Libra gf broke up with me for no reason

I've dated a libra for 5 months and things were going great, she was head over heels in love and showered me with affection and told all of her family and friends about me but suddenly after 3 monhts, something in her changed and she started being cold, sad and depressed.

I tried to help as much as I could but she wouldn't tell me what caused her change in behaviour, she only sad that it wasn't my fault. She later sad how sorry she was that she was feeling this way and later confessed that she expected that things would be different and that recently she went out with me and did things not because she wanted to but so that I don't feel bad.

At first I thought that she found someone else but she deleted almost all of her social media and distanced herself from all of her friends aswell. We broke up weeks ago and she still texts me 2-3 times a day.

This behaviour goes againt things I've read about libras, how they are loyal, hang on and want to works things out in the relationship, so and advice now is welcome? Why is she acting this way, and is she perhaps not sure if she made a good move breaking up?

Posted by Generous_Libra

She's obviously going through some bad time, you can either support her or leave her alone.

Problem is she doesn't want to let anyone in, even me. She keeps talking about how she will take care of it herselfa nd how she feels bad because of what she did to me, is there a way I can support her?

Posted by thatlibralife

Let me answer before the negativity starts. She is depressed. End of story. It's not about you. Encourage her to get help. Continue to be her friend. She still remains open to communicate with you. This says a lot. Let's not demonize the situation...good luck...

Yes she reaches out but it's only 2-3 word replies, the conversations go nowhere, and she refuses to get any help

A Libra will stay with the person of their choice, if they decide to leave it’s because they no longer want you.

As harsh as that is, accept, let go, move on. Next.

Posted by Phantum

Do you have any additional insight into what she meant by this sentence?

"She later sad how sorry she was that she was feeling this way and later confessed that she expected that things would be different and that recently she went out with me and did things not because she wanted to but so that I don't feel bad."

I'm sorry but it seems like she was trying to force feelings she really didn't have for you and realized it wasn't going to work but likes you as a friend. Don't let her friend zone you. If she's done then you be done too. Stop talking to her 2-3 times a day.

“This behaviour goes againt things I've read about libras, how they are loyal, hang on and want to works things out in the relationship“

What? And there’s always a reason someone breaks up with someone. What have you done between that shady time frame you both were a couple?

Well your sun sign is only your ego, how you think. Your moon sign is what emotionally fulfils you and your rising sign is how other people see you and who your soul is. Then you have your north and south node that heavily influence you too so you definitely can't tell who someone is unless you have their natal chart. I'm really sorry that happened to you, sounds like she is going through shit atm and just needs to detach from life, unfortunately that means you too.

Posted by Thedivineoathkeeper

Well your sun sign is only your ego, how you think. Your moon sign is what emotionally fulfils you and your rising sign is how other people see you and who your soul is. Then you have your north and south node that heavily influence you too so you definitely can't tell who someone is unless you have their natal chart. I'm really sorry that happened to you, sounds like she is going through shit atm and just needs to detach from life, unfortunately that means you too.

You're SUCH a genius like, wow

You say she ‘broke up with me for no reason’.

It wasn’t no reason.

She gave you a perfectly reasonable reason.

It's called YOUNG woman/girl syndrome.

Any woman up to about 26-27, maybe even 30 depending on the person, is prone to mistake infatuation for love. They change their minds like they do bed sheets.

It's funny because if you think about it, what your Libra did would be so justified inside her. She fell into a depression and couldn't get out of it. Instead of dragging you along while she's imbalanced, she just cut the chord. It's so noble. She needed to fix herself before she trying to be in a relationship. I think any Libra would get this.

She couldn't give her best to what you two had, so instead of giving something mediocre, she just stepped away. One thing both Virgos and Libras agree on is if someone belongs in your life, that person will find a way back into it no matter time or distance. There's a Great Design behind all of this and what's yours is yours.

She still calls you. She's still showing that you are a priority in her life even while you're not together. Just relax and try to let the relationship keep it's natural consistency. In the end, if you can understand how a Libra needs time to sort things out in their lives, your bond will strengthen because she'll recognize that you get her.

Gemini and libra is a no go. Ain't happening.

Yeah, but the problem is we never go backwards.