Yucky

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Morganofmind on Monday, May 26, 2003 and has 19 replies.

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@Morganofmind
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Does it ever seem that you attract disgusting people? Sometimes I wonder to myself why it is that of all the people that could hit on me, it's always the creepy ones that do. You can tell when they're going to come over to you as well, and you look away, trying to avoid eye contact hoping to god they don't walk over... But no!!! Here they come... There was this one guy who I saw watching me walk through the halls at school, and I knew he would come over to me, and I was so disgusted. First of all, I don't talk to people who stalk me, and second of all this guy was missing a few teath and needed to take a shower. YUCK!!! He came over and said something like "Hey, you know so and so, correct?", and I annoyed and grumpy at his creepyness responded quickly with a simple "no" and walked away.

Normally I'm a very nice person, and I try not to judge on appearances, but sometimes you just have to go with your insticts. Still, even people I know tend to tell me the weirdest things. I don't know whether my laid back, easy, let things slide attitude makes them feel comfortable about telling me weird things, but sometimes it scares me with the information people just tell me about themselves. Honestly now, I don't need to know some of these things. My exboyfriend is that way. After we broke up he decided that he still needed me to support him, so he tends to just tell me everything with out restraint. But seriously, I don't want to know in detail how far him and his new girlfriend got on prom night.

And all I have to say to this world is:
YUCK YUCK YUCK!!!

You people all have sick minds!!!

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Morgon, LOL, I think that we have lived parallel lives or something, I can relate EXACTLY to what you're saying.

As a side note, I HATE to hear about my ex doing whatever with so-and-so. It's so tacky! And I hate when they want to know what I'm doing with so-and-so, too! Do people not have tact, manners, maturity, any sort of finesse, anything anymore?

Good lord!

And you need to start telling this guy that you are not interested in being nauseated with the details of his sexual life. I had to do that with one of my exes. I mean, it's just really disrespecful (and yes, yucky!) for people to do that. Blech

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@james tate
21 Years10,000+ PostsCapricorn

Phoenix was that a mating call I just heard from you. I bet your the talk of the pub. I find my self nauseating that why I chat up margon, phoenix, starr and gwen

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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts

HAHA!! yeah..people tend to open up to me EAsily because they find me easy going and the kind of person who listens well, and believe me. I do listen very closely because i'm curious. But sometimes..the things that some people tell me just isn't interesting... like this one time my guyfriend told me about his past relationships and how he chased his girlfriend with a knife and one time how he choked her because he thought she was his dead aunt. LOL... I mean..how does anyone respond to that? -_-

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@Morganofmind
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I like hearing stories because they improve my writing ability knowing all the bizarre problems people have... However... I rather worry about some of these people picking up one of my books and reading a character based upon them, and then coming to break my legs because they dislike it... Because when I write I can't seem to keep my own personal opinion of certain people out of it... I fear them may seek revenge.

That's actually the true reason people use pen names, because of all the psychos.

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

lol James

Yep morgan, if it's one thing I've learned so far in twenty-one years, it's that there sure are plenty of mothertreetrunking psychos out there.

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@sloane
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Morgon.. this is so funny and I can TOTALLY relate to your gripe. I've experienced this and have wondered why I attract the freaks and geeks too, but you know what? I think EVERY woman wonders this.

I found the best way to handle this situation and it'll be damn funny for you too...is to screw with thier minds...if they're a little weird--you can be weirder! Say something outrageous or oddball-make them think you have a screw loose. If you do this, I bet you, they'll leave you alone. There are A LOT of people out there that are socially inept. You have to freak them out--scare them a bit. Pretend you're in a Seinfeld episode. Be Crazy Joe Davola. Or a drunk Kramer. 😉

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@james tate
21 Years10,000+ PostsCapricorn

Sloane has a point, you have to catch them off guard. When I would be at a party if I did not want to talk to someone who was bugging me talking about there hopes and dreams I would says stuff like Me mum called today, says she has a boy friend who has one inch penis. She wants to know how to break off with him this ever happen to you? They would move away very slowly. works everytime.

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@Espernaut
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Keeping your eyes focused on theirs, slow turn your head to the left, as you speak to your invisible friend, located somewhere just behind your left shoulder and whisper:

"No no, not yet".

Then quickly snap your head back to center and ab-lib something like "Uh-Huh,yyeess, go on".

Even better if you reach out and temporarily pat their arm, shoulder, what have you.

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@Josh
21 YearsCapricorn

Blankly staring. That's all I've got to say. Just blankly staring and asking, real calm-like, "Why, God? Why?"

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@James the13th
21 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

i love this topic. this is great. i make people think i'm a freak with out them talking to me and when they talk to me if there strangers i have too act noramal if i like them. I will slowly act wried. but if i want to freak poeple i just talk normal or talk in small voices and slow wishpers to and widen my eyes and the get that hanniable look in my eyes. and they freak out it works well for me.