i neeeeeeeeeeeddddd a gggggggggggiiirlllllfriend!!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by v s o p on Saturday, March 23, 2013 and has 15 replies.

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@v s o p
18 Years500+ Posts

i hate my life i been single since march of last year just shoot me. i thought god said its not good that man be alone smh...where she at plz

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@b38
13 Years

Libras are afraid of loneliness, how true...

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

You seriously need to reevaluate yourself if you think you need a relationship. People who act like this in regard to relationships are weak, tbh. If you can't go through life without someone else by your side, that's a character flaw. Learn to live life on your own as well. And really, with you, does it matter? You're always here, either forlorn if you aren't in a relationship, or when you are in a relationship, you're here, whining about how you get walked all over and treated badly.

And if it's about sex, go buy a fleshlight.

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

aww, the OP is just kidding... sometimes DXP is just for fun with random thoughts. Like, I've never seen v s o p reply to his online journal with much anxiety. It's just a hit a run.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by spica
aww, the OP is just kidding... sometimes DXP is just for fun with random thoughts. Like, I've never seen v s o p reply to his online journal with much anxiety. It's just a hit a run.

Maybe less kidding, more like having a moment. If he knows people IRL that follow his journal, he could be less likely to write emo stuff there.

If not, it's Libran attention whoredom at it's finest. :p

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by spica
aww, the OP is just kidding... sometimes DXP is just for fun with random thoughts. Like, I've never seen v s o p reply to his online journal with much anxiety. It's just a hit a run.

Maybe less kidding, more like having a moment. If he knows people IRL that follow his journal, he could be less likely to write emo stuff there.

If not, it's Libran attention whoredom at it's finest. :p

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Lol.. it's like someone whines to his journal and then forget it exists later on...
v s o p doesn't reply when his journal talks back. It happens... hehehe

They also can be attention whoring, but he's not really there to lap it up.. maybe he is but it's like releasing frustration to the wind and let the DXPers carry his worry around.. ha!

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@Huntress
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by spica

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by spica
aww, the OP is just kidding... sometimes DXP is just for fun with random thoughts. Like, I've never seen v s o p reply to his online journal with much anxiety. It's just a hit a run.

Maybe less kidding, more like having a moment. If he knows people IRL that follow his journal, he could be less likely to write emo stuff there.

If not, it's Libran attention whoredom at it's finest. :p

Lol.. it's like someone whines to his journal and then forget it exists later on...
v s o p doesn't reply when his journal talks back. It happens... hehehe

They also can be attention whoring, but he's not really there to lap it up.. maybe he is but it's like releasing frustration to the wind and let the DXPers carry his worry around.. ha!

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Sounds like some twisted form of Karma.

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Not sure what you mean, Huntress.. twisted karma?
There are alot of online journal sites. I see people do this all the time. I think if the OP intended to have more interactions on this website he may not show a side of himself that warrants more severe judgement from the populace here.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by v s o p
i hate my life i been single since march of last year just shoot me. i thought god said its not good that man be alone smh...where she at plz

Awww how cute. 🙂
You will meet someone, get you gear in order and go hunting.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Pecheresse
It's just attention seeking at its lowest form. Op was always exaggerating making himself out to be the victim of nothing but his own poor choices in life, failing to see their lessons.

If he took the opportunity to get to know himself while single, maybe history would stop repeating itself for him

Agreed. Regardless of gender or sign, I've known people like this and they end up being emotional drains because they just don't get it. To top it off, you also have a male ego involved, in this situation so cue that dramatic flair.

However, I do know a Libra guy who behaves just like this. He goes around talking about his woes in life, how things are just so hard for him. Poor baby. He deserves special treatment and everyone owes him pity. But the reality is that most of it is a long string of bad choices- many of which could have been avoided had he not had his head up his ass.

Libra guys and always chasing after that wrong girl and then staying in shitty relationships... *sigh*

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@acrossTheGround
16 Years

OP, I know how you feel.
I have been single for the last 3 years. The first 2 were by choice. Did the whole, 'stay single and learn to love yourself' bit after a series of break-ups. The 3rd year has been struggling to make my way out of the comfortability of being single.

Like others have said - just get out there.
Fortunately, I've been blessed with the beaming Libra smile and it has gotten me a lot phone numbers.
Unfortunately, I keep meeting fucking Pisces women.

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Pecheresse

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Pecheresse
It's just attention seeking at its lowest form. Op was always exaggerating making himself out to be the victim of nothing but his own poor choices in life, failing to see their lessons.

If he took the opportunity to get to know himself while single, maybe history would stop repeating itself for him

Agreed. Regardless of gender or sign, I've known people like this and they end up being emotional drains because they just don't get it. To top it off, you also have a male ego involved, in this situation so cue that dramatic flair.

However, I do know a Libra guy who behaves just like this. He goes around talking about his woes in life, how things are just so hard for him. Poor baby. He deserves special treatment and everyone owes him pity. But the reality is that most of it is a long string of bad choices- many of which could have been avoided had he not had his head up his ass.

Libra guys and always chasing after that wrong girl and then staying in shitty relationships... *sigh*

Theres no secret, treat them mean to keep them keen. Afterall, that's what they seem to crave 🙂 Unlike water signs who aren't afraid to dive deep into the uglyness of their core, Libra men live in a lalala fake land made of facades, smiles, mirrors. By all means, let them float on the surface of their unevolved dream 🙂 Pat them on the back, and continue your path. They'll prolly follow if you treat them like the lowest form of scum ever.

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That is not your cross to bear... just be glad you're not them, eh? Reason why he says what he says.. cuz theyre always the victim.. they see only the good side w/o knowing there is evil.. that is nobodys fault but their own design.

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

I dont' see why they deserve to be treated like the lowest form of scum? @Pech do you punish those you think are "weak"? I think the evil are the true scum. I have learnt to identify them and not direct hate to the innocent.