Libra man and 2woman

I am sag I was dating a Libra man everything was perfect he was pretty much in love with me and I started to falling too. But then I found out that he has a gf! I broke up with him,but he told me that he doesn’t love her and they argue all day and don’t even have skinship etc. And he said he couldnt leave her becouse of his parents( stupid right) then he told me he left her but I messaged her and it was s lie, she didn’t know I existed and we talked she seemed nice. She said she will deal with it.I thought that we both will leave him, but this bitch is crazy she made him block me everywhere and told me not to call him like it’s my fault that he is a cheater.she told everything to his parents and they put his ass on gps and his parents and her they can see messages on his phone!

Before he would always tell me that he loves me and not her but after I talked to his gf he lost trust and now he says he don’t know what he feels.And they want him to marry her.And he clearly dosent. But he still messaged me, we met secretly and he asked me to wait 2 weeks till he can figure out what to do next,I waited but in this 2 weeks they started to control him even more and he become more stressed and he said to me that it’s better for us not to meet anymore.If he would have chooses her I would honestly let go. But I asked if he does has feelings for me, he said he has .

The whole thing is that his parents would not let him go to firefighter school if he break up with that girl...I know..wtf? And that is his dream

This girl called me multiple times and said that she will made up a case and call a police on me. And every time he dosent answer her messages for 1sec she calls me asking if he is with me. I had to block her.

But he still talks to me,but he is very afraid that she will find out and ruin his dream. So he said we better not talk or meet but he said he really wish I could wait for him to go to fire fighter school but he can’t ask me that becouse it’s selfish and obviously he can’t promise me anything. I really want to wait but only if he can break up with her and not have sex with her in that period. He said their are not having sex and argue all day(this chick is so controlling it’s crazy) but now he is so stressed he can’t say anything for sure. He needs time to think

Also before I also was angry at him and we argue too, but after that crazy girl called me I think I believe him.he is so depressed he said he wants to die.Even if we will not be together I tried to chear him up by saying that he rely on me as a friend too. Then he opened up and told me that he don’t know his heart,but his body misses me a lot and he imagine things with me often and lack of sex makes him even more stressed(he didn’t ask me to have sex with him, so nothing strange)

Well he is Libra and he fakes things a lot,so I don’t know if his feelings for me is real, and becouse he don’t like to conflict he dose whatever that girl says! She doesn't love him..she doesn’t kiss him and black mail him to marry her, is that love?

He was perfect bf for me, I don’t know what to do to make him fall in love with me again, he is really REALLY stressed right now, I try not to text him becouse it makes him more stressed out but I am afraid he will forget about me ,help

Sorry it’s long ._.

What sun sign is this other girl?

This guy doesn't seem to know what he wants. How can you stand him? He needs to act like a man and do what he wants to do instead of what his parents and girlfriend tells him to do. That would get on my last nerve. If he wanted to break up with this girl he would. Do they live in the U.S. or some 3rd world country where they have arranged marriages. If not, he is full of it.

@DonnaLibra

I know ! It piss me off too!

We both live in South Korea, where parents words a quite valuable 😢

I think parents will refuse to pay for his firefighter school fee

I wish I knew her sign too, but I don’t 😢

Any advice on how to make Libra make a decision already ? I know they have problems with that

He can say he loves you all he wants. It’s just words, it’s just noise.

He could pay his own way thru firefighter school, it’s called getting a job. If he really loved you and wanted to be with you he would in a heartbeat.

He said what he had too ta get those panties to drop. Just like he told you some lies about his relationship to keep you on the hook. If you do end up with this guy (unlikely) he’ll be telling the next side chick the same things about you, she’s crazy and controlling blah blah blah.

The way you find em is the way they leave you. Ijs.

@plague I only know that he was born at 12th of October

You are right I am going deeper in this mess

But there is a reason why there are two woman after him

It’s not easy to find a guy who text you first calls you first , remembers everything you said, pays for you,cares about your family, helps you,trying to please you in every way plus sag and libra we have some physical conection 😢

I don’t want to give him all of me but I want him for myself

@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

"It’s not easy to find a guy who text you first calls you first , remembers everything you said, pays for you,cares about your family..."

...lie to you, put you in an awful position, toy with your feelings, consider only himself.

yeah, that one is one to hang on to.

i cannot fathom fighting with another woman over a guy. if she wants him, she can have him. i'm out.

@jeane

Yes he lied to me, but I think he played with his own feelings rather than mine

I wish I could do it like you

It’s not so easy for me 😢

I tried to be “out” but he always comes back to me and My heart is not made of steal T_T

Saggi...get real.

Please dont be this dumb

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@plague I only know that he was born at 12th of October

You are right I am going deeper in this mess

But there is a reason why there are two woman after him

It’s not easy to find a guy who text you first calls you first , remembers everything you said, pays for you,cares about your family, helps you,trying to please you in every way plus sag and libra we have some physical conection 😢

I don’t want to give him all of me but I want him for myself

There are a million men still left on this planet.

Think higher of yourself.

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@jeane

Yes he lied to me, but I think he played with his own feelings rather than mine

I wish I could do it like you

It’s not so easy for me 😢

I tried to be “out” but he always comes back to me and My heart is not made of steal T_T

i don't think it's about having a heart of steel but more that i won't debase myself by trying to convince someone that i am the better option. i neither have the energy nor the emotion to do it.

he comes back to you because you entertain it. imagine if you didn't?

@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

@DMV

Thank you

I have a problem with man, I had my first bf when I was 23 , I chased him and I got dumped

This guy is my second bf we met when I was 25 (he treated me like a princess)

I don’t know why It’s super hard for me to get into relationships or even find someone I like 😢(((

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

He DID say bad things about her. Per you, he said many things, some of which you confirmed were lies. So if he is lying to you, don't you think its also possible he is lying to her about you? Telling her your a crazy stalker and he's never encouraged you and you won't leave him alone.

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he told me that he doesn’t love her and they argue all day and don’t even have skinship etc. And he said he couldnt leave her becouse of his parents( stupid right) then he told me he left her but I messaged her and it was s lie, she didn’t know I existed and we talked she seemed nice.

Before he would always tell me that he loves me and not her

He said their are not having sex and argue all day(this chick is so controlling it’s crazy) but now he is so stressed he can’t say anything for sure.

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Saying you 'see the love is dead' between them is just you giving into wishful thinking, believing his lies, and pinning after him. You may not have been the side chick at the start cause you didn't know he wasn't single. You absolutely are the sidechick now because you are choosing to stick around and wait on a taken man to give you crumbs. Aka sidechick.

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@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

Well how would you feel or react if he was your man and seeing some other girl? Probably not much different..

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But it was the same for me when I found out about her, he was my man ,we were dating

I talked to her answered her questions, asked if she wanted to meet

She could have done the same

She beat him and took away his phone and blocked his number(not only me no one can call him) put him on gps

I don’t know about you but it looks a bit crazy for me

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

He DID say bad things about her. Per you, he said many things, some of which you confirmed were lies. So if he is lying to you, don't you think its also possible he is lying to her about you? Telling her your a crazy stalker and he's never encouraged you and you won't leave him alone.

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he told me that he doesn’t love her and they argue all day and don’t even have skinship etc. And he said he couldnt leave her becouse of his parents( stupid right) then he told me he left her but I messaged her and it was s lie, she didn’t know I existed and we talked she seemed nice.

Before he would always tell me that he loves me and not her

He said their are not having sex and argue all day(this chick is so controlling it’s crazy) but now he is so stressed he can’t say anything for sure.

Saying you 'see the love is dead' between them is just you giving into wishful thinking, believing his lies, and pinning after him. You may not have been the side chick at the start cause you didn't know he wasn't single. You absolutely are the sidechick now because you are choosing to stick around and wait on a taken man to give you crumbs. Aka sidechick.

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No really I WISH he would have said bad about her but he didn’t, things about their ralationships she said the same thing

Yes! The most thing I am afraid of is to become a side chick! That’s why we don’t meet so nothing bad will happen T-T

Can I just have my astrological advice on libra? Everything people tell me I already know, I am not stupid I just have feelings that’s all

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

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Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

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@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

Well how would you feel or react if he was your man and seeing some other girl? Probably not much different..

But it was the same for me when I found out about her, he was my man ,we were dating

I talked to her answered her questions, asked if she wanted to meet

She could have done the same

She beat him and took away his phone and blocked his number(not only me no one can call him) put him on gps

I don’t know about you but it looks a bit crazy for me

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No hunny. He's not your man. He's her man.

She is the girlfriend.

You were the side chick he briefly dated. And the side chick should know her place and not blow up the dudes actual relationship.

2 very different things.

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

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People are giving you advice though ...did you want actual advice or just to be told what you want to hear ?

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

How is he a good man?? He was two timing you both.. You should want better for yourself.

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I mean he is good MAN

not a good person

I do want better, if there would be something better I would not hersitate

I’m sure it feels like this guy is really important and you won’t meet another like him, but I promise you will

Just leave him and his weird baggage be

It is not worth it

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

People are giving you advice though ...did you want actual advice or just to be told what you want to hear ?

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I asked “how to make a Libra fall in love with me again”

Haven’t heard anything about Libra at all ._.

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

He DID say bad things about her. Per you, he said many things, some of which you confirmed were lies. So if he is lying to you, don't you think its also possible he is lying to her about you? Telling her your a crazy stalker and he's never encouraged you and you won't leave him alone.

Posted by Sag05

he told me that he doesn’t love her and they argue all day and don’t even have skinship etc. And he said he couldnt leave her becouse of his parents( stupid right) then he told me he left her but I messaged her and it was s lie, she didn’t know I existed and we talked she seemed nice.

Before he would always tell me that he loves me and not her

He said their are not having sex and argue all day(this chick is so controlling it’s crazy) but now he is so stressed he can’t say anything for sure.

Saying you 'see the love is dead' between them is just you giving into wishful thinking, believing his lies, and pinning after him. You may not have been the side chick at the start cause you didn't know he wasn't single. You absolutely are the sidechick now because you are choosing to stick around and wait on a taken man to give you crumbs. Aka sidechick.

No really I WISH he would have said bad about her but he didn’t, things about their ralationships she said the same thing

Yes! The most thing I am afraid of is to become a side chick! That’s why we don’t meet so nothing bad will happen T-T

Can I just have my astrological advice on libra? Everything people tell me I already know, I am not stupid I just have feelings that’s all

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Him being a lying cheater has nothing to do with his sun sign. He is just a bad egg.

And you are the side chick. Just cause you cut off the sex for now doesn't change that fact.

As long as you continue to entertain him, communicate with him...you a side chick.

He's counting on the fact that you were naive enough to buy his lies the first time, with enough time passing you'll be stupid enough to buy some more lies. Then he can have his cake and eat it too.

If you think he hasn't been fucking her this whole time you truly are naive af.

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

How is he a good man?? He was two timing you both.. You should want better for yourself.

I mean he is good MAN

not a good person

I do want better, if there would be something better I would not hersitate

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Something better isn't going to settle for a girl who is pinning after a dude with a gf.

Something better is passing you by for females who are actually emotionally, mentally and physically available.

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I’m sure it feels like this guy is really important and you won’t meet another like him, but I promise you will

Just leave him and his weird baggage be

It is not worth it

Thank you for good word

I know that ,and I am trying too

But I am sure you know this feeling of following your heard instead of your head

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

People are giving you advice though ...did you want actual advice or just to be told what you want to hear ?

I asked “how to make a Libra fall in love with me again”

Haven’t heard anything about Libra at all ._.

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Because frankly it doesn’t matter that he’s a Libra. He has a a very messy situation and you don’t need to be a part of it.

You just don’t.

And besides you can’t “make” someone fall in love with you. You’re being silly.

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@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

Well how would you feel or react if he was your man and seeing some other girl? Probably not much different..

But it was the same for me when I found out about her, he was my man ,we were dating

I talked to her answered her questions, asked if she wanted to meet

She could have done the same

She beat him and took away his phone and blocked his number(not only me no one can call him) put him on gps

I don’t know about you but it looks a bit crazy for me

No hunny. He's not your man. He's her man.

She is the girlfriend.

You were the side chick he briefly dated. And the side chick should know her place and not blow up the dudes actual relationship.

2 very different things.

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I said he WAS not IS

Did someone stole your man?

First ,I am not a side chick ,I am not dating him right now I don’t meet him

What do you mean “side chick should know her place” ? You mean she should have sex with him and meet him but not ruin relationship ? That’s the side chick place you are talking about ,that what side chick means

I am not ,that’s why I don’t have a “place”

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@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

Well how would you feel or react if he was your man and seeing some other girl? Probably not much different..

But it was the same for me when I found out about her, he was my man ,we were dating

I talked to her answered her questions, asked if she wanted to meet

She could have done the same

She beat him and took away his phone and blocked his number(not only me no one can call him) put him on gps

I don’t know about you but it looks a bit crazy for me

No hunny. He's not your man. He's her man.

She is the girlfriend.

You were the side chick he briefly dated. And the side chick should know her place and not blow up the dudes actual relationship.

2 very different things.

I said he WAS not IS

Did someone stole your man?

First ,I am not a side chick ,I am not dating him right now I don’t meet him

What do you mean “side chick should know her place” ? You mean she should have sex with him and meet him but not ruin relationship ? That’s the side chick place you are talking about ,that what side chick means

I am not ,that’s why I don’t have a “place”

Don't take it from me, take it from him...

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but after I talked to his gf he lost trust and now he says he don’t know what he feels.

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Know your place as the side chick.

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

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the advice is you can't make someone (of any sign) fall in love with you.

he may choose to stay with her. he has so far. he probably will continue to do so.

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

He DID say bad things about her. Per you, he said many things, some of which you confirmed were lies. So if he is lying to you, don't you think its also possible he is lying to her about you? Telling her your a crazy stalker and he's never encouraged you and you won't leave him alone.

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he told me that he doesn’t love her and they argue all day and don’t even have skinship etc. And he said he couldnt leave her becouse of his parents( stupid right) then he told me he left her but I messaged her and it was s lie, she didn’t know I existed and we talked she seemed nice.

Before he would always tell me that he loves me and not her

He said their are not having sex and argue all day(this chick is so controlling it’s crazy) but now he is so stressed he can’t say anything for sure.

Saying you 'see the love is dead' between them is just you giving into wishful thinking, believing his lies, and pinning after him. You may not have been the side chick at the start cause you didn't know he wasn't single. You absolutely are the sidechick now because you are choosing to stick around and wait on a taken man to give you crumbs. Aka sidechick.

No really I WISH he would have said bad about her but he didn’t, things about their ralationships she said the same thing

Yes! The most thing I am afraid of is to become a side chick! That’s why we don’t meet so nothing bad will happen T-T

Can I just have my astrological advice on libra? Everything people tell me I already know, I am not stupid I just have feelings that’s all

Him being a lying cheater has nothing to do with his sun sign. He is just a bad egg.

And you are the side chick. Just cause you cut off the sex for now doesn't change that fact.

As long as you continue to entertain him, communicate with him...you a side chick.

He's counting on the fact that you were naive enough to buy his lies the first time, with enough time passing you'll be stupid enough to buy some more lies. Then he can have his cake and eat it too.

If you think he hasn't been fucking her this whole time you truly are naive af.

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He hasn’t becouse she told me that, not him

So every guy with a gf I have a conversation with I become their side chick? He is my ex why can’t i talk to him?

I don’t proclaim my feelings for him I never asked him to leave her

Thank you for your advice ,even if I I asked for something else

I just want to say everything you say I understand and know ,and if it was easy for me to do I would have

I know you trying to help ,but it don’t sorry

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

the advice is you can't make someone (of any sign) fall in love with you.

he may choose to stay with her. he has so far. he probably will continue to do so.

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I asked about signs and people just yell me SIGNS DONT MATTER

thanks for your time anyways

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@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

Well how would you feel or react if he was your man and seeing some other girl? Probably not much different..

But it was the same for me when I found out about her, he was my man ,we were dating

I talked to her answered her questions, asked if she wanted to meet

She could have done the same

She beat him and took away his phone and blocked his number(not only me no one can call him) put him on gps

I don’t know about you but it looks a bit crazy for me

No hunny. He's not your man. He's her man.

She is the girlfriend.

You were the side chick he briefly dated. And the side chick should know her place and not blow up the dudes actual relationship.

2 very different things.

I said he WAS not IS

Did someone stole your man?

First ,I am not a side chick ,I am not dating him right now I don’t meet him

What do you mean “side chick should know her place” ? You mean she should have sex with him and meet him but not ruin relationship ? That’s the side chick place you are talking about ,that what side chick means

I am not ,that’s why I don’t have a “place”

Don't take it from me, take it from him...

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but after I talked to his gf he lost trust and now he says he don’t know what he feels.

Know your place as the side chick.

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I know you trying to hurt me

But I am not a side chick

I have no idea why you are trying to make me one

And if I am, and you tell me to know my place it means banging him is secret, not sure why you want me to do that ._.

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@jeane

I am a sag my stupid optimistic brain can’t ever let go you know haha

I do intertain him, but is it bad ?

He intertains me too

We talk we laugh that’s intertaining 😢

if you want to entertain it and him then you go in to it with your eyes open. he's going to continue to lie, she's going to be disruptive, you'll still be an interloper in another person's relationship.

again, it;s not something i would do but we all have our own choices and mistakes to make. i don't see this ending well for you but if it's something you have to do, then you are a willing participant. you are contributing to this situation and as such, will be responsible for your role whatever the outcome.

Thank you for not judging me

I wish someone would actually give me an advice I asked for

the advice is you can't make someone (of any sign) fall in love with you.

he may choose to stay with her. he has so far. he probably will continue to do so.

I asked about signs and people just yell me SIGNS DONT MATTER

thanks for your time anyways

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ok, i'll make it clearer. as a libra you cannot do anything to make me fall in love with you. i make up my own mind in my own time using my own reasoning.

i know the libra men like a lot of talk, the women do too. on the whole it means very little when speaking to someone outside of our relationship. what counts are our actions. our truth is in our deeds.

and i'm not yelling.

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@blvckohvse

She is crazy not becouse she is his gf but because she blackmails him and threatens me ._. I didn’t have anything against her till she started cursing me out and calling me non stop

No no he is wrong and he deserves everything is happening to him

I really wish I could turn off feelings like light-ball and do like you said

Sorry,I just come here for astrological advice ㅜ_ㅜ

Well how would you feel or react if he was your man and seeing some other girl? Probably not much different..

But it was the same for me when I found out about her, he was my man ,we were dating

I talked to her answered her questions, asked if she wanted to meet

She could have done the same

She beat him and took away his phone and blocked his number(not only me no one can call him) put him on gps

I don’t know about you but it looks a bit crazy for me

No hunny. He's not your man. He's her man.

She is the girlfriend.

You were the side chick he briefly dated. And the side chick should know her place and not blow up the dudes actual relationship.

2 very different things.

I said he WAS not IS

Did someone stole your man?

First ,I am not a side chick ,I am not dating him right now I don’t meet him

What do you mean “side chick should know her place” ? You mean she should have sex with him and meet him but not ruin relationship ? That’s the side chick place you are talking about ,that what side chick means

I am not ,that’s why I don’t have a “place”

Don't take it from me, take it from him...

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but after I talked to his gf he lost trust and now he says he don’t know what he feels.

Know your place as the side chick.

I know you trying to hurt me

But I am not a side chick

I have no idea why you are trying to make me one

And if I am, and you tell me to know my place it means banging him is secret, not sure why you want me to do that ._.

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My delivery may be too harsh for your liking, but you need a wake up call. I am not trying to hurt you.

Nor do I want you to be the side chick.

Open your eyes. Thats the position HE has put you in. Yet you are asking internet strangers how to help you 'win' him back. He was never yours to begin with.

If me regurgitating his intentions and words is so hurtful, why are you still chasing after the source? You hurt yourself when you continued to pursue him after learning he lied to you and her about having a gf.

The only person he loves is himself.

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Did someone stole your man?

First ,I am not a side chick ,I am not dating him right now I don’t meet him

What do you mean “side chick should know her place” ? You mean she should have sex with him and meet him but not ruin relationship ? That’s the side chick place you are talking about ,that what side chick means

I am not ,that’s why I don’t have a “place”

I've never been cheated on (that I know of).

I have been in your same position.

I also asked him point blank if he was single from the start and he looked into my eyes and lied.

This guy laid it on thick from the jump (red flag) just like this libra dude. Talking bout I see a future with you, your wifey material, I want you to move in, etc. etc.

I was all whoa, hold up, lets take it slow.

He leaned over and whispered in my ear at his friends wedding ceremony, this will be us next. At this point we had been dating for over a year and were bf/gf. Then a girl contacted me on fb and asked me about the images she saw with me and her BF! at the wedding. She told me he told her that I was an old hs friend, is this true. I told her the truth, that we were dating and he had told me he was single. They had been together for over 3 years, so yes, by definition I was the side chick.

When I confronted him he gave me the bs story of they were arguing and having problems. He's not happy with her, he doesn't love her. He loves me blah blah blah. I told him it was over. I can't trust him since he lied from the jump and no trust = no relationship.

He came back days later claiming he had dumped her and chosen me blah blah.

My answer was the same, too bad you couldn't choose to tell me the truth.

Being the side chick, whether voluntary or involuntary doesn't lead anywhere but heartbreak for you. But you seem determined to play the side chick role to the end here so you may need to figure out this life lesson the hard way.

Yeah, don't mess with bad boy Libra unless you can handle them.

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"It’s not easy to find a guy who text you first calls you first , remembers everything you said, pays for you,cares about your family..."

...lie to you, put you in an awful position, toy with your feelings, consider only himself.

yeah, that one is one to hang on to.

i cannot fathom fighting with another woman over a guy. if she wants him, she can have him. i'm out.

Yes totally demoralising 👎🏻

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There's no answer to your thread because there is no such thing as making someone fall in love with you.

And this seems too much drama as it is. It sounds like you're all just trying to win something for sport.

Thanks

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Yeah, don't mess with bad boy Libra unless you can handle them.

Hahah at least someone here for astrology

Thanks 🙂

It’s just a am sag and we’re so compitable with libra, all my friends are Libras god damn it haha

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Yeah, don't mess with bad boy Libra unless you can handle them.

Hahah at least someone here for astrology

Thanks 🙂

It’s just a am sag and we’re so compitable with libra, all my friends are Libras god damn it haha

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Most of my friends are Sag as well and my first love was a Sag. Never again.

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Did someone stole your man?

First ,I am not a side chick ,I am not dating him right now I don’t meet him

What do you mean “side chick should know her place” ? You mean she should have sex with him and meet him but not ruin relationship ? That’s the side chick place you are talking about ,that what side chick means

I am not ,that’s why I don’t have a “place”

I've never been cheated on (that I know of).

I have been in your same position.

I also asked him point blank if he was single from the start and he looked into my eyes and lied.

This guy laid it on thick from the jump (red flag) just like this libra dude. Talking bout I see a future with you, your wifey material, I want you to move in, etc. etc.

I was all whoa, hold up, lets take it slow.

He leaned over and whispered in my ear at his friends wedding ceremony, this will be us next. At this point we had been dating for over a year and were bf/gf. Then a girl contacted me on fb and asked me about the images she saw with me and her BF! at the wedding. She told me he told her that I was an old hs friend, is this true. I told her the truth, that we were dating and he had told me he was single. They had been together for over 3 years, so yes, by definition I was the side chick.

When I confronted him he gave me the bs story of they were arguing and having problems. He's not happy with her, he doesn't love her. He loves me blah blah blah. I told him it was over. I can't trust him since he lied from the jump and no trust = no relationship.

He came back days later claiming he had dumped her and chosen me blah blah.

My answer was the same, too bad you couldn't choose to tell me the truth.

Being the side chick, whether voluntary or involuntary doesn't lead anywhere but heartbreak for you. But you seem determined to play the side chick role to the end here so you may need to figure out this life lesson the hard way.

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Thank you for sharing your story , now I see your point, our story is very similar

I don’t want to be a side chick that’s why I broke up with him long ago

But I do want him

My heart broke the first time I knew about his gf there is nothing left to be broken

If I am in the wrong I’ll get what I deserve, but I don’t hurt anyone intentionally and I don’t plot anything. I am just being honest to my feelings , I can’t pretend that I don’t like him and don’t want him. It would be a lie, and that’s something I can not control

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Yeah, don't mess with bad boy Libra unless you can handle them.

Hahah at least someone here for astrology

Thanks 🙂

It’s just a am sag and we’re so compitable with libra, all my friends are Libras god damn it haha

Most of my friends are Sag as well and my first love was a Sag. Never again.

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Haha sorry if he hurt you

Sags are assholes hahah I would never date one either

My first love was Taurus and after that emotionless tree Libra seemed like an angel sent me from gods 🙂

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@LadyNeptune

I know he dosnt love me, that’s why I am here haha

I don’t mind that he wants my body,There is no attraction without it unfortunately...

He never said bad things about her(unfortunately) it’s just my assumptions (what I saw,how she talked to me) he is actually protects her and apologized to me for her behavior 😢

But please don’t think about me as a mistress or someone who steals other man,I never knew about other girl and I messaged her only becouse I felt sorry for her. Right now I want him becouse I see that their love is long dead, why waste a good man 😢

How is he a good man?? He was two timing you both.. You should want better for yourself.

I mean he is good MAN

not a good person

I do want better, if there would be something better I would not hersitate

I'll put it to you like this.. You simply cannot and will never find better if you tie yourself down to this man. You can't find the right one if you are rotting away with the wrong one. You get to choose, and I don't think this one is a good choice. There are plenty of awesome men out there who will treat you just as well, but you won't see them if you are only focused on this dude. Start looking at it like that, think positively and positive things will attract themselves to you. If you are only focused on him, that limits you.

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Thank you so much for a sincere answer

I do believe that you are right

But only people who are around me see this strange curse or something

Guys just DONT come around me, I am 25 and he was the FIRST guy who asked me out( no joke) my bf before I was the initiator

I meet guys I talk to them no problem, they say I am pretty and funny, I heard compliments

But NO ONE exept this guys made a move on me , or they take my number and desapear , and I am ok with doing the first step or being chased , both don’t work😢

I don’t think people should “search” for their love ,but I was so desperate I even tried to ask my friend to introduce me to someone. Never works ._. But then he came from nowhere

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FACTS:

1. He's still having sex with her. Believe that.

2. He's playing you both. When a man wants you he will trip all over himself to get you and not keep you a secret.

Dump him...seriously...

You are right about playing us

But sex thing is defenetly true,Iheard it from her not him

in fact if that girl would have had sex with him he would just stay with her, but she Wants to marry him but doesn’t want to sleep with him ._.

I will dump him as soon as I find someone else I promise 🙂

you know what the problem is? ya thirsty.

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I will dump him as soon as I find someone else I promise 🙂

No don't get in a rebound relationship, just drop him, heal and then find a fresh new love.

I never knew a libra that didn't have side chicks. Maybe cause they are relationship oriented sign? *shrugs*

I guess my father but he's been married twice.