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Scorpio woman 31 fatal libra man 😢

Meet when we was 17 and split up. Young and life was all over for us teens then.

We both had acting careers and was very busy.

I herd a song and it reminded me of him

So I got back in touch just to see how he was doing.

14 years later.

In a few days he was back in touch.

It was like we had never lost touch.

Every day we would be speaking every hour.

Weeks went by and we was just talking would be first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

Months went past and was still great. Just one thing I dident live in the U.K. Anymore I have moved abroad. And we had both got partners and children.

I was heading back for my yearly visit to family and friends and also him to.

And he knew this.

So a month before I was due to arrive he stared to go quiet on me. And all of a sudden he bloked me from contacting him.

I was confussed there were no signs apart from the little contack for a few days.

A week had passed and I messaged him of a firends phone. And it was a little video I had made. I sent it we explaining I know how hard things are for us and if he would unbloke me it would be great so we can laugh about this not be so seriouse.

He loved it and said tell her I miss her and can't stop thinking about her (me)

So he un bloked me and we stared again. He said he was sorry and that he was falling for me and that he thought that he was just my escape for my bad time I was having. I told him he wasn't and that I enjoyed our chats and that I want that coffie you promised me.

And it was great back to normally laughing and joking as before intimate skype calls

And so on he told me how he wanted to be with me and marry me and even said I think I love you ? I had not said this at all. But just laughed and said you wouldent want to marry me lol just keeping it cool. Or keeping my guard up. It just new that would never happen with the life's we are living.

A week before I was meant to arrive he became distant again. I said are you having thoughts again you know this is just us and don't think to much about things.

He said no of course not I just can't stop thinking about you. And love hearing from you please don't thing your bothering me because your not... Happy days it was for me..

I arrived Monday and we had arranged to meet Thursday

Thursday came I was dressed to impress and an hour before we was ment to meet he bloked me from again.

So i couldent believe he had again after he promised he wouldent do that me.

I sent him a message on the social media saying thanks for letting me down and can't believe you had.

So I decided to arrange nights out with the girls Friday and so I went by 11pm I revived a message at this point I had a bottle of wine and was pouring my heart out to my mate about him when he text saying.

Can we meet?

I understand if your busy.

Wow I jumped of my seat like I had won the the lottery ——

My Firend said you need to go if you don't you will regret it. So I did dressed in the outfit I was meant to wear for our date allready knee length leather skirt black v neck top. I'm not one to dress to revealing but classy.

We meet and the first moment I saw him My heart felt like it had a pulse again.

and of we went dancing all night long laughing and talking. We even got matching keyrings done with us ?Cringe Was like we was 17 again.

We ended the night with a steamy night of passion. And off home I went .

The next morning he called to my suprise and was telling me how much enjoyed the night and I was so much more the he expected and was he for me. And that he wish he had never let me g0.

He said I'm taking you for dinner next time you deserve to be treated like a lady as I promised — wow I was excited.

Monday night had arrived I was dressed and ready to be wined and dined.

But guess what he had bloked me 😢

Down I went like a tone of bricks cyring into my Chinese takeaway..

I was done 😢 he had exshasted me mentally. I sent a message on social media site saying you got what you wanted from me it seems. So I'm moving on I can't keep playing these games your playing with me..

The next day I get

"I'm sorry"

I wish I could make it up to you..

So I fell straight in and said

You can..

Meet me tonight?

Ok I will I promise.

So he did and there we was again hugging and him holding my hand saying sorry and that he wants to talk.

He said I feel like I'm your escape I'm never going to be what you want.

And that I can't use him as the reason for what happening in my realsionship.

And that any move I make next I need to do for myself and not him...

Me I thought his pulling out now I see this.

But then he said but you know I don't want to stop talking to you and I can't and I won't and then held me and it was just nice.of course we couldn't really keep our hands of each other the chemistry we had was amazing. Dropped me home and said see you Thursday yer I said yer sounds good.

I was going home Saturday so a few more days ?

Next morning he called Wednesday hay I know it hurts me blocking you but I have to today I'm in so much trouble with my girlfriend it's really bad. But I promise you baby il be back. I said it's fine u understand at least you told me this time unlike before he wouldent. So I could see he was listing to me and could her I was hurt before when he did..

Thursday came nothing

Friday came nothing....

So Friday afternoon I messaged of another phone saying are you not going to say goodbye to me.

And still nothing....

So I called of the land line... No answer

Then he called back not knowing it was me.

I said hay it's me.. He said yes I know his tone of voice had changed.

It was angry.

He said who you been talking to. Someone followed me home the other night. (Me) I said what no one what you talking about babe totally confused to what he was saying. He said I can't talk now I call back I said but will you call back he said yes just don't talk to no one.

And put the phone done

I was devastated had this really happened.

Everything we talked about everything he said to me just finished like that..

I used to think it was because he was a libra and they tend to be unsure for a while. But I thought we passed that. I know a libra when he loves he tells you and he wants the one.. He made me believe that. But of course we knew that wouldent be easy to achieve with our lives.

But then I thought maybe he played a good game and fooled me and used me and left me..

I've achieved a lot in life and feel proud were I am. But he had thrown me of that track and he had made me Feel like I did something wrong.. I'm questioning was real and was fake.

Sorry for the post hope somone has the time to read it and help me understand thanks x

So you cheated on your husband?

My relationship is over now and I have moved on with my life It wasn't a healthy realsionship but I have had to build everything again. I guess j was in low place which meant I could have been taken advantage of Easy.

I expected this when I was in my teens by I I dident expect this to happen soon after anothe low blow to add to this year

Our situations are so similar yet so different.

My libra went all out and changed his number to get away from me! There weren't other people in the picture though.

I am all too familiar with how hurt you feel right now. It's hard for us Scorpio women to pick up the pieces and move on when someone shits on us out of the blue.

I have been holding out hope and living in limbo for over a year now and it has been devastating. I'm too dumb and too stubborn to just give up and move on. Don't be like me! Erase that asshole from your life. Walk away and never look back. Block and delete. Save yourself the heartache because it won't ever get better.

Sounds like his girlfriend found out about you. Maybe she's known about him talking to you for awhile. She put the leash on tight

What happened with you feeder and Yes being a Scorpio I feel I tend to know what I want and when I do I go and get with both hands I don't give up. I put 100 percent into everything and I did with him he asked for it all the time tell me how you feel tell me what you think for us bla bla... I feel proud so far what I have achieved in life because I Tend to go for things in life head on.... This libra / man meant a lot to me when we was younger but we split on bad terms due to not being committed to each other we was full time acting and hardly saw each other it put a strain on our realsionship and we it ended then it was devistating but we had no choice. 14 years on it seems we still couldent be together 😢 it's heart breaking because the older I get the more I see things in a different ways... When I was young I could walk away easy...But now I am who I am I know my self well and I fell this is to hard to walk away from. I know I will never know why he bloked me or spoke to me so horrible. Not once did he ever do that. But your right I have been told by many cut him from your life for good I have bloked him also from everything.

Yes @pinkbird that could be the case. But if course how could she put up with him doing that😢. We are totally wrong we did or what happend. I don't want to be judged for this but I deserve to be also. I feel angry more than anything else for him to have actually said all those things to me and then cut me out of his life like I meant nothing to him. I find that hard to believe..

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Posted by Deedee86
Our situations are so similar yet so different.

My libra went all out and changed his number to get away from me! There weren't other people in the picture though.

I am all too familiar with how hurt you feel right now. It's hard for us Scorpio women to pick up the pieces and move on when someone shits on us out of the blue.

I have been holding out hope and living in limbo for over a year now and it has been devastating. I'm too dumb and too stubborn to just give up and move on. Don't be like me! Erase that asshole from your life. Walk away and never look back. Block and delete. Save yourself the heartache because it won't ever get better.

You are a Scorpio?!

All that time I was wondering your sign...

I asked you once... and you never replied...

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Sorry. I must not have seen it.

I'm November 15.

i don't no were he lived he turnt on me to worry me and it was his sorry excuse for me not seeing me anymore cause libra men ant got the balls to be honest...

Thanks Noni05 I thought I had come to an age were I learnt this 😢 and could spot the them fakes a mile off.?