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Posted by RumiLYou're curious about our thought processes? I can't speak for all Libras; the way I come to a decision is to weigh the pros and cons of all possible options. That's where the process can get lengthy. I'm so afraid of making the "wrong" decision, a mistake that I might regret even 10 years down the line. Especially if I know that the decision might affect others. I guess that's where you can see the indecisive nature of Libras.
No.. I wouldn't call that being indecisive because I too believe that there are many things to consider while making a decision(usually) 🙂
IDK.. I wonder what your thought processes are like .. I just cannot see through. We cannot see through anyone but... Libras are different... I cant explain lol.
Women have this different vibe too... Hmm.


Posted by tizianiI'm a female. thanks!Posted by topgunphantomUse common interest sites that aren't focused on dating. If you meet up with a group based on a hobby/past time you have, it's a good way to meet like-minded people who flew under the radar of the dating game and it removes expectations.
Is there a strategy for Libras to get back in the dating game? Friends & dating websites failed to land me any suitors so what other options could there be?
Either that or find a friend of the opposite sex that will be your best rep. When I was in university, I had a Scorpio friend who would basically be with me most place I went to. Women got interested in me because they wanted to know if I was with her. She knew how to present herself so it was natural other women were curious.
When they find out I wasn't with her, they had to go through her and impress her to get to know me. I would do the same for her. I don't know if you're a man or woman but it's the best way for a stress-free life.click to expand



Posted by pisceanlovesdirect? couse i'm afraid i will hurt the person..
So why you guys like ignore people? Why you can't be direct whatever is on your mind?



Posted by JustWant2bLovedOk. I got it
@pisceanloves I soooo agree with @hera Being direct and saying what's REALLY on my mind means I'll hurt you. And then I'll spend so much time trying to get you back to liking me again. Ignoring could be many reasons. I talk so much (lol, no shame in admitting this) that when I don't feel like talking people freak out. I need that silence to rev up for my next talking session...in a few days. But if you call me out on it, you'll be added to the "treat with white gloves" category, meaning, I'll text you to prevent you from calling me. Whoa, this sounds bad as I type it but it's not done out of malice. Now dating, if I ignore you, I'm moving on. I'm trying to re-structure my life without you.
Posted by Aqualady84Oh gosh, that sounds like me. I also have a Gemini moon. The part that hit home is my fam making comments on my facebook or friends, so I eventually disabled that part. Yes, I've been a bit distant to people I've even liked in a similar way but not always 'cause they did something. Sometimes I'm literally trying to get my life together, and it sounds like he's doing the same with job searching and his fitness. When someone complains to me about it, I do try to hit them up when I can, even something quick like "hey good morning. have a good day" to show I'm here but I can't talk. I just started doing that tho lol.
Do you think him not contacting me is telling me something? He has done this before, but I kinda blew up on him about it. This time I made sure to reasonably explain myself. I also know he is uncommunicative with his family like that as well. They are always fb posting asking why he didn't answer the phone or where is he.
The last time we saw each other he was seeming insecure about his body. He was pinching his skin saying he needed to work out. I myself have lost over 50lbs and looking pretty good Lol so I dunno of he is just trying to match that, cause he posted a pic of him saying " starting to see some results " and his body looked all chiseled!

Posted by Jay1112After weighing the pros and cons until I'm satisfied the outcome will be a good thing.
When do u guys make a decision?

Posted by Cricket808No nothing more than friends. They are cool just never had the opportunity
Have you ever dated a Pisces? What was it like?

Posted by justagirl-eventually when I make up my mind
Do you guys ever leave the fence?
How hard is it for you to pick an outfit?
Do you like to debate?
Biggest turn on sexually?
That should get things rolling... Maybe 😛

Posted by Aqualady84Posted by leeberatedI didn't get to see your previous messages.
Like he would be like "what are you doing?" then never respond after you respond? wat the heck lol.
that's cool that you're not crowding him. I do think after like another month or so I'd stop sending even little messages if I'm getting nothing back ever because yes, it's not fair. I'd just be like "I know you've been occupied but let me know if you want to get lunch sometime" then I'd stop contacting him and try to occupy myself with other people.
You say he's sweet but have you had the "hey, I like you...i like you too" talk? Like shoot, if he's not feeling you he's just not feeling you so that would be a whole other thing ahah. But if he did tell you his feelings then yeah, I'd say he still is feeling you.
He has never said it in words that he liked me, but he has told me he missed me. Although, he has told me secrets of his from childhood and now. He hints around at stuff too. Like I think he wanted to ask me to a.work.function but me being stubborn I didn't acknowledge it cause I wanted him to be flat out. Also he seems to do this thing where he plays songs and the lyrics are supposed to represent his feelings I guess. It doesn't make sense but it does. Like the songs speak exactly about stuff we have talked about. However, he plays them via snapchat so I'm left having to just "perceive" it as he is talking to me. Apparently, from my sleuthing skills, he does this with previous girlfriends. He has a Libra Mars and I read that they sometimes hint around at things. From what I can tell he isn't the best guy, but I have a Scorpio Mars so I'm kinda a glutton for punishment Lol!click to expand


Posted by CruellaWhite
When you guys lie i can never get yas to admit it even when its obvious..why?

Posted by CopperDoveBoho/indie/hipster/grunge/soft goth
Describe your personal style (clothing and related).


Posted by TheLibraMudraGirl let's go shopping!!Posted by CopperDoveAs far as clothing.. Bohemian casual. I like Aztec/tribal prints in tasteful amounts, flowy sweaters and tops, long flannels/shirts and leggings/skinny jeans. Boots and booties of all kinds. Long crystal necklaces, dangly charm bracelets. Zip up hoodies, converse/vans. Dresses here and there. Lacey and pearls.
Describe your personal style (clothing and related).
Yah, dude stoner girly vibes hahaclick to expand


Posted by deedee85Yeah honesty is mega importantPosted by HarleyTwinFlameEvery time I unblock him its the same cycle. He apologies and makes excuses but nothing changes.
@deedee85
Why not unblock him and ask him what all this is about? If you want answers your best option would be getting them from him. That is, if you want closure or understanding so you don't have to feel guilty.. You love him and he loves you.. So what will you do ? Why did it fail?
I broke up with him 12/31 because he totally abandoned me and our relationship. Since the summer I had been reduced to a text relationship. We only live 20 miles apart and were together for 5 years so his excuses were suspect. He was having baby mama and money problems so I was patient and accepted his apologies and promises that it would get better and things would get back to normal.
In mid January he started to show signs of change by calling and by stopping by my office regularly. I was beginning to soften but then on Valentines day it all blew up.
I found out some big lies. He was essentially being blackmailed by his daughter's mother and was living with them and had been for months!!! This woman was controlling him and making threats if he even trued to leave the house. He disappeared on all his friends as well.
I know that there is nothing sexual or romantic between them. That I am sure of BUT I don't take kindly to being deceived. If he told me the truth I would've stood by his side but he chose to lie. I'm not ready to forgive such a major betrayal. To top it off, he hasn't moved out yet. Fear is controlling him.click to expand

Posted by missprettiladyi think because (if we have some sort of self awareness) we realise that our feelings can change in the blink of an eye. if the feeling is strong today, it may not be that way tomorrow. so it is not so much about procrastination but it is waiting to make sure that the feeling is genuine and is sticking.
Why do Libras procrastinate when it comes to relationships even with someone they feel a strong connection too— And how do you guys feel when or if your procrastination cost you person to get tired of waiting and move on?

Posted by sagiluvyes
Libra if you are requested to stay away will you listen ??
Libra are you a user, do you use people to your advantage ?? For example, I'm going to keep this person around for financial support or because in the future you'll benefit from it —
Please be specific ..
Those are my questions to libras



Posted by tizianiHe finally expressed that he had had his heart broken...but I know he has met other women online (he is actively online dating just not in an actual relationship). So bizarre. Every time I start ignoring him and tell him he is wasting my time, he tells me is "clearly" interested or he will send me compliments, etc.Posted by ashley1734This could be anything from the Libra wanting to believe they're up for it but they're not really, to just loving the attention enough to pay it lip service but no more. Especially if they're not in a relationship, it's motivating to feel desirable.
What would be the reasoning behind expressing interest in someone (vocally) and then being unresponsive to hanging out and then coming back a few weeks later to express interest agai, rinse, repeat...never actually hanging out. (The Libra in quesstion is not involved in another relationship).click to expand

Posted by ashley1734sounds like lip service.Posted by tizianiHe finally expressed that he had had his heart broken...but I know he has met other women online (he is actively online dating just not in an actual relationship). So bizarre. Every time I start ignoring him and tell him he is wasting my time, he tells me is "clearly" interested or he will send me compliments, etc.Posted by ashley1734This could be anything from the Libra wanting to believe they're up for it but they're not really, to just loving the attention enough to pay it lip service but no more. Especially if they're not in a relationship, it's motivating to feel desirable.
What would be the reasoning behind expressing interest in someone (vocally) and then being unresponsive to hanging out and then coming back a few weeks later to express interest agai, rinse, repeat...never actually hanging out. (The Libra in quesstion is not involved in another relationship).
Idiot.click to expand

Posted by LibsizzlerOh...no I don't have feelings for him. Was just wondering what the point of saying things with no intention of following through. Especially when the other person is asking/expecting nothing of you to begin with. Just seems foolish and a waste of energy.Posted by ashley1734I'm a libra (female) and I will tell you that we love saying sweet things to people, however it's doesn't mean a hill of beans unless our actions align with what was said.Posted by tizianiHe finally expressed that he had had his heart broken...but I know he has met other women online (he is actively online dating just not in an actual relationship). So bizarre. Every time I start ignoring him and tell him he is wasting my time, he tells me is "clearly" interested or he will send me compliments, etc.Posted by ashley1734This could be anything from the Libra wanting to believe they're up for it but they're not really, to just loving the attention enough to pay it lip service but no more. Especially if they're not in a relationship, it's motivating to feel desirable.
What would be the reasoning behind expressing interest in someone (vocally) and then being unresponsive to hanging out and then coming back a few weeks later to express interest agai, rinse, repeat...never actually hanging out. (The Libra in quesstion is not involved in another relationship).
Idiot.
Also, sans the sweet words and treating people like they are the only ones in the room, we will not say I love you just if we don't mean it. So the best thing you can do is wait to see if he feels the same. You can't expect someone to love you just because you love them or express it the way you did or feel they should. We don't like being controlled or issued stuff with strings dangling from them.click to expand



Posted by tiziani
Would you feel immediately at ease if your tarot reader brought out a set of Justin Bieber-design tarot cards to your reading?

Posted by tizianiSame exact situation im dealing with. I don't have an interest in him but im single and willing to take a chance. So crazy, we were in 4th & 5th grade together and reconnected last year. He would do some flirting but when I asked him to hang out he would disappear. This happened a few times. Yesterday he inboxed me on fb telling me he thinks about me all the time and can't stop. He said he thought I had a bf and that's why he hasn't been aggressive in pursuing me. Im just going to wait it out cause I know he will disappear soon.Posted by YourMajestyNot at all. Celebrate her freedom.
My ex gf deactivated her fb should i be worried ?
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