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letterbox10
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10 Years

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Do you have any Taurus people in your life?
Ever been with one?
What was or is your favorite subject in school? College?
Are you a online shopper?
- Yes I most certainly do and they are some of my favourite people. My husband, my dad, and two of my closest friends are Taurus 🙂

- In school: History and art. College: Psychology

- Not really. I prefer to go to the shops and see and feel the things I want to buy for myself. I also prefer actual books to e-books, and records to mp3s/downloading music off the internet.
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Posted by RumiL
No.. I wouldn't call that being indecisive because I too believe that there are many things to consider while making a decision(usually) 🙂

IDK.. I wonder what your thought processes are like .. I just cannot see through. We cannot see through anyone but... Libras are different... I cant explain lol.

Women have this different vibe too... Hmm.


You're curious about our thought processes? I can't speak for all Libras; the way I come to a decision is to weigh the pros and cons of all possible options. That's where the process can get lengthy. I'm so afraid of making the "wrong" decision, a mistake that I might regret even 10 years down the line. Especially if I know that the decision might affect others. I guess that's where you can see the indecisive nature of Libras.

Are you an Aries? I'm curious about your thought processes 🙂

I see you guys and gals as opposite of us in many ways, in particular decision-making. How do you decide on something? Just basing it off the few Aries I know in my life (some cousins and a few sprinkling of friends) they don't spend too long deciding on something and they're very firm about it too. Very fearless and carpe diem types. I wish I could be more like that.
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12 Years

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Posted by tiziani
Posted by topgunphantom
Is there a strategy for Libras to get back in the dating game? Friends & dating websites failed to land me any suitors so what other options could there be?
Use common interest sites that aren't focused on dating. If you meet up with a group based on a hobby/past time you have, it's a good way to meet like-minded people who flew under the radar of the dating game and it removes expectations.

Either that or find a friend of the opposite sex that will be your best rep. When I was in university, I had a Scorpio friend who would basically be with me most place I went to. Women got interested in me because they wanted to know if I was with her. She knew how to present herself so it was natural other women were curious.

When they find out I wasn't with her, they had to go through her and impress her to get to know me. I would do the same for her. I don't know if you're a man or woman but it's the best way for a stress-free life.
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I'm a female. thanks!
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11 Years

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Posted by pisceanloves
So why you guys like ignore people? Why you can't be direct whatever is on your mind?
direct? couse i'm afraid i will hurt the person..
ignore? tough one, sometimes i cant explain that to myself..it just happens...its not personal...i just dont feel like talking to them, or i need time for myself..it doesnt mean i have smth against them...just not now, i need time for myself...selfish i know...but that doesnt mean that i will ignore them if they need me...never!
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JustWant2bLoved
@JustWant2bLoved
10 Years

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@firstdecantaurianwomen0428 I had a Taurus boyfriend and he was such a sweet guy, very loving and caring and wanted to make me happy. But sadly he smothered me and was very possessive. I started to get annoyed with him, then sort of snap at him and he would get hurt. Then I would get upset with myself for being annoyed of a great guy & hurting his feelings. Such a vicious cycle for a Libra. I ended it with him for his sake, I couldn't handle his love (intensity) so I had to let him go. We're still cool friends and he's in a happy relationship. I would totally date a Taurus now, I'm mature enough now for the type of relationship they need. Good peeps!
@jay1112 We will, it just takes awhile. What's the story there?
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JustWant2bLoved
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10 Years

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@pisceanloves I soooo agree with @hera Being direct and saying what's REALLY on my mind means I'll hurt you. And then I'll spend so much time trying to get you back to liking me again. Ignoring could be many reasons. I talk so much (lol, no shame in admitting this) that when I don't feel like talking people freak out. I need that silence to rev up for my next talking session...in a few days. But if you call me out on it, you'll be added to the "treat with white gloves" category, meaning, I'll text you to prevent you from calling me. Whoa, this sounds bad as I type it but it's not done out of malice. Now dating, if I ignore you, I'm moving on. I'm trying to re-structure my life without you.
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Posted by JustWant2bLoved
@pisceanloves I soooo agree with @hera Being direct and saying what's REALLY on my mind means I'll hurt you. And then I'll spend so much time trying to get you back to liking me again. Ignoring could be many reasons. I talk so much (lol, no shame in admitting this) that when I don't feel like talking people freak out. I need that silence to rev up for my next talking session...in a few days. But if you call me out on it, you'll be added to the "treat with white gloves" category, meaning, I'll text you to prevent you from calling me. Whoa, this sounds bad as I type it but it's not done out of malice. Now dating, if I ignore you, I'm moving on. I'm trying to re-structure my life without you.
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9 Years

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Posted by Aqualady84
Do you think him not contacting me is telling me something? He has done this before, but I kinda blew up on him about it. This time I made sure to reasonably explain myself. I also know he is uncommunicative with his family like that as well. They are always fb posting asking why he didn't answer the phone or where is he.
The last time we saw each other he was seeming insecure about his body. He was pinching his skin saying he needed to work out. I myself have lost over 50lbs and looking pretty good Lol so I dunno of he is just trying to match that, cause he posted a pic of him saying " starting to see some results " and his body looked all chiseled!
Oh gosh, that sounds like me. I also have a Gemini moon. The part that hit home is my fam making comments on my facebook or friends, so I eventually disabled that part. Yes, I've been a bit distant to people I've even liked in a similar way but not always 'cause they did something. Sometimes I'm literally trying to get my life together, and it sounds like he's doing the same with job searching and his fitness. When someone complains to me about it, I do try to hit them up when I can, even something quick like "hey good morning. have a good day" to show I'm here but I can't talk. I just started doing that tho lol.

When I'm in that zone, everybody is a distraction for me and it's kinda outta site outta mind 😢 Especially the friends who always have some drama going on or drama with me, it throws me off. But the people I really like I always go back to when I feel things are resolved or close to being resolved in my life or when it's just been a while. It doesn't happen too often. But I feel so misunderstood when I try to explain but then still get asked "are you mad at me or something?" like nooo, I'm so not!

I've read Gemini moon usually feel misunderstood, so you'd score big points trying to be understanding. Occasionally saying "thinking of you" and "have a good day" and sending a funny vid, positive messages etc. I actually want to be the best person I can for others, and it would be no fun for either of us if we're hanging out and I'm moping thinking about all my problems. I admit it's selfish, but I can't operate any other way yet! Good luck!
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Like he would be like "what are you doing?" then never respond after you respond? wat the heck lol.

that's cool that you're not crowding him. I do think after like another month or so I'd stop sending even little messages if I'm getting nothing back ever because yes, it's not fair. I'd just be like "I know you've been occupied but let me know if you want to get lunch sometime" then I'd stop contacting him and try to occupy myself with other people.

You say he's sweet but have you had the "hey, I like you...i like you too" talk? Like shoot, if he's not feeling you he's just not feeling you so that would be a whole other thing ahah. But if he did tell you his feelings then yeah, I'd say he still is feeling you.
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Posted by justagirl
Do you guys ever leave the fence?

How hard is it for you to pick an outfit?

Do you like to debate?

Biggest turn on sexually?

That should get things rolling... Maybe 😛
-eventually when I make up my mind
-usually very easy but there are days I tear up my whole closer before I'm satisfied
-I love to
-being adored and paid attention to, being studied/mesmerized by a guy

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Posted by Aqualady84
Posted by leeberated
Like he would be like "what are you doing?" then never respond after you respond? wat the heck lol.

that's cool that you're not crowding him. I do think after like another month or so I'd stop sending even little messages if I'm getting nothing back ever because yes, it's not fair. I'd just be like "I know you've been occupied but let me know if you want to get lunch sometime" then I'd stop contacting him and try to occupy myself with other people.

You say he's sweet but have you had the "hey, I like you...i like you too" talk? Like shoot, if he's not feeling you he's just not feeling you so that would be a whole other thing ahah. But if he did tell you his feelings then yeah, I'd say he still is feeling you.
I didn't get to see your previous messages.
He has never said it in words that he liked me, but he has told me he missed me. Although, he has told me secrets of his from childhood and now. He hints around at stuff too. Like I think he wanted to ask me to a.work.function but me being stubborn I didn't acknowledge it cause I wanted him to be flat out. Also he seems to do this thing where he plays songs and the lyrics are supposed to represent his feelings I guess. It doesn't make sense but it does. Like the songs speak exactly about stuff we have talked about. However, he plays them via snapchat so I'm left having to just "perceive" it as he is talking to me. Apparently, from my sleuthing skills, he does this with previous girlfriends. He has a Libra Mars and I read that they sometimes hint around at things. From what I can tell he isn't the best guy, but I have a Scorpio Mars so I'm kinda a glutton for punishment Lol!
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I sometimes hint my feelings with songs, who am I kidding I do all the time. I share songs of my thoughts even playlists. Mars in Libra... For some reason as cool as they are to me, I still think they area but slow to act or like you said hint alot..what's his Mercury by the way?

I haven't followed the whole conversation so maybe you mentioned it already but, have you asked him what's up? How he feels about you or what he wants from you? Do you love him?
Why not let him go?

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Posted by CopperDove
Describe your personal style (clothing and related).
As far as clothing.. Bohemian casual. I like Aztec/tribal prints in tasteful amounts, flowy sweaters and tops, long flannels/shirts and leggings/skinny jeans. Boots and booties of all kinds. Long crystal necklaces, dangly charm bracelets. Zip up hoodies, converse/vans. Dresses here and there. Lacey and pearls.

Yah, dude stoner girly vibes haha
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Girl let's go shopping!!
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Posted by deedee85
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Why not unblock him and ask him what all this is about? If you want answers your best option would be getting them from him. That is, if you want closure or understanding so you don't have to feel guilty.. You love him and he loves you.. So what will you do ? Why did it fail?
Every time I unblock him its the same cycle. He apologies and makes excuses but nothing changes.

I broke up with him 12/31 because he totally abandoned me and our relationship. Since the summer I had been reduced to a text relationship. We only live 20 miles apart and were together for 5 years so his excuses were suspect. He was having baby mama and money problems so I was patient and accepted his apologies and promises that it would get better and things would get back to normal.
In mid January he started to show signs of change by calling and by stopping by my office regularly. I was beginning to soften but then on Valentines day it all blew up.
I found out some big lies. He was essentially being blackmailed by his daughter's mother and was living with them and had been for months!!! This woman was controlling him and making threats if he even trued to leave the house. He disappeared on all his friends as well.
I know that there is nothing sexual or romantic between them. That I am sure of BUT I don't take kindly to being deceived. If he told me the truth I would've stood by his side but he chose to lie. I'm not ready to forgive such a major betrayal. To top it off, he hasn't moved out yet. Fear is controlling him.
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Yeah honesty is mega important
I too have ended a relationship because of a secret kept from me till the end...
BM/BD drama smh

Are you ready to move on from him?
Or do you feel like you want to give it a shot again?
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11 Years5,000+ Posts

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Posted by missprettilady
Why do Libras procrastinate when it comes to relationships even with someone they feel a strong connection too— And how do you guys feel when or if your procrastination cost you person to get tired of waiting and move on?
i think because (if we have some sort of self awareness) we realise that our feelings can change in the blink of an eye. if the feeling is strong today, it may not be that way tomorrow. so it is not so much about procrastination but it is waiting to make sure that the feeling is genuine and is sticking.

i think if someone walked away because they got tired of waiting for me to make my mind up, then it wouldn't have been a good match and they saved us both a lot of heartache. i'd be grateful that they made the decision for me.
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Posted by sagiluv
Libra if you are requested to stay away will you listen ??

Libra are you a user, do you use people to your advantage ?? For example, I'm going to keep this person around for financial support or because in the future you'll benefit from it —

Please be specific ..

Those are my questions to libras
yes

i will use people to my advantage but not for financial support or pretend to be nice just because of how it will benefit me in the future.

but for example, if i needed a birthday cake made and my sister is a fantastic baker then i will ask her to bake it for me (and then give her a gift afterwards) so in a sense i have used her (and her skills) to my advantage. people use me to their advantage all the time. there is nothing wrong with getting the most out of your connections. it is the whole basis for LinkedIn.
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JustWant2bLoved
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10 Years

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@deedee85 Let the Libra go. Bottom line is the baby mama is always going to be an issue. I cannot speak for all Libras, but I like to keep the peace.
So if I were him, and you took me back, I would have to be even more sneaky (yes this is WRONG), even if it’s nothing romantic going on with the BM. I hate to say that, but you need the truth. I wouldn’t want you to get upset again. Hope that makes sense. He’s got himself in a bad situation, but you have the chance to break free. Save yourself the heartache.

@sagiluv Ok specifics, lol. If requested to stay away? You would never hear from me again! And if you ever called me, I would be so cold. But I would answer just so that you know that I’m being cold…yes very petty. Not a user…idk, I think that might have to do with how you’re raised or your character. I definitely like to do things on my own. If I have to ask someone for something, then I’ll go without it.

@ashley1734 I think he likes you and the attention you give him. And knowing that he can “hang-out” with you anytime HE felt like it, is the problem. It’s very disrespectful to you though. You can squash that behavior easily…act uninterested. I would be like, hey wait, what happened, where is she…oh I better act right!
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9 Years

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I'm in love with a Libra, and he knows, because I told him. We live together and have for six months. We spend most of our time together. Is it okay to let him know my heart is breaking because he hasn't voiced feeling the same? He hasn't ever said anything either way about his feelings. He never talks about other girls. So I know he doesn't want to hurt me but I don't know if it's because he is just a nice person or because he cares. It's confusing because he isn't going anywhere. He isn't pushing me out. When I told him I loved him it was over text and he never responded but he came home right away, cancelled plans with a friend and spent hours playing video games with me.
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10 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

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Posted by ashley1734
What would be the reasoning behind expressing interest in someone (vocally) and then being unresponsive to hanging out and then coming back a few weeks later to express interest agai, rinse, repeat...never actually hanging out. (The Libra in quesstion is not involved in another relationship).
This could be anything from the Libra wanting to believe they're up for it but they're not really, to just loving the attention enough to pay it lip service but no more. Especially if they're not in a relationship, it's motivating to feel desirable.
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He finally expressed that he had had his heart broken...but I know he has met other women online (he is actively online dating just not in an actual relationship). So bizarre. Every time I start ignoring him and tell him he is wasting my time, he tells me is "clearly" interested or he will send me compliments, etc.

Idiot.
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Posted by ashley1734
What would be the reasoning behind expressing interest in someone (vocally) and then being unresponsive to hanging out and then coming back a few weeks later to express interest agai, rinse, repeat...never actually hanging out. (The Libra in quesstion is not involved in another relationship).
This could be anything from the Libra wanting to believe they're up for it but they're not really, to just loving the attention enough to pay it lip service but no more. Especially if they're not in a relationship, it's motivating to feel desirable.
He finally expressed that he had had his heart broken...but I know he has met other women online (he is actively online dating just not in an actual relationship). So bizarre. Every time I start ignoring him and tell him he is wasting my time, he tells me is "clearly" interested or he will send me compliments, etc.

Idiot.
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sounds like lip service.
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10 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

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Posted by ashley1734
What would be the reasoning behind expressing interest in someone (vocally) and then being unresponsive to hanging out and then coming back a few weeks later to express interest agai, rinse, repeat...never actually hanging out. (The Libra in quesstion is not involved in another relationship).
This could be anything from the Libra wanting to believe they're up for it but they're not really, to just loving the attention enough to pay it lip service but no more. Especially if they're not in a relationship, it's motivating to feel desirable.
He finally expressed that he had had his heart broken...but I know he has met other women online (he is actively online dating just not in an actual relationship). So bizarre. Every time I start ignoring him and tell him he is wasting my time, he tells me is "clearly" interested or he will send me compliments, etc.

Idiot.
I'm a libra (female) and I will tell you that we love saying sweet things to people, however it's doesn't mean a hill of beans unless our actions align with what was said.

Also, sans the sweet words and treating people like they are the only ones in the room, we will not say I love you just if we don't mean it. So the best thing you can do is wait to see if he feels the same. You can't expect someone to love you just because you love them or express it the way you did or feel they should. We don't like being controlled or issued stuff with strings dangling from them.
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Oh...no I don't have feelings for him. Was just wondering what the point of saying things with no intention of following through. Especially when the other person is asking/expecting nothing of you to begin with. Just seems foolish and a waste of energy.
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12 Years

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Posted by tiziani
Posted by YourMajesty
My ex gf deactivated her fb should i be worried ?
Not at all. Celebrate her freedom.

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Same exact situation im dealing with. I don't have an interest in him but im single and willing to take a chance. So crazy, we were in 4th & 5th grade together and reconnected last year. He would do some flirting but when I asked him to hang out he would disappear. This happened a few times. Yesterday he inboxed me on fb telling me he thinks about me all the time and can't stop. He said he thought I had a bf and that's why he hasn't been aggressive in pursuing me. Im just going to wait it out cause I know he will disappear soon.
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My Libra bestie, with Gem Moon, Saggy Venus and Leo Mars......has attracted this guy.......

Sun 25°28' Cancer

Moon 14°22' Scorpio

Mercury 5°37' Leo

Venus 5°04' Virgo

Mars 12°58' Cancer

Jupiter 1°14' Я Sagittarius

Saturn 27°58' Libra

Uranus 5°22' Я Sagittarius

Neptune 27°07' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 26°45' Libra

Now me, I was like ewwwww Cancer. But this guy seems to be hitting it out of the park for my firey gal. So.....how DO you feel about dat water?