How to get through a Libra man? Is there a way to fix this?

If you're a Libra man reading this, please let me know how to get you back and through you after a long and rough time in a relationship? I don't mean it in an aggressive way. I mean it in a nice and healthy way of making a Libra man feel comfortable, nice and happy again.

I'm a Leo woman, we're together for 3,5 years. It's been great and it's been really, really hard as well. The arguing and all the drama has damaged a lot and mostly it feels like I'm the only one who's trying and makes effort for us to get better and make feel each other better. I'm respecting his private space when he asks for it but mentally I'm really struggling. I try to be a better partner, better friend for him, for myself and for us, but it does feel like he's ignoring that. I see that he's digging up in his work and avoids any type of conversations that I'm initiating (that includes talking about our feelings, emotions and sorting problems). It almost feels like there's this wall that I can't break through. Conversations about any other topics are no problem.

When we're together, he's rarely expressing physical touch or emotional bond. He's not being rude or disrespectful, rather distant and cautios. He's been admitting that, as well.

When we're seperate, we're communicating the whole day via texting and typically it's just small talk during the day. He's usually the one who's texting first, wants to communicate. Somehow it feels like he's lost his feelings or interest in me and wants us to be friends. I've asked him if he still loves me, the answer has always been yes.

To make things better, I text nice messages, leave small, cute notes. Few days ago I left our hometown for work and left small note on his side of the bed that said that I love and appreciate him. He took a photo of it and replied with kiss emoji.



I try to express my feelings in a way that would cheer me up and make me smile, feel better.

I'm trying my best by being supportive, calm, respecting his needs but it's really hard when you're trying your best and hardest, but those small, everyday things that are supposed to make you feel nice are being avoided and not appreciated. Is there a possibility that he needs more space and a lot of time for healing? Do I have to be more patient?

Is there a way to fix this or should I stop trying and move on?

As a libra and from what I know about libra men once the feelings are gone it's hard to get it back. I think he cares about you but as a friend and not a lover.

Posted by Timone

As a libra and from what I know about libra men once the feelings are gone it's hard to get it back. I think he cares about you but as a friend and not a lover.

100% .

Posted by Phoebz

...Is there a possibility that he needs more space and a lot of time for healing? Do I have to be more patient?

Is there a way to fix this or should I stop trying and move on?

Healing from what? What did you do (or does he think you did) to warrant the lukewarm shoulder? You provided all this info about what you've done to make things right, are doing to make things right, yet no where did you identify when and why things shifted...unless you don't know why they have shifted. If not, start there. Have a conversation and see if that can help you better understand what may be different for him. All this "doing" to be the "better partner", "better friend", "better lover" etc without knowing why exactly the man is being so distant it an exhausting exercise with little to no benefit.

To get better clarity, next time ask him "Are you still in love with me" instead of "Do you love me". We pretty much love everyone of our friends so ask him what you really mean.

maybe stop trying so hard.

what's his moon?

Leo female here dated a libra as well. The same thing happened to me. I even said to him that it takes two to make a relationship work and he needs to start trying. I wish I would have not tried as hard as I did and lived my own life. Left him to his own devices. Took longer to reply to messages just to make him wonder why I'm not replying. I wish I stopped treating him as a priority and treated myself as the priority instead. Us Leo females usually tend to make our partners our world's. Maybe that's why we match with libra so well, to learn to make ourselves the priority. They also have a way of making us feel so special in the beginning, and that's what attracts us, Leo's love the charm. They definitely need their freedom, but I think more importantly, I wish I showed him how free I was.

Im not gonna lie, as a Libra man when I check out, I check out. And the break up hurts like hell but we give so much that we become exhausted. We are also cardinal signs. Which means we exhaust ourselves. We put alot into relationships and once it depletes us thats it.

I loved my sons mother to death. Ive never loved a woman or cared for one that deeply and intensely. She was also a libra. But I saw the respect gonw and the love felt like it wasnt there. I also had issues that killed us but I made the decision and never looked back.



Free yourself in some way. Maybe space will heal things. We also like to independently think, maling sure our decision is based off us and not you. Give it space and time

Libras get exhausted discussing feelings, emotions and why the relationship isn't working pretty fast. He's probably bored as hell everytime you bring them up at this point. Try to ease back on the discussions and just be fun, look pretty and be cheerful. Live in the moment and stop talking about what is going to happen between you. Talk and be excited about new things you're interested in. That's what turns Libra on.

Leo lady you're being ridiculous. You appear to be emotionally compromised and overthinking because you want something from him that he's not giving you. The majority of problems in any relationship is one person wanting and the other person not giving. Here's some advice that works on everyone including Libras from my experience, focus on yourself.

You've obviously are overwhelmed with emotions and forgot how crazy, sexy and cool you are Leo Lady. We... Attract. We don't chase. It's the code of us beautiful confident Zodiac Signs. Get back into your vibe. Do things you love to do before him. Things not people ( got to be specific).

Get into your hobbies. Go shopping for accessories, find a hammock to read a book on, whatever it is that you do for fun, go do it. By now, you should know who you're with and the fact that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Get back into your Leo vibe and watch him start coming around more. Your confidence is shaken not because you're failing the relationship, but because you're focused on him instead of you.

“The majority of problems in any relationship is one person wanting and the other person not giving.”

I have just found the meaning of life. It really is this simple.