I need an outsider's opinion. Confused by libra man-is he just being friendly or is he interested—

This topic was created in the Libra forum by snglvrgo on Saturday, March 19, 2016 and has 5 replies.

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@snglvrgo
10 Years

I really like this libra guy I met at college. I have tried to shake it, but it's not exactly working. Anyway, at first I thought he was interested because he was very friendly, good eye contact, initiated conversations, and even initiated a project to work on together. We only hung out for school-related reasons, but he began telling me about music he liked, said if I ever wanted to go out and drink, he would be down. So, after working on that project one evening, I asked if he wanted to go have a beer, and he said yes. But, he texted another guy we both knew and invited him along (maybe because he felt weird because he had been my TA the previous semester?). Anyway, I was pretty flirty with him that night, but he didn't really flirt back. But he has still made a point to initiate conversations and time together since then (for school things anyway). Once, I texted him if he wanted to hang out and he didn't text back until the next morning saying he didn't see it, but we should go out later the next week. When we did, after one beer, he said he was too tired and had to go home. So, I just don't know what to think. He did just break up with a long-time girlfriend, which he told me about wanting to break up with her before he had done it. Also, he's mentioned a girl he is seeing that he doesn't really like but is ready to jump in a relationship with him.
I don't know...as I'm writing this out, it sounds stupid. What do you think? Interested, or no?

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@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

be careful - just be friends with Libra until he knows what he wants - it doesn't mean you can't like him - sometimes they seem to just wait and watch and want to take things slow to be sure ...

the males seem to be easily mislead and that gets confusing for them - "seeing someone who wants to be serious but he doesn't like her" ? so he's just screwing with her ?