WaterDevil
@WaterDevil
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LIBRA JUST WANTED DRUGS. (CLOSURE FOR THE DXP BLACKOUT)
I HATE reading long azz post on DXP, but man, yours was interesting. I was so into the story, forgot I was actually at work lol, Good job.
Posted by WaterDevilYou two met on DXP?
So
She tells me about this lake house she wants to go to. And explains she has "sag moon feelings"
Posted by enfant_terribleNo. But we spoke about astrology. We both have sag moons. I think she brought it up as a way to relate to me to try and manipulate me. No bueno.Posted by WaterDevilYou two met on DXP?
So
She tells me about this lake house she wants to go to. And explains she has "sag moon feelings"
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So next time, when DXP tells you that flaky Libras are users, fucking listen.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
So next time, when DXP tells you that flaky Libras are users, fucking listen.
give examples of how Libras are users..
You should have met her and took some bread soda.....it looks like coke
Lol
She sounds like a mess
Lol
She sounds like a mess
Posted by NatureBoyLOL glad to hear. I was worried it was too much but I try to make them easy reads 😉
I HATE reading long azz post on DXP, but man, yours was interesting. I was so into the story, forgot I was actually at work lol, Good job.
Posted by aquarius_manNAH. Im not desperate. Nor do I like being used. I have enough adventures Im good.
long read but i think you should've been a sport and brought the coke and she would have put out and it would have been a nice coke-fueled party by the lake
Posted by rockyroadicecreamlol
So next time, when DXP tells you that flaky Libras are users, fucking listen.
Can I pick up some coke man? Jonesing for that angel dust.
Posted by MyStarsShinelol that's evil. But it was a 4 hour road trip that I could care less about at that point. But she knows I have her number and she can't play me. That's all the revenge I need. She is definitely an elitist. Apparently at the lake house she was telling our mutual friend (more hers than mine) "you know that rapper girl? we are kinda talking".. even though we stopped talking LOL. Not to mention "rapper girl?" I have a name. ELITIST.
You should have met her and took some bread soda.....it looks like coke
Lol
She sounds like a mess
Posted by WaterDevilEven better. You should've had her make the 4 hour trip and then say whoops I'm all out.Posted by MyStarsShinelol that's evil. But it was a 4 hour road trip that I could care less about at that point. But she knows I have her number and she can't play me. That's all the revenge I need. She is definitely an elitist. Apparently at the lake house she was telling our mutual friend (more hers than mine) "you know that rapper girl? we are kinda talking".. even though we stopped talking LOL. Not to mention "rapper girl?" I have a name. ELITIST.
You should have met her and took some bread soda.....it looks like coke
Lol
She sounds like a messclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunelol I dont even sell it is the funny part. But bruh if you come to philly we can share and have some fun. You'll have to have a nervous breakdown for me first though, and cry that you need some and that you miss your ex.. you know as foreplay. hahaha
Can I pick up some coke man? Jonesing for that angel dust.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI would have had to make the trip. She was already going for her birthday.Posted by WaterDevilEven better. You should've had her make the 4 hour trip and then say whoops I'm all out.Posted by MyStarsShinelol that's evil. But it was a 4 hour road trip that I could care less about at that point. But she knows I have her number and she can't play me. That's all the revenge I need. She is definitely an elitist. Apparently at the lake house she was telling our mutual friend (more hers than mine) "you know that rapper girl? we are kinda talking".. even though we stopped talking LOL. Not to mention "rapper girl?" I have a name. ELITIST.
You should have met her and took some bread soda.....it looks like coke
Lol
She sounds like a messclick to expand
Posted by WaterDevilLOL I was joking dude. I have my own contacts for coke, thanks.Posted by LadyNeptunelol I dont even sell it is the funny part. But bruh if you come to philly we can share and have some fun. You'll have to have a nervous breakdown for me first though, and cry that you need some and that you miss your ex.. you know as foreplay. hahaha
Can I pick up some coke man? Jonesing for that angel dust.click to expand
Posted by NatureBoy*looks around*Posted by rockyroadicecream
So next time, when DXP tells you that flaky Libras are users, fucking listen.
give examples of how Libras are users..
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Are you new? You must be.
So yeah, aside from the cocaine part, this is a fairly typical Cancer/Libra interaction. Drugs aside, the emotion simply wasn't there the way you wanted it to be. So everything boiled down to a battle of mind games and manipulation in the end. Once you called her out for being wishy-washy it was basically downhill from there.
Cancers are very intuitive and look for a strong emotional connection. Libras don't want to be smothered by emotion and typically will avoid confrontation. Libras like keeping their options open so they have the ability to float, while Cancers like to know hard facts and are annoyed floaters. To put it simply Cancers generally want more answers than Libras are willing to provide in the moment.
Unless asked a very direct questions (such as "Do you want me romantically, yes or no?"), Libras have a hard time being direct about their emotions. They're charmers and flirtatious, but unless they are sure about someone, they'll be hard to peg for someone looking for a more direct/committed response. She may have wanted more from you, she may not have. However once you called her out, she chose to avoid the conflict and run.
It's very likely she just wanted to use you, but probably not just for cocaine. As she said, she just wanted to have fun on her birthday. She was/is looking for something more detached, something she doesn't have to feel/think about. This clearly doesn't work for you, which is totally fine. Why spend time on someone who can't be direct with you?
I think you did the right thing here though by walking away. Ultimately she doesn't sound like someone that would be a positive force in your life. You mentioned that she has issues with depression and drugs. As sweet and chivalrous as it may sound to be accepting of her issues, you can't fix her. Shoot for someone can bring more positive energy into your life. You'll be a lot happier in the end.
Cancers are very intuitive and look for a strong emotional connection. Libras don't want to be smothered by emotion and typically will avoid confrontation. Libras like keeping their options open so they have the ability to float, while Cancers like to know hard facts and are annoyed floaters. To put it simply Cancers generally want more answers than Libras are willing to provide in the moment.
Unless asked a very direct questions (such as "Do you want me romantically, yes or no?"), Libras have a hard time being direct about their emotions. They're charmers and flirtatious, but unless they are sure about someone, they'll be hard to peg for someone looking for a more direct/committed response. She may have wanted more from you, she may not have. However once you called her out, she chose to avoid the conflict and run.
It's very likely she just wanted to use you, but probably not just for cocaine. As she said, she just wanted to have fun on her birthday. She was/is looking for something more detached, something she doesn't have to feel/think about. This clearly doesn't work for you, which is totally fine. Why spend time on someone who can't be direct with you?
I think you did the right thing here though by walking away. Ultimately she doesn't sound like someone that would be a positive force in your life. You mentioned that she has issues with depression and drugs. As sweet and chivalrous as it may sound to be accepting of her issues, you can't fix her. Shoot for someone can bring more positive energy into your life. You'll be a lot happier in the end.
Posted by LadyNeptuneAND you didnt get my sarcastic tone. haha. I as well was joking kiddo 😉Posted by WaterDevilLOL I was joking dude. I have my own contacts for coke, thanks.Posted by LadyNeptunelol I dont even sell it is the funny part. But bruh if you come to philly we can share and have some fun. You'll have to have a nervous breakdown for me first though, and cry that you need some and that you miss your ex.. you know as foreplay. hahaha
Can I pick up some coke man? Jonesing for that angel dust.click to expand
Posted by NatureBoyShe is just being herself. You know rocky-the-sunshine who needs laid...lolPosted by rockyroadicecream
So next time, when DXP tells you that flaky Libras are users, fucking listen.
give examples of how Libras are users..
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Posted by LibraMudrahaha momma ain't raise no fool.
Well, I'm glad you didn't get punked like a little biatc h
Posted by LadyNeptuneThey mix some shit in that makes you...you!Posted by WaterDevilLOL I was joking dude. I have my own contacts for coke, thanks.Posted by LadyNeptunelol I dont even sell it is the funny part. But bruh if you come to philly we can share and have some fun. You'll have to have a nervous breakdown for me first though, and cry that you need some and that you miss your ex.. you know as foreplay. hahaha
Can I pick up some coke man? Jonesing for that angel dust.click to expand
Shoot for someone can bring more positive energy into your life. You'll be a lot happier in the end.
wow yeah so glad you said that because that is actually my mantra and I forgot about it when I was around her and I was emotionally getting drained. Been WAYYY happier since she's been cut. I emotionally connect my self to issues of the people in my life romantic or not and she wasn't deserving of that so I had to let her loose for real for real. Was with my pisces last night. I realize when Im with her everything is positive and happy. And when Im without her too. Because no matter what we have each other's back and reinforce positive energy in to one another. So happy to have my little pisces. As a friend first. And whatever else is between us.
One thing I don't get. If people ordering pizza - you have to have money to pay for it.
When you use drugs - you have to be able to afford it. Why so many people do what they simply can't afford?
Don't they budget their money?
Like this is for bills, this is for food and this is for drugs! Right? So you wouldn't have to walk around like an idiot begging others?
When you use drugs - you have to be able to afford it. Why so many people do what they simply can't afford?
Don't they budget their money?
Like this is for bills, this is for food and this is for drugs! Right? So you wouldn't have to walk around like an idiot begging others?
Posted by RozaeonOh I should clarify, I'm not solely blaming Libra traits for this interaction. You're right, there wasn't a relationship and we all told OP to stay away. I'm basically pointing out where the communication broke down between the two. Libra girl wasn't committed and OP wanted something more from the interaction. I don't think the Libra woman is at fault. She's clearly doing her own thing. OP simply wanted more from the situation than was actually there. As a result my suggestion to OP is to find someone who will reciprocate her interest.Posted by ChuckcemI have to react because, that's too much. It's always the Libra's fault and what are the arguments ? Stereotypes nothing else. And it's not even pertinent because :
So yeah, aside from the cocaine part, this is a fairly typical Cancer/Libra interaction. Drugs aside, the emotion simply wasn't there the way you wanted it to be. So everything boiled down to a battle of mind games and manipulation in the end. Once you called her out for being wishy-washy it was basically downhill from there.
Cancers are very intuitive and look for a strong emotional connection. Libras don't want to be smothered by emotion and typically will avoid confrontation. Libras like keeping their options open so they have the ability to float, while Cancers like to know hard facts and are annoyed floaters. To put it simply Cancers generally want more answers than Libras are willing to provide in the moment.
Unless asked a very direct questions (such as "Do you want me romantically, yes or no?"), Libras have a hard time being direct about their emotions. They're charmers and flirtatious, but unless they are sure about someone, they'll be hard to peg for someone looking for a more direct/committed response. She may have wanted more from you, she may not have. However once you called her out, she chose to avoid the conflict and run.
It's very likely she just wanted to use you, but probably not just for cocaine. As she said, she just wanted to have fun on her birthday. She was/is looking for something more detached, something she doesn't have to feel/think about. This clearly doesn't work for you, which is totally fine. Why spend time on someone who can't be direct with you?
I think you did the right thing here though by walking away. Ultimately she doesn't sound like someone that would be a positive force in your life. You mentioned that she has issues with depression and drugs. As sweet and chivalrous as it may sound to be accepting of her issues, you can't fix her. Shoot for someone can bring more positive energy into your life. You'll be a lot happier in the end.
1) In the OP's story there was never " romantic " or " commitment " aspect to it because she is polyamorous and she met her in a BDSM party if i remember correctly, so with this kind of relationship don't expect ANYTHING
2) We told her in the first thread she started that this relationship wouldn't work out because the Libra is suicidal and the OP is not capable of dealing with that, so what's the point ? What's the point of complaining ? And i'll say it again, OP is with the Libra for selfish reasons in the first place it's not the other way around
3) SHE chose to continue and blaming her for bullshit like " being petty by liking post on FB " etc and she'll be back at it again
So no, there is NO Cancer/Libra relationship, there is just nothing. Just bullshit again and she'll never be happier by having this type of life style no matter the people she let in
If there was no sign Libra in the zodiac i wonder on what people on this website would put the blame on seriouslyclick to expand
I threw the whole astrological part in because OP was asking about it in one of her previous posts.
Posted by ChuckcemPrecisely. And I'd like to ad too that just because Im polyamorous doesn't mean that I don't want meaningful relationships. I just want many of them. And @rozaeon I think you take my threads too seriously. I don't come here to complain. I like to understand. And I like to share my stories and interact. Like the queer, dxp Cary Bradshaw if you will. lol I wasn't putting any blame on her. Just trying to talk about it is all.Posted by RozaeonOh I should clarify, I'm not solely blaming Libra traits for this interaction. You're right, there wasn't a relationship and we all told OP to stay away. I'm basically pointing out where the communication broke down between the two. Libra girl wasn't committed and OP wanted something more from the interaction. I don't think the Libra woman is at fault. She's clearly doing her own thing. OP simply wanted more from the situation than was actually there. As a result my suggestion to OP is to find someone who will reciprocate her interest.Posted by ChuckcemI have to react because, that's too much. It's always the Libra's fault and what are the arguments ? Stereotypes nothing else. And it's not even pertinent because :
So yeah, aside from the cocaine part, this is a fairly typical Cancer/Libra interaction. Drugs aside, the emotion simply wasn't there the way you wanted it to be. So everything boiled down to a battle of mind games and manipulation in the end. Once you called her out for being wishy-washy it was basically downhill from there.
Cancers are very intuitive and look for a strong emotional connection. Libras don't want to be smothered by emotion and typically will avoid confrontation. Libras like keeping their options open so they have the ability to float, while Cancers like to know hard facts and are annoyed floaters. To put it simply Cancers generally want more answers than Libras are willing to provide in the moment.
Unless asked a very direct questions (such as "Do you want me romantically, yes or no?"), Libras have a hard time being direct about their emotions. They're charmers and flirtatious, but unless they are sure about someone, they'll be hard to peg for someone looking for a more direct/committed response. She may have wanted more from you, she may not have. However once you called her out, she chose to avoid the conflict and run.
It's very likely she just wanted to use you, but probably not just for cocaine. As she said, she just wanted to have fun on her birthday. She was/is looking for something more detached, something she doesn't have to feel/think about. This clearly doesn't work for you, which is totally fine. Why spend time on someone who can't be direct with you?
I think you did the right thing here though by walking away. Ultimately she doesn't sound like someone that would be a positive force in your life. You mentioned that she has issues with depression and drugs. As sweet and chivalrous as it may sound to be accepting of her issues, you can't fix her. Shoot for someone can bring more positive energy into your life. You'll be a lot happier in the end.
1) In the OP's story there was never " romantic " or " commitment " aspect to it because she is polyamorous and she met her in a BDSM party if i remember correctly, so with this kind of relationship don't expect ANYTHING
2) We told her in the first thread she started that this relationship wouldn't work out because the Libra is suicidal and the OP is not capable of dealing with that, so what's the point ? What's the point of complaining ? And i'll say it again, OP is with the Libra for selfish reasons in the first place it's not the other way around
3) SHE chose to continue and blaming her for bullshit like " being petty by liking post on FB " etc and she'll be back at it again
So no, there is NO Cancer/Libra relationship, there is just nothing. Just bullshit again and she'll never be happier by having this type of life style no matter the people she let in
If there was no sign Libra in the zodiac i wonder on what people on this website would put the blame on seriously
I threw the whole astrological part in because OP was asking about it in one of her previous posts.click to expand
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I was confused as to why she said that. I thought we were cool but whatever.
THAN she waited till the next day to text me "so how does that work exactly? we have drinks here and there?"
I explained to her that friendships are a bit more transparent than that in my opinion.
Than she reminds me of her birthday the coming weekend.
"yes doing anything?" I asked
She tells me about this lake house she wants to go to. And explains she has "sag moon feelings"
I ask her what she meant by that because she was jumping from topic to topic and I didn't really know what she wanted from me tbh.
she was hinting in a nutshell that she wanted to makeout with someone, but she wasn't coming out with it and inviting me.
I ask her some questions to try and get her to come out and say what she wanted to say. Than she asks..... GET THIS "What are you getting me for my birthday?"
LOOOOL
"You like gifts do you?" I ask
"No not tangible ones" She said
"Im curious about your connects.. " She continues.
OBVIOUSLY WANTED FUCKING COKE FROM ME.
"LOL is that why you want to be friends?" I ask
her response....
""NO." "I like your hair and I think we can have fun together".
FUCK OUTTA HERE. I called her out for being wishy washy and of course she didn't respond. So being she was playing with me. I decided to play back (mature of me I know. Im trying to change but she triggered me...) so I tested her..
Next day I texted her "hey Im busy this weekend with my dad" (this was true) "..so I can't make it to the lake house, but how about I take you out when we get back?"
I painted an entire rico suave date plan that if it was me she wanted. She would not be able to refuse.
her response: "Ill let you know, Im stressed out because my ex is trying to ruin my birthday blah blah blah"
Thats how I knew she wanted drugs and not me. FUCK OUTTA HERE.
Of course she never got back to me but still likes all my shit lol.
Wished her a happy birthday. The evening of her birthday. And That was that.
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NEEDLESS TO SAY. Over it. Too much drama. Im extra. But damn if Im that extra. LOL
Anyway thats the end of that short saga.
Ill update DXP after my next exciting conquest hehe