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Posted by ladylibra21

he is being punished


According to a later post in that thread, which I will happy to re-post (and just might) .... he is being punished because of how emotionally he is and attached to people. He got real attached to a teacher and this pissed mommy off. Mother and father bounce baby back and forth between households and then punish him because he is traumatized with the instability.


Posted by ladylibra21

Spanking does not work with him


He is being spanked because he won't get his shit together and stop being upset about being a bag tossed back and forth.

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hands on the wall ..... so I am literally holding his hands there


And his hands pinned to the wall.

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He never forgets what he sees as a wrong doing.


Even he knows, at ......

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he is 2


..... 2 years old, that what she is doing to him is wrong.




I can only hope that one day her mother, or the child's father will find dxp .... and get the child away from her.



I'll keep posting this from time to time, to make sure all the new people see this.
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It's child abuse, is what it is ... no way around it.


Look at all the people who believe in protecting and defending the abuser .... that speaks volumes about who is an upstanding person to society and who isn't.


this is why children still continue to be abused ... because people literally cannot handle the truth of it, and would rather turn blind eyes to it and protect the abuser.


I've been highlighting this in dxp since she first admitted to being a child abuser, and will continue to do so, so long as she is a member ..... my hope is that someone from the family, or the baby's father will find dxp, and read this ... so that they can get the baby out of there and into safely.
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There's 25 year olds in here crying about how they shouldn't be held accountable for their actions because their brains aren't fully developed yet ... yet, a two-year old is suppose to man-up and not be upset about being displaced.


Not on my watch ...... if I had the means, I would have her arrested.


btw .. I know her full name, and I know the name of the theatre she works, and where it's located ... I could actually turn her into the law.


and I just might.


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There's 25 year olds in here crying about how they shouldn't be held accountable for their actions because their brains aren't fully developed yet ... yet, a two-year old is suppose to man-up and not be upset about being displaced.


Not on my watch ...... if I had the means, I would have her arrested.


btw .. I know her full name, and I know the name of the theatre she works, and where it's located ... I could actually turn her into the law.


and I just might.

Wow! Well done.
Well done?

Dude, guaranteed those whiny 25 year olds are the sort of kids that received NO discipline at home.. that is why they are not accountable for their actions. They were never made to be. Their parents were too lenient on them and now they are just a grown up spoiled fkn brat and nothing is their fault.. LOL

You guys are hilarious..
We are talking about a 2 year old baby! That's not how you treat a two year old baby. The OP seems out of control and needs help.
I realize that, P's comment almost seemed to be giving the whiny 25 year old a free pass.. as if that is even comparable to a 2 year old.

What you all are failing to realize is that she did realize that what she was doing was wrong.. or else why the fuck would she come here and open up about it? she wanted fkn help. You guys are ignorant as fuck.

And those 25 year old whiny brats are a result of lack of discipline. Sure there may be better ways to deal with things than spanking, but kids can be tough and we are all just human. Your parents have never spanked you before?
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Thank you! My thoughts exactly.
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In reality, she realizes that (if) one of her people come in here, they will find out that she abuses her baby and they will take it away from her.

so, she has to run and hide, to avoid being caught.
Seriously why are you such a bitch?
Perhaps she's making a valid point and not being a "bitch" as you put it!
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She is a trouble maker, all you need to do is go to her page and look the way she trolls on other threads. I really don't think I should have to even explain that. Anyone whose been around long enough knows it.
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P has been trolling here forever and ever.

If you read the original post, P’s analysis doesn’t even make sense. She is reading what she wants into it.

Spanking doesn’t work with him = she doesn’t spank him

Hand on the wall = not dissimilar to supernanny’s sit on the step. Supernanny teaches parents to put the kid back on the step over and over again till they do their time out which is 1 minute for every year of the child, which if you look at the original post the poster says she makes him take a time out for two minutes – which is how long it would be for a two year old.
In the original post, she says He grows very attached to people though and has behavior problems at daycare if a teacher he likes quits. … she goes on to say he ended up in the office four times on Friday (because a teacher quit and he was upset). This is very different from what P-Angel presented which was the child being punished by the mom for being attached to people.

In her original post, she admits to be afraid because she can’t control him and that the whole scene is upsetting and she doesn’t know what to do.

The reason why abuse exists is because people aren’t allowed to tell their truth and speak their fear. This was a person who was reaching out, feeling vulnerable, and needing help. No shame in that.

And any parent who says they haven’t felt that way or felt in over their head is a liar.
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This shit is so wrong lol.

I've gotten to the point of welling up in tears being so frustrated with my child. Badass little Sagittarian wild children. In a way, I understand and have compassion for OP.

Digging this up and going on and on is a load of balls. Come on, man.
Im a Sag and all I can say is be patient. We eventually calm down but we're fire signs so we'll always have quite a bit of energy. Perhaps try teaching your child to channel it.
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Well I hate to interject the racial component into this, but I know for a fact that blacks take it to the extreme. I know people that talk to black mothers, many of them, every single day.
But that wasn't your opinion in the video you showed me when you grabbed that BBC out of your gfs asshole and told that handsom masculine man to dump his creamy load right into your mouth...@Finbuff
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Spanking is spanking. Abuse is not spanking.
i don't think you can say this definitively.

a lot of people consider spanking abuse. somehow it is legal to hit a child but illegal to hit an adult. shit, it is even illegal to hit another's child but legal to hit your own. i was spanked as a child and all it did was made me fearful of my parents. if spanking works as an effective discipline tool, then you would only need to do it once.

let's look at a definition of physical abuse care of wikipedia

"Physical abuse can be defined as any intentional act causing injury or trauma to another person by way of bodily contact."

now for spanking not to be considered abuse then you would have to agree that a child is not a person.

another definition?

from the uk's childline

"Physical abuse is when someone is hurting you. This could be hurting you with their hands, their feet, or an object. It can involve:
*hitting and smacking"

the fact is spanking is more culturally acceptable in some countries and less in others.

however a growing group of psychologists believe it to be harmful.

"Many studies have shown that physical punishment — including spanking, hitting and other means of causing pain — can lead to increased aggression, antisocial behavior, physical injury and mental health problems for children. Americans’ acceptance of physical punishment has declined since the 1960s, yet surveys show that two-thirds of Americans still approve of parents spanking their kids.

But spanking doesn’t work, says Alan Kazdin, PhD, a Yale University psychology professor and director of the Yale Parenting Center and Child Conduct Clinic. “You cannot punish out these behaviors that you do not want,” says Kazdin, who served as APA president in 2008. “There is no need for corporal punishment based on the research. We are not giving up an effective technique. We are saying this is a horrible thing that does not work.”

http://www.apa.org/monitor/2012/04/spanking.aspx

so feel free to extol the virtues of hitting a child but realise that there are opposing viewpoints.
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This shit is so wrong lol.

I've gotten to the point of welling up in tears being so frustrated with my child. Badass little Sagittarian wild children. In a way, I understand and have compassion for OP.

Digging this up and going on and on is a load of balls. Come on, man.
Im a Sag and all I can say is be patient. We eventually calm down but we're fire signs so we'll always have quite a bit of energy. Perhaps try teaching your child to channel it.
Thanks 🙂 Yes, it's exhausting. Any child but that baby fire can be a real ass kicker for mom lol. I've taken notice to her energy and seems like sports will be good for her. I've been teaching her yoga. Even with her two second attention span, it seems to truly work. She'll just bust out poses randomly for everyone lol
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Lol yup that was me. I was a little runner and to think I have a twin sister(Im a male). My mom used to tell us stories about how we caused her all kinds of hell
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Posted by Finbuff
Good post Jeane....in America we have 13% black population committing 37% of all crime. Every shooting you hear about on the radio has 90% probability to be in black neighborhoods. (I live near a large metro city) Perhaps it's because their view of extreme corporal punishment simply breeds angry and disillusioned children that grow into the same type of adults?
i wouldn't make that leap. if anything, fewer children are hit today then they were in the past. to make that connection you would have to see violent crime decrease over time rather than increase. i don't know about stats in the us but i think in the uk, violent crime is on the rise.

i would hazard a very uninformed guess and say that socio-economic reasons were likely to be a major cause for crime in the us amongst the african american population rather than childhood spankings.
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Posted by ladylibra21
Thank you everyone who has been so helpful the last couple of months since I joined. I need to make some dynamic changes in my life and my first step is deleting all distractions such as social media. Many blessings to you all good luck in your endeavors! Love you Libras!
LEEBs winking at extremes... so cute.

See you soon, and best of luck in the time in between.


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Jeane - the average poverty stricken black family in the US is light years better off than poor people in 3rd world countries. They all have their cell phones, their big screen TV's, subsidized government housing, food stamps, where they go to buy lobster and new york strip steaks at the corner market. I stand by my original comment. It has nothing to do with being economically disadvantaged - it's a life choice of non-productivity.
i don't know. i don't live in your country and i am white. i have no ability (or enough knowledge) to comprehend or speak with any kind of authority of their day to day life experience.
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Jeane - the average poverty stricken black family in the US is light years better off than poor people in 3rd world countries. They all have their cell phones, their big screen TV's, subsidized government housing, food stamps, where they go to buy lobster and new york strip steaks at the corner market. I stand by my original comment. It has nothing to do with being economically disadvantaged - it's a life choice of non-productivity.
And the chances Finbuff is a scared little closet dwelling cock sucker is 100%

Isn't that right you lil pussy?

Did you get picked on and beat up in the past? Maybe mommy or daddy was abusive?

You diffently show the signs.

Is that why you always have to throw people down? Because deep down you truly hate yourself? You hate yourself because your own mother and society hates you?

I'd hate myself if I we're you too @Finbuff :/
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This shit is so wrong lol.

I've gotten to the point of welling up in tears being so frustrated with my child. Badass little Sagittarian wild children. In a way, I understand and have compassion for OP.

Digging this up and going on and on is a load of balls. Come on, man.
Im a Sag and all I can say is be patient. We eventually calm down but we're fire signs so we'll always have quite a bit of energy. Perhaps try teaching your child to channel it.
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Well I hate to interject the racial component into this, but I know for a fact that blacks take it to the extreme. I know people that talk to black mothers, many of them, every single day.
But that wasn't your opinion in the video you showed me when you grabbed that BBC out of your gfs asshole and told that handsom masculine man to dump his creamy load right into your mouth...@Finbuff
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What the hell did i miss!!!!!