deny it and throw it away, to me that feels immature and stupid.
I also thought he would have been mature enough to still be good friends with me even if he is seeing this girl. Maybe I just expected too much.
It's good that you remained cordial with the girl you wanted and made your intentions clear. That would definetly have helped a lot if the Leo guy at my work made his intentions clear to me. Now I know half the time he's going to ignore me but then talk to me out of nowhere if I distance myself too much from him. But for now, I'll be polite and find the time to focus on the things I haven't been able to focus on at work because all I focused on was him.
I appreciate you analyzing the situation and explaining it to me in a way that would make sense 🙂
Posted by InLoveWithLifeLol sorry I'm a huge emoticon person but I'll be careful about it 🙂Posted by thoughtful-libra94Haha, yes, she understands and she also knows that I'm weak with friends. A small smiley from a friend is enough to make me hug them! (so kindly avoid emoticons with me or I may wanna become friends with you, too!)Posted by InLoveWithLifeThat's good that she's able to understand 🙂
But yes, I do avoid my Libra friend (she's my batch mate) any time when I feel that my friendliness is not reciprocated. It could last for a very short while, when she'd be busy or upset with something in her life, and I just let her be and take her time. But it's short lived. She comes back understanding why I go quiet and we're friends again. 🙂
Just don't feel like a grown up when I'm all happy, you know! 😛click to expand
Aww you're so adorable and like I said, I'm glad she's able to understand.
Posted by thoughtful-libra94Posted by InLoveWithLifeLol sorry I'm a huge emoticon person but I'll be careful about it 🙂Posted by thoughtful-libra94Haha, yes, she understands and she also knows that I'm weak with friends. A small smiley from a friend is enough to make me hug them! (so kindly avoid emoticons with me or I may wanna become friends with you, too!)Posted by InLoveWithLifeThat's good that she's able to understand 🙂
But yes, I do avoid my Libra friend (she's my batch mate) any time when I feel that my friendliness is not reciprocated. It could last for a very short while, when she'd be busy or upset with something in her life, and I just let her be and take her time. But it's short lived. She comes back understanding why I go quiet and we're friends again. 🙂
Just don't feel like a grown up when I'm all happy, you know! 😛
Aww you're so adorable and like I said, I'm glad she's able to understand.
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I find you very sweet, dear! Hope things work out well for you. :*
Posted by thoughtful-libra94Thanks haha I was actually quite distressed during that time, but it happened quite long ago so I'm over it now. And we have since chatted over message a couple times and he acted completely normal lol.Posted by themilkyway36That would make a lot of sense in the way you explained it. Honestly I don't see why else they would act that way unless feelings were involved or their ego was bruised.
I think he felt that his ego or pride was bruised in some way and that's why he's being more distant. Leos don't act like that unless there's a reason for it. I actually had the same happen to me with a Leo guy at work. Everyone thought he liked me and he did sort of flirt with me but I wasn't sure and didn't do anything back. Towards the end of the work term, he was acting distant towards me and not as warm as the beginning, and I was confused at the time but looking back now I see more clearly why that was the case.
((hugs))) sorry you had to go through it too 😢click to expand
But yeah when I think of all the Leo's I have known, they are the types to not hold back in openly showing you through actions that you have wronged them/they feel wronged by you. One of my childhood best friends was a Leo and and she acted out when she got jealous. Another female Leo I know told me that she avoids people she doesn't like in general and that she'd rather just tell someone she doesn't like them straight-up instead of pretending to be nice. So that's kind of a little picture of what Leo's are like
Posted by InLoveWithLifeaww thanks 🙂Posted by thoughtful-libra94Posted by InLoveWithLifeLol sorry I'm a huge emoticon person but I'll be careful about it 🙂Posted by thoughtful-libra94Haha, yes, she understands and she also knows that I'm weak with friends. A small smiley from a friend is enough to make me hug them! (so kindly avoid emoticons with me or I may wanna become friends with you, too!)Posted by InLoveWithLifeThat's good that she's able to understand 🙂
But yes, I do avoid my Libra friend (she's my batch mate) any time when I feel that my friendliness is not reciprocated. It could last for a very short while, when she'd be busy or upset with something in her life, and I just let her be and take her time. But it's short lived. She comes back understanding why I go quiet and we're friends again. 🙂
Just don't feel like a grown up when I'm all happy, you know! 😛
Aww you're so adorable and like I said, I'm glad she's able to understand.
I find you very sweet, dear! Hope things work out well for you. :*
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Posted by themilkyway36That's true. I just wish they were more honest through their words since their actions don't exactly say what they intend to say 😢Posted by thoughtful-libra94Thanks haha I was actually quite distressed during that time, but it happened quite long ago so I'm over it now. And we have since chatted over message a couple times and he acted completely normal lol.Posted by themilkyway36That would make a lot of sense in the way you explained it. Honestly I don't see why else they would act that way unless feelings were involved or their ego was bruised.
I think he felt that his ego or pride was bruised in some way and that's why he's being more distant. Leos don't act like that unless there's a reason for it. I actually had the same happen to me with a Leo guy at work. Everyone thought he liked me and he did sort of flirt with me but I wasn't sure and didn't do anything back. Towards the end of the work term, he was acting distant towards me and not as warm as the beginning, and I was confused at the time but looking back now I see more clearly why that was the case.
((hugs))) sorry you had to go through it too 😢
But yeah when I think of all the Leo's I have known, they are the types to not hold back in openly showing you through actions that you have wronged them/they feel wronged by you. One of my childhood best friends was a Leo and and she acted out when she got jealous. Another female Leo I know told me that she avoids people she doesn't like in general and that she'd rather just tell someone she doesn't like them straight-up instead of pretending to be nice. So that's kind of a little picture of what Leo's are like
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they are confusing 😢
Posted by themilkyway36Ouch! Pretending = killing the self! I'd show it through multiple means, too, and not exactly by words, especially in the case of sensitive people.Posted by thoughtful-libra94Thanks haha I was actually quite distressed during that time, but it happened quite long ago so I'm over it now. And we have since chatted over message a couple times and he acted completely normal lol.Posted by themilkyway36That would make a lot of sense in the way you explained it. Honestly I don't see why else they would act that way unless feelings were involved or their ego was bruised.
I think he felt that his ego or pride was bruised in some way and that's why he's being more distant. Leos don't act like that unless there's a reason for it. I actually had the same happen to me with a Leo guy at work. Everyone thought he liked me and he did sort of flirt with me but I wasn't sure and didn't do anything back. Towards the end of the work term, he was acting distant towards me and not as warm as the beginning, and I was confused at the time but looking back now I see more clearly why that was the case.
((hugs))) sorry you had to go through it too 😢
But yeah when I think of all the Leo's I have known, they are the types to not hold back in openly showing you through actions that you have wronged them/they feel wronged by you. One of my childhood best friends was a Leo and and she acted out when she got jealous. Another female Leo I know told me that she avoids people she doesn't like in general and that she'd rather just tell someone she doesn't like them straight-up instead of pretending to be nice. So that's kind of a little picture of what Leo's are like
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Posted by thoughtful-libra94Personally I choose to tell it in the form of action and not in the form of words because most of them in my circle are highly sensitive and my straightforward, blunt style can be too harsh on them!Posted by themilkyway36That's true. I just wish they were more honest through their words since their actions don't exactly say what they intend to say 😢Posted by thoughtful-libra94Thanks haha I was actually quite distressed during that time, but it happened quite long ago so I'm over it now. And we have since chatted over message a couple times and he acted completely normal lol.Posted by themilkyway36That would make a lot of sense in the way you explained it. Honestly I don't see why else they would act that way unless feelings were involved or their ego was bruised.
I think he felt that his ego or pride was bruised in some way and that's why he's being more distant. Leos don't act like that unless there's a reason for it. I actually had the same happen to me with a Leo guy at work. Everyone thought he liked me and he did sort of flirt with me but I wasn't sure and didn't do anything back. Towards the end of the work term, he was acting distant towards me and not as warm as the beginning, and I was confused at the time but looking back now I see more clearly why that was the case.
((hugs))) sorry you had to go through it too 😢
But yeah when I think of all the Leo's I have known, they are the types to not hold back in openly showing you through actions that you have wronged them/they feel wronged by you. One of my childhood best friends was a Leo and and she acted out when she got jealous. Another female Leo I know told me that she avoids people she doesn't like in general and that she'd rather just tell someone she doesn't like them straight-up instead of pretending to be nice. So that's kind of a little picture of what Leo's are like
they are confusing 😢
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A few days ago, this Libra friend and I were pissed off because nothing was going as per plan in our university. I got very angry! Both of us were annoyed the whole day and when we reached there and found out that further disappointment was waiting there for us, she started making too many "I" statements, "I'm getting late", "I've to go", "he's waiting for me", "I'm taking the next bus" all in an aggressive tone, while I wanted to meet the concerned officers and put a stop to all this so that such acts won't be repeated in future. I was thinking for all of us, while she went on to say "if you want to do it, you go. I don't care. I'm leaving. "
My tone changed instantly and I said "please go". She got my message. We haven't spoken in a few days and I know that she feels bad, but she's kinda funny. She'd come back and start acting sweet without meeting my eyes till I cool down, but she won't apologise! It's an ego issue for her!
This is how I adjust with her selfishness and she adjusts with my rage. I feel that she's a kid! LOL, even if she's actually very soft, she hates to be seen like that and thinks of herself as a tough, bold, daring woman. She's very good at manipulating all others with her smile, but I am with her simply because she's innocent and nice!
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