cancer and libra

anyone care to share thier experience with Cancers? All stories are welcome!! but i do have a slight preference for cancer females and libra males interactions

great for a fling

Well I like a cancer and we get along great. However, he dont ever express emotions towards me. But he show me with actions that he really really like me... Thats kool... but I need to hear it as well... We will see how it go...

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Could be conflict lol

lol every relationship has the potential for conflict!

Posted by U`C`ME
Well I like a cancer and we get along great. However, he dont ever express emotions towards me. But he show me with actions that he really really like me... Thats kool... but I need to hear it as well... We will see how it go...

oh ok good luck! is that the only interaction u've had with a cancer?

On a friendship level we mesh really well. This is my first experience with a cancer. The sex is wonderful, no problems there. Oh and every time we go out he always hold my hand.

I think it can work but of course there well definitely be a huge and I mean HUGE need for compromise on both ends. Libra will need to compromise their will to be flighty. Meaning Hot one minute and gone the next. Even though we do this in a subconscious state, meaning we are honestly not doing it on purpose but more so because we are unsure or having trouble making a decision on the relationship, this can crush your crab and make them crawl back into their shell giving you the moody crabby cold shoulder. Which won't turn out good for either one of you because a Libra has a tendency to mirror their partners actions, trying to stay on one accord. So if the crab is too mean, too moody, or cold, the Libra will soon reciprocate with the same attitude or worse; disappear altogether until the crab gets their act together especially if Libra feels they've done nothing wrong.

Cancer will need to learn to bend, and loosen up when in love. Don't be so serious all the time. Have fun! If your moody your Libra will surely try to cheer you up, but if you insist on walking like the world is on your shoulders your libra will be off into their wonderland flowing like the wind and being the social butterfly they are, meeting new people and new things until her handsome/pretty crab decides to come out of their shabby shell and live life at its best. The libra HATES gloominess and conflict and will do and SAY almost ANYTHING to avoid it.

Oh and Cancer, I know your tight with the funds, you might want to loosen up ya grip or your libra will be gone. They looove to spoil and be spoiled and won't tolerate someone being stingy with them. If they love you, then trust they will be very understanding and loving and if they have any leo in their chart like me, then they will long for you to have nothing but the best. So don't be too stingy in that department it will be worth it. However Libra, you must control the spending and at least attempt to create some sort of budget for yourself because cancer does not play about handling business and that includes finances, put them in debt and their moodiness will be the LEAST of your worries. Good Luck!

Oh and by the way, my sources come from my experience of my dad, former step dad, and granddad all being cancers. Not to mention my middle school/high school sweetheart of 12 yrs and counting is a cancer. My best friend's baby daddy is a cancer, and I'm also dealing with the most moodiest, most demanding cancer I've ever met right dang now. Its officially been a year putting up with his crap. So yeah, I have a little insight. lol

If you want brutal honesty-its a bad match. Perhaps the union is better if the lady is a libra and the man is a cancer. But a male libra and female cancer have about as much chance as giving each other what they need, as I have of needing an elbow on my ass. The female cancer will stay longer than necessary because she wants him to be "the one" and the male libra will slowly vanish into thin air waiting for her to leave because he never wants to be the bad guy. And I'm not even going to go into the emotional manipulation and mental instability that seem to plague female crabs. Also, if you starting having sex with him in five dates or less get the shovel and start digging.

^^ LMBO @get the shovel and start digging??_" that's so bold. lol

ALibra, I agree with your post on crabs except for "The libra HATES gloominess".
Bela Lugosi was Libra !
It should be "Libra's Love "dramatic" gloominess, but hate crabby people.

What good is sunshine without gloominess? Libra's understand the dichotomy
of the universe. Hell, we are living dichotomies !!!

Posted by ALibra
Oh and by the way, my sources come from my experience of my dad, former step dad, and granddad all being cancers. Not to mention my middle school/high school sweetheart of 12 yrs and counting is a cancer. My best friend's baby daddy is a cancer, and I'm also dealing with the most moodiest, most demanding cancer I've ever met right dang now. Its officially been a year putting up with his crap. So yeah, I have a little insight. lol

im a dif cancer very airy... most of my friends are air signs...i have only one water sign friends "go figure"...and ima firm believer that cancer men and women are very different. I've actually only met one cancer man I could tolerate. libra men are very moody as well...at least mine is and he 2 can be wishy washy... and i believe he;s a slight sadist as when im very mean to him or non chalant he's does the absolute most to gt back in my good graces non stop phone calls, contacting my friends, texts...crazy cycle

Posted by U`C`ME
On a friendship level we mesh really well. This is my first experience with a cancer. The sex is wonderful, no problems there. Oh and every time we go out he always hold my hand.

yea sex between a libra and cancer can be pure bliss...based on browsing other sites on this topic that seems to be the one thing we have locked down -_- lol

I have dated two libras,but one was too clingy for my taste,yet very sweet. The other Libra was exactly like me. It was very odd actually considering how similar we were. We had absolutely no conflicts and he was very kind and caring toward me;however, it was not reciprocal. I was caring toward him but not very much. We had been friends for about 9 months before dating. We just "clicked." Unfortunately, after a few months of dating I started to get bored and realized things just weren't the same once we had decided to become more than friends. I feel bad because I still acted as if we were still friends while we were dating;and I know I hurt him. I regret that honestly,but he became a stalker after we broke up. He would follow me places and even made 11 fake facebook accounts that he would date these random people on. He used the pictures of other men from facebook on his multiple fake accounts. My friends and I eventually found all of this out. This is such a shortened version of the story. There was much much more unnecessary drama caused by him. It was as if I was living a soap opera life.

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Posted by U`C`ME
On a friendship level we mesh really well. This is my first experience with a cancer. The sex is wonderful, no problems there. Oh and every time we go out he always hold my hand.

yea sex between a libra and cancer can be pure bliss...based on browsing other sites on this topic that seems to be the one thing we have locked down -_- lol

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hahahahaha yea, I love it.. I can have him everyday... He's such a soft, cuddly, gentle giant.

Posted by PiscesFebFish
If you want brutal honesty-its a bad match. Perhaps the union is better if the lady is a libra and the man is a cancer. But a male libra and female cancer have about as much chance as giving each other what they need, as I have of needing an elbow on my ass. The female cancer will stay longer than necessary because she wants him to be "the one" and the male libra will slowly vanish into thin air waiting for her to leave because he never wants to be the bad guy. And I'm not even going to go into the emotional manipulation and mental instability that seem to plague female crabs. Also, if you starting having sex with him in five dates or less get the shovel and start digging.

cancer bashing aside...i actually think we exhibit a lot of traits that the libra man finds fascinating. True we can be emotional and moody but so can they lbs

Posted by Cancerflower5808
I have dated two libras,but one was too clingy for my taste,yet very sweet. The other Libra was exactly like me. It was very odd actually considering how similar we were. We had absolutely no conflicts and he was very kind and caring toward me;however, it was not reciprocal. I was caring toward him but not very much. We had been friends for about 9 months before dating. We just "clicked." Unfortunately, after a few months of dating I started to get bored and realized things just weren't the same once we had decided to become more than friends. I feel bad because I still acted as if we were still friends while we were dating;and I know I hurt him. I regret that honestly,but he became a stalker after we broke up. He would follow me places and even made 11 fake facebook accounts that he would date these random people on. He used the pictures of other men from facebook on his multiple fake accounts. My friends and I eventually found all of this out. This is such a shortened version of the story. There was much much more unnecessary drama caused by him. It was as if I was living a soap opera life.

oh wow! cancer women are big on wanting what they can't have and losing interest once they get it...story of my life! i've also seen some crazy tendencies in my libra...i think his venus in scorpio might have something to do with it!

@LovelyLibraLover: "im a dif cancer very airy... most of my friends are air signs...i have only one water sign friends "go figure"...and ima firm believer that cancer men and women are very different. I've actually only met one cancer man I could tolerate. libra men are very moody as well...at least mine is and he 2 can be wishy washy... and i believe he;s a slight sadist as when im very mean to him or non chalant he's does the absolute most to gt back in my good graces non stop phone calls, contacting my friends, texts...crazy cycle"


Well its also important to pay attention to moon signs and venus signs. Venus is planet of love. My moon is pisces so i can relate to the wishy washy libra's, however all libra's have this trait in my opinion but its only because we cant seem to make up our minds for nothing. The smallest thing a partner does can knock us smooth off our sqaure and its back to sqaure one and we have to wiegh all the pros and cons all over again. And The libra that tried to get back in your good graces only did that because Libra's hate to seem like the bad guy, hence the white lies they tell or their tendency to say close to ANYTHING to keep the peace, we are the sign on harmony what you experienced is him trying to keep peace and harmony on sides of his scale with you.

Posted by Liberal777Libra
ALibra, I agree with your post on crabs except for "The libra HATES gloominess".
Bela Lugosi was Libra !
It should be "Libra's Love "dramatic" gloominess, but hate crabby people.

What good is sunshine without gloominess? Libra's understand the dichotomy
of the universe. Hell, we are living dichotomies !!!

Nope. I had it right. They hate GLOOMINESS.I know i do. Period. The only ones that can create drama or can probably stand it are the ones with alot of scorpio, cancer, or capricorn in their chart.

For example my bestfriend was born on the cusp between libra and scorp, so she has alooooot of scorpio in her. Her bf is a virgo and is KING DRAMA, she's been with him now for 6 yrs, i would've dipped out in the first year.

I dated a taurus whom had baby mama drama, i understand that some bm's can drive a man crazy but when she starts to have the power to make his whole world gloomy, and then he wants to tred that over into my world. Um not! BYe-Bye. I committed the famous Libra Disappearance. ~TAPS MY OWN HAND~ bAD Alibra! LOL

Posted by Cancerflower5808
I have dated two libras,but one was too clingy for my taste,yet very sweet. The other Libra was exactly like me. It was very odd actually considering how similar we were. We had absolutely no conflicts and he was very kind and caring toward me;however, it was not reciprocal. I was caring toward him but not very much. We had been friends for about 9 months before dating. We just "clicked." Unfortunately, after a few months of dating I started to get bored and realized things just weren't the same once we had decided to become more than friends. I feel bad because I still acted as if we were still friends while we were dating;and I know I hurt him. I regret that honestly,but he became a stalker after we broke up. He would follow me places and even made 11 fake facebook accounts that he would date these random people on. He used the pictures of other men from facebook on his multiple fake accounts. My friends and I eventually found all of this out. This is such a shortened version of the story. There was much much more unnecessary drama caused by him. It was as if I was living a soap opera life.

Oh dayum. LOL.. Yuuup, sounds like he might have scorp in his chart. They do this. Yikes.

Well LovelyLibraLover it appears that you have all the answers so I guess your purpose in posting was to confirm what you already know. My apologies, I wasnt aware your intention was to receive sycophantic replies. Good luck!

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Posted by Liberal777Libra
ALibra, I agree with your post on crabs except for "The libra HATES gloominess".
Bela Lugosi was Libra !
It should be "Libra's Love "dramatic" gloominess, but hate crabby people.

What good is sunshine without gloominess? Libra's understand the dichotomy
of the universe. Hell, we are living dichotomies !!!

Nope. I had it right. They hate GLOOMINESS.I know i do. Period. The only ones that can create drama or can probably stand it are the ones with alot of scorpio, cancer, or capricorn in their chart.

For example my bestfriend was born on the cusp between libra and scorp, so she has alooooot of scorpio in her. Her bf is a virgo and is KING DRAMA, she's been with him now for 6 yrs, i would've dipped out in the first year.

I dated a taurus whom had baby mama drama, i understand that some bm's can drive a man crazy but when she starts to have the power to make his whole world gloomy, and then he wants to tred that over into my world. Um not! BYe-Bye. I committed the famous Libra Disappearance. ~TAPS MY OWN HAND~ bAD Alibra! LOL

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I'm a libra/scorp..maybe that explains it..however..my reference to drama...is actually a reference to artistic drama...not personal..as in any opera, play, picture, musical work,etc. When you think about being a Libra it's all in the balance.. I think you are right on the personal level..I agree. I hate drama... 😉 Real life doesn't need any help to be gloomy. We all know no one gets out alive. But I like my music, art, and movies to be dramatic..not lopsided boring happy happy happy crap. Give me "the cure", NIN, Bladerunner, dark comedies like "sideways", La Traviatta, etc.. Now gore for gore's sake..that's something different. i don't like blood and guts.. Is this just the scorpion in me? Do "full" libra's like bubble-gum art and music?

RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!! I hate the day i ever met my cancer ex omg he alone has made me swear off cancers for the rest of my life!! the mind games and the lies who has time to deal with that butter!!! you know i heard libras are sneaky but they must have never dated a cancer. i would rather date another virgo or pisces before another cancer. and i was foolish enuf to have a child with him so now im stuck with him for another 16 years. smh find you a nice aqua or sag that is done roaming

Although sweet and endearing, frustrating and short term.

Posted by PiscesFebFish
If you want brutal honesty-its a bad match. Perhaps the union is better if the lady is a libra and the man is a cancer. But a male libra and female cancer have about as much chance as giving each other what they need, as I have of needing an elbow on my ass. The female cancer will stay longer than necessary because she wants him to be "the one" and the male libra will slowly vanish into thin air waiting for her to leave because he never wants to be the bad guy. And I'm not even going to go into the emotional manipulation and mental instability that seem to plague female crabs. Also, if you starting having sex with him in five dates or less get the shovel and start digging.

BINGO! We have a winner. My experience in a nutshell.

@Liberal777Libra: ha! You sound like me. LOL. This Libra board crack me up its like talking to different version of myself??_.but not exactly. Yall know what I mean! Lol. I loooooove music, I even love singing and thought about trying out for "The Voice" next year. Drama movies I like because it helps me brush up on my lovely debate skills, of course im a sucker for a good romance (my ruling planet is Venus, enough said.lol) Then theres the scary, I don't do demonic, or too much blood. I will tolerate some bloody thrashing movies but only if its something like the movie "300" or "Troy" which are two of my favorites.

Posted by LibraSweetie88
RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!! I hate the day i ever met my cancer ex omg he alone has made me swear off cancers for the rest of my life!! the mind games and the lies who has time to deal with that butter!!! you know i heard libras are sneaky but they must have never dated a cancer. i would rather date another virgo or pisces before another cancer. and i was foolish enuf to have a child with him so now im stuck with him for another 16 years. smh find you a nice aqua or sag that is done roaming

LET THE CHURCH SAY YEAAAAA!! I looove Saggs and one of my best guy friends are Aquas. However your ABOSOLUTELT RIGHT! If and aqua or sagg is not ready to settle then run and head the other way for a more stable sign like Taurus. Sagg, Aqua, and Aries will rip your heart out if they are immature or haven't been bitten by the commitment bug yet.

If it makes you feel any better about this astrology cursed union, my libra ex cheated on me with a cancer and they're still together 🙂 I really associate libras with cancers. Contrary to what astrology says, this is a good match. My ex behaved like a cancer, which explains why our relationship sucked!

Hmm my Libra exs were never blunt to me. Well,maybe I didn't see it as bluntness. I love having Libras as friends ,but I have just had awful experiences when dating them.

Posted by acancergirl392
my soulmate sign. been in love with two of them. what can i say? perfecto! well,i have a lot of leo in my chart if that makes a difference but yeah,i really have not much negative to say about the libras.

I'm a libra sun and my one relationship with a cancer guy was
surprising spectacular. He was however a cancer/leo cusp with
many other leo placements as acancergirl's situation. He was very
different from my experiences with cancer female "friends" that
I have known. I must have met the needy/whiney ones. I know not all
cancers are like this...I personally have very little patience for whining
and complaining. This guy did not act this way at all.

An airy cancer and a watery or fiery libra may work to matrimony. But it won't be a smooth ride at all.

I've sorta dated 2 cancers.. They both approached me.. Both were super affectionate but its like we werent talking to eachother while we were talking if you know what i mean.. Always on a diff page.. The one I felt was a selfish dick and the other one I could never tell if he was being sarcastic and he would think I had an attitude when I was just kidding around.. The most recent one I felt like he'd be trying to tell me something but in a hinting type way and i'm black and white you need to just say what the hell you want I dont feel like trying to figure shit out all the time.. I think all I had with these two cancers was a physical attraction... Unfortunatly.. They both seemed great just no zsa zsa zsu..

Never dated a cancer but have had a couple female cancer friends for a while. Eventually, even as just friends they were too emotional for me. That is really odd for me to say because I am usually called too emotional haha. I like things calm and peaceful, they were dramatic way too often. I know everyone has some shit at times, and I have no problem helping a friend deal with thiers, but it has to get dealt with. It seemed like the cancers I knew wanted to complain just for the sake of complaining.

Posted by PiscesFebFish
Well LovelyLibraLover it appears that you have all the answers so I guess your purpose in posting was to confirm what you already know. My apologies, I wasnt aware your intention was to receive sycophantic replies. Good luck!

lmao ouch! i was just asking for peoples experiences. Didn't know i wasn't allowed to throw my own in my bad!

@ a libra he has a venus in scorp mine is in gemini so perhaps thats the attraction as well. well newayz i think the thing with libras is to give them space while letting them kno ur still there...they'll b back they always do ! lol

Posted by QLIbraMale
My Ex Cancer girl, too Damn sensitive. cry almost everyday about something. after 3 months of dealing with this. I told her.

"Baby U need to start Dating Tissues, instead of Me!" Cya!

LMAO!! That's a good one. I'm gonna use that on the next crybaby I come across.

Posted by QLIbraMale
My Ex Cancer girl, too Damn sensitive. cry almost everyday about something. after 3 months of dealing with this. I told her.

"Baby U need to start Dating Tissues, instead of Me!" Cya!

You did her a favor! She prolly had better communication with the tissues. pft!

One of my old best friends was a cancer guy. He kept whining and complaining about the littlest things. One time he told me that he's very sensitive. I asked him how sensitive and he said, "I'm so sensitive that if I started telling you the things that offend me, you'd stop talking to me because it's the littlest things that get to me". At least he was self-aware.

I just can't see the Libra giving us the depth we need to hold on and really value the relationship, not to mention the depth is just not there. They seem to be fun,great socialable people, but not ideal for anything beyond friendship. The indecisiveness isn't a good factor either. I really could see Cancer running all over the Libra, especially if its a Cancer female/ Libra male match.

They're also people pleasers and care too much about others think something a water sign won't respect, usually a doormat, VERY sensitive! Enough so as a water sign that it can be too much for us as well. We usually need someone a little stronger than ourselves, if not equal. I'm a Cancer/Leo cusp so it might be a little more compatible for me, than other Cancers but still not worth my time unless he has some water in prominent places in his chart.

Even then not really, can be too wishy- washy, we need someone stable, grounded, and a very strong partner both mentally and emotionally. Faithfulness and loyalty is another big factor, Libras aren't really known for.