Diona
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Libra man lost interest - is there a way forward with him?
He's 21. Go figure.
the best advice i can give you is to post this on the taurus board.
your sticking point is not him. he is baby libra and frankly, is just acting according to his nature.
the issue is your taurean immovable will even when you know it is in your best interest to do so.
your sticking point is not him. he is baby libra and frankly, is just acting according to his nature.
the issue is your taurean immovable will even when you know it is in your best interest to do so.
Thanks girls, it does makes sense though it's not easy to break through.
No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.
Posted by topesLeo moon, Capricorn marsPosted by ConsiderableMythYou sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?
No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.click to expand
Posted by topesHaha - what else can you tell me about myself?Posted by ConsiderableMyth1 outta 2Posted by topesLeo moon, Capricorn marsPosted by ConsiderableMythYou sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?
No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.
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Posted by Mutabull@mutabull...Agree.If you tell someone that you don't want to see them anymore and the relationship is over, than WTH are they supposed to do? Beg you not to end it??. If you come back to me a few days or some weeks later talking about you want to reconsider, then that's when you get the side eye. Even though he maybe a young and immature Libra guy, which is damn near most men, so sign doesn't have much to do with it, it sounded like he really did like her, but she jacked that up. Also, after she flip the script on the sex thing (allowing herself to just be in a SEX ONLY union) I'm sure he won't ever see her as commitment material.
Don’t waste your time and feelings on him. He’s young and at least he was honest with you. You probably hurt his ego by breaking up with him and so he moved on cause there wasn’t enough of a foundation to withstand a breakup and get back together scenario. You showed your insecurity too about the Instagram stuff and early on...
My BF is a Libra and I agree with the other poster that when they are into someone it’s very clear, they are persistent AF when they want your attention (even my 9 yr old Libra son is like that).
Find someone more mature and that reciprocates your feelings and stop giving him Sex..it’s not going to magically turn into a loving relationship.
Posted by LIb4Life
@mutabull...Agree.If you tell someone that you don't want to see them anymore and the relationship is over, than WTH are they supposed to do? Beg you not to end it??. If you come back to me a few days or some weeks later talking about you want to reconsider, then that's when you get the side eye. Even though he maybe a young and immature Libra guy, which is damn near most men, so sign doesn't have much to do with it, it sounded like he really did like her, but she jacked that up. Also, after she flip the script on the sex thing (allowing herself to just be in a SEX ONLY union) I'm sure he won't ever see her as commitment material.
Agreed, you made your bed, now lay in it.
I wouldn't trust someone after they break up with me out of the blue via text, no less. There's a good chance that this person will suddenly change their mind again. Thanks, but no thanks. Once is enough.
Posted by FleshpotOh guys, that is the point... I know I might messed all up once I made a decision that came out from fears I've had. And all of you are so damn right. I wouldn't trust myself eather if I was on his place.Posted by LIb4Life
@mutabull...Agree.If you tell someone that you don't want to see them anymore and the relationship is over, than WTH are they supposed to do? Beg you not to end it??. If you come back to me a few days or some weeks later talking about you want to reconsider, then that's when you get the side eye. Even though he maybe a young and immature Libra guy, which is damn near most men, so sign doesn't have much to do with it, it sounded like he really did like her, but she jacked that up. Also, after she flip the script on the sex thing (allowing herself to just be in a SEX ONLY union) I'm sure he won't ever see her as commitment material.
Agreed, you made your bed, now lay in it.
I wouldn't trust someone after they break up with me out of the blue via text, no less. There's a good chance that this person will suddenly change their mind again. Thanks, but no thanks. Once is enough.
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The point is that my mindset changed over the time according to being with someone that younger. The relationship with him cought me unprepared - I expected it to end before or later. I didn't realise how strong feelings I actually have for him.
But I know I would fall apart being with him and watching him withdraw or pay attention to other girls while still being with me. Because he is young. And immature. And couldn't give me the emotional security. So I wanted to cut off the tension.
I know there is no recipe for a relationship, no matter the age. I just still can't convince myself that he should be the part of the past, and I still feel his anger towards me. Like he is punishing me.
I feel he is not letting go, because I am not letting go. And also he is decisive about not wanting me again as a girlfriend. And this is why his ego annoys me. I wish he could understand my point of view.
Posted by tizianiYes, the assumptions, not the real situations got in the way. It's stupid and it doesn't make sense to predict the future or moves of the other. But that's a fear.
Your story is confusing to me, to be honest. At the most it sounds like you are making too many assumptions and that got in the way. You've only known each other for a short time it's too early to be talking about what he needs and wants.
At this point I would first work on my own fears and insecurity. And let the relationship have it's flow. But now it's late to get back to that point 🙂
Posted by tizianiYes, the assumptions, not the real situations got in the way. It's stupid and it doesn't make sense to predict the future or moves of the other. But that's a fear.
Your story is confusing to me, to be honest. At the most it sounds like you are making too many assumptions and that got in the way. You've only known each other for a short time it's too early to be talking about what he needs and wants.
At this point I would first work on my own fears and insecurity. And let the relationship have it's flow. But now it's late to get back to that point 🙂
I didn’t read past 21...
Think about the person you were at 21 and how much has changed since then. You don’t want to ride that ride. You’ve only invested a month, your getting off easy. Just let go now and spare yourself the headache.
Think about the person you were at 21 and how much has changed since then. You don’t want to ride that ride. You’ve only invested a month, your getting off easy. Just let go now and spare yourself the headache.
Run away, with your life honey
Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is exactly what I was thinking before breaking it up: I don't want to ride that ride. 🙂
I didn’t read past 21...
Think about the person you were at 21 and how much has changed since then. You don’t want to ride that ride. You’ve only invested a month, your getting off easy. Just let go now and spare yourself the headache.
@graylatern Thank you for this meaningful and honest message. This is what I need to do.
He probably had someone else in the meantime-It's been a year. Once I asked him if he is seeing someone else, he said that he would love to but he's not. He is so damn sexual, likes zillion different girls, has a lot of good looking female friends and he has no desire to "go in attack"-as what he told me.
And we don't have any communication, except that I feel that I do cross his mind and feel that unexplainable energy flow still going on a subconscious level. Then, out of the blue, one of us drops a line on weekend, 2am: are you awake?
It could be called as a typical "booty call" but there is more. First time I refused seeing him - next time he refused seeing me.
But yes, I do need to solve it one way or another on a emotional level.
you broke up with him when he was probably really feeling you. he realized it’d be stupid to be hurt by you again. so any feelings he had he cut, or at least he’s trying to.
Posted by greylaternPosted by DionaI am a Venusian male. Virgo sun with Taurus moon and Libra Venus. So I understand the energy you guys got going. We humans communicate ideas and concepts better though stories and metaphors. So I'll use that. Honestly that is what astrology is to me energy with names and stories to describe it.
@graylatern Thank you for this meaningful and honest message. This is what I need to do.
He probably had someone else in the meantime-It's been a year. Once I asked him if he is seeing someone else, he said that he would love to but he's not. He is so damn sexual, likes zillion different girls, has a lot of good looking female friends and he has no desire to "go in attack"-as what he told me.
And we don't have any communication, except that I feel that I do cross his mind and feel that unexplainable energy flow still going on a subconscious level. Then, out of the blue, one of us drops a line on weekend, 2am: are you awake?
It could be called as a typical "booty call" but there is more. First time I refused seeing him - next time he refused seeing me.
But yes, I do need to solve it one way or another on a emotional level.
It's a Venus connection Taurus and libra. Libra and Taurus love is very nice and there is this deep softness to it. A real love. It sneaks up on you. I am going though this kind of connection with what has become a very close friend. If things don't work out, it would be worth it to look each other up later down the road. If you guys can handle it. It's just one of those connections that will last a life time.
You need to understand the thing about Libra is they live to dance. The game is almost like a form of self expression. What went wrong is your moon. Libra and leo is another one of those crazy powerful connections. Leo loves love and attention. Libra loves giving it. They say with that dynamic you need to learn to share the attention. Let him dance get the attention he enjoys. Share the stage or should I say show him off and he needs to do the same for reassurance. Just establish boundaries for him and let him dance and enjoy the show.
I say all of that for this reason Tauraness with a Leo moon. If things do work out and you guys try again, be clear what you need and make him tell you what he does. You might have to figure that out yourself if he doesn't. That is what life is all about in relationships.
Relationships need constant work and maintance never take anyone or thing for granted. If you guys can make it work that is great if not then let go. Love is love nothing wrong with loving someone that isn't right for you. Just accept what is and move forward. Take it has a learning experience. Don't beat yourselves up over being young and most importantly human.
I understant what you're saying... Life is just as this, we cannot live by emotions only. Reality can be cruel.
This situation is complicated from astrology perspective too. One more reason I was doubtful.
I am sun/moon/mercury - taurus, and both venus and mars in pieces. Dreamy and stubborn nature with deep emotions. And asc in capricorn.
And he is sun-libra, moon-aries, venus and mars in leo. And Sagittarius in asc. So he's very affectionate, adventurous and all about showing off. Dancing as you said, loves to be praised and very dignified.
He is all fire/air and me in earth/water signs. It just hard to fit.
But still the connection is unexplainable and emotions sometimes hard to handle.
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Posted by clockwiseeI also think that is what happened. And he was still feeling me a long time after, but he kept pushing me away and refusing to go over the fact that we broke up.
you broke up with him when he was probably really feeling you. he realized it’d be stupid to be hurt by you again. so any feelings he had he cut, or at least he’s trying to.
This is what hurts me the most - the fact that he had a feelings and didn't want to do anything, just decided to move on.
But I feel he still has emotions, anger, somewhere inside and he is ignoring it. How can I live with that?
Do you think there was anything I could do to "help" him open?
Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙂
@greylatern thank you for this. I've tried to message you but it looks like this option is not available or working, maybe you can try to message me?
I do need closure. I wouldn't like to give up on those feelings I have, but they are not reciprocate d. If he claims he has no feelings for me, knows how I feel about him and calls me only once in a while in late hours...I don't know if he is hurt or just a little jerk :/
I do need closure. I wouldn't like to give up on those feelings I have, but they are not reciprocate d. If he claims he has no feelings for me, knows how I feel about him and calls me only once in a while in late hours...I don't know if he is hurt or just a little jerk :/
Seems like he is a social creature and you are not. Well at least you don’t want your partner to be.
Be honest. Would you actually want to be in a relationship with him if he didn’t change any of his ways for you? Would you still be making assumptions? Or did you expect him to cry to you that he’d change when you broke up with him and told him why?
If so, he’s not the one for you. You should move on to someone you can trust.
Not being trusted in a relationship is a dead end. No happiness comes from that.
And yeah he’s young, gets lonely and calls you, because you sleep with him. It’s time to take some responsibility for what happened and let this one go.
Be honest. Would you actually want to be in a relationship with him if he didn’t change any of his ways for you? Would you still be making assumptions? Or did you expect him to cry to you that he’d change when you broke up with him and told him why?
If so, he’s not the one for you. You should move on to someone you can trust.
Not being trusted in a relationship is a dead end. No happiness comes from that.
And yeah he’s young, gets lonely and calls you, because you sleep with him. It’s time to take some responsibility for what happened and let this one go.
Posted by DionaI think you just been dickmatized😆Posted by FleshpotOh guys, that is the point... I know I might messed all up once I made a decision that came out from fears I've had. And all of you are so damn right. I wouldn't trust myself eather if I was on his place.Posted by LIb4Life
@mutabull...Agree.If you tell someone that you don't want to see them anymore and the relationship is over, than WTH are they supposed to do? Beg you not to end it??. If you come back to me a few days or some weeks later talking about you want to reconsider, then that's when you get the side eye. Even though he maybe a young and immature Libra guy, which is damn near most men, so sign doesn't have much to do with it, it sounded like he really did like her, but she jacked that up. Also, after she flip the script on the sex thing (allowing herself to just be in a SEX ONLY union) I'm sure he won't ever see her as commitment material.
Agreed, you made your bed, now lay in it.
I wouldn't trust someone after they break up with me out of the blue via text, no less. There's a good chance that this person will suddenly change their mind again. Thanks, but no thanks. Once is enough.
The point is that my mindset changed over the time according to being with someone that younger. The relationship with him cought me unprepared - I expected it to end before or later. I didn't realise how strong feelings I actually have for him.
But I know I would fall apart being with him and watching him withdraw or pay attention to other girls while still being with me. Because he is young. And immature. And couldn't give me the emotional security. So I wanted to cut off the tension.
I know there is no recipe for a relationship, no matter the age. I just still can't convince myself that he should be the part of the past, and I still feel his anger towards me. Like he is punishing me.
I feel he is not letting go, because I am not letting go. And also he is decisive about not wanting me again as a girlfriend. And this is why his ego annoys me. I wish he could understand my point of view.click to expand
Posted by DionaWho cares about him, you are responsible for YOU. You went in to this with some major trepidations and now you think after some good dickin and feeing rejected you are in love? You were in lust and just want things the way they were but on your terms, that’s not love.
@greylatern thank you for this. I've tried to message you but it looks like this option is not available or working, maybe you can try to message me?
I do need closure. I wouldn't like to give up on those feelings I have, but they are not reciprocate d. If he claims he has no feelings for me, knows how I feel about him and calls me only once in a while in late hours...I don't know if he is hurt or just a little jerk :/
How do you know he’s not sleeping with other girls too?
Posted by euphonyNope, the point is that I have my circle of friends, and he has his, and because of the age difference it was a bit awkward to me to hang out with his friends and it was awkward to him to hang out with mine.
Seems like he is a social creature and you are not. Well at least you don’t want your partner to be.
Be honest. Would you actually want to be in a relationship with him if he didn’t change any of his ways for you? Would you still be making assumptions? Or did you expect him to cry to you that he’d change when you broke up with him and told him why?
If so, he’s not the one for you. You should move on to someone you can trust.
Not being trusted in a relationship is a dead end. No happiness comes from that.
And yeah he’s young, gets lonely and calls you, because you sleep with him. It’s time to take some responsibility for what happened and let this one go.
So I felt that as a wall between us.
Posted by MoonbutterIs it lust if you just have a need to hug him and kiss him and not being terrified over the fact that he is maybe seing someone else, but being terrified over the fact that his feelings for me are fading away?Posted by DionaWho cares about him, you are responsible for YOU. You went in to this with some major trepidations and now you think after some good dickin and feeing rejected you are in love? You were in lust and just want things the way they were but on your terms, that’s not love.
@greylatern thank you for this. I've tried to message you but it looks like this option is not available or working, maybe you can try to message me?
I do need closure. I wouldn't like to give up on those feelings I have, but they are not reciprocate d. If he claims he has no feelings for me, knows how I feel about him and calls me only once in a while in late hours...I don't know if he is hurt or just a little jerk :/click to expand
Last night I was overwhelmed with sadness, and sent him a message that I feel sad because of us.
He asked: how can I help you? I told him that the hug would help. He said "virtually it's not possible". He was in the club, I was preparing to go to sleep, so I didn't want to ask him to meet.
Just told him "it helps to know if you are here. Are you here?" He told me "I am here". And that's it. I felt a bit better, but still it means nothing.
And I still don't know how to deal with the situation. I can try to let go, but the feelings won't.
He asked: how can I help you? I told him that the hug would help. He said "virtually it's not possible". He was in the club, I was preparing to go to sleep, so I didn't want to ask him to meet.
Just told him "it helps to know if you are here. Are you here?" He told me "I am here". And that's it. I felt a bit better, but still it means nothing.
And I still don't know how to deal with the situation. I can try to let go, but the feelings won't.
Posted by Dionathis is about you and how he makes you feel. it's not about him in particular. you're chasing the feeling. the person is inconsequential.Posted by MoonbutterIs it lust if you just have a need to hug him and kiss him and not being terrified over the fact that he is maybe seing someone else, but being terrified over the fact that his feelings for me are fading away?Posted by DionaWho cares about him, you are responsible for YOU. You went in to this with some major trepidations and now you think after some good dickin and feeing rejected you are in love? You were in lust and just want things the way they were but on your terms, that’s not love.
@greylatern thank you for this. I've tried to message you but it looks like this option is not available or working, maybe you can try to message me?
I do need closure. I wouldn't like to give up on those feelings I have, but they are not reciprocate d. If he claims he has no feelings for me, knows how I feel about him and calls me only once in a while in late hours...I don't know if he is hurt or just a little jerk :/
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Posted by JadeAlexanderDo you remember how you were feeling regarding love and being in a relationship when you were younger?
You need to let him go.
As a Libra who was immature and played with hearts, I see his pattern.
Go through the heartbreak and let him be.
What do you mean by playing with hearts?
Or to be more concrete: if you would fall in love with someone, would that become more important to you than chasing the attention from all the pretty girls around?
Thanks 🙂
Posted by DionaFear of loss.Posted by MoonbutterIs it lust if you just have a need to hug him and kiss him and not being terrified over the fact that he is maybe seing someone else, but being terrified over the fact that his feelings for me are fading away?Posted by DionaWho cares about him, you are responsible for YOU. You went in to this with some major trepidations and now you think after some good dickin and feeing rejected you are in love? You were in lust and just want things the way they were but on your terms, that’s not love.
@greylatern thank you for this. I've tried to message you but it looks like this option is not available or working, maybe you can try to message me?
I do need closure. I wouldn't like to give up on those feelings I have, but they are not reciprocate d. If he claims he has no feelings for me, knows how I feel about him and calls me only once in a while in late hours...I don't know if he is hurt or just a little jerk :/
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Well, men would easily fall in love with me. I never felt it back. I was having fun.... I didn’t understand why they thought I would be in love with them, we were just playing.
I didn’t fall in love. I don’t feel strong attachment to most... If I did invest I was hesitant to act on quickly because I’m uncomfortable with venerability and love.
Being chased by men who were eager to feed my ego was far more interesting then falling in love.
Ohh you are a girl 😄 I thought you were a male, so I wanted to hear from that perspective, but thanks anyway 🙂
So you never fell in love?? To me, I had a lot of "chasers" and still do but I am so fucking cold to them because why would I waste mine and their time if I just know that I won't be with them
... I am not judging definitely...it's just so interesting how all of us are different 🙂
Maybe I'll consider going into that mood too 😄 maybe it's more fun lol
but I just can't imagine being with someone who doesn't get me off my feet 🙂
Posted by DionaWell, men would easily fall in love with me. I never felt it back. I was having fun.... I didn’t understand why they thought I would be in love with them, we were just playing.
I didn’t fall in love. I don’t feel strong attachment to most... If I did invest I was hesitant to act on quickly because I’m uncomfortable with venerability and love.
Being chased by men who were eager to feed my ego was far more interesting then falling in love.
@JadeAlexander
Ohh you are a girl 😄 I thought you were a male, so I wanted to hear from that perspective, but thanks anyway 🙂
So you never fell in love?? To me, I had a lot of "chasers" and still do but I am so fucking cold to them because why would I waste mine and their time if I just know that I won't be with them
... I am not judging definitely...it's just so interesting how all of us are different 🙂
Maybe I'll consider going into that mood too 😄 maybe it's more fun lol
but I just can't imagine being with someone who doesn't get me off my feet 🙂
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I am a taurus woman, and I'm 27. On the first look I am "hard to get" until I really like someone. I've started dating a libra guy who is 6 years younger than me (now he is 21) and the "relationship" lasted one monh. We were not a usual couple like holding hands and clinging onto each other. We were hanging out in public and he was very proud to show me around.
From the start, I've had doubts in everything about us because of the age difference and felt so insecure because I've noticed that he also likes other girls of his age. (I've noticed that through social media likes). We had a great communication, sex was out of this universe and the energy between us was always so enlightening.
But one night, after he spent the entire day with his friends, my inner conflict have beaten me up and I've decided to break up with him. Via text message.
I was so overwhelmed because: he has his groups of friends which are his age and I felt like I didn't fit in, although I did like those people and they liked me back.
Also I felt: he needs time in life to try out girls and if I go so deep with him, I would end up hurt.
Eventually, I did.
The emotions I've had for him we so pure and strong from the start. The break up and the way I did it, did hurt him. And his ego. I was filling sad the entire month after the break up, and just needed to see him. This is when I've reached out to him and we met... we just had sex, and the other day we met again to talk. I've explained to him why did I break up. Major thing was him genuinely liking a few girls on Instagram. It was like talking to the walls. I felt only anger from his side, kind of a pasive aggression.
We didn't end together again after the conversation. But we kept seeing each other once a month. Only sex. I felt like he've put a wall in front of me for any emotion.
Eventually, a few months ago I told him how I feel for him and I told him "I think I love you". He told me he don't feel the same. We met a few more times and eventually he told me that we can keep seeing each other but only for sex. He doesn't want a relationship with me.
Now I can't break through this emotions I have. It is love. And I do wish him all the best. But I want him in my life and I want him to want me back.
I feel like I have no weapons left in my sleeves and that he took all the power to feed his ego. Which he'll definitely use to chase another girls. And although I've tried being with other guys, I just couldn't, because of the feelings I have for this libra.
P.S. wherever he had a chance to invite a girl to come over, he called me. For sex for sure. I feel there is a chemistry, but he became very, very rude and started using me for pumping his ego.
I hope someone could give me a good advice here. Thanks