
how was your first love? Are you still with that person? Please do state your moon sign in your response. Do libra fall in love easily? or nah?
Libras are known for their romantic nature and desire for harmony, which can make them fall in love quickly. However, their love also depends on personal experiences and moon signs. They value connection and balance, often seeking meaningful relationships rather than rushing into love.




Posted by aftershineFirst true love was with another Libra guy, we both had leeb sun and moon.
how was your first love? Are you still with that person? Please do state your moon sign in your response. Do libra fall in love easily? or nah?





Posted by the_venusian_manDamn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
Posted by aftershineFirst love was a Taurus sun/Taurus moon (I'm a Libra sun/Libra moon). Started our relationship at a pretty young age. I finished college and we got married. Marriage didn't last as long as the relationship before hand. I gave him everything I had as far as what I knew about love. He was my first everything. Unfortunately, we didn't last. As we grew older, we grew apart following two different paths. It got ugly and was a horrible end to a relationship.
how was your first love? Are you still with that person? Please do state your moon sign in your response. Do libra fall in love easily? or nah?

Posted by aftershineStill haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.Posted by the_venusian_manDamn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
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Posted by the_venusian_manPosted by aftershineStill haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.Posted by the_venusian_manDamn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
My first real love was when I was 20. He is Aquarius. I loved him obsessively in an unhealthy way because I think I would have died for him, had he asked me to. I placed him on a silver platter up to the day I walked in on him kissing another girl. I was crushed... queue weight loss, depression and all things bad.
He tried to reconcile, asked me to marry him. I had the sense to say no. 10 years later I found out he had become addicted to rocks. A sad life he has led to end up like that. I am grateful for meeting him, but I am grateful I never got trapped with him either.

Posted by aftershineI just meant how to get the positive side of the things represented in our natal chart. ex how can a libra learn to put themselves before others?Posted by the_venusian_manPosted by aftershineStill haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.Posted by the_venusian_manDamn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
As far as unevolved scorpio or any unevolved star sign is concerned that can't be determined with a natal chart, I think the things you go through are the factors when it comes to this. In my dad's case he was toxic but in terms of astrology he would be an unevolved scorpio, and I have no clue about transcended natal energies.
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Posted by the_venusian_manPosted by aftershineI just meant how to get the positive side of the things represented in our natal chart. ex how can a libra learn to put themselves before others?Posted by the_venusian_manPosted by aftershineStill haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.Posted by the_venusian_manDamn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
As far as unevolved scorpio or any unevolved star sign is concerned that can't be determined with a natal chart, I think the things you go through are the factors when it comes to this. In my dad's case he was toxic but in terms of astrology he would be an unevolved scorpio, and I have no clue about transcended natal energies.
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Posted by TheGreatSearcherI'm sorry you had to go through that and while depression and social anxiety are hard to deal with I suggest you put yourself out there its hard as fuck and might feel uncomfortable but its better to face something like that head on. Or at the very least talk to someone about it be it a sibling or a close friend, its just my advice do as you will
1. The first time I went to extreme lengths and spent a lot of time on a relationship was 1-2.5 years ago. I met a really sweet Gemini girl (who I felt rather attracted to), but I kept my sympathies to a minimum b/c at the time I wanted to seem kewl and what not. She started exchanging messages with a friend of mine, but I was too stupid and didn't ask him for her number. Keep in mind this took place during a summer camp.
After roughly a year of not caring, I decided to look at her social media and maybe try to get something going. Sure, she lived rather far away, but I don't mind a LDR. Too fucking bad. The year I started actually paying attention and trying to contact her, she not only disappeared off her school (she stopped attending it in 2015), but there are no other recent public records. I have no idea what happened to her and I wouldn't rule out an illness (since she had asthma) or suicide. This tore me up internally and I have tried my hardest to forget her.
2. Although I avoided relationships for a while (due to my integral emotional instability caused by the first relationship), I recently met a really nice girl who I liked a lot. I had met her a year prior, but I hadn't got my hopes up b/c she was WAY the fuck out of my league (I'm not awful-looking, but I'm slightly shorter than everyone from my team), but this year she was back in this sports camp (not the one mentioned in the 1st text), and while we never really spoke too much outside of a few technical conversations (I will have to admit that I'm a spineless idiot for not asking her out for a dance during the closing party), we seem to click rather well. I have no idea how this relationship will work out (and if she doesn't have a bf), but I am really afraid of fucking up and then having a mental breakdown due to my social anxiety as well as depression.

Posted by aftershinethat's fine. you introduced me to something new and exciting. I'd never heard about evolved/unevolved signs before. Thank you
*don't have a clue as to how you figure that out...


Posted by LadyNeptuneMy first love! ?
No, first loves aren't meant to last.
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