Disharmony

This topic was created in the Libra forum by ladylibra21 on Wednesday, January 13, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

How do you deal with it? What is your manner of confrontation. Does it take you a while or do you address it immediately. Libra Mars is a bitch!

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@jeane
12 Years5,000+ Posts

i have libra mars. i will deal with it but i will pick my moment. if it means i have to put it on the backburner for a bit then i will but it will be addressed in some form or another. sometimes it works because i either calm down and rationalise myself out of the issue or it means the extra time will allow me to gather more ammunition and create a stronger case to blast them away. i want to be certain that i am not just reacting but have a solid logical argument with all the possible defences thought out and covered.

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@jeane
12 Years5,000+ Posts

oh yeah, once i get going, i am not pulling any punches. i've been known to call anyone out but it has to be the right time, right place, right way. normally if it is a work thing, i do it in front of our colleagues so people know not to mess with me in future....hahaha!

if it is a love interest however? never in a million years would i use the same method. i always try to use the right hammer for the job.

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@mysteriousTaurus
11 Years1,000+ Posts

I cut off my libra friend twice in one year. First time, he contacted my best friend looking and asking for me, he couldn't handle the fact that his number was blocked in my phone. Second time, he was blocked once again, he knew this because I never answered his messages - because I didn't receive them - his attempt at forcing me to make peace was by showing up at my house unannounced and most certainly unexpectedly. It worked both times, I agreed to make peace.