Libra male wants relationship and to live together

Ummm So as I (scorp female) has previously posted I have been dating a libra for about 2 months. I still go out with other men on occasion. Never physical just go put for coffee, drinks, lunch etc. However, I spend most of my "date" time with libra. Lately he had brought up him and I commiting and moving together. He offered to pay more than half of the rent and utilities for a really nice place that he found by the beach. All of this sounds like French to me. I am used to men moving very sllllooowwwelllyyy. Is this typical for libra men...to move THIS quickly?? Thoughts?

yea but in different ways, it doesnt seem like we do cuz ours is different but we will rush in if we feel you a worth it

obviously he thinks you are worth it, cuz we wont just live with anyone either, thats a major step for us

but yea we will rush in like fools when caught up in a woman, scorpio women tend to bring this out in us well isee

I am really conflicted by all of this. I have never dealt with anyone who wanted to move this quickly. It makes me question if it is genuine. Then again I am used to dealing with cancers and Virgo...both of which are very catious in the begining of a relationship. For example, we agreed to not exchange gifts for Christmas and he bought me a 46 inch sanding flatscreen tv anyway. And now the moving in together??

i dont blame you for feeling suspicious but we dont spend money on just anybody, i must stress the moving in part b/c nobody understands just how important domestic life is for a libra, that is total change for us, that is us wanting to bond, we dont go thru those kind of ways to try and manipulate as libras get older they mature more thats why he his prolly being aggresive to, he knows what HE wants. Yea he tryna get close to you, the t.v. amazes me cuz trust me we just dont do that kind of thing until we are completly sure


did u tell him anything if u dont mind me asking? i mean when he asked you to move in

No I don't mind you asking at all. I told him at first hell no. Lol. He continued to bring it up and I told him that I was not sure...moving too fast. I basically voiced the same concerns as I have on this thread. He maintains that it is ultimately my decision but that he knows that he wants to be with me.

well i can tell you he wont stop, he may let it die cuz we do that but he will bring it up again cuz when we see you as one way you fucced lol until we are convinced otherwise but he thinks highly of you,.

how do you see him? Is that too big of a step for you and if so why? im sorry im so nosey

i mean as far as feelings are concerned

No, this isn't surprising at all. Libra's in general (from my experience) do not like to be alone, and as Pride of October put it, they like "domestic life." My ex-fiance' was just like that. He wanted us to move in together after only knowing each other for a couple of months. I said no. We lived seperately for almost a year and a half before we moved in together, and it was by default because my roommate was obnoxious and I needed to get the hell outta' there. He lived in a house w/other football players and they did NOT allow girls to live there, but .... I ended up staying there for a semester until we got our own place later that summer. They do move quickly...way too quickly for me. They can be very thoughtful and give nice gifts to those they love, but in general (speaking from my ex, and several friends & family member Libra's), they tend to be frugal about things they get for themselves, and they don't really like you to spend a lot of money on them. As I said before, I haven't known ANY Libra's in my life that are without male/female companionship for longer than a couple of weeks. Regardless if their prior relationship was 2 months/2 years/10 years longs, it appears that they always have their sights on someone in case it doesn't work out with those they are with. This goes for both the males and females, because one of closests female friends in college, as well as one of my female cousins both had a revolving door of men. There was always one on the backburner in case the one they were with didn't work out. They would both say stuff like, "Oh, me and X are just friends. He knows I'm with X, so we are just friends. Nothing is going on..." If I had a dollar for everytime either one of these two said this, I'd have a lot of money! I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, and at the times, the people they were dating, it appeared they really loved them, so it's not for me to judge or question...I just simply observed. When my ex and I broke up, he was living with his new girlfriend about a month after we broke up. Mind you, we were together for almost 8 years. They got married for a few years, have two children, and now are divorced. He moved in with his new girlfriend about 2 or 3 months after his divorce...

One of my friends calls the Libras in her life, "serial daters." Obviously, this isn't indicative of every Libra out there, but I've known a lot of Libra's in my life; for some reason Taurus and Libras seem to have a natural affinity for one another, at least they have in my life. I have several Libra friends both male & female, as well as Libra relatives; moreso than any other sign in my life, next to Scorpios and some Cancers sprinkled in there.

Posted by natural25
No I don't mind you asking at all. I told him at first hell no. Lol. He continued to bring it up and I told him that I was not sure...moving too fast. I basically voiced the same concerns as I have on this thread. He maintains that it is ultimately my decision but that he knows that he wants to be with me.

Take your time and think about it. There are those who believe in "love at first sight," and that's fine, but just be careful. I'm not even saying that because of the sign thing, I'm saying that because you are a young woman, and you just ended a relationship recently with another man, and you really haven't known this person that long (from what you posted). In my opinon, if it's real, it doesn't matter if you move in today, next month or next year - if he wants you, he will be there. My Libra was...at least for awhile.

LLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEE the bulls, when they consider of close companionship, its nothing you cant ask for, they will invite u in their home and make u feel like family, wont let u starveif they got it they will give it to you just gotta look past the criticism and the fussing once you dont do what they ask but everybody fusses

"LLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEE the bulls"
Awww, obviously, I have love for Libras too 🙂

Yes, and don't try to take any of their food. Libras are like Bulls in that respect. They will get you your own, but don't try to take anything from their plate! My cousin hated that, and she stabbed me in my hand one time, but SHE told me I could have it, but then changed her mind *mumbles - little witch * lol. My ex also didn't like people taking food off his plate. I knew him, so I wouldn't have even thought of it, but he and some of his friends got into it over them touching/taking his food! LMAO, I love it!

Mmmm there was a lot of truth about Libras spoken in this thread for sure!

Yes, they tend to move FAST. My Libra wanted to make us an "official" couple after only a few dates - he didn't want to share me with anyone else, so he says he had to stake his claim, before he lost ANOTHER 5 years with me by not going out with me sooner! lol About 5 weeks into dating, I suddenly realized that he "stayed over" so often that we were actually living together - and HIS house rarely felt his presence at all. That was nearly a freak-out moment for me, not being the type to want a guy moving so fast, much less moving IN. So we had a heart-to-heart discussion, and agreed he would still maintain his mailing address, etc. at HIS home, but would get four large drawers for his stuff and a bit of closet space in MY house. So really, nothing's changed much in all the time since then. He sleeps with me every night here, except perhaps a couple nights a month when we BOTH go to his house. I honestly cannot remember the last night he did not spend with me. We both call my house "home" in reference to himself - on his way HOME from work, stopping at HOME before he goes to HIS HOUSE to pick up the snowblower. We both pay bills here - there's no clear-cut line like, "You owe me half of this bill, blah blah." We just take turns being the one to pay for whatever comes up... actually, we sort of "fight" over being the one who gets to pay at the check out, when my cell bill comes in, when insurance is due, when one of the kids "forgot" to tell us he needed a Gift Exchange gift for school... tomorrow. LOL He's very generous, and likes to feel like he's not only contributing, but taking care of me and the kids. And it's true - even the most generous and giving of Libras don't really want you to spend a lot on THEM, not even for Christmas.

Oh, also... it was after that when I asked him how it was with other girlfriends in his past... and it was amusingly similar. Start out so intense and hardly ever apart... suddenly realizing they're living together within a month or two. He lived with two other girls before me - one lasted three years, one lasted seven. I plan to last the next 40 or 50 though LOL I guess one thing different in our living situation this time is that it started out as MY house that we are now sharing and calling home. With the other two, THEY moved in with HIM very quickly. He's a really compassionate person. Not the type to throw a girl out in the cold, even if all they do is fight and argue and their relationship is turning into Hell on earth. So with me, he says feels like he's with me because he WANTS to be, not because he HAS to be. Plus, we rarely even argue. lol

Yes, he's always been a serial dater, rarely single for very long at all. (I'm talking weeks here!) Except for the years he was in the Military and moving all over the world, probably scattering his wild oats to the four winds, he's pretty much always had a girlfriend since high school. Never known him to cheat on anyone, nor even set his sights on anyone else while still in a relationship. But then again, he's never been the one to break up with anyone, either. So maybe it was his broken heart that made him look hard and fast for anything that even remotely resembled a possibility for the future. (Yes, Libras are still VERY picky about who they actually commit themselves to. Sure, they misjudge people like the rest of us do, but the point is that they don't generally even commit to anyone who doesn't at least SEEM like a good candidate for a Life Partner.) Libras really do best when they are part of a loving, committed relationship - after all, they ARE considered the Sign of Partnership. Forever or not, he's thinking you could be The One!

So for him to want to be exclusive with you is a big deal. The next big deal is that he knows himself enough to know that he wants to live with you. If he wasn't thinking about the life you two can have together as a REAL possibility, he wouldn't ask you to move into a place with him, and him paying more than half. (Some immature, unevolved Libras might try to schmooze their way into a beneficial living arrangement like moving in with one who won't make them pay anything, ever. But then again - just about ANY sign will do that too! lol)

Posted by USCTaurusGal
One of my friends calls the Libras in her life, "serial daters." Obviously, this isn't indicative of every Libra out there, but I've known a lot of Libra's in my life; for some reason Taurus and Libras seem to have a natural affinity for one another, at least they have in my life.

Libras DO seem to be serial daters - that's not an insult, it's just a realistic observation. They don't like to be alone, they don't usually enjoy being single, and they are more comfortable with the "domestic" of it all than a lot of signs are.

Also, I've noticed I have a really deep and easy affinity with my Libra. REALLY easy love. Thinking that might be my Aqua cusp, but probably more my Taurus Moon then, because while Pisces is not considered one of Libra's worst matches, it's not normally considered their best either (though some sites say after age 30+ the match is actually quite ideal.) This one seems almost TOO easy. His Virgo Moon might be opposite my Pisces Sun, but Virgos usually mesh very well with me personally, and our Moons are both Earth. We get along VERY well, hardly any ripples, and prefer to discuss rather than argue - though we DID have to learn to communicate with each other effectively, because our communication style s ARE different. We have both soothing similarities and exciting differences that keep us together and keep it fresh... we are constantly learning new things about each other, which just deepens our bond!

Overall, Libras tend to be very genial people, and because of their scales, they don't like to "rock the boat" so to speak. That's not to say they don't get upset, because they do, and it's nothing pretty either. My ex Libra was one that would get upset, but then wouldn't even remember why an hour later. My personality is 180 degrees different than that. It takes a lot for me to get upset, but once I do, I don't let it go (stubborn). It is what it is, no excuses. I will also say that all the Libras I know are very good to and with their kids, even if they aren't with the significant other/ex that they had the children with; they are always there for their kids. I can't say that about every sign. One annoying thing with my personality and theirs is that we both can be very evasive, and I can't stand that, and neither can they. If they ask a question, they expect the response pronto (and so do I); however, if they don't want to answer a question, they will beat around that bush like nobody's business, but they will always be polite about it! LOL, whereas, I am blunt, and will say, "None of your damn business," my ex-Libra couldn't stand that, because he always felt you should be nice to people, even if you were letting them down! I said, "Nope, tough love!" LOL!
*Returning back to Naturals original topic - sorry for running all over it✨

We know when we know. He knows. If we procrastinate, you aren't the one. If we jump in, you are. Congrats. He loves you. 🙂

Posted by USCTaurusGal
Overall, Libras tend to be very genial people, and because of their scales, they don't like to "rock the boat" so to speak. That's not to say they don't get upset, because they do, and it's nothing pretty either. My ex Libra was one that would get upset, but then wouldn't even remember why an hour later. My personality is 180 degrees different than that. It takes a lot for me to get upset, but once I do, I don't let it go (stubborn). It is what it is, no excuses. I will also say that all the Libras I know are very good to and with their kids, even if they aren't with the significant other/ex that they had the children with; they are always there for their kids. I can't say that about every sign. One annoying thing with my personality and theirs is that we both can be very evasive, and I can't stand that, and neither can they. If they ask a question, they expect the response pronto (and so do I); however, if they don't want to answer a question, they will beat around that bush like nobody's business, but they will always be polite about it! LOL, whereas, I am blunt, and will say, "None of your damn business," my ex-Libra couldn't stand that, because he always felt you should be nice to people, even if you were letting them down! I said, "Nope, tough love!" LOL!
*Returning back to Naturals original topic - sorry for running all over it✨

Exactly, libras should work on dealing with ppl on a full scale like confrotations, when we learn to tell ppl we dont feel like answering shit at the moment and be honest, we can be better ppl cuz we will FEEL better about ht situation at hand

but perfect summary tho

Sorry guys for the delayed response! Thank you all for all the GREAT feedback!!! 🙂


USC - You have mentioned some of these VERY TRUE (lol) points before. 🙂 Thank you! I have asked Libra and he said he agrees that he has been known to not be single for long. Hmmm... Dont worry! I am not going to be moving in with him anytime soon. Number one, I want to wait until when and if I get a ring on it. Lol. Number two, it is entirely too soon. I was just totally taken aback by him moving so quickly. Like i said before, i am used to men who move super slow and would never dream of giving up their privacy so soon. Needless to say, it scared me! Lol. Again, point taken! Lol. I am going to be easy and move slow. Keep him on his toes. Lol.

Nefer - Thanks for sharing. It sounds like you and your Libra are doing great. Congrats! Although, it appears that the Libra is VERY interested in me and (for now) sees a future a with me, I can not help but to be a wee bit skepitcal. So, I am gong to slllloooooww things down and see what happens. This is just all a bit much. . .so soon. But I have to hand it to him. He has remanined persistant.

He is very sweet and I enjoy spending time with him but he also has no problem letting me know if he is not happy with something.

^^^Good for you girlfriend! You do what YOU want to do, and the rest will be just fine. I've found that if there is a balance of mind and heart; we typically can make the right choices (even if they are sometimes hard ones to make). HAVE FUN!!!! The end. LMAO!